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"If You Are Single At 35+ And Still Celebrating Birthdays, Shame On You" - Lady by HeWrites(m): 2:19am On Sep 28, 2018
A woman has some words of advice for spinsters above 35 years.

Sylvia Ekpedeme Umoh shared her advice on a Facebook group in which she said it is a shame for a single woman above 35 to celebrate her birthday and post photoshopped images on Facebook with funny styles.

Read her post below;


https://www.torimill.co/viral/9953/if-youre-single-at-35-and-still-celebrating-birthdays-shame-on-you-lady.html

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Re: "If You Are Single At 35+ And Still Celebrating Birthdays, Shame On You" - Lady by MANNABBQGRILLS: 2:19am On Sep 28, 2018
So the ladies above 35 should go and die and stop thanking God for another year they are privilege to see or what is her point exactly?!

Shame on her.....

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Re: "If You Are Single At 35+ And Still Celebrating Birthdays, Shame On You" - Lady by Ladycloud(f): 2:45am On Sep 28, 2018
Pheeew!!
Age is really not maturity!

Person go just dey matured with no sense...

Is marriage everything??

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Re: "If You Are Single At 35+ And Still Celebrating Birthdays, Shame On You" - Lady by MANNABBQGRILLS: 2:48am On Sep 28, 2018
Ladycloud:
Pheeew!!
Age is really not maturity!

Person go just dey matured with no sense...

Is marriage everything??

Good question.....

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Re: "If You Are Single At 35+ And Still Celebrating Birthdays, Shame On You" - Lady by xendra: 2:57am On Sep 28, 2018
Stupid lady, this type no dey enjoy their marriage o, that's why they can't wait for all single ladies to become miserable like them.
Ask her whether she married with dignity you'd be surprised how low she had to bring herself to be called a wife.


Wait.......look below and you will know a truly bitter/frustrated and "never finding love" cheesy cheesy Nigerian man by how they try to make you feel bad with their comments. They want you to feel low about being single so you will accept to end up with trash-bags like them. Same way they made madam sylvia ekpedeme umoh upthere feel cry

Ladies chill enjoy your freedom until you find someone worthy of your space.

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Re: "If You Are Single At 35+ And Still Celebrating Birthdays, Shame On You" - Lady by IamLEGEND1: 3:23am On Sep 28, 2018
Misery truly does love company.
At least she get money to throw her own parties. All these hoes wey dey get 4 birthday parties per year nkor? All sponsored by different gods.

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Re: "If You Are Single At 35+ And Still Celebrating Birthdays, Shame On You" - Lady by Remijuice: 3:34am On Sep 28, 2018
� Shame dey catch me for her

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Re: "If You Are Single At 35+ And Still Celebrating Birthdays, Shame On You" - Lady by Immaculatesnow(m): 4:08am On Sep 28, 2018
This lady talk true sha but not with standing, she is very ugly and very unhappy in her marriage life

Abeg I want a verified Nigerian AdSense account to buy

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Re: "If You Are Single At 35+ And Still Celebrating Birthdays, Shame On You" - Lady by donstan18: 4:14am On Sep 28, 2018
Shot fired!! What a bitter truth! After bashing her, you all will still log out and face reality of what she said grin

Look at them, a lot of them up there wishing and saying she isn't happy with her family, all because she said the truth, all because the truth is bitter. grin

Even without being told, an evening newspaper lady should know that she has no right to celebrate birthday because she has been biologically expired, psychological traumatized, sexually useless, maritally screwed and aboki-cally suyalized.

A single lady still celebrating birthdays, going to wedding parties and still doing boyfriend/boo at 30+, is a disgrace and a big shame.

Sensible evening newspapers will do nothing to end their predicament but............

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Re: "If You Are Single At 35+ And Still Celebrating Birthdays, Shame On You" - Lady by chiommy123(f): 4:52am On Sep 28, 2018
Now who is she to tell another wat to do with her time and money. Where to throw such nonsense talk dustbin straight

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Re: "If You Are Single At 35+ And Still Celebrating Birthdays, Shame On You" - Lady by ANGELMARVE(m): 5:35am On Sep 28, 2018
The truth they say is very bitter.
she is completely saying the truth. How can a responsible Lady not get married before the age of 35?
If she is not married before her 35th birthday, then her responsibility comes into question. It's either there is something from her pursuing men away or her case has gone spiritual.

