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Re: "If You Are Single At 35+ And Still Celebrating Birthdays, Shame On You" - Lady by Ladyhippolyta88(f): 10:09am On Sep 28, 2018
Trendirabingi:
u are very pained, so u wld never see d truth, responsibility of a woman does not only lie on her not being an olosho...men naturally don't like n don't get close to overtly opiniated n "out of d handle" stubborn women..they don't even take them serious...

Scram out of my mentions boy I must have taken alomo bitters in order to look pained to you.
And this your post is your problem and not all men are like you.And I do not need a man that can handle me or take me serious when I pretend to be who I am not I hate pretence.
Re: "If You Are Single At 35+ And Still Celebrating Birthdays, Shame On You" - Lady by Nobody: 10:11am On Sep 28, 2018
angry
citadels:
god himself. Idiot

It paineth you, drop dead.
Re: "If You Are Single At 35+ And Still Celebrating Birthdays, Shame On You" - Lady by Nobody: 10:11am On Sep 28, 2018
Remijuice:
� Shame dey catch me for her
lol
Re: "If You Are Single At 35+ And Still Celebrating Birthdays, Shame On You" - Lady by Trendirabingi: 10:12am On Sep 28, 2018
Ladyhippolyta88:
Counter my opinions with maturity and do not tell me bullcrap the guy I quoted started using the examples I gave an excuse to why guys are unmarried and I gave him an example with G boys,drug dealers etc as to why ladies are unmarried.Everyone has their version of the truth.
I don't see any opinion u are stating here ,girl, rather wat we see here is heavy bile..d truth I believe is bitter though..but take it easy n dissect the truth n stop deviating from d point...d topic is about ladies, cropped up by a lady like urself..y do u now leave d point being addressed to hide under d cocoon of bringing men into d topic..u can just raise ur own thread n all wld understand..but as usual , those are d kind of card excuse giving women throw...counter discussions, not counter opinion..play on ur own intelligence.

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Re: "If You Are Single At 35+ And Still Celebrating Birthdays, Shame On You" - Lady by Melian(f): 10:14am On Sep 28, 2018
Ladycloud:
Pheeew!!
Age is really not maturity!

Person go just dey matured with no sense...

Is marriage everything??
Re: "If You Are Single At 35+ And Still Celebrating Birthdays, Shame On You" - Lady by abbiboy: 10:16am On Sep 28, 2018
[quote author=donstan18 post=71592641]Shot fired!! What a bitter truth! After bashing her, you all will still log out and face reality of what she said grin

Look at them, a lot of them up there wishing and saying she isn't happy with her family, all because she said the truth, all because the truth is bitter. grin

Even without being told, an evening newspaper lady should know that she has no right to celebrate birthday because she has been biologically expired, psychological traumatized, sexually useless, maritally screwed and aboki-cally suyalized.

A single lady still celebrating birthdays, going to wedding parties and still doing boyfriend/boo at 30+, is a disgrace and a big shame.

Sensible evening newspapers will do nothing to end their predicament but............


[/quote
Is marriage everything, like a sister comment.must u be unhappy all ur life just because u are a wife,life is too short so enjoy why alive!!

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Re: "If You Are Single At 35+ And Still Celebrating Birthdays, Shame On You" - Lady by trustworthy1(f): 10:16am On Sep 28, 2018
look at how she keep her hand like say done arrive.

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Re: "If You Are Single At 35+ And Still Celebrating Birthdays, Shame On You" - Lady by Itstemispet(f): 10:16am On Sep 28, 2018
Ladycloud:
Pheeew!!
Age is really not maturity!

Person go just dey matured with no sense...

Is marriage everything??





I wonder ooo
Re: "If You Are Single At 35+ And Still Celebrating Birthdays, Shame On You" - Lady by Nobody: 10:16am On Sep 28, 2018
I wanted to insult this one until I saw her ugly face grin

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Re: "If You Are Single At 35+ And Still Celebrating Birthdays, Shame On You" - Lady by Evablizin(f): 10:17am On Sep 28, 2018
Airforce01:


Dis one you're firing from all cylinders over a harmless advice , seems she hit a nerve .

If you're over 35yrs old, please go and marry.
Lol. No P.
Re: "If You Are Single At 35+ And Still Celebrating Birthdays, Shame On You" - Lady by Brightgem(f): 10:18am On Sep 28, 2018
dairykidd:

That guys comment is way too harsh sha.. People keep forgetting everyone faces a particular type of challenge in life & trying to make one feel less of a human being isn't the best way to go about it.
Don't mind the silly rabbit, everyone's story is different. Ladies who support this too, whether married or single never boast about anything in life because it's not by ur doing, and things could change any moment.

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Re: "If You Are Single At 35+ And Still Celebrating Birthdays, Shame On You" - Lady by laeffizy(f): 10:21am On Sep 28, 2018
She got married last year, i am interested in knowing how old she was as at then.

