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Re: I Am Thinking Of Quitting My Relationship, Please Advise Me On What To Do by Whataworld: 9:29am On Oct 16, 2018
nho4:
Sorry to say young man but obviously you are a fool....same thing goes to any young man out there undergoing emotional trauma all in the name of keeping a girlfriend.

To hell with ladies and those dating them.
Why must you subject yourself to such emotional agony just because of a mere lady you are senior to with almost 6 years and you are here crying like a sissy.

I will never encourage my worse enemy to go into what you guys call girlfriend relationship that turns men into puppets.

Dating is a way of placing yourself under emotional slavery. Your Heart and mind keep bleeding at all time and before you realizes what is going on you will start battling with one health issue or the other all because of nothing.

Look at the rate at which our men are dying and the cause is directly and indirectly due to the fact that they want to please women and that is why women have taken advantage of us.
Women should be the one begging us to date them and not the other way round.

I once dated a lady who thought she was doing me a favour for dating me...the moment I realised it, I simply placed her where she belonged by severing myself from her.... When she realized it, she was now the one forcing herself on me and she was trying to get me back but it was too late for her because my mind was already made up to be single and happy....that was the best decision I ever made in my life and I never regretted it till this moment.



Men have become almost nothing in the hands of women and yet vast majority of our young men are thronging in the wrong direction all in the name of love that doesn't exist.

Believe it or not" Love doesn't exist between girlfriend and boyfriend.

Real love only exists between mother and child...

I bet you the number one reason our young men, including you allow yourselves to be traumatized emotionally is simply because of sex.

You don't need to have a girlfriend before you can have sex with ladies.

Instead of killing yourself emotionally dump that girl and be free, because you were born free...don't allow anybody to put you in bondage all because of sex you can get easily.

I don't do relationships or dates and I am the happiest person all because I am free emotionally.... I sleep like a baby without having to worry if my partner is cheating on me because I have no fucking girlfriend.

Each time sexual urge comes in, I simply walk down to the nearest ASHAWO JOINT in my vicinity to ease off the urge with just N1000, and I am relaxed. I am in control of my happiness and not any fucking lady.

I am in control of females around me because they can't control me with their pussies and they have regard for me....because I don't own them a dime.

If you don't belittle yourself as a man all because of sex, women will respect you...but is unfortunate that most of our young men have reduced themselves to power zero in the hands of ladies just because of sex.

All I can tell you is that you own the key to your happiness...
powerful.

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Re: I Am Thinking Of Quitting My Relationship, Please Advise Me On What To Do by Tinalex(f): 9:30am On Oct 16, 2018
Awwww...few of the good guys who will turn bad cos a woman played ludo with his emotions. Please leave her ok, you are obviously new in the system and 30years at that. Choi...you shall soon find one who will value you as much as you value her ok. By the time she realises what she lost....you are already gone and happily enjoying your relationship by then...pele ok

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Re: I Am Thinking Of Quitting My Relationship, Please Advise Me On What To Do by ojuikwu: 9:30am On Oct 16, 2018
u be confirm bastard guy,how can u allow such olosjo in ur life.ur parents supposed to exchange u with lanter

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Re: I Am Thinking Of Quitting My Relationship, Please Advise Me On What To Do by Hassan88(m): 9:30am On Oct 16, 2018
My guy, since u done Bleep her make u jst waka ur way except say u neva Bleep her b4 now. Meanwhile i will vehemently advice u to kindly but not gently give her the last cruel fucking of her life that she will neva forget in a hurry but no give am belle oo. I repeat, no score goal oo.

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Re: I Am Thinking Of Quitting My Relationship, Please Advise Me On What To Do by pornhub: 9:31am On Oct 16, 2018
Bruv. Screen shot the fb convos with her ex and others then send to her on WhatsApp. Don't say a word.

You'll know what to do next.

