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Re: Nairalanders Please Help Me Quit Masturbation by monte231(m): 6:25am On Oct 11, 2018
Joystark:



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Re: Nairalanders Please Help Me Quit Masturbation by Flickzvill(m): 6:26am On Oct 11, 2018
IamPlato:
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You Be New Member Na. I Have Been in the Club For 47years Now. Glory To God!
oh wow me Sha 7 to 8 years now let me ask you something, are you married yet?
Re: Nairalanders Please Help Me Quit Masturbation by judajix(m): 6:28am On Oct 11, 2018
Mokenano:
I started masturbating July 2017, tho I enjoyed it the first time but it keeps going on and on to the extent that I can't do without masturbating at least 4 times a day. I started doing things I don't do before, anytime I see a girl, the first thing that comes to my mind is her unclothedness and how she's gonna look down there.

Then I started masturbating with naked pictures in my mind, later with nude pictures, later Nude Gif images and now I watch porn cry . I'm not happy with this and I don't know how to stop it.

I'm thinking of telling this friend of mine Vivian, she preaches the word of God to me and pray with me as well maybe she can pray for me but I'm scared she might see me as a bad guy and start avoiding me.

Nairalanders please help me, I'm just 20yrs old.


Or just download porn reboot app from playstore

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Re: Nairalanders Please Help Me Quit Masturbation by wakes: 6:28am On Oct 11, 2018
Mokenano:
I started masturbating July 2017, tho I enjoyed it the first time but it keeps going on and on to the extent that I can't do without masturbating at least 4 times a day. I started doing things I don't do before, anytime I see a girl, the first thing that comes to my mind is her unclothedness and how she's gonna look down there.

Then I started masturbating with naked pictures in my mind, later with nude pictures, later Nude Gif images and now I watch porn cry . I'm not happy with this and I don't know how to stop it.

I'm thinking of telling this friend of mine Vivian, she preaches the word of God to me and pray with me as well maybe she can pray for me but I'm scared she might see me as a bad guy and start avoiding me.

Nairalanders please help me, I'm just 20yrs old.
One thing that helped me was to quickly think about something else as soon as the thought of masturbation surfaced. It may not be easy for a start. And fill your mind with positive stuff. Watch godly movies, read good Christian books. You may consider going for counselling with your Pastor. You shall surely overcome. I wish you well. Blessings!

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Re: Nairalanders Please Help Me Quit Masturbation by GIFTD: 6:30am On Oct 11, 2018
Offpoint:

It doesn't work that way sir...
yes of course the only solution is in Jesus Christ alone. E-mail me and I will tell u because I've gotten it. Thanks
Mokenano:
I started masturbating July 2017, tho I enjoyed it the first time but it keeps going on and on to the extent that I can't do without masturbating at least 4 times a day. I started doing things I don't do before, anytime I see a girl, the first thing that comes to my mind is her unclothedness and how she's gonna look down there.

Then I started masturbating with naked pictures in my mind, later with nude pictures, later Nude Gif images and now I watch porn cry . I'm not happy with this and I don't know how to stop it.

I'm thinking of telling this friend of mine Vivian, she preaches the word of God to me and pray with me as well maybe she can pray for me but I'm scared she might see me as a bad guy and start avoiding me.

Nairalanders please help me, I'm just 20yrs old.
Re: Nairalanders Please Help Me Quit Masturbation by frozen70(f): 6:31am On Oct 11, 2018
One thing is knowing your problems and another thing is willing to get it solved

If you are of age to have a girlfriend and when it comes to bleeping time you will sort out the venue then get one

Your male testosterone is responsible for that intense urge, you are at the stage so it will keep pumping up until you control it

Think more of your future progress than female image

The more you fundle with your dick the more you stress the muscles there, it will get to a stage your dick will lose its natural strength

By then you would have had enough of masturbation and then settle down for marriage

If your dick as a result of the trouble you have subjected to, can't be erected as expected of a real man, that means you are going to have a very big problem with with your woman

No woman wants to manage a dysfunctional dick with a man rather she will sort herself else where

Now tell me, is this what you are willing to face for life, incase it happens?

