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Re: What Do I Do To This Guy That Flirts With My Girlfriend? by IYANGBALI: 1:20pm On Sep 15, 2018
Get a gun or raw acid and do the needful

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Re: What Do I Do To This Guy That Flirts With My Girlfriend? by duduade: 1:23pm On Sep 15, 2018
morningstar55:
The guy isn't your problem,i strongly believe if you ask your girl what's up that guy...she'll say we are just friends...na so e dey start,your best shot is to let your girl know how you feel about seeing them together and you shud be blunt about it.If she doesn't change,you know what to do already,you shud channel your energy on better things
. exactly on making money..

No one wants a broke ass

ABI his relationship dey boring

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Re: What Do I Do To This Guy That Flirts With My Girlfriend? by Wisebisho: 1:24pm On Sep 15, 2018
You don't have any right to cage or control her life as you want. If you are not comfortable with her being friendly to other guys, you can back off. You are not her husband and she is not your wife. After all, you will not still marry her, you are there only for her kpomo..
Please allow the innocent gal. It may be the other guy that you wanted to back off that may still marry her. Please allow nature to take it cause.

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Re: What Do I Do To This Guy That Flirts With My Girlfriend? by kinzation(m): 1:28pm On Sep 15, 2018
dview001:
you said she loves you right? ..well to be sure she loves you , tell her to stop speaking with the guy if she oblige then she loves you , if she's acting all defensive my guy! lock up and vanish
I've once dated a girl who stopped talking to guys or even keeping them friends just because she noticed I don't like seeing her with a guy mind you I never told her I never liked it she just noticed it and adjusted
I got to know this when we were arguing and one thing led another and she told me ..I was shocked
what you should know is a girl can fvck a guy she likes they don't necessarily have to be dating, she'll just keep u as her serious boyfriend.. if I tell you how many girls I don bang by just being witty and caring
MAN like Me

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Re: What Do I Do To This Guy That Flirts With My Girlfriend? by Wisebisho: 1:29pm On Sep 15, 2018
LuciferCristi:
Wait till he's asleep then tiptoe to his bunk & cover his face with a pillow.

Make sure to press down with your arm & pin down his chest with your knee.
This will prevent him from breathing out fully.

He should stop struggling in about a minute but don't release yet.

Maintain pressure for at least a full minute more. This will ensure his lungs don't fill up with air again & increase his chances of resuscitation.

Everything should take 3mins tops then you can quietly tiptoe back to your bed & sleep peacefully.

No one suspect foul play the next morning. They'll all assume he "died in his sleep".

Thank me later.
Seems like you have good experience on this: please can you tell us how many people you have killed?
Re: What Do I Do To This Guy That Flirts With My Girlfriend? by Onuokwu: 1:34pm On Sep 15, 2018
maikbanj:


She's 24

Sorry o. They never get serious till around 30. She's definitely going to give that guy kpekus. Beware of a guy who makes you babe laugh all the time and she gets playful with him. Your prayer should be not to be dumped or to be the one who is being lied to while another guy is using her as a intimacy gadget.

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Re: What Do I Do To This Guy That Flirts With My Girlfriend? by Nobody: 1:39pm On Sep 15, 2018
93Miles:


Misplace priority.

I bet the op is giving 70% of his allawe to the girl

SMH for some pvssy niggas.



JamaicanLove
thats the game a number of corper babes play during their service year.they make six or seven male corpers fall in love with her and the mumu guys will all be doin contribution on her head while her own allawee is left untouched cheesy.

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Re: What Do I Do To This Guy That Flirts With My Girlfriend? by ranksz: 1:39pm On Sep 15, 2018
morningstar55:
The guy isn't your problem,i strongly believe if you ask your girl what's up that guy...she'll say we are just friends...na so e dey start,your best shot is to let your girl know how you feel about seeing them together and you shud be blunt about it.If she doesn't change,you know what to do already,you shud channel your energy on better things

You have said it all. The guy is not your problem.
You even appear weak as per my observation. If she respects and fear you, she will be the one coupling herself not you trying to enforce anything.