You cannot tell me it's her career because as career minded as Beyonce and chimamanda are, "They are both happily married with kids"
That is because their various husbands find them responsible with good woman characters.
So as a Lady that is unmarried after 35, You seriously need to check your life and repair those traits that have drove men away.
I know popular women defenders like cococandy and Dominique will come to defend their nairaland unmarried females as usual but the truth is that both coco and Dominique are married, So the unmarried 35+ ladies need not to be deceived by their defensive words, You better go check up your life, go get married and have kids.
There is nothing more beautiful than seeing your Daughter or son calling you mommy, Mommy, mommy and your husband at your bed side every night.

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Re: "If You Are Single At 35+ And Still Celebrating Birthdays, Shame On You" - Lady by ednut1(m): 5:47am On Sep 28, 2018
Life is not a competition

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Re: "If You Are Single At 35+ And Still Celebrating Birthdays, Shame On You" - Lady by Exponental(m): 5:56am On Sep 28, 2018
Rubbish post. Women who think like this make men devalue women. Fish brain! Shouldn't a single lady be happy without husband or should she just marry anybody cos she feels she should be married. I pity your case, people like you that endure pitiful marriages end up dying young.

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Re: "If You Are Single At 35+ And Still Celebrating Birthdays, Shame On You" - Lady by Evablizin(f): 6:10am On Sep 28, 2018
Exponental:
Rubbish post. Women who think like this make men devalue women. Fish brain! Shouldn't a single lady be happy without husband or should she just marry anybody cos she feels she should be married. I pity your case, people like you that endure pitiful marriages end up dying young.
Tell her,that one is looking for likes,someone can't celebrate her birthday in peace again. Mtcheeeew.

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Re: "If You Are Single At 35+ And Still Celebrating Birthdays, Shame On You" - Lady by Zane2point4(m): 6:18am On Sep 28, 2018
Ladycloud:
Pheeew!!
Age is really not maturity!

Person go just dey matured with no sense...

Is marriage everything??
You fine o.
Re: "If You Are Single At 35+ And Still Celebrating Birthdays, Shame On You" - Lady by Evablizin(f): 6:20am On Sep 28, 2018
donstan18:
Shot fired!! What a bitter truth! After bashing her, you all will still log out and face reality of what she said grin

Look at them, a lot of them up there wishing and saying she isn't happy with her family, all because she said the truth, all because the truth is bitter. grin

Even without being told, an evening newspaper lady should know that she has no right to celebrate birthday because she has been biologically expired, psychological traumatized, sexually useless, maritally screwed and aboki-cally suyalized.

A single lady still celebrating birthdays, going to wedding parties and still doing boyfriend/boo at 30+, is a disgrace and a big shame.

Sensible evening newspapers will do nothing to end their predicament but............


Chai nawa for you oh,i tire for your wahala,person wey dey 30+ wey neva marry no go kill em self nah,wen husband come,she go marry.


Self shame and disgrace will not bring Mr right to her doorstep.

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Re: "If You Are Single At 35+ And Still Celebrating Birthdays, Shame On You" - Lady by Ladyhippolyta88(f): 6:30am On Sep 28, 2018
You can as well provide good husbands for the single 35+ unmarried ladies.
Life is not a competition with anyone because we all have our goals in as much as happiness comes from within there is no fixed time for the arrival of m right as the Mr right can come at any time even at 32.It is better to be single and praying to be married than to be married and praying to be single the people who may find their selves in such situations are living in bondage and calling it marriage.Some would prefer to marry at 40 and be happy than marry at 22 and be miserable.

Since you are such a concerned fellow please provide single responsible and good men for our unmarried sisters to Marry.You can organize a seminar.
ANGELMARVE:
The truth they say is very bitter.
she is completely saying the truth. How can a responsible Lady not get married before the age of 35?
If she is not married before her 35th birthday, then her responsibility comes into question. It's either there is something from her pursuing men away or her case has gone spiritual.

You cannot tell me it's her career because as career minded as Beyonce and chimamanda are, "They are both happily married with kids"
That is because their various husbands find them responsible with good woman characters.
So as a Lady that is unmarried after 35, You seriously need to check your life and repair those traits that have drove men away.
I know popular women defenders like cococandy and Dominique will come to defend their nairaland unmarried females as usual but the truth is that both coco and Dominique are married, So the unmarried 35+ ladies need not to be deceived by their defensive words, You better go check up your life, go get married and have kids.
There is nothing more beautiful than seeing your Daughter or son calling you mommy, Mommy, mommy and your husband at your bed side every night.