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Re: I Am Thinking Of Quitting My Relationship, Please Advise Me On What To Do by ojuikwu: 9:31am On Oct 16, 2018
ojuikwu:
u be confirm bastard guy,how can u allow such olosjo in ur life.ur parents supposed to exchange u with lanter
mumu flat
Re: I Am Thinking Of Quitting My Relationship, Please Advise Me On What To Do by Ategberoson(m): 9:31am On Oct 16, 2018
you guys should know one thing today. out of 100% only 20% of girls from 18 to 25 can be relied on, on relationship matters


many of these young girls still believe they're young and need to enjoy life before they get serious in a relationship or marriage that's why is hard to see a 20+ ladies that's still a virgin lately


I'm surprise after catching her numerous time you still decide to have hard feelings with such person? will call them pass time then in school


I was expecting to read you are seeing another Lady in your last write up because you're dating a corporate olosho, you need to be very careful when making love to such girl sef before she will give you disease



get along with her, reduce everything you dashed her gifts or money, let the fvck period increase the more. she's obvious sticking with u because she's yet to get a rich dude that would relieved you of your duty



find a serious single lady from the age of 28 if you really need a serious relationship while at that keep that hoe for your pleasure satisfaction

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Re: I Am Thinking Of Quitting My Relationship, Please Advise Me On What To Do by KiZiie(m): 9:31am On Oct 16, 2018
Clear case of emotional blackmail. Been there, done that. [Wipes shoulders for invincible dust ]
Well my playa' first and flowmost, you shouldn't have gone through her texts. Now I know how tempting this can be, Coming from a guy who had always been looking for how to hack accounts in the first place, hehe. But still... It's wrong. Total invasion of privacy.

Secondly, you not breaking up with her is letting your self down, invariably placing yourself second for someone who seemingly betrayed you! Yes she may still love you but wants to still be able to maintain a level of lifestyle you're currently not ready for... My good man, I say to hell with the relationship! And just like me... Date when you have your stuff together.

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Re: I Am Thinking Of Quitting My Relationship, Please Advise Me On What To Do by MzTunechi(f): 9:32am On Oct 16, 2018
Lol at he should mention your moniker
seyigiggle:
tell her say they see vision say una no fit match.
if she ask you who the prophet be mention ma moniker.

by the way you better find something serious to loose energy on.

she is just using you, hope your pocket is not suffering it?

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Re: I Am Thinking Of Quitting My Relationship, Please Advise Me On What To Do by uthlaw: 9:32am On Oct 16, 2018
nho4:
Sorry to say young man but obviously you are a fool....same thing goes to any young man out there undergoing emotional trauma all in the name of keeping a girlfriend.

To hell with ladies and those dating them.
Why must you subject yourself to such emotional agony just because of a mere lady you are senior to with almost 6 years and you are here crying like a sissy.

I will never encourage my worse enemy to go into what you guys call girlfriend relationship that turns men into puppets.

Dating is a way of placing yourself under emotional slavery. Your Heart and mind keep bleeding at all time and before you realizes what is going on you will start battling with one health issue or the other all because of nothing.

Look at the rate at which our men are dying and the cause is directly and indirectly due to the fact that they want to please women and that is why women have taken advantage of us.
Women should be the one begging us to date them and not the other way round.

I once dated a lady who thought she was doing me a favour for dating me...the moment I realised it, I simply placed her where she belonged by severing myself from her.... When she realized it, she was now the one forcing herself on me and she was trying to get me back but it was too late for her because my mind was already made up to be single and happy....that was the best decision I ever made in my life and I never regretted it till this moment.



Men have become almost nothing in the hands of women and yet vast majority of our young men are thronging in the wrong direction all in the name of love that doesn't exist.

Believe it or not" Love doesn't exist between girlfriend and boyfriend.

Real love only exists between mother and child...

I bet you the number one reason our young men, including you allow yourselves to be traumatized emotionally is simply because of sex.

You don't need to have a girlfriend before you can have sex with ladies.

Instead of killing yourself emotionally dump that girl and be free, because you were born free...don't allow anybody to put you in bondage all because of sex you can get easily.

I don't do relationships or dates and I am the happiest person all because I am free emotionally.... I sleep like a baby without having to worry if my partner is cheating on me because I have no fucking girlfriend.

Each time sexual urge comes in, I simply walk down to the nearest ASHAWO JOINT in my vicinity to ease off the urge with just N1000, and I am relaxed. I am in control of my happiness and not any fucking lady.