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Re: What Do I Do To This Guy That Flirts With My Girlfriend? by danielyaks: 1:44pm On Sep 15, 2018
Baba pray hard if you really love her, girls cannot be trusted
Re: What Do I Do To This Guy That Flirts With My Girlfriend? by CAPSLOCKED: 1:50pm On Sep 15, 2018
lefulefu:

thats the game a number of corper babes play during their service year.they make six or seven male corpers fall in love with her and the mumu guys will all be doin contribution on her head while her own allawee is left untouched cheesy.

AND SOME MEN CALL THEM "FISH BRAINS", WHEN OBVIOUSLY MEN ARE THE DUMB ONES. SOMETIMES YOU LOOK AT THE WAY GROWN MEN ARE EASILY MANIPULATED AND YOU JUST WONDER WHY YOU CAN'T BE ALLOWED TO KILL ANYONE YOU WANT TO.

I PITY THIS THREAD'S STARTER. HIM NEVER SEE ANYTHING.

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Re: What Do I Do To This Guy That Flirts With My Girlfriend? by tunize(m): 1:54pm On Sep 15, 2018
Ready to drive the dude and other subsequent dude bro cos na ur so-called girlfriend get issue. Girls like this nor know wen and her to set boundaries cos the more u dey warn her upandan, the next thing she starts calling u control freak or one name bro any stupid character u nir fit keep nor buy am simple.
Re: What Do I Do To This Guy That Flirts With My Girlfriend? by Nobody: 2:06pm On Sep 15, 2018
Lol funny I stumbled across this post grin na the same thing just happen to me today but I just brush am aside because las las no be me bring her come,na fvck me sef been dey find.onto the next barney though.

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Re: What Do I Do To This Guy That Flirts With My Girlfriend? by OlusegunAdedayo: 2:09pm On Sep 15, 2018
angry
Re: What Do I Do To This Guy That Flirts With My Girlfriend? by VeniJu: 2:14pm On Sep 15, 2018
maikbanj:

How do I make him back off??
Find out more about she and this bestie. PM me and know how to get info using spy chat.
Re: What Do I Do To This Guy That Flirts With My Girlfriend? by minefranca(f): 2:20pm On Sep 15, 2018
Guy your girlfriend likes that guy... She probably told the guy your relationship is not serious... So talk to her everything is in her hands..... Probably she's just acting like she loves you for the attention or.....

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Re: What Do I Do To This Guy That Flirts With My Girlfriend? by Nobody: 2:25pm On Sep 15, 2018
mgtow:


If she is so in love with you then why are you so bothered?

Ans: Because you know that that can change at any time.

Don't invest is all I will say. Let her be the one reaching out for you.

Op take this guy seriously, the name itself tells you, and why are you fighting the guy, it's up to your girl, trust me if she's not interested she knows how to lose him. Lol she calls me to see her everyday, I've seen girls do much more than that for someone and still dump the guy on a whim.

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Re: What Do I Do To This Guy That Flirts With My Girlfriend? by Nobody: 2:27pm On Sep 15, 2018
CAPSLOCKED:


AND SOME MEN CALL THEM "FISH BRAINS", WHEN OBVIOUSLY MEN ARE THE DUMB ONES. SOMETIMES YOU LOOK AT THE WAY GROWN MEN ARE EASILY MANIPULATED AND YOU JUST WONDER WHY YOU CAN'T BE ALLOWED TO KILL ANYONE YOU WANT TO.

I PITY THIS THREAD'S STARTER. HIM NEVER SEE ANYTHING.
fish brain? grin grin grin grin
with their so called fish brain they manipulate guys into spending their hard earned money on their head while their own account is filled to the brim grin.honestly i feel sorry for guys who during their service year take NYSC relationship to heart.a number of girls that go to NYSC go there with calculating intentions cheesy. lol the op go clear after im don finish service.

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Re: What Do I Do To This Guy That Flirts With My Girlfriend? by akdjr(m): 3:07pm On Sep 15, 2018
Marry her
Re: What Do I Do To This Guy That Flirts With My Girlfriend? by IAmTobore(m): 3:30pm On Sep 15, 2018
maikbanj:


How do I make him back off??
The problem is not with the guy, the problem is with the girl. I'm currently experiencing something similar to that from a girl. Actually, I am not the boyfriend. I am the guy she flirts with. Whenever she flirts with me, I always warn her to stop. But she only stops for few weeks and after she is back flirting again. Her attitude made the situation between me and her boyfriend a bit sour. Well, let's forget the rest.

