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Re: I Am Thinking Of Quitting My Relationship, Please Advise Me On What To Do by CHoccolaTE: 3:25pm On Oct 16, 2018
Raalsalghul:
Once there is an opportunity to attack men, we will find you there. Just look at your last sentence knowing that folks like me would attack you. You are so bitter my dear. So so so bitter. Shioor Whoever did this to you, may God forgive the person.

Lol
Back to sender like I said before.
Is it not funny that you know me so well on Nairaland but I have never heard of you before today?

Am bitter but your fellow men insulting women left and right are sweet abi?
Mtsheewwwww
Re: I Am Thinking Of Quitting My Relationship, Please Advise Me On What To Do by princfred(m): 3:27pm On Oct 16, 2018
rosalieene:
see them NL guys turning the table around making themselves victims.

You lots once made a girl cry over you now its a crime to cry over a woman?

Once a guy brings up his story here gbam! you'd see encouraging comments but when a lady brings up hers, even when clearly she was wronged, you lots would end up bashing her. sometimes Calling her names

Always playing the victims game.

sometimes, we should seat down and ask ourselves, what if you're in this person's shoes, what will you do? Besides, you don't even know her part of the story or if the OP exergerated at some point.
I know how this works, girls always get advances what's more important is how to handle it.
from what I am seeing, that girl loves you but she is confused as she also wants to settle down. Every lady wants that comfortability, some would be fortunate If it ends well while some are unfortunate. What if you re not the one for her? what If she misses her chances with the right one? so most times a lot of ladies are just confused
And don't blame us either.... its best you just let her go.



and most importantly, don't punish your next for this sins of this one!
Come down from there first before dissing us see face like that of my 4th to last semi-girlfriend.
Re: I Am Thinking Of Quitting My Relationship, Please Advise Me On What To Do by CHoccolaTE: 3:27pm On Oct 16, 2018
rosalieene:

am telling you!
always playing the victims game!
when in reality, they deal with women badly than women dealing with them.

Taking this NL guys serious is at your own peril.

I don't even blame them.
There are more males on Nairaland so therefore male oriented topics draw more traffic that's why you see mods putting shiiits like this on frontpage every time.

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Re: I Am Thinking Of Quitting My Relationship, Please Advise Me On What To Do by jattopeter(m): 3:27pm On Oct 16, 2018
nho4:
Sorry to say young man but obviously you are a fool....same thing goes to any young man out there undergoing emotional trauma all in the name of keeping a girlfriend.

To hell with ladies and those dating them.
Why must you subject yourself to such emotional agony just because of a mere lady you are senior to with almost 6 years and you are here crying like a sissy.

I will never encourage my worse enemy to go into what you guys call girlfriend relationship that turns men into puppets.

Dating is a way of placing yourself under emotional slavery. Your Heart and mind keep bleeding at all time and before you realizes what is going on you will start battling with one health issue or the other all because of nothing.

Look at the rate at which our men are dying and the cause is directly and indirectly due to the fact that they want to please women and that is why women have taken advantage of us.
Women should be the one begging us to date them and not the other way round.

I once dated a lady who thought she was doing me a favour for dating me...the moment I realised it, I simply placed her where she belonged by severing myself from her.... When she realized it, she was now the one forcing herself on me and she was trying to get me back but it was too late for her because my mind was already made up to be single and happy....that was the best decision I ever made in my life and I never regretted it till this moment.



Men have become almost nothing in the hands of women and yet vast majority of our young men are thronging in the wrong direction all in the name of love that doesn't exist.

Believe it or not" Love doesn't exist between girlfriend and boyfriend.

Real love only exists between mother and child...

I bet you the number one reason our young men, including you allow yourselves to be traumatized emotionally is simply because of sex.

You don't need to have a girlfriend before you can have sex with ladies.

Instead of killing yourself emotionally dump that girl and be free, because you were born free...don't allow anybody to put you in bondage all because of sex you can get easily.

I don't do relationships or dates and I am the happiest person all because I am free emotionally.... I sleep like a baby without having to worry if my partner is cheating on me because I have no fucking girlfriend.

Each time sexual urge comes in, I simply walk down to the nearest ASHAWO JOINT in my vicinity to ease off the urge with just N1000, and I am relaxed. I am in control of my happiness and not any fucking lady.

I am in control of females around me because they can't control me with their pussies and they have regard for me....because I don't own them a dime.