I am in control of females around me because they can't control me with their pussies and they have regard for me....because I don't own them a dime.

If you don't belittle yourself as a man all because of sex, women will respect you...but is unfortunate that most of our young men have reduced themselves to power zero in the hands of ladies just because of sex.

All I can tell you is that you own the key to your happiness...
mehn you box my head this morning.i salute you three times.

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Re: I Am Thinking Of Quitting My Relationship, Please Advise Me On What To Do by manlawal(m): 9:32am On Oct 16, 2018
Triniti:
Baba, forget about this girl and move on, your life presently does not need divided attention. You should focus more now on having stable source of income




It shall not be well with anybody that wish you bad, since I have been doing what you say above na girls dey rush me now but I still focus make den carry their wahala go meet buhari. Sense will not kill u

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Re: I Am Thinking Of Quitting My Relationship, Please Advise Me On What To Do by abdulwizzy(m): 9:32am On Oct 16, 2018
Bro just end the relationship she's obviously cheating on you, once your girlfriend doesnt pick your calls at night and later calls in the morning with flimsy excuses multiple times, she is obviously cheating. She's probably cheating with multiple partners, just save yourself the stress, I dated a girl like that once, when she started with all this attitude I called the relationship off. It hurts but you just have to, and unfortunately girls like that are over protective.
P.S they can beg and cry for Africa when you catch them in an act, but they can also lie for the world..

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Re: I Am Thinking Of Quitting My Relationship, Please Advise Me On What To Do by eflintsone(m): 9:33am On Oct 16, 2018
major reason why i choose to stay far from ladies lately
no matter how faithful you are they will still play you and act like the victim (my bf broke my heart) thing

please bro walk out of that relationship quickly

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Re: I Am Thinking Of Quitting My Relationship, Please Advise Me On What To Do by Itzurboi(m): 9:33am On Oct 16, 2018
Some guys can be very funny, how on earth will you be seeking advice over a lady when there are other productive things you can seek advise for, or channel your energy into... Op your head has "gbe iso"(carry nails)...
You need to understand that "Women" issue falls in place when you stress yourself less... Dammie 2018

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Re: I Am Thinking Of Quitting My Relationship, Please Advise Me On What To Do by safarigirl(f): 9:34am On Oct 16, 2018
Some people are here bragging about how they are flirting with HIV in a bid to avoid women.


If all of you were not dating the wrong women, why would you think the only thing women have to offer you is sex? In the same way, women assume the only thing men have to offer them is money


All of you with such disgusting ideas of Tue opposite sex have psychological issues..... You all need to change your perspective and change your mentalities.


Relationships are not working because both men and women in this country have the wrong idea of a relationship. If women were not collecting money from men, nobody would take them for granted. And if men were not getting sex from women, nobody will take them for granted. Both men and women are in useless relationships filled with insults because of sex and money. A woman will insult you because you don't have money and a man will insult you because you are collecting his money.


All of you need to reevaluate your lives and ask yourself what the person in your life can do for you aside money and sex. There is more to a relationship than those things and it is only when you find that 'more' with someone that you will appreciate a relationship.


Maybe when you have finished smashing ashawo with 1k, she will listen to how your day went and offer you advice on your business venture. I don't even believe in the concept of love, but things like trust, respect and understanding are important in a relationship and most of you don't have that.


I feel sad for this generation

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Re: I Am Thinking Of Quitting My Relationship, Please Advise Me On What To Do by nevplus(m): 9:34am On Oct 16, 2018
nho4:
Sorry to say young man but obviously you are a fool....same thing goes to any young man out there undergoing emotional trauma all in the name of keeping a girlfriend.

To hell with ladies and those dating them.
Why must you subject yourself to such emotional agony just because of a mere lady you are senior to with almost 6 years and you are here crying like a sissy.

I will never encourage my worse enemy to go into what you guys call girlfriend relationship that turns men into puppets.

Dating is a way of placing yourself under emotional slavery. Your Heart and mind keep bleeding at all time and before you realizes what is going on you will start battling with one health issue or the other all because of nothing.

Look at the rate at which our men are dying and the cause is directly and indirectly due to the fact that they want to please women and that is why women have taken advantage of us.
Women should be the one begging us to date them and not the other way round.