But, my advice is that, you should never fight a guy over a lady who is neither your wife nor relation. If you can't cope, then you should leave her. It could be that you even mistook her flirting for a sign to relationship. Some girls are just terrible.

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Re: What Do I Do To This Guy That Flirts With My Girlfriend? by soflygerian(m): 3:40pm On Sep 15, 2018
maikbanj:


How do I make him back off??
marriage will do just that else its still an open market bro..
Re: What Do I Do To This Guy That Flirts With My Girlfriend? by BluePearls(m): 3:52pm On Sep 15, 2018
LuciferCristi:
Wait till he's asleep then tiptoe to his bunk & cover his face with a pillow.

Make sure to press down with your arm & pin down his chest with your knee.
This will prevent him from breathing out fully.

He should stop struggling in about a minute but don't release yet.

Maintain pressure for at least a full minute more. This will ensure his lungs don't fill up with air again & increase his chances of resuscitation.

Everything should take 3mins tops then you can quietly tiptoe back to your bed & sleep peacefully.

No one suspect foul play the next morning. They'll all assume he "died in his sleep".

Thank me later.

cheesy grin grin
Re: What Do I Do To This Guy That Flirts With My Girlfriend? by chuskaprince(m): 4:09pm On Sep 15, 2018
Guy! try to know what attracts her to d guy and start doing it to her simple as ABC. Women likes who makes dem smile and comfortable. try to know what she likes in dat guy dat attracts her and start doing it. By so doing, she will b fun of u and she will start withdrawing from d guy.
Re: What Do I Do To This Guy That Flirts With My Girlfriend? by DanielsParker(m): 5:12pm On Sep 15, 2018
IbrahimDamola:
Fuckkk her and stop picking her calls. That's the way I break up with girls I dated. I simply stop picking their calls and they get the message. If I see them on the street I pretend I don't even know who they are. And if they say hi, I say hi too and keep a straight face.

lol, this one strong oh. are you serious bro? I think it's better to end things maturely. meaning you ain't friends with any of your ex?
Re: What Do I Do To This Guy That Flirts With My Girlfriend? by IbrahimDamola: 5:14pm On Sep 15, 2018
DanielsParker:


lol, this one strong oh. are you serious bro? I think it's better to end things maturely. meaning you ain't friends with any of your ex?

I'm still friends with the sensible ones. But bringing them closer might rekindle something you don't wanna start, like sex etc.

An ex should remain an ex. Shikena!
Re: What Do I Do To This Guy That Flirts With My Girlfriend? by Nobody: 5:17pm On Sep 15, 2018
maikbanj:
I met this pretty young girl in camp, she was this very friendly girl who was so free with guys. We got to know each other and now we are dating. I told her about her creating boundaries since we are now dating. She agreed and now the relationship is going smoothly.

But then there's this dude who's really on her neck. He keeps calling her and they chat a lot. We went for our clearance and they were both gisting and laughing. I was talking to a dude and next I saw her holding the guy round his shoulders laughing.

I got quiet and acted like nothing happened. Had to call her attention to this now and she was like she was sorry that she got too playful. She promised it will never happen again.

I really do not know how to make this dude back off cause we talk. But not really a friend.

Your woman is the problem, save yourself a black eye.

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Re: What Do I Do To This Guy That Flirts With My Girlfriend? by DanielsParker(m): 5:29pm On Sep 15, 2018
Lastlook:
You want me to help you out on this issue?
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Firstly, ignore chatting with her, put your number on call forwarding.
Don't allow her to see you for 2 days. (Just try to be dead for 2 days, like not reach able and nor seen able)

Gbam all is done.

Open your line third day, don't chat nor call her and see if she will be hungry for you.

If she is really hungry for you. Be like nothing happened, if she keep asking you for what is going on.

Be like a boss baby, and tell her nothing happened. She will tell you babe, you have changed, what is my mistakes, please tell me.