Get close to your bible, get close to Vivian and she will preach God goodness in your life

You don't need to tell her anything about your mastubation and don't lust for her

Watch less of porn and think less of naked females

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Re: Nairalanders Please Help Me Quit Masturbation by Cypher99(m): 6:32am On Oct 11, 2018
Have control over your mind.
Re: Nairalanders Please Help Me Quit Masturbation by Jumbus31(m): 6:32am On Oct 11, 2018
Kingsley1000:
Take nwamaikpe advice at your own peril
Lol.. that guy is not human aswear.
Re: Nairalanders Please Help Me Quit Masturbation by seansifo(m): 6:33am On Oct 11, 2018
Mokenano:
I started masturbating July 2017, tho I enjoyed it the first time but it keeps going on and on to the extent that I can't do without masturbating at least 4 times a day. I started doing things I don't do before, anytime I see a girl, the first thing that comes to my mind is her unclothedness and how she's gonna look down there.

Then I started masturbating with naked pictures in my mind, later with nude pictures, later Nude Gif images and now I watch porn cry . I'm not happy with this and I don't know how to stop it.

I'm thinking of telling this friend of mine Vivian, she preaches the word of God to me and pray with me as well maybe she can pray for me but I'm scared she might see me as a bad guy and start avoiding me.

Nairalanders please help me, I'm just 20yrs old.


I can relate with what all you've said masurvsting 4 times a day and the likes. Can you give me s call on this 0701 578 0861 (when you call I'll give you my main number registered with WhatsApp) I believe by God's grace I can help you since I've been in you shoes in the past.

Sir believe me reading 20 principles to stop masturbation would only work for a while and before you know it you're in again. I have things to tell you but I can't do that here for some reasons but I bet you're never regret contacting me because I'm convinced the God that delivered me from it us still able and more than able to deliver you. Believe me masturbation is demonic and it can only get worst I refused to allow God to deliver you. I look forward seeing your call if you still need help
Re: Nairalanders Please Help Me Quit Masturbation by greatpaul2004(m): 6:36am On Oct 11, 2018
My dear friend, masturbating is one of the tools the devil used to delay most young people.
Stopping isn't easy I must confess but one of the best ways to stop masturbating is-
*Avoid being alone.
*Get busy doing something that will task your mind.
*speak to a trusted matured friend about it.
*know that God will help u.
*try to consciously avoid doing it for 30days.
*You are a Great man.. U can stop it.

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Re: Nairalanders Please Help Me Quit Masturbation by Gaddafiyusf(m): 6:36am On Oct 11, 2018
Learnstuffs:
First of all, stop staying in a lonely room most of the time.
Get a girlfriend or female friend
Try and keep yourself busy with something like work or anything
Avoid porn site
Read your Bible

I'm Muslim
Re: Nairalanders Please Help Me Quit Masturbation by monte231(m): 6:40am On Oct 11, 2018
BecaciaBarbie:
Wait guys.... Do you all masturbate? shocked shocked sad

That's pathetic! Please stop it.. How do you even enjoy self sexual pleasure? No way... I can never understand this...and it is disgusting and shameful too...not judging, just being honest.

By the way op, it is fine okay? You can control this, don't listen to those guys encouraging you to go on with it, trust me...they are also going through this same guilt. This could actually destroy your self esteem, I have seen it doing that to some guys I know and you could go to the extent of doing it in public places, where you could get caught and that could be really shameful.
I love how chaste your comment sounds. Are unmarried?
Re: Nairalanders Please Help Me Quit Masturbation by Kay25(m): 6:42am On Oct 11, 2018
When asking for help be mindful of those you entrust yourself to not those ones who don't see a need for a change and are happy with d way it is..bro all u need do still young get active fill yourself with rightful knowledge learn something new that's the only way you can stop having much thought about ladies though you can't stop having a thought.seek good counsel and walk with the right people learn also to control your urges you can I did
Re: Nairalanders Please Help Me Quit Masturbation by tropaz(m): 6:44am On Oct 11, 2018
WeirdWolf:

How did you come about this?

I'm talking from experience sir

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Re: Nairalanders Please Help Me Quit Masturbation by paito: 6:48am On Oct 11, 2018
Jesus is the only way you are now addicted to it and there is s demon helping you.kindly go for deliverance @ a Bible believing church
Re: Nairalanders Please Help Me Quit Masturbation by Offpoint: 6:49am On Oct 11, 2018
GIFTD:
yes of course the only solution is in Jesus Christ alone. E-mail me and I will tell u because I've gotten it. Thanks
Lol, I only masturbate once in a blue moon and I don't do it for the pleasure... you won't understand what I mean here.
Re: Nairalanders Please Help Me Quit Masturbation by Tenn88: 6:49am On Oct 11, 2018
So many self-service stars[color=#990000][/color] sad
Re: Nairalanders Please Help Me Quit Masturbation by Olatunji1929: 6:50am On Oct 11, 2018
Masturbation is like bet9ja 95% of guys are members of the club
Re: Nairalanders Please Help Me Quit Masturbation by Basalt(m): 6:53am On Oct 11, 2018
MissRaine69:

We are not on that level you and I
I don't understand what you mean by we are not on that level
I need your honest response please
Re: Nairalanders Please Help Me Quit Masturbation by ikorodureporta: 6:53am On Oct 11, 2018
Kwarrapt ppl
Re: Nairalanders Please Help Me Quit Masturbation by passey: 6:54am On Oct 11, 2018
Mokenano:
I started masturbating July 2017, tho I enjoyed it the first time but it keeps going on and on to the extent that I can't do without masturbating at least 4 times a day. I started doing things I don't do before, anytime I see a girl, the first thing that comes to my mind is her unclothedness and how she's gonna look down there.

Then I started masturbating with naked pictures in my mind, later with nude pictures, later Nude Gif images and now I watch porn cry . I'm not happy with this and I don't know how to stop it.

I'm thinking of telling this friend of mine Vivian, she preaches the word of God to me and pray with me as well maybe she can pray for me but I'm scared she might see me as a bad guy and start avoiding me.

Nairalanders please help me, I'm just 20yrs old.

Just stop being alone by yourself!

It is a conscious act, just STOP!
Re: Nairalanders Please Help Me Quit Masturbation by akinszz: 6:59am On Oct 11, 2018
Mokenano:
I started masturbating July 2017, tho I enjoyed it the first time but it keeps going on and on to the extent that I can't do without masturbating at least 4 times a day. I started doing things I don't do before, anytime I see a girl, the first thing that comes to my mind is her unclothedness and how she's gonna look down there.

Then I started masturbating with naked pictures in my mind, later with nude pictures, later Nude Gif images and now I watch porn cry . I'm not happy with this and I don't know how to stop it.

I'm thinking of telling this friend of mine Vivian, she preaches the word of God to me and pray with me as well maybe she can pray for me but I'm scared she might see me as a bad guy and start avoiding me.

Nairalanders please help me, I'm just 20yrs old.
only deliverance can save you...
Re: Nairalanders Please Help Me Quit Masturbation by kizwid(m): 7:01am On Oct 11, 2018
falcon01:
To quit is simple
Note you can never stop it completely you can only reduce it to a point of 1 per month, like me now I masturbate 3 times per month sometimes I can go 2 months I used to be an addict but the fear of impotency and losing the sensitivenes of my penis made me stopped.
1. Dont feel.bad about yourself for wanting consider it normal its your body.
2. Reduce your Masturbation to twice a day 1 when you wake up and one at night.
3. Drink lot of water as it helps to increase your sperm due to fact that you ate an addict and this means your sperm count is getting low
4. Try reducing indecency thoughts
5. Keep yourself busy during the day



point 4 and 5 make it all.... expecially indecency thought, it has helped me and stilling helping...and always avoid been in isolation, of which is not possible all time. but when u are in ur alone time and the thought trigger, make sure your not want to do thought wins by simply move out of ur isolation... the best antidote is the get your self a girl....
op.. can kill can the desire all, but will surely time time..and trust worthy frnd....
Re: Nairalanders Please Help Me Quit Masturbation by Israel5(m): 7:01am On Oct 11, 2018
visit any Dunamis church (preferably Abuja Area 1) and give your life to Christ. confess your challenge to the counsellor. Grace will be released to you.
Re: Nairalanders Please Help Me Quit Masturbation by KingRex1(m): 7:08am On Oct 11, 2018
MissRaine69:
Let’s call this what it is . An addiction, praying is not going to resolve this, it’s nothing to feel ashamed about.
1. Find an outlet for your time and energy if you have to take up sport or any other hobby so be it
2. Make a plan for avoiding masturbation during your go to times of the day.-
3. Limit your solitude
4. Stop watching porn on your computer/phone if you have to switch from a smart phone to a basic one for 3-5 days this will be a good step
6.Be persistent some days will he harder than others
7. Stop punishing yourself.
8. Don't believe the myths about the harms of masturbation. If you want to stop your masturbation addiction, then you should do it for reasons that are personal and moral, not for reasons that are health-related.