I once dated a lady who thought she was doing me a favour for dating me...the moment I realised it, I simply placed her where she belonged by severing myself from her.... When she realized it, she was now the one forcing herself on me and she was trying to get me back but it was too late for her because my mind was already made up to be single and happy....that was the best decision I ever made in my life and I never regretted it till this moment.



Men have become almost nothing in the hands of women and yet vast majority of our young men are thronging in the wrong direction all in the name of love that doesn't exist.

Believe it or not" Love doesn't exist between girlfriend and boyfriend.

Real love only exists between mother and child...

I bet you the number one reason our young men, including you allow yourselves to be traumatized emotionally is simply because of sex.

You don't need to have a girlfriend before you can have sex with ladies.

Instead of killing yourself emotionally dump that girl and be free, because you were born free...don't allow anybody to put you in bondage all because of sex you can get easily.

I don't do relationships or dates and I am the happiest person all because I am free emotionally.... I sleep like a baby without having to worry if my partner is cheating on me because I have no fucking girlfriend.

Each time sexual urge comes in, I simply walk down to the nearest ASHAWO JOINT in my vicinity to ease off the urge with just N1000, and I am relaxed. I am in control of my happiness and not any fucking lady.

I am in control of females around me because they can't control me with their pussies and they have regard for me....because I don't own them a dime.

If you don't belittle yourself as a man all because of sex, women will respect you...but is unfortunate that most of our young men have reduced themselves to power zero in the hands of ladies just because of sex.

All I can tell you is that you own the key to your happiness...
you made my day,thanks dude

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Re: I Am Thinking Of Quitting My Relationship, Please Advise Me On What To Do by Tinalex(f): 9:34am On Oct 16, 2018
nho4:
Sorry to say young man but obviously you are a fool....same thing goes to any young man out there undergoing emotional trauma all in the name of keeping a girlfriend.

To hell with ladies and those dating them.
Why must you subject yourself to such emotional agony just because of a mere lady you are senior to with almost 6 years and you are here crying like a sissy.

I will never encourage my worse enemy to go into what you guys call girlfriend relationship that turns men into puppets.

Dating is a way of placing yourself under emotional slavery. Your Heart and mind keep bleeding at all time and before you realizes what is going on you will start battling with one health issue or the other all because of nothing.

Look at the rate at which our men are dying and the cause is directly and indirectly due to the fact that they want to please women and that is why women have taken advantage of us.
Women should be the one begging us to date them and not the other way round.

I once dated a lady who thought she was doing me a favour for dating me...the moment I realised it, I simply placed her where she belonged by severing myself from her.... When she realized it, she was now the one forcing herself on me and she was trying to get me back but it was too late for her because my mind was already made up to be single and happy....that was the best decision I ever made in my life and I never regretted it till this moment.



Men have become almost nothing in the hands of women and yet vast majority of our young men are thronging in the wrong direction all in the name of love that doesn't exist.

Believe it or not" Love doesn't exist between girlfriend and boyfriend.

Real love only exists between mother and child...

I bet you the number one reason our young men, including you allow yourselves to be traumatized emotionally is simply because of sex.

You don't need to have a girlfriend before you can have sex with ladies.

Instead of killing yourself emotionally dump that girl and be free, because you were born free...don't allow anybody to put you in bondage all because of sex you can get easily.

I don't do relationships or dates and I am the happiest person all because I am free emotionally.... I sleep like a baby without having to worry if my partner is cheating on me because I have no fucking girlfriend.

Each time sexual urge comes in, I simply walk down to the nearest ASHAWO JOINT in my vicinity to ease off the urge with just N1000, and I am relaxed. I am in control of my happiness and not any fucking lady.

I am in control of females around me because they can't control me with their pussies and they have regard for me....because I don't own them a dime.

If you don't belittle yourself as a man all because of sex, women will respect you...but is unfortunate that most of our young men have reduced themselves to power zero in the hands of ladies just because of sex.