Then bro, you are free to sound out of what is wrong like a speaker

I advised my friend to do this, he cut all communications for 4 days- no chat, no calls, and guess what? the girl acted like nothing happened. she didn't ask what happened. He knew it was time to move on.
Re: What Do I Do To This Guy That Flirts With My Girlfriend? by sweetilicious(f): 5:35pm On Sep 15, 2018
morningstar55:
The guy isn't your problem,i strongly believe if you ask your girl what's up that guy...she'll say we are just friends...na so e dey start,your best shot is to let your girl know how you feel about seeing them together and you shud be blunt about it.If she doesn't change,you know what to do already,you shud channel your energy on better things
True
Re: What Do I Do To This Guy That Flirts With My Girlfriend? by Originalsly: 5:46pm On Sep 15, 2018
maikbanj:


I met this pretty young girl in camp, she was this very friendly girl who was so free with guys.

....and you expect her at your command to stop being very friendly and so free with guys? Bro...that's in her nature....let her be or move on....you can't change the stripes of a tiger.
Re: What Do I Do To This Guy That Flirts With My Girlfriend? by Cerberus(m): 6:27pm On Sep 15, 2018
;CLove yer written yarn bro.
Offpoint:

Hey yo bro! I'm gonna be blunt cuz that's what most people know me for and sorry for *Cursek words I'm gonna be using, I can't help it.

Got similar situation back then, I knew she's got more guys friends than females friends.
When I came and became part of her story, I told her
"Hey yo Lily, I ain't comfortable with you around 'em guys... got no problems with you around 'em guys, but the flirting I can't stand, make adjustments or cut 'em off -how you feel if I did shít like? "

She apologize, couple of weeks later, shít got worse.. she's always on the phone, on chat and on the vidcall with this dude she claimed a friend, dude always visiting in odd hours 10pm~11pm... WTF.
so I did what I've never done before cuz i trusted her- gone through her chats with the dude and saw shít convo of the guy flirting and she flirting back -calling themselves love name and sheets...*though she didn't cheat* but the convo are those that wanna make you go insane or walk down to the fella house and put a 9mm bullet through his skull*
Find out the dude even kissed her and she was pissed by it...
Called her to explain to me about the kiss and why she never informed me 'bout it, she started crying and begging..."was scared to tell you cuz I don't know how you gonna react"...and I was like "Hey yo Lily, I f***ng love ya, you the first I've ever trusted, you got my phone password, my account password and I've never kept no secrets from you... even when I crushed on someone I'll tell ya *hey yo Lily looka that babe she's cool I feel like toasting her and we laughed about it* why you have to do that to me..... Now you got 2 options if you want the continuity of this relationship is either them or me and you an hour to do that.... and that was it.



Sorry I bore you with long story, you gotta man up and say this to her face "I love you babe, no doubt about that... but you gotta make a choice today -it's either you cut 'em off or you cut me off... I don't wanna know if they're just friends or not -I think you can find the best friend in me. I am sick and tired of torturing myself"
Re: What Do I Do To This Guy That Flirts With My Girlfriend? by bitcoinvin(m): 6:30pm On Sep 15, 2018
maikbanj:
I met this pretty young girl in camp, she was this very friendly girl who was so free with guys. We got to know each other and now we are dating. I told her about her creating boundaries since we are now dating. She agreed and now the relationship is going smoothly.

But then there's this dude who's really on her neck. He keeps calling her and they chat a lot. We went for our clearance and they were both gisting and laughing. I was talking to a dude and next I saw her holding the guy round his shoulders laughing.

I got quiet and acted like nothing happened. Had to call her attention to this now and she was like she was sorry that she got too playful. She promised it will never happen again.

I really do not know how to make this dude back off cause we talk. But not really a friend.

you might be fuccccking her but the dude fuckks her most....Never Trust any woman.
Re: What Do I Do To This Guy That Flirts With My Girlfriend? by Offpoint: 6:38pm On Sep 15, 2018
Cerberus:
;CLove yer written yarn bro.
Thanks brotherly, sometimes we gotta let our minds out bluntly. I hate emotional torture...
Re: What Do I Do To This Guy That Flirts With My Girlfriend? by bonetalk(m): 6:52pm On Sep 15, 2018
maikbanj:


Smiles. To be candid, i'm planning on getting married soon. The problem I'm having now is the Bride.
guy calm down, you seems to be in a Rush.... you have just started knowing her.... get to know her more

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