ANGELMARVE:
Your moniker though.
It's Nice, ada nairaland, "very creative.

ANGELMARVE:
The truth they say is very bitter.
she is completely saying the truth. How can a responsible Lady not get married before the age of 35?
If she is not married before her 35th birthday, then her responsibility comes into question. It's either there is something from her pursuing men away or her case has gone spiritual.
You cannot tell me it's her career because as career minded as Beyonce and chimamanda are, "They are both happily married with kids"
That is because their various husbands find them responsible with good woman characters.
So as a Lady that is unmarried after 35, You seriously need to check your life and repair those traits that have drove men away.
I know popular women defenders like cococandy and Dominique will come to defend their nairaland unmarried females as usual but the truth is that both coco and Dominique are married, So the unmarried 35+ ladies need not to be deceived by their defensive words, You better go check up your life, go get married and have kids.
There is nothing more beautiful than seeing your Daughter or son calling you mommy, Mommy, mommy and your husband at your bed side every night.

Ladyhippolyta88:


"guys treasure ladies like eggs same way a reasonable lady would value a man with prospects.
You are the one missing the point life is not a template were everything you plan just happens neither is it a fantasy where you generalize andbelieve that your opinion is the reality of everybody.You say irresponsible guys would always club with the irresponsible ones where did they meet at a club right?These same irresponsible ladies and guys could go to places of worship,work etc and meet responsible ones whom they may ruin their lives because some people are god at pretence.

Appearances which include dressing could be deceiving whether you dress decently or not it may not be the true you.
Every truth may be subjective as utter may not always be the general case for all.
I never talked about Oprah and said she had money you did.Also I am not on Facebook or instagram,twitter etc so I do not know where you got that from I am not on those platforms so I don't follow celebrities or anybody.

Adanairaland:

Thank you.. Another kiss for you

ANGELMARVE:
Yeah it is true that some people are very good in pretence but what makes a responsible guy?
It's not just about being calm and pretending.
As an observant lady, you can tell if a guy is responsible or not if you are friends with him.
first of all, a guy that do not respect and care for his sisters won't make a good husband.
Is he maltreating his sisters, slut shaming females?
Is this Guy caring?
Is he the type of guy that talks about the moment or the future.
Is he proud and arrogant?
As a lady, there are guys that you can indirectly see that they have a bright marital future just by being with them.

So any lady that has allowed a guy destroyed her life is because she was too desperate for the relationship that she did not notice other danger signs.
Like i said, there are lots of good guys out there, if non of them have approached a lady for marriage before her 35th birthday, then she should check herself very well.

Ladyhippolyta88:


All the things you mentioned pretenders and Contenders can do them making false promises, behaving falsely all the time in the presence of their targets.You make it seem like it is always the ladies with a problem.Not all ladies would believe a guy has a future by just being with him an intelligent liar can say he is a carpenter with the intention of owning a big furniture store in the future and this said carpenter has no blueprint to make such a thing feasible.Same way a lady can pretend to be homely do domestic chores,dresses decently a prayer warrior(just pretending)in order for her to get the ring going by this your logic and belief that pretence can be vague and the examples I brought forward we can conclude that there are a lot of good ladies out there and a man who is 35 and still unmarried should also check himself or is it that he has a problem and is yet to find the responsible ones or in your village is it only the women that get married?
Good day.

Shugavee:
Not everyone wanna be married ,,, not everyone plans to endure in marriage as everyone says , not everyone wants to marry a cheat! Don’t say forever for a nonentity, Marriage is no achievement n never will.

post=71592046:
So the ladies above 35 should go and die and stop thanking God for another year they are privilege to see or what is her point exactly?!

Shame on her.....

post=71592046:
So the ladies above 35 should go and die and stop thanking God for another year they are privilege to see or what is her point exactly?!

Shame on her.....

Ladycloud:
Pheeew!!
Age is really not maturity!

Person go just dey matured with no sense...

Is marriage everything??

ANGELMARVE:
Lol no, just like PDP, i won't accept this kiss.
let us do a rerun election kiss, date of the kiss will be in your pm.
You can check your email for the time.

post=71592046:
So the ladies above 35 should go and die and stop thanking God for another year they are privilege to see or what is her point exactly?!

Shame on her.....

donstan18:
Shot fired!! What a bitter truth! After bashing her, you all will still log out and face reality of what she said

Look at them, a lot of them up there wishing and saying she isn't happy with her family, all because she said the truth, all because the truth is bitter.

Even without being told, an evening newspaper lady should know that she has no right to celebrate birthday because she has been biologically expired, psychological traumatized, sexually useless, maritally screwed and aboki-cally suyalized.

A single lady still celebrating birthdays, going to wedding parties and still doing boyfriend/boo at 30+, is a disgrace and a big shame.

Sensible evening newspapers will do nothing to end their predicament but............

Ladycloud:
Pheeew!!
Age is really not maturity!

Person go just dey matured with no sense...

Is marriage everything??

post=71592046:
So the ladies above 35 should go and die and stop thanking God for another year they are privilege to see or what is her point exactly?!

Shame on her.....

ANGELMARVE:
Calm down!!!!
This thread is about ladies not men.
But how many responsible 35+ unmarried men do you know?
Most guys once they clock 26, they are already thinking of marriage, except the ones that just wants to live a flexy lifestyle.
After school graduation and a very good job, 99% of guys out there will be willing to find a Lady to get married to, but the problem is that there are not much of good Ladies out there and this has affected the fact that there are 35+ unmarried ladies, because when the guys were ready to get married at the age of 26 to 30, these Ladies were not fit enough because of their character or lifestyle.

Zane2point4:

You fine o.

Ladycloud:
Pheeew!!
Age is really not maturity!

Person go just dey matured with no sense...

Is marriage everything??

xendra:
Stupid lady, this type no dey enjoy their marriage o, that's why they can't wait for all single ladies to become miserable like them.
Ask her whether she married with dignity you'd be surprised how low she had to bring herself to be called a wife.


Wait.......look below and you will know a truly bitter/frustrated and "never finding love" Nigerian man by how they try to make you feel bad with their comments. They want you to feel low about being single so you will accept to end up with trash-bags like them. Same way they made madam sylvia ekpedeme umoh upthere feel

Ladies chill enjoy your freedom until you find someone worthy of your space.

Ladycloud:
Pheeew!!
Age is really not maturity!

Person go just dey matured with no sense...

Is marriage everything??

Ladycloud:
Pheeew!!
Age is really not maturity!

Person go just dey matured with no sense...

Is marriage everything??

Ladycloud:
Pheeew!!
Age is really not maturity!

Person go just dey matured with no sense...

Is marriage everything??

HeWrites:
A woman has some words of advice for spinsters above 35 years.

Sylvia Ekpedeme Umoh shared her advice on a Facebook group in which she said it is a shame for a single woman above 35 to celebrate her birthday and post photoshopped images on Facebook with funny styles.

Read her post below;


https://www.torimill.co/viral/9953/if-youre-single-at-35-and-still-celebrating-birthdays-shame-on-you-lady.html