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Re: What Made You Lose Interest In Someone You Were Wooing? by luwizjay(m): 5:52pm On Sep 07, 2018

sodiqapril:
like most Nigerian girls, she is boring AF...chatting with most Nigeria girls identical to chatting with a robot..i think its due to this their stupid pride...i've like five White girls I chat with on watsapp, we met on Instagram..(I use my real name and pictures), we are just friends.I've Even gone as far as making video calls with one of them..the level of maturity and lack of boredom in the way these girls converse has made me sworn not to waste my energy chasing Nigeria girls..what most of them understand is money but there are few exceptions sha

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Re: What Made You Lose Interest In Someone You Were Wooing? by princfred(m): 5:53pm On Sep 07, 2018

ImaIma1:

So Nigerian guys usually chat "oloshos". Good to know.

Who do you think they will chat with when you snub him for saying the wrong Hi? His fellow guy so you can call him gay?

Re: What Made You Lose Interest In Someone You Were Wooing? by akinszz: 5:53pm On Sep 07, 2018

ImaIma1:

So Nigerian guys usually chat "oloshos". Good to know.

your character determines where you are placed .

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Re: What Made You Lose Interest In Someone You Were Wooing? by pocohantas(f): 5:54pm On Sep 07, 2018

Thegamingorca:

Lol cliché as fuxk.

But that is how they do na. Always in a hurry to knack grin

Re: What Made You Lose Interest In Someone You Were Wooing? by ivanalimi: 5:55pm On Sep 07, 2018

MariaLavina:
We can only play this role if Men are humble enough to be corrected. A "good evening or Good morning" to "sup" should have been a clue to a smart responsible guy that his approach is wrong. But no the next request would "can I have your number" if you manage to scale through the first fvck up.

I once tried to correct a guy who requested we meet just few minutes of chatting for the first time. It went this way.

Guy: sup
Me: Good evening
Guy: Can I know you?
Meseriously? I'm I jobless?) Depends on what you wish to know
Guy: Okay...where do you stay?
Me: ....gave him location
Guy: Let's Meet
Me: (pissed of) I think you should ask if I want to meet you.
Guy: hmmmm okay.
Me:Or don't I have a say?
Guy: Who do you think you are?
.... You can guess what happened next

This is the least of it all. We ladies don't talk or complain about these things, that's why Men always seem to be the angels.

can't stop laughing.I like your sense of humour

Re: What Made You Lose Interest In Someone You Were Wooing? by pocohantas(f): 5:56pm On Sep 07, 2018

J2381:
how about:

Guy: hello, what's been up with you?
Girl: nothing much, my sub is about to finish.

The way I see it, it goes both ways, no?

Sure it goes both ways. I know girls that are very boring and I know some guys like that too. You just don't see girls whining about it, like some guys do.

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Re: What Made You Lose Interest In Someone You Were Wooing? by Nobody: 5:56pm On Sep 07, 2018

princfred:
Oya make una sorry. Guys no go dey you done chop, your number "what are you wearing" it will now be
which bank account do you like using to receive cash, which network sib you like pass, what's your favorite eatery, whats the size of your middle finger etc....

Nigerian Men lack creativity, they are boring too. I chat with foreigners too, I know the difference. but you won't see me litter everywhere with stereotypes. Its appalling.

If you ask me those questions, you are only doing yourself grin

Re: What Made You Lose Interest In Someone You Were Wooing? by J2381: 5:59pm On Sep 07, 2018

pocohantas:

Sure it goes both ways. I know girls that are very boring and I know some guys like that too. You just don't see girls whining about it, like some guys do.

well most do, atleast the ones i've seen whine about it. usual complain about guys not being able to hold a conversation aside the usual mumbo jumbo.

