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Re: How Can I Ask My Girlfriend To Leave My House After 3 Months? by Pentools(m): 10:48pm On Sep 23, 2018 |
Jasen1: Brother, the story is quite pathetic although it sounds funny. Fear gals but when it comes to Abuja gals fear them the more, speaking from experience a gal visited me sometime ago from Lagos. Omo I really flex the gal, even carry her go places of fun interest u can ever think of once Abuja is concerned. I budgeted her staying one week but overestimated 2weeks. I got shocked when the thing creeped into two months n counting. %90 of Abuja gals especially those ones that are not born and brought here or maybe have there family here are nothing but parasites and chronic leeches. Now to the solution. I read wia u said something about bn soft hearted, bros I pity u if u let emotions,sentiment or ur so called soft nature rule u. Since you've sat the gal down, form one kind story give her, tell her that you are traveling and u will stay very long away on some official duty, and that you don't even have the money to sustain urself that long. That you are so struggling to manage. Once u tell her that Na she go give herself brain by force. Find somewhere and hide for a week if she insists that she can cope with you staying away for upto 6months or more. That's if u see future in her, but if you don't tell her plainly that you are leaving with your key since u wil be stayin for long. Brother there are several ways to Legooo the gal, I can't even type enough. Just pm me if u need more ways, since u said she might be reading this. But u no Dey reason well ooo to invite her where her matter is bn deliberated upon. NB. Don't deceive urself with bn soft hearted. I doubt u Dey soft reach me bro, but at a time I noticed I'm gradually jeopardizing my goals and future with the gal staying around. Act fast before it becomes too late. Na Abuja u Dey ooo, a lot Dey happen in this city if u no know make u know because it seems you are new in town. Above all act wisely, so person no go set u up, days are evil especially in a city as Abuja. Cheers! 2 Likes |
Re: How Can I Ask My Girlfriend To Leave My House After 3 Months? by centboy123456(m): 10:53pm On Sep 23, 2018 |
tee59: see ur mouth like pay her bride price did day tell u d guy is ready for marriage you women marriage sef is a big deal for you guys 1 Like |
Re: How Can I Ask My Girlfriend To Leave My House After 3 Months? by Nwambaise: 11:00pm On Sep 23, 2018 |
Open your eyes o, next thing now Na to use belle tie you. Tell her your mum is coming around. 1 Like |
Re: How Can I Ask My Girlfriend To Leave My House After 3 Months? by Genniez(f): 11:00pm On Sep 23, 2018 |
This matter is serious to be handled like a joke, hmm like they say trouble dey sleep iyanga go wake am..I feel your pain bro but I think you should man up in taking your decision .what if she was staying with a female friend how will she fend for her self? You are young and still know what you want so set that table right else you will nag till the end or violence sets in.. |
Re: How Can I Ask My Girlfriend To Leave My House After 3 Months? by 8stargeneral: 11:03pm On Sep 23, 2018 |
But wht was ur mission telln her to come over and stay with u since ur not ready to settle down,bro d joke too expensive just marry d girl. |
Re: How Can I Ask My Girlfriend To Leave My House After 3 Months? by DavidEsq(m): 11:10pm On Sep 23, 2018 |
ritylove:See how d mata dey pain dis one. Abeg goan advise that girl who is asking if she can give her bf 700k. No be only here dem go dey see una. 1 Like |
Re: How Can I Ask My Girlfriend To Leave My House After 3 Months? by DavidEsq(m): 11:11pm On Sep 23, 2018 |
centboy123456:Don't mind am. Wey she do head like soured pear. |
Re: How Can I Ask My Girlfriend To Leave My House After 3 Months? by Jasen1(m): 11:11pm On Sep 23, 2018 |
newdawn2017: What do you mean by lashing? |
Re: How Can I Ask My Girlfriend To Leave My House After 3 Months? by DavidEsq(m): 11:14pm On Sep 23, 2018 |
Pentools:Omo, for this abj, na face ur parade o 1 Like |
Re: How Can I Ask My Girlfriend To Leave My House After 3 Months? by Nobody: 11:14pm On Sep 23, 2018 |