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Re: "If You Are Single At 35+ And Still Celebrating Birthdays, Shame On You" - Lady by Shugavee(f): 6:51am On Sep 28, 2018
Immaculatesnow:
This lady talk true shabut not with standing, she is very ugly and very unhappy in her marriage life

Abeg I want a verified Nigerian AdSense account to buy
nothing like truth in the nonsense she said

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Re: "If You Are Single At 35+ And Still Celebrating Birthdays, Shame On You" - Lady by Shugavee(f): 6:56am On Sep 28, 2018
Not everyone wanna be married ,,, not everyone plans to endure in marriage as everyone says , not everyone wants to marry a cheat! Don’t say forever for a nonentity, Marriage is no achievement n never will.

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Re: "If You Are Single At 35+ And Still Celebrating Birthdays, Shame On You" - Lady by columbus007(m): 6:57am On Sep 28, 2018
let people live their lives,you dont tell them how to live it,if it was to be abroad they can sue you and even risk going to jail.

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Re: "If You Are Single At 35+ And Still Celebrating Birthdays, Shame On You" - Lady by ANGELMARVE(m): 7:02am On Sep 28, 2018
Ladyhippolyta88:
You can as well provide good husbands for the single 35+ unmarried ladies.
Life is not a competition with anyone because we all have our goals in as much as happiness comes from within there is no fixed time for the arrival of m right as the Mr right can come at any time even at 32.It is better to be single and praying to be married than to be married and praying to be single the people who may find their selves in such situations are living in bondage and calling it marriage.Some would prefer to marry at 40 and be happy than marry at 22 and be miserable.

Since you are such a concerned fellow please provide single responsible and good men for our unmarried sisters to Marry.You can organize a seminar.
Please my dear, spear me the sermon of life is not a competition.
Listen i am a guy and i can tell you how Guys think.
Guys are lovers of good and responsible ladies, If a lady is responsible and a wife material, there is always that good guy that is 100% ready to wife her.
The only ladies that guys are running away from when it comes to marriage, are ladies that have questionable characters or past.
When i was in school in my ND days, there are some ladies that got married before ND graduation, while the slay queens are still unmarried even till today.

So what makes the married students to be different than the unmarried ones?
My dear the difference is clear like mirror.
As a Lady clock 25, if she is responsible, mature, resourceful with good characters, There are guys out there that are ready to get married to her, even if she is still in school.
Do you know when omotola got married?
What of Beyonce?
What of Michele Obama?
what of Aisha buhari?
Please spear me the life is not a competition crap, If a lady is good, she will get married.
Most unmarried 35+ ladies have spent their early days slaying, clubbing and doing all sorts of youthful Nonsense that have driven responsible guys away.

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Re: "If You Are Single At 35+ And Still Celebrating Birthdays, Shame On You" - Lady by chinchonglee(m): 7:17am On Sep 28, 2018
donstan18:
Shot fired!! What a bitter truth! After bashing her, you all will still log out and face reality of what she said grin

Look at them, a lot of them up there wishing and saying she isn't happy with her family, all because she said the truth, all because the truth is bitter. grin

Even without being told, an evening newspaper lady should know that she has no right to celebrate birthday because she has been biologically expired, psychological traumatized, sexually useless, maritally screwed and aboki-cally suyalized.

A single lady still celebrating birthdays, going to wedding parties and still doing boyfriend/boo at 30+, is a disgrace and a big shame.

Sensible evening newspapers will do nothing to end their predicament but............


bros pls av mercy...


u wan kill pple wit curse

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Re: "If You Are Single At 35+ And Still Celebrating Birthdays, Shame On You" - Lady by Nobody: 7:17am On Sep 28, 2018
ANGELMARVE:
Please my dear, spear me the sermon of life is not a competition.
Listen i am a guy and i can tell you how Guys think.
Guys are lovers of good and responsible ladies, If a lady is responsible and a wife material, there is always that good guy that is 100% ready to wife her.
The only ladies that guys are running away from when it comes to marriage, are ladies that have questionable characters or past.
When i was in school in my ND days, there are some ladies that got married before ND graduation, while the slay queens are still unmarried even till today.