If you don't belittle yourself as a man all because of sex, women will respect you...but is unfortunate that most of our young men have reduced themselves to power zero in the hands of ladies just because of sex.

All I can tell you is that you own the key to your happiness...
You are the best, you nail it to the cross. If you see the way ladies are treating some guys u will be ashamed of guys at time.
U will live long.

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Re: I Am Thinking Of Quitting My Relationship, Please Advise Me On What To Do by Nobody: 3:28pm On Oct 16, 2018
If you still love her, which I think you still do, be patient with her. I'm sure she loves you, and is trying to adjust.

Any girl who remains in good terms and within arm's length with her ex, she will cheat. That's not being bad. It's being woman.
Re: I Am Thinking Of Quitting My Relationship, Please Advise Me On What To Do by princfred(m): 3:29pm On Oct 16, 2018
CHoccolaTE:


Lol
Back to sender like I said before.
Is it not funny that you know me so well on Nairaland but I have never heard of you before today?

Am bitter but your fellow men insulting women left and right are sweet abi?
Mtsheewwwww
Why Una wan turn op bad case to fight? Abeg you guys should go outside and cool off we are dealing with serious matter here.
Re: I Am Thinking Of Quitting My Relationship, Please Advise Me On What To Do by CHoccolaTE: 3:31pm On Oct 16, 2018
Babysho:


Lol men are angry about women on here and you thought you, a woman, could get a favour from a raging man that's crediting people for saying the truth about women's wicked ways. I kid you not, you're not getting anything.

That person is actually one of your fellow men.
I have tracked him and his real name and Facebook from his UBA account.
He is an Igbo boy named Gabriel.
Re: I Am Thinking Of Quitting My Relationship, Please Advise Me On What To Do by tiger2080: 3:34pm On Oct 16, 2018
@op run from your life you are dating a prostitute @ 30 you are suppose to be mature an not a fool.she is using you to satisfy her need when another guy they sama the wide pussy black an blue.huzzle hard make money,pray to God, buy ur fleet of cars, mansions an bitches will fleet around you like Hot bee.they will always give you signal that they are available just follow this advice an you will excel.That is the real truth take it or leave it no offense.
Re: I Am Thinking Of Quitting My Relationship, Please Advise Me On What To Do by princfred(m): 3:35pm On Oct 16, 2018
CHoccolaTE:


I don't even blame them.
There are more males on Nairaland so therefore male oriented topics draw more traffic that's why you see mods putting shiiits like this on frontpage every time.
Someone is suspecting and rightly painned that his juice jug and berries are fast becoming public property and you include the matter as sh##te? You are heartless. Instead of finding solution to how he can recolonize and monopolize his privates or find another one. You no be better person.
Re: I Am Thinking Of Quitting My Relationship, Please Advise Me On What To Do by tayooluwole: 3:35pm On Oct 16, 2018
djon78:



Sure I get your drift. I was a victim also like you. Then very gentle , caring but she carry me play. There I learnt my lesson big time.
She later came back begging, but it was already late for her.
The next one try all those love things, but I was hard as rock. I will treat her nice, even provide her needs but my heart was impenetrable.
She even involve her mama. Swore say she must marry me. Still my heart was impenetrable.

It was then I begin understand women. If you be hard man, they dear not mess up. Na them go dey rush you.
But if you be nice guy na long thing for you

I love u bro... Inpenetrateable got me lol
Re: I Am Thinking Of Quitting My Relationship, Please Advise Me On What To Do by centboy123456(m): 3:46pm On Oct 16, 2018
nho4:
Sorry to say young man but obviously you are a fool....same thing goes to any young man out there undergoing emotional trauma all in the name of keeping a girlfriend.

To hell with ladies and those dating them.
Why must you subject yourself to such emotional agony just because of a mere lady you are senior to with almost 6 years and you are here crying like a sissy.

I will never encourage my worse enemy to go into what you guys call girlfriend relationship that turns men into puppets.

Dating is a way of placing yourself under emotional slavery. Your Heart and mind keep bleeding at all time and before you realizes what is going on you will start battling with one health issue or the other all because of nothing.

Look at the rate at which our men are dying and the cause is directly and indirectly due to the fact that they want to please women and that is why women have taken advantage of us.
Women should be the one begging us to date them and not the other way round.

