Ladycloud:
Pheeew!!
Age is really not maturity!

Person go just dey matured with no sense...

Is marriage everything??

xendra:
Stupid lady, this type no dey enjoy their marriage o, that's why they can't wait for all single ladies to become miserable like them.
Ask her whether she married with dignity you'd be surprised how low she had to bring herself to be called a wife.


Wait.......look below and you will know a truly bitter/frustrated and "never finding love" Nigerian man by how they try to make you feel bad with their comments. They want you to feel low about being single so you will accept to end up with trash-bags like them. Same way they made madam sylvia ekpedeme umoh upthere feel

Ladies chill enjoy your freedom until you find someone worthy of your space.

donstan18:
Shot fired!! What a bitter truth! After bashing her, you all will still log out and face reality of what she said

Look at them, a lot of them up there wishing and saying she isn't happy with her family, all because she said the truth, all because the truth is bitter.

Even without being told, an evening newspaper lady should know that she has no right to celebrate birthday because she has been biologically expired, psychological traumatized, sexually useless, maritally screwed and aboki-cally suyalized.

A single lady still celebrating birthdays, going to wedding parties and still doing boyfriend/boo at 30+, is a disgrace and a big shame.

Sensible evening newspapers will do nothing to end their predicament but............

Zane2point4:

You fine o.

Daeylar:


Chop knuckle an epic finishing all around

donstan18:
Shot fired!! What a bitter truth! After bashing her, you all will still log out and face reality of what she said

Look at them, a lot of them up there wishing and saying she isn't happy with her family, all because she said the truth, all because the truth is bitter.

Even without being told, an evening newspaper lady should know that she has no right to celebrate birthday because she has been biologically expired, psychological traumatized, sexually useless, maritally screwed and aboki-cally suyalized.

A single lady still celebrating birthdays, going to wedding parties and still doing boyfriend/boo at 30+, is a disgrace and a big shame.

Sensible evening newspapers will do nothing to end their predicament but............

Shugavee:
Not everyone wanna be married ,,, not everyone plans to endure in marriage as everyone says , not everyone wants to marry a cheat! Don’t say forever for a nonentity, Marriage is no achievement n never will.

ANGELMARVE:
The truth they say is very bitter.
she is completely saying the truth. How can a responsible Lady not get married before the age of 35?
If she is not married before her 35th birthday, then her responsibility comes into question. It's either there is something from her pursuing men away or her case has gone spiritual.
You cannot tell me it's her career because as career minded as Beyonce and chimamanda are, "They are both happily married with kids"
That is because their various husbands find them responsible with good woman characters.
So as a Lady that is unmarried after 35, You seriously need to check your life and repair those traits that have drove men away.
I know popular women defenders like cococandy and Dominique will come to defend their nairaland unmarried females as usual but the truth is that both coco and Dominique are married, So the unmarried 35+ ladies need not to be deceived by their defensive words, You better go check up your life, go get married and have kids.
There is nothing more beautiful than seeing your Daughter or son calling you mommy, Mommy, mommy and your husband at your bed side every night.

Christafarian:

If truly you are the one on your profile pic, then you fall hands. Because you fine pass that lady you are admiring. In fact she no fine nothing.

No homo.

HeyCorleone:


This particular comment is bugged with insecurity. Why do you take it awful hard?

Her contention was that 35+ yo ladies shouldn't be doing those funny photoshoots. First thing is that those shots are quite childish. You'd hold balloon and makeup blah blah blah. Even married ladies need not engage in such act meant for teenagers and people in their early 20s.

There's no reason on earth, or in heaven above, why a woman above 35, married or unmarried, should have one of those funny photoshoots.

So calm down Uncle Sandra. If you like don't marry at all, be pursuing hoedom under the guise of freedom. I can assure you nobody cares.

donstan18:
Shot fired!! What a bitter truth! After bashing her, you all will still log out and face reality of what she said

Look at them, a lot of them up there wishing and saying she isn't happy with her family, all because she said the truth, all because the truth is bitter.

Even without being told, an evening newspaper lady should know that she has no right to celebrate birthday because she has been biologically expired, psychological traumatized, sexually useless, maritally screwed and aboki-cally suyalized.

A single lady still celebrating birthdays, going to wedding parties and still doing boyfriend/boo at 30+, is a disgrace and a big shame.

Sensible evening newspapers will do nothing to end their predicament but............

U are a fool and God have mercy on u.