With this mentality she can't go far in life.
Re: "If You Are Single At 35+ And Still Celebrating Birthdays, Shame On You" - Lady by Trendirabingi: 10:22am On Sep 28, 2018
Ladyhippolyta88:


Scram out of my mentions boy I must have taken alomo bitters in order to look pained to you.
And this your post is your problem and not all men are like you.And I do not need a man that can handle me or take me serious when I pretend to be who I am not I hate pretence.
then u are your own very problem...pretence should even serve u better..maybe u might just get used to it..u are a very bitter I assure u...pretence n non- pretence is not d key here little girl, its d ryt n ideal thing dats d focus...no ryt thing man is after dat intolerable real u , or manageable non pretending u... But every man wants an adorable n pleasurable ryt thinking friend of a woman as a companion,..that joy n relief in dis funny world... Get ur facts ryt...

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Re: "If You Are Single At 35+ And Still Celebrating Birthdays, Shame On You" - Lady by blackgold2018(m): 10:23am On Sep 28, 2018
adedayoa2:
she's not right, we all have plans for our lives. I planned getting married age 25 but I met my fiance age 27 and he wasn't ready till I was 33. Man proposes but God disposes. There are so many things you've planned but you've not been able to achieve. Its not because you're a good or a bad person. There are some ladies who are waiting for their fiancée, some don't even want to settle down, some are tired of jumping from one relationship to another all in the name of settling down, some are tired of trying, some want a man with a particular trait. No late comer for marriage o, everybody on your own. E just be like judgement day.
But sometimes it's wise to know whn to re-plan. How on earth will u wait for someone that proposed to u for 5yrs? If I wouldn't marry someone I proposed to within 6months - 1yr period.. i'l simply tell her to move on.
Yeah I know some ladies r in their own time zone(on marriage matters) but a few fall in dat time zone category while others are not married yet at their own fault.
Re: "If You Are Single At 35+ And Still Celebrating Birthdays, Shame On You" - Lady by Ladyhippolyta88(f): 10:27am On Sep 28, 2018
How on earth does this sermon relate to my post you are just contradicting yourself

The word pained is not a new thing on this forum it is what guys tell ladies who do not share their view.
You did not give me alomo bitters so there is no way I am a bitter/pained Person this your epistle cannot work on me.So do well to swerve.I do not live my life to please anyone,men included I would never pretend.So save your fairytale for others who would buy.
Trendirabingi:
then u are your own very problem...pretence should even serve u better..maybe u might just get used to it..u are a very bitter I assure u...pretence n non- pretence is not d key here little girl, its d ryt n ideal thing dats d focus...no ryt thing man is after dat intolerable real u , or manageable non pretending u... But every man wants an adorable n pleasurable ryt thinking friend of a woman as a companion,..that joy n relief in dis funny world... Get ur facts ryt...

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Re: "If You Are Single At 35+ And Still Celebrating Birthdays, Shame On You" - Lady by adedayoa2(f): 10:27am On Sep 28, 2018
blackgold2018:
But sometimes it's wise to know whn to re-plan. How on earth will u wait for someone that proposed to u for 5yrs? If I wouldn't marry someone I proposed to within 6months - 1yr period.. i'l simply tell her to move on. Yeah I know some ladies r in their own time zone(on marriage matters) but a few fall in dat time zone category while others are not married yet at their own fault.
that only implies you don't know what you want. Tell her to go? When she's all you want? She's the devil you know, except she's not what you want. So don't go out there insulting every 35 years or more old single lady, plenty of them are as pure as white. I really don't like involving myself in this kind of matter even when I was single but how do I speak for the girls. And I see people who think all single are wayward as been shallow minded.
Re: "If You Are Single At 35+ And Still Celebrating Birthdays, Shame On You" - Lady by Nobody: 10:28am On Sep 28, 2018
MARKone:


Some of you guys the way your brain works is baffling. Why haven't you at your age become a millionaire or billionaire, with mansion everywhere or you think your age mates are not hitting it big, big time, you must be irresponsible then. Think deep before you spew out nonsense, some women above 30 might be held back because of one issue beyond their control or just a personal decision. I just tire for you people.
it baffles me too. I wonder why nairaland should be used as a medium to bash ladies almost every time?
Re: "If You Are Single At 35+ And Still Celebrating Birthdays, Shame On You" - Lady by Dafreeguy(m): 10:29am On Sep 28, 2018
Ladyhippolyta88:


Yes I would rather be a singlemother and happy with my kids walk down he aisle at 50 with a good companion.
Than be a wife at 25 living in misery with a stranger.