I once dated a lady who thought she was doing me a favour for dating me...the moment I realised it, I simply placed her where she belonged by severing myself from her.... When she realized it, she was now the one forcing herself on me and she was trying to get me back but it was too late for her because my mind was already made up to be single and happy....that was the best decision I ever made in my life and I never regretted it till this moment.



Men have become almost nothing in the hands of women and yet vast majority of our young men are thronging in the wrong direction all in the name of love that doesn't exist.

Believe it or not" Love doesn't exist between girlfriend and boyfriend.

Real love only exists between mother and child...

I bet you the number one reason our young men, including you allow yourselves to be traumatized emotionally is simply because of sex.

You don't need to have a girlfriend before you can have sex with ladies.

Instead of killing yourself emotionally dump that girl and be free, because you were born free...don't allow anybody to put you in bondage all because of sex you can get easily.

I don't do relationships or dates and I am the happiest person all because I am free emotionally.... I sleep like a baby without having to worry if my partner is cheating on me because I have no fucking girlfriend.

Each time sexual urge comes in, I simply walk down to the nearest ASHAWO JOINT in my vicinity to ease off the urge with just N1000, and I am relaxed. I am in control of my happiness and not any fucking lady.

I am in control of females around me because they can't control me with their pussies and they have regard for me....because I don't own them a dime.

If you don't belittle yourself as a man all because of sex, women will respect you...but is unfortunate that most of our young men have reduced themselves to power zero in the hands of ladies just because of sex.

All I can tell you is that you own the key to your happiness...


wow I love ur write up may god bless u for saying d truth
Re: I Am Thinking Of Quitting My Relationship, Please Advise Me On What To Do by luminouz(m): 3:51pm On Oct 16, 2018
midehi2:

Not that a poor guy can't find love, but finding a true love that can stick with him without cheating cos of money or been influenced by her friends with rich boyfriend is rare (like me tongue) its always difficult for guys, so that's why its been said "make money first and girls (not me sha) will flaunt around you cheesy

Money is not only value in a relationship, there are others.
Lol...I get ur point!!!

U also said somethings about yourself that I like....but are u for real?? Cuz I go test u o!!
Re: I Am Thinking Of Quitting My Relationship, Please Advise Me On What To Do by Nobody: 3:57pm On Oct 16, 2018
Nho4 Let them know! No One is hated as he who speaks the truth!!
Airtime on you! Kindly mail!
Re: I Am Thinking Of Quitting My Relationship, Please Advise Me On What To Do by omoelerin1: 4:01pm On Oct 16, 2018
jairusben:
God know i cannot read all that write up but most girls in general cheat..my guy believe me like am jesus..just the way you see other girl and have thoughts in your head that is how this girls also are vulnerable to nice guys with good sense of humor...just know that the human will power can be manipulated, , you read up news like maried corper caught having sex in camp, if you just get to understand that no woman is yours,its just your time you will be happy..pls guide your heart..dont fall cheap...
You cannot read all the write up, but you can write all this down? Who get time to read your own?
Re: I Am Thinking Of Quitting My Relationship, Please Advise Me On What To Do by djon78(m): 4:01pm On Oct 16, 2018
tayooluwole:


I love u bro... Inpenetrateable got me lol

Sure, because that's what they use to hook men up. I am not a bad man. I will still be nice, even provide when necessary but forget those love things. Love is for weak men
It won't stop you from being nice to her, provided for her if you have the means but protect your heart. Don't tolerate nonsense she go respect you well. No need for the kind of op story

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Re: I Am Thinking Of Quitting My Relationship, Please Advise Me On What To Do by midehi2(f): 4:03pm On Oct 16, 2018
luminouz:

Lol...I get ur point!!!

U also said somethings about yourself that I like....but are u for real?? Cuz I go test u o!!
Sure grin
Re: I Am Thinking Of Quitting My Relationship, Please Advise Me On What To Do by 3mmyz(m): 4:09pm On Oct 16, 2018
This wan na abc. dump her!

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Re: I Am Thinking Of Quitting My Relationship, Please Advise Me On What To Do by Nobody: 4:10pm On Oct 16, 2018
tunary:
Abi no be small

The money way I for spend for that idiot joy way dey take me dey play like say I be small boy I for take am bottle this bross

Thank God say I login to nairaland today

That bross is just too much


I swear bro


He really told us the truth

Most of us are guilty including me

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Re: I Am Thinking Of Quitting My Relationship, Please Advise Me On What To Do by ttmax09(m): 4:14pm On Oct 16, 2018
safarigirl:
Some people are here bragging about how they are flirting with HIV in a bid to avoid women.


