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Pussickpunk:
Lol, my sister how was I to know what that meant back then...I was an innocent boy and I only read Ababio and quantum physics, She reads all those crazy novels....

Rozaytee:
didnt u do English idioms

Admin401:
This is you.

Pussickpunk:
And this is you ret.ard....

GoldenSpine24:
The lady said WE DON'T MATCH!!!

Leme tell you the story::it's friday night afterall)


...So I saw her picture on her cousin's DP and she had this cute smile. I requested her cousin link us up. We got talking and finally met. She has excesses, which i was ready to bear up with. I loved her for who she was, and also for her weaknesses, while assisting her in the way I could. When i told her, she said she we don't match. I accepted. Then she lost her job, stood by her, assisted her till she finally got another one.

We built up a connection, when i asked why she said we didn't match here was her response; I'm thinking seriously about what i earlier said.

I gave myself some months to keep being there for her, maintaining a balance between love, respect and "see-finish" ...she would disrespect me, flake out on dates, chat anyhow, snub chats. She mistook my kindness and love for weakness and desperation. Sometimes I ignore, other times, when I felt it was necessary, I call her out to it. One night I called her, and asked if we were on the same level emotionally...She said; I'm sorry, no. She could have just told me without pretending to be in tune.

I wasn't too heartbroken though..because if she could take my love for granted once, she could do it again. She was too full of herself and believed that I couldn't live without her. Yes, I am faithful to a fault in a relationship, I tolerate a lot of things, i don't cheat at all, not even entertaining the thought but that doesn't mean I don't have my personal respect and dignity to protect. I showed her i loved her very much...but it was time to show her i wasn't afraid to loose her.

Funny thing is that I'd already planned our marriage and honeymoon for early 2019. My last words to her were; I lost someone who didn't value my love..but you have lost someone who really love, care, cherished and respected you for who you are. I'm not the best there is but you'll look for me in the next people you'll meet. But cos i love you, i honestly hope and wish the next person will give you better than all i have given you a million times and more.



The next day she called, and called and called till my battery went out. I never took the calls. She tried to reach out, but I was gone. I took a week break from all media to get myself back mentally at 100%.

She tried reaching out...every way, but i ignored. When we finally talked, I told her, i love you but only as a friend. The romantic part will always be there, but it's an emotion i will NEVER act on whether i remain single or get married. Funny thing is whenever i snap with a lady and update her picture, she's always jealous. There was one of my close friend i snapped with. Looked like we were dating from the picture pose... She saw it and called me several times, i didn't pick. This girl quickly called her cousin, telling her cousin to call n beg me that we had unfinished business...She called again, when i didn't pick, she sent me a text which was a hell of a stinker and ended it with: Life goes on, you don't force a relationship.... complete drama queen.


Love is a bird, she needs to fly. It could fly open or could fly broken. I flew open because i gave my all to make it work, without any regrets.
I dey face my life, jeje,not sending any female at all relationship-wise....hopeless romantic? Someone called me that.

*curtain drops*

Jman06:
Don't move on joor!

Remain in friendzone while his babe keeps collecting the big cassava!

"I have a boyfriend" crew.
Lolzz

FishLegs:
I used to tell girls I love you all the time .
But suddenly I find it so difficult to say or text that to any woman or any girl anymore.

ericsmith:
back @ the uni. i met this fine slim fresh damsel ,,gave her lift to her school (kwarapoly) asked for her number.. started calling n texting ...finally we arrange to meet,,wore my best shirt bathed with perfumes cos i was gonna woo her officially ... we saw,, got talkin n the moment i start professin my love for her she said wait i want to record you .. my heart lost its erection instanta went home lookin like wu did i offend"

Divay22:
I easily say it when i feel nothing for the guy, but find it hard to when i really like him..

Alright na go follow.

Iamtosignno:
LOL are you applying for job wey she dey record you
The lady mean you

ericsmith:
On the contrary she is a listener ... that is rare ,,wonnt mind listening to her as well @ annnikky

ericsmith:
On the contrary she is a listener ... that is rare ,,wonnt mind listening to her as well @ annnikky

GoldenSpine24:
The lady said WE DON'T MATCH!!!

Leme tell you the story::it's friday night afterall)


...So I saw her picture on her cousin's DP and she had this cute smile. I requested her cousin link us up. We got talking and finally met. She has excesses, which i was ready to bear up with. I loved her for who she was, and also for her weaknesses, while assisting her in the way I could. When i told her, she said she we don't match. I accepted. Then she lost her job, stood by her, assisted her till she finally got another one.

We built up a connection, when i asked why she said we didn't match here was her response; I'm thinking seriously about what i earlier said.

I gave myself some months to keep being there for her, maintaining a balance between love, respect and "see-finish" ...she would disrespect me, flake out on dates, chat anyhow, snub chats. She mistook my kindness and love for weakness and desperation. Sometimes I ignore, other times, when I felt it was necessary, I call her out to it. One night I called her, and asked if we were on the same level emotionally...She said; I'm sorry, no. She could have just told me without pretending to be in tune.

I wasn't too heartbroken though..because if she could take my love for granted once, she could do it again. She was too full of herself and believed that I couldn't live without her. Yes, I am faithful to a fault in a relationship, I tolerate a lot of things, i don't cheat at all, not even entertaining the thought but that doesn't mean I don't have my personal respect and dignity to protect. I showed her i loved her very much...but it was time to show her i wasn't afraid to loose her.

Funny thing is that I'd already planned our marriage and honeymoon for early 2019. My last words to her were; I lost someone who didn't value my love..but you have lost someone who really love, care, cherished and respected you for who you are. I'm not the best there is but you'll look for me in the next people you'll meet. But cos i love you, i honestly hope and wish the next person will give you better than all i have given you a million times and more.



The next day she called, and called and called till my battery went out. I never took the calls. She tried to reach out, but I was gone. I took a week break from all media to get myself back mentally at 100%.

She tried reaching out...every way, but i ignored. When we finally talked, I told her, i love you but only as a friend. The romantic part will always be there, but it's an emotion i will NEVER act on whether i remain single or get married. Funny thing is whenever i snap with a lady and update her picture, she's always jealous. There was one of my close friend i snapped with. Looked like we were dating from the picture pose... She saw it and called me several times, i didn't pick. This girl quickly called her cousin, telling her cousin to call n beg me that we had unfinished business...She called again, when i didn't pick, she sent me a text which was a hell of a stinker and ended it with: Life goes on, you don't force a relationship.... complete drama queen.


Love is a bird, she needs to fly. It could fly open or could fly broken. I flew open because i gave my all to make it work, without any regrets.
I dey face my life, jeje,not sending any female at all relationship-wise....hopeless romantic? Someone called me that.

*curtain drops*

Bills2307:
Me : I love you She: Kk..

iQUOTE:
I can't really remember, but it had to be this born again Christian girl. After chasing her for a while, I had to open up to her. Her reply was "Jesus loves you more". I felt like a complete idiot.

PotatoSalad:
2016. (Facebook messenger)
Me: I love you
Her: I'm sorry but why didn't you tell me earlier. I waited for you to say that. I'm sorry na....(she continued with a 600-word narrative essay)
I had nothing else to say than OK.
Haven't said I Love You to anyone since then.
Maybe it's why my new girl left me