Also if I become a singlemother the children are for my benefit along with my last name and so I do not expect the man to play a part so no wizkid saga I decided to play the role alone he only donated the sperm.
Only an unreasonable man wud be glad to play d game of impregnating u more than once witout d thought of marrying u..a dumb woman wud also succumb to such game..My point is be prepare to settle with just a kid or be a mother to kids from an irresponsible man
Re: "If You Are Single At 35+ And Still Celebrating Birthdays, Shame On You" - Lady by Ladycloud(f): 10:33am On Sep 28, 2018
Not at all
joenor:
ppl when marry early n still can have peace in the marriage, is that one marriage?
Re: "If You Are Single At 35+ And Still Celebrating Birthdays, Shame On You" - Lady by Ladycloud(f): 10:33am On Sep 28, 2018
Yes o
. Very bad mentality
Deltatoto:
yes it is if u are not married u are a failure
Re: "If You Are Single At 35+ And Still Celebrating Birthdays, Shame On You" - Lady by Ladycloud(f): 10:34am On Sep 28, 2018
Too bad
omooba969:


It's an achievement for most Nigerian ladies. grin
Re: "If You Are Single At 35+ And Still Celebrating Birthdays, Shame On You" - Lady by blackgold2018(m): 10:34am On Sep 28, 2018
adedayoa2:
that only implies you don't know what you want. Tell her to go? When she's all you want? She's the devil you know, except she's not what you want. So don't go out there insulting every 35 years or more old single lady, plenty of them are as pure as white. I really don't like involving myself in this kind of matter even when I was single but how do I speak for the girls. And I see people who think all single are wayward as been shallow minded.
I get your point but u don't seem to comprehend my own phrases n point. I never said "all single ladies".
Re: "If You Are Single At 35+ And Still Celebrating Birthdays, Shame On You" - Lady by pocohantas(f): 10:34am On Sep 28, 2018
CaptainMitch:
Pocohantas right now.

Lol. 34 and 35+ are not the same.

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Re: "If You Are Single At 35+ And Still Celebrating Birthdays, Shame On You" - Lady by Ladyhippolyta88(f): 10:34am On Sep 28, 2018
Dafreeguy:
Only an unreasonable man wud be glad to play d game of impregnating u more than once witout d thought of marrying u..a dumb woman wud also succumb to such game..My point is be prepare to settle with just a kid or be a mother to kids from an irresponsible man

Now you know who is responsible.
If there is no sperm bank.My second option would be
A man who is in a no strings attached relationship(unmarried no relationship older or younger) can do the job so no need hitting your head on the wall because of my post.

And I am too responsible to have children with an irresponsible man.And I am not dumb especially after planning it perfectly.
It is my life not yours.

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Re: "If You Are Single At 35+ And Still Celebrating Birthdays, Shame On You" - Lady by Ladycloud(f): 10:34am On Sep 28, 2018
Thanks
Zane2point4:

You fine o.

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Re: "If You Are Single At 35+ And Still Celebrating Birthdays, Shame On You" - Lady by CaptainMitch: 10:35am On Sep 28, 2018
cheesy it's just a year's difference, you are almost there, how do you do?
pocohantas:


Lol. 34 and 35+ are not the same.
Re: "If You Are Single At 35+ And Still Celebrating Birthdays, Shame On You" - Lady by Fourwinds: 10:36am On Sep 28, 2018
Ladycloud:
Pheeew!!
Age is really not maturity!

Person go just dey matured with no sense...

Is marriage everything??
kai...I want to marry u...
Re: "If You Are Single At 35+ And Still Celebrating Birthdays, Shame On You" - Lady by adedayoa2(f): 10:36am On Sep 28, 2018
blackgold2018:
I get your point but u don't seem to comprehend my own phrases n point. I never said "all single ladies".
ok
Re: "If You Are Single At 35+ And Still Celebrating Birthdays, Shame On You" - Lady by Duru009(m): 10:38am On Sep 28, 2018
Ladycloud:
Pheeew!!
Age is really not maturity!

Person go just dey matured with no sense...

Is marriage everything??


Societally, marriage is everything m dear

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Re: "If You Are Single At 35+ And Still Celebrating Birthdays, Shame On You" - Lady by Shugavee(f): 10:39am On Sep 28, 2018
manikspears:


ok,so by your standards everybody is free to have children out of wedlock with whoever they like as long as the other person meets your specs,ok.so that is part of the feminism ideal.if i may ask those feminism comes with child support from the man who impregnates you or it is just a one woman thingy?

i am not talking about feminism,,, n yes the man should take up his responsiblity ,but if he doesn’t I am well able to takecare of my kid,, then he/she would answer my surname.
Re: "If You Are Single At 35+ And Still Celebrating Birthdays, Shame On You" - Lady by Ladycloud(f): 10:39am On Sep 28, 2018
Societally you say Is it supposed to be that way?
Duru009:



Societally, marriage is everything m dear
Re: "If You Are Single At 35+ And Still Celebrating Birthdays, Shame On You" - Lady by Nobody: 10:41am On Sep 28, 2018
redefinition of insanity and stupidity combined!

I've seen several responsible, above 35, yet unmarried ladies..... probably due to ill lucky or reasons I can't phatom!

desperation will only push ladies to some undeserving scumbag!

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