All I can tell you is that you own the key to your happiness...
Choi...girls don deal with this guy too ooo....their by resorting to self loathing. Pele, enjoy what suits you!! Please don't marry ok

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Re: I Am Thinking Of Quitting My Relationship, Please Advise Me On What To Do by MrEazi223: 9:34am On Oct 16, 2018
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nho4:
Sorry to say young man but obviously you are a fool....same thing goes to any young man out there undergoing emotional trauma all in the name of keeping a girlfriend.

To hell with ladies and those dating them.
Why must you subject yourself to such emotional agony just because of a mere lady you are senior to with almost 6 years and you are here crying like a sissy.

I will never encourage my worse enemy to go into what you guys call girlfriend relationship that turns men into puppets.

Dating is a way of placing yourself under emotional slavery. Your Heart and mind keep bleeding at all time and before you realizes what is going on you will start battling with one health issue or the other all because of nothing.

Look at the rate at which our men are dying and the cause is directly and indirectly due to the fact that they want to please women and that is why women have taken advantage of us.
Women should be the one begging us to date them and not the other way round.

I once dated a lady who thought she was doing me a favour for dating me...the moment I realised it, I simply placed her where she belonged by severing myself from her.... When she realized it, she was now the one forcing herself on me and she was trying to get me back but it was too late for her because my mind was already made up to be single and happy....that was the best decision I ever made in my life and I never regretted it till this moment.



Men have become almost nothing in the hands of women and yet vast majority of our young men are thronging in the wrong direction all in the name of love that doesn't exist.

Believe it or not" Love doesn't exist between girlfriend and boyfriend.

Real love only exists between mother and child...

I bet you the number one reason our young men, including you allow yourselves to be traumatized emotionally is simply because of sex.

You don't need to have a girlfriend before you can have sex with ladies.

Instead of killing yourself emotionally dump that girl and be free, because you were born free...don't allow anybody to put you in bondage all because of sex you can get easily.

I don't do relationships or dates and I am the happiest person all because I am free emotionally.... I sleep like a baby without having to worry if my partner is cheating on me because I have no fucking girlfriend.

Each time sexual urge comes in, I simply walk down to the nearest ASHAWO JOINT in my vicinity to ease off the urge with just N1000, and I am relaxed. I am in control of my happiness and not any fucking lady.

I am in control of females around me because they can't control me with their pussies and they have regard for me....because I don't own them a dime.

If you don't belittle yourself as a man all because of sex, women will respect you...but is unfortunate that most of our young men have reduced themselves to power zero in the hands of ladies just because of sex.

All I can tell you is that you own the key to your happiness...

That's why I can thief to subscribe data on my phone to visit nairaland everyday.
This bro really makes my day already

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Re: I Am Thinking Of Quitting My Relationship, Please Advise Me On What To Do by kalmebad(f): 9:35am On Oct 16, 2018
spyg1:
The reason why i came here for advice is to avoid taking a decision that i will not regret in future.

There is a girl I met at a friend's wedding sometime last year, she is 24 years and a 200L student while I am 30 years old postgraduate student but an amateur when it comes to relationship.

We started dating, at first I wasn't serious because I don't have enough money to take care of a girl, as a student sponsoring myself, I hardly have enough money to take care of her needs, she always complain that I don't take care of her which her friend's guy use to take care of her, the girl in question always advice my girl to quit our relationship because I am a broke guy and even if I get a job in future I will dump her for another lady, that I am just deceiving her, nevertheless she do assure her that I will not disappoint her, despite her friend's advice the love grew even stronger, at times she will buy me some gifts, me too I do buy some for her, having seen the commitment in her, then I started paying attention to her hoping that if things work well I will take her to the alter.

But, there was a day she called me to come and meet her at a particular Junction, on my arrival to the place I saw her exchanging phone number with a guy in car, upon enquiry, I discovered that she did not know the guy before, then I left home quietly she later called and apologized which I accepted.

Another time I called her around 10pm and I discovered that she blacklisted my number, she did this twice which I confronted her and suggested that we should quit, she begged me and cry for Africa then I accepted her back again.

After that, sometimes she will not pick my calls in the night and the following day she will giving excuses that she was sleeping, her phone is on silence or she plugged in her neighbors house etc, I started withdrawing from her, she called me one day and started crying that what her friends were advising her was true, I was just using her, I am just like other guys, she know the reason why I am doing this, is because she asked me to go and see her parents bla bla.