Lovelypet28:Such LADIES you did mention can’t reside in the US or CANADA or AUSTRALIA. There are too many bills to be paid. Insurance policies are stronger in the US. Such places are not for them, because u have to contribute. Even grown up children contribute to the running of homes else their parents charge them to leave the apartment. The number of CRÈCHES in the US is more than the number of churches in Nigeria, because women have no time gossiping. Some invite NANNIES to live with them. It’s in AFRICA your story trends. Where LADIES are encouraged to remain as BABY FACTORIES without mental development. 3 Likes |
Re: How Can I Ask My Girlfriend To Leave My House After 3 Months? by sundamonex(m): 11:14pm On Sep 23, 2018 |
Jasen1: how many times 1 Like
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Re: How Can I Ask My Girlfriend To Leave My House After 3 Months? by viccgm: 11:26pm On Sep 23, 2018 |
Jasen1: This one her family members called n pleaded for her to stay with u, u don enter be that oooo (what a family). But, brotherly, sharing the same roof with a girl friend at early 20s is very bad of u. So, calling her in was wrong at the first place. Hello, Is ur parents aware of ur sins?. I think she never hard real problems with her sister but wanted to hook u up after her first visit. Its either ur apartment is well furnished(money dey) or u gave her a good sex Anyway, encouraged her to work by explanations. I said encourage not force. Talk sense into her(if u have any) as u manage ur sinful union. Happy married life built on a sinful foundation or u push her out to ur own peril. Curses can work if u push her out after 3mnths of promises n false marriage. Remember, she gave u all the styles n u converted her inside into bottomless pit. 2 Likes 1 Share |
Re: How Can I Ask My Girlfriend To Leave My House After 3 Months? by Pentools(m): 11:33pm On Sep 23, 2018 |
DavidEsq: The guy never jam, na new born, he never collect. 1 Like |
Re: How Can I Ask My Girlfriend To Leave My House After 3 Months? by centboy123456(m): 11:43pm On Sep 23, 2018 |
chiommy123: what do u mean for god sake the guy is trying to tell her that she don't work always stay at home and the guy dont like it what do you mean by he want to cheat it you don't know how to go about it for inside his own house again please ladies please this guy want a woman that can work not the one that we can just stay in the house morning and night without doing nothing and for the note must he marry her i have more than 5 girlfriend I'm not thinking on marry anyone you can come to my house once you stay up to sum days I just tell u to leave I don't understand I'm dating must I marry you must I marry if I'm dating you women or na problem just marriage marriage marriage have kids like like goat I just sorry for that kind that will marry someone like u |
Re: How Can I Ask My Girlfriend To Leave My House After 3 Months? by jahabless: 11:44pm On Sep 23, 2018 |
OBoy50:. 1 Like
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Re: How Can I Ask My Girlfriend To Leave My House After 3 Months? by 1x2x3: 11:47pm On Sep 23, 2018 |
Boss13: Op didn't see clearly. 1 Like |
Re: How Can I Ask My Girlfriend To Leave My House After 3 Months? by Bakassis: 11:56pm On Sep 23, 2018 |
Truth is that you have not made up your mind ..Still possible you must have wronged her..If you are in the clear and you don't feel anything for her. make her see reasons and move on else it would land you guys in a union of chaos . |
Re: How Can I Ask My Girlfriend To Leave My House After 3 Months? by Rapsino(m): 12:04am On Sep 24, 2018 |
ritylove:Can't we see sex in a different way? Must it be the giving? Itz a mutual thing. 3months the gurl also Bleep him 4 Likes 1 Share |
Re: How Can I Ask My Girlfriend To Leave My House After 3 Months? by centboy123456(m): 12:06am On Sep 24, 2018 |
waleyp: one of d best advice 1 Like |
Re: How Can I Ask My Girlfriend To Leave My House After 3 Months? by tintingz(m): 12:08am On Sep 24, 2018 |
Most people here are assuming too much, which can be right about the guy being tired of having séx with the girl and her presence is blocking other chicks. But the guy simply said he doesn't have problem with the girl staying in his place but he has problem with her not working(But OP is she not cooking, cleaning the house for you?). He might be saying the truth or lying, whatever it is the OP made a mistake by allowing her stay in his place, next time let her know the limit period she will be staying or better still don't accommodate. 1 Like |
Re: How Can I Ask My Girlfriend To Leave My House After 3 Months? by Ndinweobodo: 12:11am On Sep 24, 2018 |