Re: What Made You Lose Interest In Someone You Were Wooing? by Nobody: 6:02pm On Sep 07, 2018

ivanalimi:
can't stop laughing.I like your sense of humour

Thanks

I hope you don't chat that way. grin

Re: What Made You Lose Interest In Someone You Were Wooing? by sipsip(m): 6:04pm On Sep 07, 2018

Zirah:

I do. But don't you think she was trying to leave the relationship? It's not that simple, you know. Abusive people are dangerous people and most times kill their spouses/partners. You could tag her unintelligent if she remained in the relationship. However, you don't know that because you never asked how long she's been in the relationship. You were hasty judging her.

I used the ellipsis in some part of the writing cause i can't type all at once. For real though, I asked her a lot. I was disappointed. He didn't seem like a dangerous guy, just insecure.

Re: What Made You Lose Interest In Someone You Were Wooing? by felzylix(m): 6:05pm On Sep 07, 2018

kinzation:
I challenge you to a match in PES

Challenge acknowledged...
Gimme a venue wink

Re: What Made You Lose Interest In Someone You Were Wooing? by 93Miles: 6:06pm On Sep 07, 2018

ImaIma1:

So Nigerian guys usually chat "oloshos". Good to know.

As u dress, so shall u be address.

Most Nigerian ladies dress and apprear like wh0res on the internet.

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Re: What Made You Lose Interest In Someone You Were Wooing? by ImaIma1(f): 6:07pm On Sep 07, 2018

93Miles:
As u dress, so shall u be address.

Most Nigerian ladies dress and apprear like wh0res on the internet.

The ones you follow

Re: What Made You Lose Interest In Someone You Were Wooing? by decimator: 6:08pm On Sep 07, 2018

insperyadyou:
Mine was, it was very clear that I was forcing myself into her probably because little interest from her wasn't' there at all. She will never return multiple missed calls. There was no Chemistry in our chats and discussion. She was never straight-forward. She was Cunningly rude, and her actions were like "get the hint and move on". I read the signs early. To me, hers wasn't playing hard to get. She was never interested. I moved on. Sometimes we think holding on is what makes us stronger not knowing is letting go I love this.

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Re: What Made You Lose Interest In Someone You Were Wooing? by ImaIma1(f): 6:08pm On Sep 07, 2018

princfred:
Who do you think they will chat with when you snub him for saying the wrong Hi? His fellow guy so you can call him gay?

Is that the excuse you guys use these days?

Re: What Made You Lose Interest In Someone You Were Wooing? by pocohantas(f): 6:08pm On Sep 07, 2018

MariaLavina:

So I was feeling funky one night like that, I decided to play along with this guy

Guy: Hello
Me: Hi dear (I hardly use that though)
Guy: What are you doing now
Me: (shuuu? Na my spirit dey online?) Not much just chatting with friends and You... Gist me about your day.
Guy: It was good
Me: okay that's great, Well mine went.......
Guy: Cool. Eaten?
Me: (sighed) Yes, you?
Guy: same here. I will be calling you soon.
Me: okay

On phone
After exchanging pleasantries..
Guy: Ready to sleep now?
Me: Yes, will you sing me a lullaby?
Guy:..... phone went off.

The thing pain me ehn.

LOL, sorry about that. Why would you want him to sing na? I will be nervous if I am asked to sing o. Not with this my tiny voice cry

Honestly, it goes both ways. Most Naija guys don't wanna really know you, they just interrogate. That is why they forget almost everything about you in record time.

I have met some really awesome ones, but they shared some qualities. A particular age group, thriving careers or goals and sometimes foreign based.

Re: What Made You Lose Interest In Someone You Were Wooing? by Nobody: 6:10pm On Sep 07, 2018

93Miles:

Below is my experience with Nigerian ladies.

ME: Hello!
After 5mins.
ME: Hey!
After 20mins
ME: I guess u are busy. Just wanted to holla.
Girl: Hi
Me: Good day. How are u doing?
Girl: Fyn.
ME: Nice to know that.
Girl: K
Me: I'm ...... by name and you are?
After 5mins
Me: Hello
Girl: Hi
Me: May I know u if u don't mind?
Girl: I'm ......
Me: Wow! Suxh a lovely name. Where are u from?
After 10mins
Me: Hello
after 5mins
Me: U still there?
After 3weeks
ME: Hello
Girl: Hi
Me: How are u?
After 30mins
ME: Hey! Are u busy?
After 5mins
ME: i guess u are busy. Have a nice day.
Girl: Hi
ME: Hey! Were u busy?
Girl: Pls can u send me airtime. My sub is finished.
ME: Alright dear.

