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Hello Romancelanders, merry xmas in advance. I have a serious issue disturbing my head. Before i start, note that i have not been intimate with anyone 4 d past 6 months.

I met this guy about 5 months ago and things have been going well, we talk and spend some time together and he has always been Nice to me, he seem perfect in all areas but my only problem is that recently, he has taken to touching me at every given opportunity. Light touch like placing hands on my shoulder, hands on my legs while i'm sitting etc.

The thing is, i'm not Comfortable with it, i feel irritated by his touch and i always stop him from doing so.

Today he asked a question, if i Cant even allow such little body contact then what are we? Pls has anyone experienced this before?

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gloria34:
Hello Romancelanders, merry xmas in advance. I have a serious issue disturbing my head. Before i start, note that i have not been intimate with anyone 4 d past 6 months. I met this guy about 5 months ago and things have been going well, we talk and spend some time together and he has always been Nice to me, he seem perfect in all areas but my only problem is that recently, he has taken to touching me at every given opportunity. Light touch like placing hands on my shoulder, hands on my legs while i'm sitting etc. The thing is, i'm not Comfortable with it, i feel irritated by his touch and i always stop him from doing so. Today he asked a question, if i Cant even allow such little body contact then what are we? Pls has anyone experienced this before?

you only see him as a friend.

gloria34:
Hello Romancelanders, merry xmas in advance. I have a serious issue disturbing my head. Before i start, note that i have not been intimate with anyone 4 d past 6 months. I met this guy about 5 months ago and things have been going well, we talk and spend some time together and he has always been Nice to me, he seem perfect in all areas but my only problem is that recently, he has taken to touching me at every given opportunity. Light touch like placing hands on my shoulder, hands on my legs while i'm sitting etc. The thing is, i'm not Comfortable with it, i feel irritated by his touch and i always stop him from doing so. Today he asked a question, if i Cant even allow such little body contact then what are we? Pls has anyone experienced this before?

Gloria, Gloria, Gloria. You're not a virgin and you're depriving this guy who has invested time, love and money in you. 5 months?! Haba! You are wicked!



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I'm sorry I didn't read your signature earlier, Gloria34. I would have had a better understanding of the dynamics of the situation.

make him understand,you dont like the touch ..if he loves you he wil understand...or else the touch wil grow to sensitive areas

gloria34:
Hello Romancelanders, merry xmas in advance. I have a serious issue disturbing my head. Before i start, note that i have not been intimate with anyone 4 d past 6 months. I met this guy about 5 months ago and things have been going well, we talk and spend some time together and he has always been Nice to me, he seem perfect in all areas but my only problem is that recently, he has taken to touching me at every given opportunity. Light touch like placing hands on my shoulder, hands on my legs while i'm sitting etc. The thing is, i'm not Comfortable with it, i feel irritated by his touch and i always stop him from doing so. Today he asked a question, if i Cant even allow such little body contact then what are we? Pls has anyone experienced this before?

Fooool with sense of entitlement i qonder hoe you empty things see or.think of yourselves

Earthbound:
Gloria, Gloria, Gloria. You're not a virgin and you're depriving this guy who has invested time, love and money in you. 5 months?! Haba! You are wicked!

Time and love, i understand but money, NO! I brought this here cos i really Dont understand whats wrong, if its just me or others have experienced it so to all those who are out to insult, i will just ignore

gloria34:
Hello Romancelanders, merry xmas in advance. I have a serious issue disturbing my head. Before i start, note that i have not been intimate with anyone 4 d past 6 months. I met this guy about 5 months ago and things have been going well, we talk and spend some time together and he has always been Nice to me, he seem perfect in all areas but my only problem is that recently, he has taken to touching me at every given opportunity. Light touch like placing hands on my shoulder, hands on my legs while i'm sitting etc. The thing is, i'm not Comfortable with it, i feel irritated by his touch and i always stop him from doing so. Today he asked a question, if i Cant even allow such little body contact then what are we? Pls has anyone experienced this before?

but do u love his money??

kunleweb:
Fooool with sense of entitlement i qonder hoe you empty things see or.think of yourselves

Some of you dolts are just another reason Nairaland ladies call us Scums.

What is the reason for the Insults? Must Gloria34 or any Female nairalander be like your sisters?

Be civil and think well before you type some bullshit.


No hard feelings.

mikejj:
make him understand,you dont like the touch ..if he loves you he wil understand...or else the touch wil grow to sensitive areas

understand what... imagine you having a girlfriend you can't touch... that's bullshit

JasonScoolari:
Some of you dolts are just another reason Nairaland ladies call us Scums.

What is the reason for the Insults? Must Gloria34 or any Female nairalander be like your sisters?

Be civil and think well before you type some bullshit.


No hard feelings.