Guy....!!! Come on. People like you is what make ladies assume we are bad. Honestly, there was indeed a chemistry at the first time and continuous nacking. The truth is that you've given her that hope of being yours and cannot ask her to leave now. Yes we all know that ladies enjoys freedom and a home where they have total control of themselves. Secondly, you did encouraged her to stay with you for good 3 months together chai! That's mini marriage naw Bros. Now listen, age has nothing to do with this and I assume that girl most have been a good girl for staying with you, cooking and obviously washing your dirty clothes and stinking boxers lol.@ my guy... That's your wife bro.... You might not have the chance to bring in other ladies because your concience is concerned. But honestly truth is you will not get anyone you can ride like that girl. Your beginning story sound like she was then a good girl no doubt. Finally, You cannot send her away. SWOT your likes for her and map out your expectations and put her in that space. Also guide her because ladies love good direction. Lastly, go with her to see her sister and apologize for harboring her sister without her consent. Develop the closeness to the level that the sister can accept her back. Then you can decide to let her go or do the right thing by seeing the other members of the family. #no better lady out there like the one you have with you Be good. 2 Likes |
Re: How Can I Ask My Girlfriend To Leave My House After 3 Months? by tintingz(m): 12:18am On Sep 24, 2018 |
Jubilancy:Acrimony, interesting movie. |
Re: How Can I Ask My Girlfriend To Leave My House After 3 Months? by abbiboy: 12:27am On Sep 24, 2018 |
Jasen1:If that is the case boldly tell her that union is conclusive u re not harbouring her again..make she fazmus to her parent. |
Re: How Can I Ask My Girlfriend To Leave My House After 3 Months? by centboy123456(m): 12:29am On Sep 24, 2018 |
Jasen1: don't mind them joor guy be a man tell her u are not ready for marriage yet tell her she need to leave because if she stay with u u can't save money guy be a man tell her to go pls and face ur life because u have better tin to do with ur life don't allow any woman to hold u down pls focus on ur life first and try to be a better person before u think about marriage pls |
Re: How Can I Ask My Girlfriend To Leave My House After 3 Months? by Ategberoson(m): 12:32am On Sep 24, 2018 |
why not try and get a job for her first? then if she refused not accepting then you can conclude so fast. be careful in decision that lady might be the one that will save you in future who knows she might end up being your future wife. I almost lost my fiance for one slut. we are on 8yrs Now and the Lady I was with when I met her, na struggle we used spent 2yrs like I say try and assist her in getting a vacancy and tell her to go there or you even lead her there but if she insist then you can open up to her that the burden was much on you that you need her collectiveness, nothing to cover mouth here she's you're gf as you said 1 Like |
Re: How Can I Ask My Girlfriend To Leave My House After 3 Months? by centboy123456(m): 12:43am On Sep 24, 2018 |
Oreofepeters: must every relationship lead to marriage what are u trying to say or did dey tell u d guy is ready for marriage now god I don't understand u must he marry her |
Re: How Can I Ask My Girlfriend To Leave My House After 3 Months? by Boyooosa(m): 12:55am On Sep 24, 2018 |
How did u have access to 2go at the age of 14? |
Re: How Can I Ask My Girlfriend To Leave My House After 3 Months? by centboy123456(m): 12:56am On Sep 24, 2018 |
lefulefu: baba waiting be ur own na lol |
Re: How Can I Ask My Girlfriend To Leave My House After 3 Months? by Nobody: 1:02am On Sep 24, 2018 |
Lol.. She's a hairdresser.. And Pharmacists like hus hare still selshin. Anyways sometimes people don't respond to words.. Most times actually.. Just find a way to make her see the consequences of her laziness.. Try to show her.. Perhaps you can cut off some expenses for a while and give her the impression that you want to quit your job and start staying at home like her.. By the time she sees that dis nd Dat are no longer there (money.. Food.. TV subscription) because you're no longer going to work it might motivate her to go to work too.. You should also try in your own way to get her a job so she doesn't get lazy. My opinion tho |
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