Evablizin:
Chai nawa for you oh,i tire for your wahala,person wey dey 30+ wey neva marry no go kill em self nah,wen husband come,she go marry.


Self shame and disgrace will not bring Mr right to her doorstep.

xendra:
Stupid lady, this type no dey enjoy their marriage o, that's why they can't wait for all single ladies to become miserable like them.
Ask her whether she married with dignity you'd be surprised how low she had to bring herself to be called a wife.


Wait.......look below and you will know a truly bitter/frustrated and "never finding love" Nigerian man by how they try to make you feel bad with their comments. They want you to feel low about being single so you will accept to end up with trash-bags like them. Same way they made madam sylvia ekpedeme umoh upthere feel

Ladies chill enjoy your freedom until you find someone worthy of your space.

Ladyhippolyta88:


Another baseless statistics all assumptions.
Since you say it is a thread for ladies try not to bring in gentlemen next time in your points a and what stops men from learning from this our discussion after all it takes two to tangle.
Have a great day.

ANGELMARVE:
The truth they say is very bitter.
she is completely saying the truth. How can a responsible Lady not get married before the age of 35?
If she is not married before her 35th birthday, then her responsibility comes into question. It's either there is something from her pursuing men away or her case has gone spiritual.
You cannot tell me it's her career because as career minded as Beyonce and chimamanda are, "They are both happily married with kids"
That is because their various husbands find them responsible with good woman characters.
So as a Lady that is unmarried after 35, You seriously need to check your life and repair those traits that have drove men away.
I know popular women defenders like cococandy and Dominique will come to defend their nairaland unmarried females as usual but the truth is that both coco and Dominique are married, So the unmarried 35+ ladies need not to be deceived by their defensive words, You better go check up your life, go get married and have kids.
There is nothing more beautiful than seeing your Daughter or son calling you mommy, Mommy, mommy and your husband at your bed side every night.

quentin06:
the lady has a point, any woman still single at 35 is destined to die single and lonely, that means they wont even die happy.

ANGELMARVE:
Of course men will learn from it, but the truth remains the truth, any lady that is unmarried after 35+ must check herself very well.
have a great day too.

HeWrites:
A woman has some words of advice for spinsters above 35 years.

Sylvia Ekpedeme Umoh shared her advice on a Facebook group in which she said it is a shame for a single woman above 35 to celebrate her birthday and post photoshopped images on Facebook with funny styles.

Read her post below;


https://www.torimill.co/viral/9953/if-youre-single-at-35-and-still-celebrating-birthdays-shame-on-you-lady.html

Ladyhippolyta88:


You have point but because you have a point does not make it the truth for everybody.
You make it seem as if it is only ladies that make a marriage.What about guys?
If a lady is responsible/wife material and good does not always mean she may approach a responsible guy.Even some men do not know how to value a treasure when they see one they misuse it and this can be applied to both genders.
And do not try to compare those women you mentioned because it goes both ways let us say they are happy in their marriages some women who married at their ages are wishing to be single.Even serena Williams married in her 30's,(I am not disputing the fact that one may marry in their 30's and still regret it).Dambisa moyo is a well known economist and at 49 is still unmarried do you want to tell me that women like Dambisa moyo,Stacy Adams,Oprah winfrey(Oprah had a partner for over 30 years and they still did not tie the knot)Let me not even mention meghan markle who first got married in her 30's)Do you want to tell me they were slaying hence why they are unmarried and have passed their 30's.And also some guys have been irresponsible for years doing drugs,yahoo or G and wasting the time of some innocent ladies who would have married them.So Mr man your accusation or assumptions goes both ways.

And no responsible lady at 25 would want to end up with these kind of irresponsible men who were wasting their youth commiting illegal acts.
So it is better that the responsible lady reaches 35 and marries a responsible man than a yahoo yahoo guy and call him her husband.

Ladyhippolyta88:
You can as well provide good husbands for the single 35+ unmarried ladies.
Life is not a competition with anyone because we all have our goals in as much as happiness comes from within there is no fixed time for the arrival of m right as the Mr right can come at any time even at 32.It is better to be single and praying to be married than to be married and praying to be single the people who may find their selves in such situations are living in bondage and calling it marriage.Some would prefer to marry at 40 and be happy than marry at 22 and be miserable.

Since you are such a concerned fellow please provide single responsible and good men for our unmarried sisters to Marry.You can organize a seminar.