₦airaland Forum

Nigerian writer and entrepreneur, Simisola Sowole has said she doesn’t mind if her partner cheats on her, as long as he still loves and respects her.

She took to her Twitter page to reveal that as long as her partner is not going to keep it secret, then she has no problem with him cheating. She wrote;

This might sound crazy but over the years, I’ve realized that I don’t really mind if a guy cheats as long as he still loves, respects and performs his duty as a partner. It is something I’m going to discuss with my husband in future. I don’t like secrets. Unpopular opinion.

This is not even about self esteem. Far from it. And yes, someone can love you and still have sexual inter course with another person. And I still need his attention. That is the most important. We still have to retain the attention we give one another. My opinion please.

News via GistMore.com >> http://gistmore.com/lady-says-she-doesnt-mind-a-cheating-partner-as-long-as-he-performs-his-duties-towards-her

Change that name to burnt brain not dodo. A guy who cheats has no respect for u. May he give u STD in future . Mumu

Correct girl

....And the biitch is already encouraging emotional and psychological abuse.

A lady who have nothing to offer except her pussy will always say this.

These are the type of ladies I like not the type that will be snooping through your phone

What is she saying that is out of this world?

The average Nigerian wife would accept or condone a cheating husband and still feed him join.

bukatyne:
What is she saying that is out of this world?

The average Nigerian wife would accept or condone a cheating husband and still feed him join.

Nigeria women cheats more this days more than men

Lol. Who knows how many times they've cheated on this one that her mentality has re-configured its default settings.

Age, truly, is not a guarantee of maturity. Giving a man such freedom is not going to make him stay with you or love you so much more. He'll definitely fvck someone that will shake his soul and boom! He's hers.

Besides, how can someone even share a man in these times? Don't you know STDs are real? And actually, you do have low self-esteem.

Lawd, the rubbish some ladies choose to tolerate and condone just to have a man in their life, smh!!!

She must be desperate to hook a guy with marriage for her to be talking like this...when she gets into it, she will know why it's not good for partners to cheat in a relationship cos it brings slot from disease, hatred, depression to the faithful ones. The rate at which some ladies want to get marry this days is very alarming....after dem don turn down series of suitors dem go come dey look for copy to grab like nollywood movies

What an honest lady.

Look at them with their comments up there pretending and condemning the lady.

That lady is bold enough to say what 99% of Nigerian woman can tolerate anyday, anytime from a rich cheating husband even without being LOVED.

You lots will come to social media to pretend and form, while you tolerate poo from men in reality all because of money...

Abi na all these hungry ladies around wan leave their rich husbands because he cheated...

A lot of Nigerian ladies I've met have dated married men at one point or the other in their lives. For this lot, it is understandable to see why they can tolerate a patner cheating on them. Dem don train theirselves tey tey to dey share man with other women.

computergeek:
Lol. Who knows how many times they've cheated on this one that her mentality has re-configured its default settings.

Age, truly, is not a guarantee of maturity. Giving a man such freedom is not going to make him stay with you or love you so much more. He'll definitely fvck someone that will shake his soul and boom! He's hers.

Besides, how can someone even share a man in these times? Don't you know STDs are real? And actually, you do have low self-esteem.

no be only shake his soul


but i would really love to meet a lady that will shake my soul oh!

This is d bitter truth whether u accept it or nt 80% of nigeria men cheat on their wife so u dnt to mind if he cheat or nt as long as he is performing his conjugal right and other right,

Interesting. So you want to end up with a cheat? your desires are granted.

A man that loves u won't cheat, stop accepting fvckboys!! When he gives the other more attention and love, na u go still regret am.

IamD18:
What an honest lady.

Look at them with their comments up there pretending and condemning the lady.

That lady is bold enough to say what 99% of Nigerian woman can tolerate anyday, anytime from a rich cheating husband even without being LOVED.

You lots will come to social media to pretend and form, while you tolerate poo from men in reality all because of money...

Abi na all these hungry ladies around wan leave their rich husbands because he cheated...

You never fail to fire nairaland babes, you saying the pure truth though

cheat once, you forgive

cheat twice, you kick him/her out.

Isoright

Lol...

This is a very tough one to debate because there are definitely enough pros and cons to it.

Truly an unpopular stand though, but at the end of it all, reality beckons and stares us all in the eye.

I don’t mind if my partner f°ckboy cheats, as long as he loves me – Nigerian Lady

A f°uckboy doesn't love you to start with

Pure lye just tell use as long as he has money. Period

This is d kind of Lady that i will like to wife....she wont give u wahala at all

correct woman !

ok

Good girl

Good attitude......