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Re: I Don't Want Him To Touch Me by Nobody: 4:45pm On Dec 23, 2018

MrBrownJay1:
@Gloria34
I certainly would like to know your answer to his question...... And why you didn't tell him exactly that?

If you see him as a friend then at least let him know about it so you guys Aint wasting each others time. Let him also have the choice to bounce if he feeds that he is wasting his time.

Love has nothing to do with this issue, because if "she" loved him she wouldnt be turned off by his contact.

I see truth in what u say, maybe i liked his gentleness and good humor but not enough to be his girl

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Re: I Don't Want Him To Touch Me by dauddy97(m): 4:46pm On Dec 23, 2018

gloria34:
Hello Romancelanders, merry xmas in advance. I have a serious issue disturbing my head. Before i start, note that i have not been intimate with anyone 4 d past 6 months. I met this guy about 5 months ago and things have been going well, we talk and spend some time together and he has always been Nice to me, he seem perfect in all areas but my only problem is that recently, he has taken to touching me at every given opportunity. Light touch like placing hands on my shoulder, hands on my legs while i'm sitting etc. The thing is, i'm not Comfortable with it, i feel irritated by his touch and i always stop him from doing so. Today he asked a question, if i Cant even allow such little body contact then what are we? Pls has anyone experienced this before?

Haba, You use style stingy. You said touching you shoulder, hand and legs irritates you. That's bad of you. Assuming he's trying to go to the main place, I would have advised you to stop him. During Courtship, I think romance and kissing is allowed. OP, pls free him

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Re: I Don't Want Him To Touch Me by kunleweb: 4:46pm On Dec 23, 2018

JasonScoolari:
Go and Prepare for JAMB next year. Buhari just reduced the fee.

Ok daddy

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Re: I Don't Want Him To Touch Me by kunleweb: 4:47pm On Dec 23, 2018

gloria34:
I see truth in what u say, maybe i liked his gentleness and good humor but not enough to be his girl

Then initiate withdrawal and stop.offering closure

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Re: I Don't Want Him To Touch Me by MrBrownJay1(m): 4:51pm On Dec 23, 2018

gloria34:
I see truth in what u say, maybe i liked his gentleness and good humor but not enough to be his girl

Then i suggest you A) be honest with this man and tell him just that...... And B) be honest with Yourself to know exactly what you are seeking in life/men/relationship, so you dont waste your time any longer.

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Re: I Don't Want Him To Touch Me by JasonScoolari: 4:52pm On Dec 23, 2018

gloria34:
He has always been cool so i assumed it will always be so, truely i'm at fault

Then do the right thing.

You can't have it all Gloria.

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Re: I Don't Want Him To Touch Me by mikejj(m): 5:00pm On Dec 23, 2018

gloria34:
I am one confused being right now, sometimes i feel d relationship thing is not 4 me, its not just him

exactly my thought..so y complicate things for yourself..tell him how u feel about him..so he can move on...and you can move on.

Re: I Don't Want Him To Touch Me by 11BYTE: 5:00pm On Dec 23, 2018

My cousin came to me complaining of the same issue, a guy who has been trying to date her now for 8yrs , the guy has never asked her to be his girlfriend but anytime their are together he will be like I really love you, and starts touching her in the privates or even attempt to sleep with her. She asked me what should she do since that guy is not asking her to be his girlfriend but always tells her I love you and wants to sleep with her? . I told her if she doesn't love the guy, she should not be going close to him.

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Re: I Don't Want Him To Touch Me by Nobody: 5:01pm On Dec 23, 2018

Seeing guys help Gloria out wanna make me cry.... Gloria just follows their suggestions. They are the best.

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Re: I Don't Want Him To Touch Me by Nobody: 5:03pm On Dec 23, 2018

11BYTE:
My cousin came to me complaining of the same issue, a guy who has been trying to date her now for 8yrs , the guy has never asked her to be his girlfriend but anytime their are together he will be like I really love you, and starts touching her in the privates or even attempt to sleep with her. She asked me what should she do since that guy is not asking her to be his girlfriend but always tells her I love you and wants to sleep with her? . I told her if she doesn't love the guy, she should not be going close to him.