To fast forward the story, she login her Facebook account on my phone and she forgot to logout, when I went through her chat I discovered that she use to give people they meet on Facebook her phone number and according to the chart I discovered that she met one yesterday, I also discovered that she is still having an affairs with her ex.

Note: Anytime i call her to come to my house she used to come.

I feel like quitting the relationship but because of sympathy and I don’t want it to look as if I disappointed her. Honestly I am seriously confused, now my question is this; is it wrong that I went through her chat?

Second, what should I do? should I confront her? or should I quit quietly?

Pls I need your sincere advice, insults are welcomed. I will appreciate if the modulator push this to the front page.

PLS IGNORE MY GRAMMATICAL ERRORS

I hardly reacts to comments, sometimes because of lots of in matured mind and how they rant simply because talk is cheap. Am a lady and I speak from women perspective. My advice don't leave her yet....but distant yourself, keep in touch when u can but don't make yourself available. .play busy but also play nice, that way.. U r disarming her,We learn better when handled firmly. If she loves u, she will stick around. We miss guys when we lack their attention, only then we give much value to what we have. U never know what d next girl will b like, no one is perfect. The table will eventually turn around...then set d rules, if acceptable fine and if not.. Face front

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Re: I Am Thinking Of Quitting My Relationship, Please Advise Me On What To Do by Tvegas(m): 9:36am On Oct 16, 2018
YOU ARE DATING AN EMOTIONAL BLACKMAILER

She is still tolerating you because she hasnt found a better offer, the day she finds a better one. You are gone. Sack her before she sacks you.

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Re: I Am Thinking Of Quitting My Relationship, Please Advise Me On What To Do by noniboy231(m): 9:36am On Oct 16, 2018
The earlier you leave the better for u,because she is using u badly
Re: I Am Thinking Of Quitting My Relationship, Please Advise Me On What To Do by Nobody: 9:37am On Oct 16, 2018
I can't ignore your grammatical errors, they're preposterous. You've studied in/and/spoken English for at least 15 years, I am disappointed.
fyi: you're dating an easy girl, you know what you deserve, choose wisely

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Re: I Am Thinking Of Quitting My Relationship, Please Advise Me On What To Do by tunary(m): 9:37am On Oct 16, 2018
nho4:
Sorry to say young man but obviously you are a fool....same thing goes to any young man out there undergoing emotional trauma all in the name of keeping a girlfriend.

To hell with ladies and those dating them.
Why must you subject yourself to such emotional agony just because of a mere lady you are senior to with almost 6 years and you are here crying like a sissy.

I will never encourage my worse enemy to go into what you guys call girlfriend relationship that turns men into puppets.

Dating is a way of placing yourself under emotional slavery. Your Heart and mind keep bleeding at all time and before you realizes what is going on you will start battling with one health issue or the other all because of nothing.

Look at the rate at which our men are dying and the cause is directly and indirectly due to the fact that they want to please women and that is why women have taken advantage of us.
Women should be the one begging us to date them and not the other way round.

I once dated a lady who thought she was doing me a favour for dating me...the moment I realised it, I simply placed her where she belonged by severing myself from her.... When she realized it, she was now the one forcing herself on me and she was trying to get me back but it was too late for her because my mind was already made up to be single and happy....that was the best decision I ever made in my life and I never regretted it till this moment.



Men have become almost nothing in the hands of women and yet vast majority of our young men are thronging in the wrong direction all in the name of love that doesn't exist.

Believe it or not" Love doesn't exist between girlfriend and boyfriend.

Real love only exists between mother and child...

I bet you the number one reason our young men, including you allow yourselves to be traumatized emotionally is simply because of sex.

You don't need to have a girlfriend before you can have sex with ladies.

Instead of killing yourself emotionally dump that girl and be free, because you were born free...don't allow anybody to put you in bondage all because of sex you can get easily.

I don't do relationships or dates and I am the happiest person all because I am free emotionally.... I sleep like a baby without having to worry if my partner is cheating on me because I have no fucking girlfriend.

Each time sexual urge comes in, I simply walk down to the nearest ASHAWO JOINT in my vicinity to ease off the urge with just N1000, and I am relaxed. I am in control of my happiness and not any fucking lady.