Here are some things that masturbation will not do to your body
Masturbation will not cause infertility, premature ejaculation, or impotence.
Masturbation will not cause insanity.
Masturbation will not cause blindness or even eye floaters.
Masturbation will not cause frequent urination.
Masturbation does not affect facial hair, growth, facial features, kidneys, testicles, cause skin problems, or cause any major physical issues! These are all myths.

9. Know that it will get better.
Maybe your goal isn't to stop masturbating completely, but just to limit your masturbation to a healthy amount, such as once or twice a day. That's perfectly fine, too. If you have the belief that you really can win this battle, you'll be much more likely to succeed than if you're constantly second-guessing yourself.
That being said, there may be days when you have relapses. This is a normal part of the recovery process. Don't become discouraged. Believe in yourself.
Reiterating this!
Re: Nairalanders Please Help Me Quit Masturbation by madgoat(m): 7:09am On Oct 11, 2018
Just get a bigger jar of vaseline and some nice pix of busty girls and fire on. Make sure you lubricate your rod well to avoid friction kiss
Welcome to the club

Re: Nairalanders Please Help Me Quit Masturbation by Sicilyjoe: 7:11am On Oct 11, 2018
Learnstuffs:
First of all, stop staying in a lonely room most of the time.
Get a girlfriend or female friend
Try and keep yourself busy with something like work or anything
Avoid porn site
Read your Bible

Is easy for u guys to say get a girlfriend as if is free or easy to maintain a girlfriend withOut money
Re: Nairalanders Please Help Me Quit Masturbation by Nobody: 7:13am On Oct 11, 2018
Offpoint:
4 times a day? do you want to exhaust your offspring before 30? get a job bro.
Masturbation is like cultism, once you get in you can't get out. only you can save yourself now, you're stuck bro... till eternity, the only improvement in the future will be less of it, you can't stop it. your body will crave for it, your minds wants it, your conscience will eat you after the act, then there will come a time you'll no longer feel guilty about it and that's the end of the battle, you'll be stuck with it.
they'll advice you to talk to someone, but the truth remains... nobody on earth can be with you 24/7 not even your parents.
They'll advice you get a girlfriend, here you'll become sex addict... lemme stop here

The best known way to stop masturbation is NOT to start MASTUBATION.



Modified:
Because I said "you can't stop it" they're coming for my head. just because you haven't masturbate in the last past 2 years doesn't mean you've stopped it. don't let them deceive you, those who claimed they've stop don't really stop it. they still do it at least once in a year.

everything is possible if you're determined to do it, I stopped masturbating in the December 2015 and everything since I don't do that sh!t till date, although I'm married now and I do stay three to four days without sex, that simply means I'm not a sex addict. Everything is possible if you're willing to
Re: Nairalanders Please Help Me Quit Masturbation by Bogrey: 7:14am On Oct 11, 2018
My brother stop beating yourself up. It happened to the best of us and still happening to some. I understand the self guilt it comes with. I will advise you start working on your mind positively. The negative feeling you have after each moment is enough conviction to stop. First try reducing( eventually eliminate) your exposure to those things that drive you to masturbate. E.g Porn, unclad pics etc. Try very much to engage as much, your mind in useful activities to reduce idle mind. Notwithstanding, you may occasionally still masturbate, but don't beat yourself up, it messes your self esteem. Consistently engage your mind and also reduce isolating yourself. Above all, since you are Christian, believe in your salvation to overcome.
Mokenano:
I started masturbating July 2017, tho I enjoyed it the first time but it keeps going on and on to the extent that I can't do without masturbating at least 4 times a day. I started doing things I don't do before, anytime I see a girl, the first thing that comes to my mind is her unclothedness and how she's gonna look down there.

Then I started masturbating with naked pictures in my mind, later with nude pictures, later Nude Gif images and now I watch porn cry . I'm not happy with this and I don't know how to stop it.

I'm thinking of telling this friend of mine Vivian, she preaches the word of God to me and pray with me as well maybe she can pray for me but I'm scared she might see me as a bad guy and start avoiding me.

Nairalanders please help me, I'm just 20yrs old.
Re: Nairalanders Please Help Me Quit Masturbation by husbandsnatcha(f): 7:16am On Oct 11, 2018
Westaslave2:
wat an advice vivian, but guys lyk okenwaa n co nid father mbaka 2 deliver dem frm masturbation!



lmao ...dnt mind dos conji boys
Re: Nairalanders Please Help Me Quit Masturbation by husbandsnatcha(f): 7:17am On Oct 11, 2018
Thebwoy:


Sex is good
u can say it again!

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