Jetk off mofo. My comments,my data


That's how they behave, don't touch me indeed

mikejj:
make him understand,you dont like the touch ..if he loves you he wil understand...or else the touch wil grow to sensitive areas

Thats what i've tried doing but everyone is acting like something is wrong with me. Maybe i do see him as a friend as someone pointed out. I feel like i'm d only weird one

gloria34:
Hello Romancelanders, merry xmas in advance. I have a serious issue disturbing my head. Before i start, note that i have not been intimate with anyone 4 d past 6 months. I met this guy about 5 months ago and things have been going well, we talk and spend some time together and he has always been Nice to me, he seem perfect in all areas but my only problem is that recently, he has taken to touching me at every given opportunity. Light touch like placing hands on my shoulder, hands on my legs while i'm sitting etc. The thing is, i'm not Comfortable with it, i feel irritated by his touch and i always stop him from doing so. Today he asked a question, if i Cant even allow such little body contact then what are we? Pls has anyone experienced this before?

Even though you follow "Goat" do friend, he go still chop your yam.

You're at fault dear, you should have defined the "friendship" from the start so that no one goes home hurt.

The solution? Lol, just tell him that you're not ready. You be Warri babe, you suppose know every.

gloria34:
Thats what i've tried doing but everyone is acting like something is wrong with me. Maybe i do see him as a friend as someone pointed out. I feel like i'm d only weird one

i feel you are not comfortable with this guy...tell ursef the truth

JasonScoolari:
Some of you dolts are just another reason Nairaland ladies call us Scums.

What is the reason for the Insults? Must Gloria34 or any Female nairalander be like your sisters?

Be civil and think well before you type some bullshit.


No hard feelings.

Lol, thanks dear. I have no intention of replying such comments, they are out to troll and i Cant allow such comments get to me

Gloria, some guys express love in touching their spouse. If you aren't comfortable with it then there's no harm in defining your relationship whether it's gonna be a platonic one..... if he can't cope, let him go and don't torment him emotionally to accept your terms to prove he loves you. I know that if a guy loves a lady, he would sacrifice to make it work.

cooluzi:
understand what... imagine you having a girlfriend you can't touch... that's bullshit

oga its 5 month and there is something call choice..let the relationship grow first

JasonScoolari:
Some of you dolts are just another reason Nairaland ladies call us Scums.

What is the reason for the Insults? Must Gloria34 or any Female nairalander be like your sisters?

Be civil and think well before you type some bullshit.


No hard feelings.

Your comment made my evening.

Nice one.I was about replying him but just chilled

chuddyforlife:
but do u love his money??

I Dont understand y most guys think any girl in a relationship is after money. I Dont have d world but recently, my salary was increased to over 80k, i Dont beg to feed

kunleweb:
Jetk off mofo. My comments,my data

That's how they behave, don't touch me indeed

some of you males have big issues. If she allows him to touch her,you will call her a hoe. if she doesn't allow him,you will call her stupid.. Wat is the issue??

Lol, what a stupid post,,, he is a nice guy, you guys spend some time together, his perfect in all areas,, but you don't want him to touch you,,, please quit they relationship if you don't want him touch you.

@Gloria34
I certainly would like to know your answer to his question...... And why you didn't tell him exactly that?

If you see him as a friend then at least let him know about it so you guys Aint wasting each others time. Let him also have the choice to bounce if he feels that he is wasting his time.

mikejj:
make him understand,you dont like the touch ..if he loves you he wil understand...or else the touch wil grow to sensitive areas

Love has nothing to do with this issue, because if "she" loved him she wouldnt be turned off by his contact.

mikejj:
i feel you are not comfortable with this guy...tell ursef the truth

I am one confused being right now, sometimes i feel d relationship thing is not 4 me, its not just him

kunleweb:
Jetk off mofo. My comments,my data


That's how they behave, don't touch me indeed

Go and Prepare for JAMB next year. Buhari just reduced the fee.

Keep forming nonsense as if you're a virgin

mikejj:
oga its 5 month and there is something call choice..let the relationship grow first

chai see comment... grow like a mango tree abi otidar

JasonScoolari:
Even though you follow "Goat" do friend, he go still chop your yam.

You're at fault dear, you should have defined the "friendship" from the start so that no one goes home hurt.

The solution? Lol, just tell him that you're not ready. You be Warri babe, you suppose know every.

He has always been cool so i assumed it will always be so, truely i'm at fault

MannieA:
some of you males have big issues.
If she allows him to touch her,you will call her a hoe.
if she doesn't allow him,you will call her stupid..
Wat is the issue??

no be our fault na...

MannieA:
some of you males have big issues. If she allows him to touch her,you will call her a hoe. if she doesn't allow him,you will call her stupid.. Wat is the issue??

the isu is under the soil

MannieA:
some of you males have big issues.
If she allows him to touch her,you will call her a hoe.
if she doesn't allow him,you will call her stupid..
Wat is the issue??

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