If all of you were not dating the wrong women, why would you think the only thing women have to offer you is sex? In the same way, women assume the only thing men have to offer them is money


All of you with such disgusting ideas of Tue opposite sex have psychological issues..... You all need to change your perspective and change your mentalities.


Relationships are not working because both men and women in this country have the wrong idea of a relationship. If women were not collecting money from men, nobody would take them for granted. And if men were not getting sex from women, nobody will take them for granted


All of you need to reevaluate your lives and ask yourself what the person in your life can do for you aside money and sex. There is more to a relationship than those things and it is only when you find that 'more' with someone that you will appreciate a relationship.


Maybe when you have finished smashing ashawo with 1k, she will listen to how your day went and offer you advice on your business venture.
wow the first lady i can see commenting on this thread, i agree with some of the things you said though.
Re: I Am Thinking Of Quitting My Relationship, Please Advise Me On What To Do by jinxet2000: 4:15pm On Oct 16, 2018
I don't see what you are doing with a girl who maybe cheating on you. Simply forget your intimate relationship with her. Make her your godly friend and focus on your career. When you can afford marriage, you will find love.
Re: I Am Thinking Of Quitting My Relationship, Please Advise Me On What To Do by Alphybuks(m): 4:20pm On Oct 16, 2018
nh04:


Wow this is unbelievable... I can't believe my eyes
God bless you in a million folds...I could not believe my eyes when I saw the alert on my phone..

Below is the attached image of the alert
Once again thanks and God bless you and your family. Amen



U WILL NOW USE 1K KNACK OLOSHO....

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Re: I Am Thinking Of Quitting My Relationship, Please Advise Me On What To Do by tunary(m): 4:29pm On Oct 16, 2018
Kingwizzy16:



I swear bro


He really told us the truth

Most of us are guilty including me
Not most of us its majority of us guys are guilty of this but today it has just come to an end o.

Girl when I senior by far go dey take me dey play like say I be small boy just because of that thing they call love

If I dey remember wetin that idiot don take my eye see in the name of love I just regret, she dey eye me up and down dey hiss for me like say I be her pickin

I no blame her sha na me approach her 1st

just because of kpekus woman go dey take man dey play football, that girl go die throw way
Re: I Am Thinking Of Quitting My Relationship, Please Advise Me On What To Do by Vega100: 4:34pm On Oct 16, 2018
nho4:
Sorry to say young man but obviously you are a fool....same thing goes to any young man out there undergoing emotional trauma all in the name of keeping a girlfriend.

To hell with ladies and those dating them.
Why must you subject yourself to such emotional agony just because of a mere lady you are senior to with almost 6 years and you are here crying like a sissy.

I will never encourage my worse enemy to go into what you guys call girlfriend relationship that turns men into puppets.

Dating is a way of placing yourself under emotional slavery. Your Heart and mind keep bleeding at all time and before you realizes what is going on you will start battling with one health issue or the other all because of nothing.

Look at the rate at which our men are dying and the cause is directly and indirectly due to the fact that they want to please women and that is why women have taken advantage of us.
Women should be the one begging us to date them and not the other way round.

I once dated a lady who thought she was doing me a favour for dating me...the moment I realised it, I simply placed her where she belonged by severing myself from her.... When she realized it, she was now the one forcing herself on me and she was trying to get me back but it was too late for her because my mind was already made up to be single and happy....that was the best decision I ever made in my life and I never regretted it till this moment.



Men have become almost nothing in the hands of women and yet vast majority of our young men are thronging in the wrong direction all in the name of love that doesn't exist.

Believe it or not" Love doesn't exist between girlfriend and boyfriend.

Real love only exists between mother and child...

I bet you the number one reason our young men, including you allow yourselves to be traumatized emotionally is simply because of sex.

You don't need to have a girlfriend before you can have sex with ladies.

Instead of killing yourself emotionally dump that girl and be free, because you were born free...don't allow anybody to put you in bondage all because of sex you can get easily.

I don't do relationships or dates and I am the happiest person all because I am free emotionally.... I sleep like a baby without having to worry if my partner is cheating on me because I have no fucking girlfriend.

Each time sexual urge comes in, I simply walk down to the nearest ASHAWO JOINT in my vicinity to ease off the urge with just N1000, and I am relaxed. I am in control of my happiness and not any fucking lady.