And you know what happend next.

Obviously she's isn't into you! Your consistent message might have showed you off as a possible maga. Although she might have made that request to get you off her neck.

BTW can't you guys attain that level of self realization where a lady has to start a conversation with you? Must you always be the seeker. Ladies chat up guys too, just that they must have seen something in you.

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Re: What Made You Lose Interest In Someone You Were Wooing? by ImaIma1(f): 6:11pm On Sep 07, 2018

akinszz:
your character determines where you are placed .

I agree

These days a lot of babes are trying to sell their market online. It depends on what attracts the guy.

If he is attracted by her backside or front and something goes wrong along the way, the guy begins to generalize as if he didn't see other covered girls

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Re: What Made You Lose Interest In Someone You Were Wooing? by saasala(m): 6:15pm On Sep 07, 2018

felzylix:
Time, I realized there wouldn't be time for her. The little time i have i use it on my video game.

Game lovers like us, we noh dey too dey follow woman like that nah PES dey rush us

Bro, the last time I played video game was 2011. I guess a lot of things has changed right now. I want to start gaming again. What console is in vogue now? I hope PS2 is not obsolete now cos I am thinking of geting one. And which would you advise between PES and FIFA...

Re: What Made You Lose Interest In Someone You Were Wooing? by 10kbelow: 6:16pm On Sep 07, 2018

I was deceived by make up only to find her in her real face and i lost interest

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Re: What Made You Lose Interest In Someone You Were Wooing? by DaddyNimo(m): 6:18pm On Sep 07, 2018

wooed her in a public bus and she gave me a wrong number. so a week later while driving I saw her by the road waiting for a bus I think during the evening rush hour, so I parked beside her, motioned her to come, she smiled and thank God for bringing to her route, den she said "I didn't know u drive"....i laffed. when we got to her destination as I was about driving off, she was like "have my other line" I'm like "no one number is good enuf for me" and voomed off. stupid biitch

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Re: What Made You Lose Interest In Someone You Were Wooing? by 93Miles: 6:19pm On Sep 07, 2018

MariaLavina:
Obviously she's isn't into you! Your consistent message might have showed you off as a possible maga. Although she might have made that request to get you off her neck.

BTW can't you guys attain that level of self realization where a lady has to start a conversation with you? Must you always be the seeker. Ladies chat up guys too, just that they must have seen something in you.

Why keep me waiting if u are not interested?

And for asking for 'airtime', it wasn't a way to put me off.

Most Nigerian ladies ask guys for money the moment the guy starts chattin them up.

Some will bring up stroies like 'My gas just finished. My mom is sick can u send me airtime to call her'?

I've encountered an Ameriacan girl on social media. She wasn't interested and she opend up. Told me straight up. She didn't ask for money as a means to put me off.

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Re: What Made You Lose Interest In Someone You Were Wooing? by NiggasInParis: 6:20pm On Sep 07, 2018

IamaNigerianGuy:

Guy, I don't usually comment on this section but I felt a compelling need to do so.

You goofed big time. The girl was into you but wanted a little effort on your part, wanted the thrill of being chased and the value it implies. What were you thinking? A girl was friendly with you and even got you to meet her father. Could there ever be any stronger indication you were had won her favor ? That early familiarity led her to be wary. She wanted you to affirm her value.
I think you acted too hastily.
However, there's always room for rematch .

Apparently, i get your point.
However, there are two sides to the coin and everybody sees it differently .

Re: What Made You Lose Interest In Someone You Were Wooing? by princfred(m): 6:20pm On Sep 07, 2018

ImaIma1:

Is that the excuse you guys use these days?

Yes. So what?