I am in control of females around me because they can't control me with their pussies and they have regard for me....because I don't own them a dime.

If you don't belittle yourself as a man all because of sex, women will respect you...but is unfortunate that most of our young men have reduced themselves to power zero in the hands of ladies just because of sex.

All I can tell you is that you own the key to your happiness...
This one make sense wella and it's very encouraging also

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Re: I Am Thinking Of Quitting My Relationship, Please Advise Me On What To Do by Charmingrascal(m): 9:39am On Oct 16, 2018
I had a similar experience but I quit the relationship in June 2018. As at this morning I got a call from friend telling me that he saw my ex and her mum and the both of them told him they want to see me.

Quit the relationship bros I know u are going thru emotional torture because I have been there before dnt stay with a girl out of pity it won't end well. Even though I find I hard to love again I know I took the right decision by letting her go.

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Re: I Am Thinking Of Quitting My Relationship, Please Advise Me On What To Do by yesloaded: 9:40am On Oct 16, 2018
kalmebad:


I hardly reacts to comments, sometimes because of lots of in matured mind and how they rant simply because talk is cheap. Am a lady and I speak from women perspective. My advice don't leave her yet....but distant yourself, keep in touch when u can but don't make yourself available. .play busy but also play nice, that way.. U r disarming her,We learn better when handled firmly. If she loves u, she will stick around. We miss guys when we lack their attention, only then we give much value to what we have. U never know what d next girl will b like, no one is perfect. The table will eventually turn around...then set d rules, if acceptable fine and if not.. Face front

Because you are a woman or what?

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Re: I Am Thinking Of Quitting My Relationship, Please Advise Me On What To Do by Rollitout: 9:41am On Oct 16, 2018
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Re: I Am Thinking Of Quitting My Relationship, Please Advise Me On What To Do by Oreofepeters: 9:41am On Oct 16, 2018
nho4:
Sorry to say young man but obviously you are a fool....same thing goes to any young man out there undergoing emotional trauma all in the name of keeping a girlfriend.

To hell with ladies and those dating them.
Why must you subject yourself to such emotional agony just because of a mere lady you are senior to with almost 6 years and you are here crying like a sissy.

I will never encourage my worse enemy to go into what you guys call girlfriend relationship that turns men into puppets.

Dating is a way of placing yourself under emotional slavery. Your Heart and mind keep bleeding at all time and before you realizes what is going on you will start battling with one health issue or the other all because of nothing.

Look at the rate at which our men are dying and the cause is directly and indirectly due to the fact that they want to please women and that is why women have taken advantage of us.
Women should be the one begging us to date them and not the other way round.

I once dated a lady who thought she was doing me a favour for dating me...the moment I realised it, I simply placed her where she belonged by severing myself from her.... When she realized it, she was now the one forcing herself on me and she was trying to get me back but it was too late for her because my mind was already made up to be single and happy....that was the best decision I ever made in my life and I never regretted it till this moment.



Men have become almost nothing in the hands of women and yet vast majority of our young men are thronging in the wrong direction all in the name of love that doesn't exist.

Believe it or not" Love doesn't exist between girlfriend and boyfriend.

Real love only exists between mother and child...

I bet you the number one reason our young men, including you allow yourselves to be traumatized emotionally is simply because of sex.

You don't need to have a girlfriend before you can have sex with ladies.

Instead of killing yourself emotionally dump that girl and be free, because you were born free...don't allow anybody to put you in bondage all because of sex you can get easily.

I don't do relationships or dates and I am the happiest person all because I am free emotionally.... I sleep like a baby without having to worry if my partner is cheating on me because I have no fucking girlfriend.

Each time sexual urge comes in, I simply walk down to the nearest ASHAWO JOINT in my vicinity to ease off the urge with just N1000, and I am relaxed. I am in control of my happiness and not any fucking lady.

I am in control of females around me because they can't control me with their pussies and they have regard for me....because I don't own them a dime.

If you don't belittle yourself as a man all because of sex, women will respect you...but is unfortunate that most of our young men have reduced themselves to power zero in the hands of ladies just because of sex.