So what makes the married students to be different than the unmarried ones?
My dear the difference is clear like mirror.
As a Lady clock 25, if she is responsible, mature, resourceful with good characters, There are guys out there that are ready to get married to her, even if she is still in school.
Do you know when omotola got married?
What of Beyonce?
What of Michele Obama?
what of Aisha buhari?
Please spear me the life is not a competition crap, If a lady is good, she will get married.
Most unmarried 35+ ladies have spent their early days slaying, clubbing and doing all sorts of youthful Nonsense that have driven responsible guys away.



#kisses..

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Re: "If You Are Single At 35+ And Still Celebrating Birthdays, Shame On You" - Lady by Ladyhippolyta88(f): 7:22am On Sep 28, 2018
ANGELMARVE:
Please my dear, spear me the sermon of life is not a competition.
Listen i am a guy and i can tell you how Guys think.
Guys are lovers of good and responsible ladies, If a lady is responsible and a wife material, there is always that good guy that is 100% ready to wife her.
The only ladies that guys are running away from when it comes to marriage, are ladies that have questionable characters or past.
When i was in school in my ND days, there are some ladies that got married before ND graduation, while the slay queens are still unmarried even till today.

So what makes the married students to be different than the unmarried ones?
My dear the difference is clear like mirror.
As a Lady clock 25, if she is responsible, mature, resourceful with good characters, There are guys out there that are ready to get married to her, even if she is still in school.
Do you know when omotola got married?
What of Beyonce?
What of Michele Obama?
what of Aisha buhari?
Please spear me the life is not a competition crap, If a lady is good, she will get married.
Most unmarried 35+ ladies have spent their early days slaying, clubbing and doing all sorts of youthful Nonsense that have driven responsible guys away.

You have point but because you have a point does not make it the truth for everybody.
You make it seem as if it is only ladies that make a marriage.What about guys?
If a lady is responsible/wife material and good does not always mean she may approach a responsible guy.Even some men do not know how to value a treasure when they see one they misuse it and this can be applied to both genders.
And do not try to compare those women you mentioned because it goes both ways let us say they are happy in their marriages some women who married at their ages are wishing to be single.Even serena Williams married in her 30's,(I am not disputing the fact that one may marry in their 30's and still regret it).Dambisa moyo is a well known economist and at 49 is still unmarried do you want to tell me that women like Dambisa moyo,Stacy Adams,Oprah winfrey(Oprah had a partner for over 30 years and they still did not tie the knot)Let me not even mention meghan markle who first got married in her 30's)Do you want to tell me they were slaying hence why they are unmarried and have passed their 30's.And also some guys have been irresponsible for years doing drugs,yahoo or G and wasting the time of some innocent ladies who would have married them.So Mr man your accusation or assumptions goes both ways.

And no responsible lady at 25 would want to end up with these kind of irresponsible men who were wasting their youth commiting illegal acts.
So it is better that the responsible lady reaches 35 and marries a responsible man than a yahoo yahoo guy and call him her husband.

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Re: "If You Are Single At 35+ And Still Celebrating Birthdays, Shame On You" - Lady by ANGELMARVE(m): 7:37am On Sep 28, 2018
Adanairaland:



#kisses..
Lol all this virtual kisses, i prefer real one though.
Re: "If You Are Single At 35+ And Still Celebrating Birthdays, Shame On You" - Lady by Wilfredpat22(f): 7:43am On Sep 28, 2018
She is right. We value marriage than anything else. The truth remains if a man marries a girl above 28., she has expired and slept with over 800 men that she can even count nor remember.

You are merely spending millions on wedding list for a woman that got disvirgined with a plate of 2 small onion chicken indomie and a boiled egg

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Re: "If You Are Single At 35+ And Still Celebrating Birthdays, Shame On You" - Lady by Nobody: 7:44am On Sep 28, 2018
ANGELMARVE:
Lol all this virtual kisses, i prefer real one though.


Lol..
Re: "If You Are Single At 35+ And Still Celebrating Birthdays, Shame On You" - Lady by chris31(m): 7:50am On Sep 28, 2018
If ur a Lady at 35yrs ur not yet married u have a big problem pls check urself

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Re: "If You Are Single At 35+ And Still Celebrating Birthdays, Shame On You" - Lady by ANGELMARVE(m): 7:51am On Sep 28, 2018
Ladyhippolyta88:


You have point but because you have a point does not make it the truth for everybody.
You make it seem as if it is only ladies that make a marriage.What about guys?
If a lady is responsible/wife material and good does not always mean she may approach a responsible guy.Even some men do not know how to value a treasure when they see one they misuse it and this can be applied to both genders.
And do not try to compare those women you mentioned because it goes both ways let us say they are happy in their marriages some women who married at their ages are wishing to be single.Even serena Williams married in her 30's,(I am not disputing the fact that one may marry in their 30's and still regret it).Dambisa moyo is a well known economist and at 49 is still unmarried do you want to tell me that women like Dambisa moyo,Stacy Adams,Oprah winfrey(Oprah had a partner for over 30 years and they still did not tie the knot)Let me not even mention meghan marble who first got married in her 30's)Do you want to tell me they were slaying hence why they are unmarried and have passed their 30's.And also some guys have been irresponsible for years doing drugs,yahoo or G and wasting the time of some innocent ladies who would have married them.So Mr man your accusation or assumptions goes both ways.

And no responsible lady at 25 would want to end up with these kind of irresponsible men who were wasting their youth commiting illegal acts.
So it is better that the responsible lady reaches 35 and marries a responsible man than a yahoo yahoo guy and call him her husband.
You still don't understand my point.
Guys treasure good Ladies like eggs.
You talk about yahoo guys and irresponsible guys.
Do you know that there are some Yahoo guys that has one particular Lady that they treasure so much that they are planning to get married to?
A Lady they want to settle down with and stop doing internet scam and face a legit business all because of the safety and the love they have for this particular Lady?
No responsible guy will treat a Lady bad.
There are some bad guys that changed their ways because they fell in love, example is our very own Dbanj, 2face or even Davido.

There is this glory about responsible ladies with good characters that attracts guys that are willing to get married to them.
The Truth is that bad and irresponsible guys will always go to clubs to party with irresponsible ladies, they are attracted to that lady flashing her boobs and dressing almost nude.
You cannot dress irresponsible and you want responsible guys to approach you.


And my dear don't use unmarried Ladies like opera Winfrey as an example because Instagram and Facebook are fake, you have no idea the secret things they have done with their life.
Money is not everything my dear.

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Re: "If You Are Single At 35+ And Still Celebrating Birthdays, Shame On You" - Lady by ANGELMARVE(m): 7:54am On Sep 28, 2018
Adanairaland:


Lol..
Your moniker though. It's Nice, ada nairaland, "very creative.
Re: "If You Are Single At 35+ And Still Celebrating Birthdays, Shame On You" - Lady by Nobody: 8:01am On Sep 28, 2018
chris31:
If ur a Lady at 35yrs ur not yet married u have a big problem pls check urself
A guy who is single at 31 has a bigger problem .

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Re: "If You Are Single At 35+ And Still Celebrating Birthdays, Shame On You" - Lady by Ladyhippolyta88(f): 8:02am On Sep 28, 2018
ANGELMARVE:
You still don't understand my point.
Guys treasure good Ladies like eggs.
You talk about yahoo guys and irresponsible guys.
Do you know that there are some Yahoo guys that has one particular Lady that they treasure so much that they are planning to get married to?
A Lady they want to settle down with and stop doing internet scam and face a legit business all because of the safety and the love they have for this particular Lady?
No responsible guy will treat a Lady bad.
There are some bad guys that changed their ways because they fell in love, example is our very own Dbanj, 2face or even Davido.

There is this glory about responsible ladies with good characters that attracts guys that are willing to get married to them.
The Truth is that bad and irresponsible guys will always go to clubs to party with irresponsible ladies, they are attracted to that lady flashing her boobs and dressing almost nude.
You cannot dress irresponsible and you want responsible guys to approach you.


And my dear don't use unmarried Ladies like opera Winfrey as an example because Instagram and Facebook are fake, you have no idea the secret things they have done with their life.
Money is not everything my dear.

"guys treasure ladies like eggs same way a reasonable lady would value a man with prospects.
You are the one missing the point life is not a template were everything you plan just happens neither is it a fantasy where you generalize andbelieve that your opinion is the reality of everybody.You say irresponsible guys would always club with the irresponsible ones where did they meet at a club right?These same irresponsible ladies and guys could go to places of worship,work etc and meet responsible ones whom they may ruin their lives because some people are good at pretence.
We also have prostitutes who changed because they found true love.
Appearances which include dressing could be deceiving whether you dress decently or not it may not be the true you.
Every truth may be subjective as it may not always be the general case for all.
I never talked about Oprah and said she had money you did.Also I am not on Facebook,twitter(deactivated not always active)almost a year now or instagram,etc so I do not know where you got that from I am not on those platforms so I don't follow celebrities or anybody.

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