Re: What Made You Lose Interest In Someone You Were Wooing? by felzylix(m): 6:21pm On Sep 07, 2018

saasala:

Bro, the last time I played video game was 2011. I guess a lot of things has changed right now. I want to start gaming again. What console is in vogue now? I hope PS2 is not obsolete now cos I am thinking of geting one. And which would you advise between PES and FIFA...

Get pes for Ps 2.
If you are a Pc gamer get fifa 18 if you have a high end machine.

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Re: What Made You Lose Interest In Someone You Were Wooing? by Iseoluwani: 6:23pm On Sep 07, 2018

felzylix:
Time, I realized there wouldn't be time for her. The little time i have i use it on my video game.

Game lovers like us, we noh dey too dey follow woman like that nah PES dey rush us

NA PES THEY RUSH US OOO

Re: What Made You Lose Interest In Someone You Were Wooing? by Nobody: 6:24pm On Sep 07, 2018

pocohantas:

LOL, sorry about that. Why would you want him to sing na? I will be nervous if I am asked to sing o. Not with this my tiny voice

Honestly, it goes both ways. Most Naija guys don't wanna really know you, they just interrogate. That is why they forget almost everything about you in record time.

I have met some really awesome ones, but they shared some qualities. A particular age group, thriving careers or goals and sometimes foreign based.

Na funkiness do me o grin

Those little things make bonds stronger nah. I have a tiny voice too but I sing. Probably I demanded too much sha grin

They have a target when they chat you up, all those interrogations are just formalities, their minds are else where. And it makes me wonder if they don't keep ladies as friends

Must everything be about date?

Your are right there sis, from my observation I came to a conclusion that most foreign based Nigerian Men are more sensible than the home based ones. grin

Re: What Made You Lose Interest In Someone You Were Wooing? by princfred(m): 6:24pm On Sep 07, 2018

MariaLavina:
Nigerian Men lack creativity, they are boring too. I chat with foreigners too, I know the difference. but you won't see me litter everywhere with stereotypes. Its appalling.

If you ask me those questions, you are only doing yourself

Rather both of us are doing each other.

Re: What Made You Lose Interest In Someone You Were Wooing? by saasala(m): 6:25pm On Sep 07, 2018

felzylix:

Get pes for Ps 2.
If you are a Pc gamer get fifa 18 if you have a high end machine.

Thanks bro. How much does a PS 2 console go for now?

Re: What Made You Lose Interest In Someone You Were Wooing? by creatorsverse(m): 6:25pm On Sep 07, 2018

Reinah:
Take me out? Can't remember saying I was a trash can

Reinah search me on Facebook @ creatotsverse

Re: What Made You Lose Interest In Someone You Were Wooing? by Kenfil(f): 6:28pm On Sep 07, 2018

93Miles:

The guy did not even do more of the comparison and you are this pained.

If I start the comparison, you'll curse your God for making you an African woman.

Y'all African women are what I can't even put in words.

I can never advise even my worst enemy to date an African woman not to talk of marrying one.

Pained? Sorry oo if u think anyone on d internet can make me scratch my head.. like I said, not worried bout unintelligent men that think they have d right to abuse African women.. most of ur mothers and sisters are leeches and dependent on men all their lives so please miss me with d bullshit.

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Re: What Made You Lose Interest In Someone You Were Wooing? by princfred(m): 6:29pm On Sep 07, 2018

93Miles:

Why keep me waiting if u are not interested?

And for asking for 'airtime', it wasn't a way to put me off.

Most Nigerian ladies ask guys for money the moment the guy starts chattin them up.

Some will bring up stroies like 'My gas just finished. My mom is sick can u send me airtime to call her'?

I've encountered an Ameriacan girl on social media. She wasn't interested and she opend up. Told me straight up. She didn't ask for money as a means to put me off.

Simple. I didn't know Nigerian girls play by reverse logic when one like that told me straight up that she wasn't interested. I took her by her words and caned my lane only for her to complain that i didnt want her enough later. Oh men these naija babes dey wan twist person brain for simple matter

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