All I can tell you is that you own the key to your happiness...
bro let's meet at my joint I owe you a drink champagne, Hennessey even if na create you want.

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Re: I Am Thinking Of Quitting My Relationship, Please Advise Me On What To Do by midehi2(f): 9:42am On Oct 16, 2018
sexy74:

Never ever marry or date out of pity because you will surely regret it.
Out of pity almost took my life, never ever marry out of pity

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Re: I Am Thinking Of Quitting My Relationship, Please Advise Me On What To Do by Johnsown1(m): 9:42am On Oct 16, 2018
Guy you came alone in this earth and will definitely go home alone, you have goals and ambitions in life, then push for it forget about these girls stuff. Pretend as if nothing is happening play the game with her. forget about giving her much attention. Girls are not always loyal and you will always compete with other guys for her love, so it is normal for you to see her with guys exchanging numbers, she will still love you if she wants.

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Re: I Am Thinking Of Quitting My Relationship, Please Advise Me On What To Do by Vince77(m): 9:42am On Oct 16, 2018
nho4:
Sorry to say young man but obviously you are a fool....same thing goes to any young man out there undergoing emotional trauma all in the name of keeping a girlfriend.

To hell with ladies and those dating them.
Why must you subject yourself to such emotional agony just because of a mere lady you are senior to with almost 6 years and you are here crying like a sissy.

I will never encourage my worse enemy to go into what you guys call girlfriend relationship that turns men into puppets.

Dating is a way of placing yourself under emotional slavery. Your Heart and mind keep bleeding at all time and before you realizes what is going on you will start battling with one health issue or the other all because of nothing.

Look at the rate at which our men are dying and the cause is directly and indirectly due to the fact that they want to please women and that is why women have taken advantage of us.
Women should be the one begging us to date them and not the other way round.

I once dated a lady who thought she was doing me a favour for dating me...the moment I realised it, I simply placed her where she belonged by severing myself from her.... When she realized it, she was now the one forcing herself on me and she was trying to get me back but it was too late for her because my mind was already made up to be single and happy....that was the best decision I ever made in my life and I never regretted it till this moment.



Men have become almost nothing in the hands of women and yet vast majority of our young men are thronging in the wrong direction all in the name of love that doesn't exist.

Believe it or not" Love doesn't exist between girlfriend and boyfriend.

Real love only exists between mother and child...

I bet you the number one reason our young men, including you allow yourselves to be traumatized emotionally is simply because of sex.

You don't need to have a girlfriend before you can have sex with ladies.

Instead of killing yourself emotionally dump that girl and be free, because you were born free...don't allow anybody to put you in bondage all because of sex you can get easily.

I don't do relationships or dates and I am the happiest person all because I am free emotionally.... I sleep like a baby without having to worry if my partner is cheating on me because I have no fucking girlfriend.

Each time sexual urge comes in, I simply walk down to the nearest ASHAWO JOINT in my vicinity to ease off the urge with just N1000, and I am relaxed. I am in control of my happiness and not any fucking lady.

I am in control of females around me because they can't control me with their pussies and they have regard for me....because I don't own them a dime.

If you don't belittle yourself as a man all because of sex, women will respect you...but is unfortunate that most of our young men have reduced themselves to power zero in the hands of ladies just because of sex.

All I can tell you is that you own the key to your happiness...

God bless you a million times. E just dey be like say make i dash you money for this comment.

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Re: I Am Thinking Of Quitting My Relationship, Please Advise Me On What To Do by daveP(m): 9:42am On Oct 16, 2018
Lol, the moment girls in relationships don't act on their own accord again is when most of the relationship has entered Ko wole mode.


That's the moment she listens and acts on all crappy advice she considers to be wise from her set of friends that only ruin situations cos they never reason alrounda. She's called it quits already man, but her coming is more like the way to silently cut off without any loss.


Pls guy press the red button and end this call. Nonsense!!!
Re: I Am Thinking Of Quitting My Relationship, Please Advise Me On What To Do by nh04: 9:42am On Oct 16, 2018
Postfut:


You are welcome. Please accept my widow’s mite. I wish I had more to give
Highly accepted. This is more than a widow's mite to me...it means a lot to me. Thank you so much

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