I am in control of females around me because they can't control me with their pussies and they have regard for me....because I don't own them a dime.

If you don't belittle yourself as a man all because of sex, women will respect you...but is unfortunate that most of our young men have reduced themselves to power zero in the hands of ladies just because of sex.

All I can tell you is that you own the key to your happiness...
cheesy cheesy cheesy cheesy cheesy cheesy my ashawo brother, I greet yoi severely. .

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Re: I Am Thinking Of Quitting My Relationship, Please Advise Me On What To Do by ImaIma1(f): 4:34pm On Oct 16, 2018
general09:
No! Don't leave her yet. Help her to live the life that she want.
How do you do that?
1. Control your heart from loving her
2. Convert that love to anger
3. Channel that anger to your di*k
4. If you do the item 3 sincerely, you will notice the reaction on your di*k. It will become aware of your pain thereby becoming malicious that when you look at it when it's charged, you will see the malice written all over it. It will be thick, strong, full of veins..that's your weapon bro. That's your weapon!
5. Now use it to attack her kpekus vigorously
Note: when attacking, don't do it for you to enjoy. Tell yourself that your doing it for her ie that your trying to liberate her from a curse.
6. Keep doing it at every opportunity. Boy! She will take off and will never blame you. Instead, when ever she sees you she will be like good afternoon bross.
Try this and thank me later.


You are unwell cheesy
Re: I Am Thinking Of Quitting My Relationship, Please Advise Me On What To Do by litaninja(m): 4:36pm On Oct 16, 2018
We can't ignore your grammar errors.....at PGD level, your use of english is appalling.

PLS IGNORE MY GRAMMATICAL ERRORS

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Re: I Am Thinking Of Quitting My Relationship, Please Advise Me On What To Do by haconjy(m): 4:37pm On Oct 16, 2018
1StopRudeness:


Regret what...??

Taking charge of ur emotions ??
and not allow a woman determine ur happiness like the OP is what he will regret....??
U are the one that deserve slap cos u didn't see his message.....U might not agree with his idea of visiting prostitutess because u have customized one lady to urself in the name of marriage in Dec 8....
Weda in marriage or just sexxual relationship, a man still needs to get a grip of himself and not allow sexx-drive rule him.....because women will always use sex as a weapon against u weda outside marriage or legally in marriage, even though they want it as well, but will make it look like it's a favour they are doing for u...The Op is clearly letting pvssy confuse him...He can see clearly he's been used and cheated on but he can't reason anymore

Happy married life in advance anyways

na so your brain dey work..? Read what I wrote...
when u know the problem, I think it can be solve fast.... all of you that support him should learn how to control your emotions, and sexual urges.... I overcome that many times... I never condemned him visiting asewo house but if he has, had problem will he tell you the causes?
Re: I Am Thinking Of Quitting My Relationship, Please Advise Me On What To Do by valnosky(m): 4:43pm On Oct 16, 2018
tejiri4:


And dis one will accept less than 1k, girls can form like kilode
I dey tell you,only suya n Smirnoff ice she don fall be that
Re: I Am Thinking Of Quitting My Relationship, Please Advise Me On What To Do by centboy123456(m): 4:44pm On Oct 16, 2018
kalmebad:


I hardly reacts to comments, sometimes because of lots of in matured mind and how they rant simply because talk is cheap. Am a lady and I speak from women perspective. My advice don't leave her yet....but distant yourself, keep in touch when u can but don't make yourself available. .play busy but also play nice, that way.. U r disarming her,We learn better when handled firmly. If she loves u, she will stick around. We miss guys when we lack their attention, only then we give much value to what we have. U never know what d next girl will b like, no one is perfect. The table will eventually turn around...then set d rules, if acceptable fine and if not.. Face front



this is one of d best advice I have seen u said the right tin
Re: I Am Thinking Of Quitting My Relationship, Please Advise Me On What To Do by Raalsalghul: 4:44pm On Oct 16, 2018
CHoccolaTE:


Lol
Back to sender like I said before.
Is it not funny that you know me so well on Nairaland but I have never heard of you before today?

Am bitter but your fellow men insulting women left and right are sweet abi?
Mtsheewwwww
Why won't I know you with all your incoherent rants on Nairaland whenever the word "Men" is mentioned. Provided we have few folks here insulting women, common sense says direct your frustration at them rather the male gender in general. You have issues dear. Still enough time to sort them before it consumes you. smiley smiley smiley smiley smileyPeace

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