This one is another case ooo, that guy just want to chop and clean mouth. grin

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Re: I Don't Want Him To Touch Me by mikejj(m): 5:07pm On Dec 23, 2018

MrBrownJay1:
@Gloria34
I certainly would like to know your answer to his question...... And why you didn't tell him exactly that?

If you see him as a friend then at least let him know about it so you guys Aint wasting each others time. Let him also have the choice to bounce if he feeds that he is wasting his time.

Love has nothing to do with this issue, because if "she" loved him she wouldnt be turned off by his contact.

true agreed

Re: I Don't Want Him To Touch Me by tonymyke4life(m): 5:08pm On Dec 23, 2018

Acquaintances! Dats wat u guyz r cos even friends touches each other in dat manner.

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Re: I Don't Want Him To Touch Me by Nobody: 5:08pm On Dec 23, 2018

gloria34:
Time and love, i understand but money, NO! I brought this here cos i really Dont understand whats wrong, if its just me or others have experienced it so to all those who are out to insult, i will just ignore

You women sef!

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Re: I Don't Want Him To Touch Me by mikejj(m): 5:10pm On Dec 23, 2018

11BYTE:
My cousin came to me complaining of the same issue, a guy who has been trying to date her now for 8yrs , the guy has never asked her to be his girlfriend but anytime their are together he will be like I really love you, and starts touching her in the privates or even attempt to sleep with her. She asked me what should she do since that guy is not asking her to be his girlfriend but always tells her I love you and wants to sleep with her? . I told her if she doesn't love the guy, she should not be going close to him.

this one is a case o...omoh tell your sis to flee from him

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Re: I Don't Want Him To Touch Me by mikejj(m): 5:12pm On Dec 23, 2018

MariaLavina:

Seeing guys help Gloria out wanna make me cry.... Gloria just follows their suggestions. They are the best.

cry of what biko...do women cry at everything ni hia

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Re: I Don't Want Him To Touch Me by Nobody: 5:14pm On Dec 23, 2018

mikejj:
cry of what biko...do women cry at everything ni hia

You MEN on this thread touched my heart nah. Its been a while I've seen guys here come together to handle a situation maturely.

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Re: I Don't Want Him To Touch Me by DONADAMS(m): 5:17pm On Dec 23, 2018

sister why nau? see as you just friend zone my brother...
NB: you don't love the nigga...let him know so that he'll flee

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Re: I Don't Want Him To Touch Me by Nobody: 5:22pm On Dec 23, 2018

MariaLavina:
You MEN on this thread touched my heart nah. Its been a while I've seen guys here come together to handle a situation maturely.

I've had their support lots of times and i'm grateful

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Re: I Don't Want Him To Touch Me by highpriestess: 5:24pm On Dec 23, 2018

Earthbound:

Gloria, Gloria, Gloria. You're not a virgin and you're depriving this guy who has invested time, love and money in you. 5 months?! Haba! You are wicked!

So, because she isn't a virgin she should spread legs for every dick, Tom and Harry abii.

It's her body my dear.

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Re: I Don't Want Him To Touch Me by Eberechi24(f): 5:25pm On Dec 23, 2018

You don't have sexual feelings for this guy that's why his touching irritates you. You see him as friend and that's what he is to you.

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Re: I Don't Want Him To Touch Me by lilmax(m): 5:27pm On Dec 23, 2018

smh

you only love the calls, chats he gives you, while you're patiently waiting for the perfect person to show, hence you only see him as a friend

you better tell him to find someone that will appreciate him, you're not that person

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Re: I Don't Want Him To Touch Me by cronsberg: 5:31pm On Dec 23, 2018

You are stingy jor. Common touching of leg and shoulders and you are foaming holy. How is it that you are not a virgin then? Mtshheeew it is me that knows how to deal with women like you. The kind of emotional trauma i will put you through eh?

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Re: I Don't Want Him To Touch Me by Arthurity1(m): 5:34pm On Dec 23, 2018

kunleweb:

Jetk off mofo. My comments,my data

That's how they behave, don't touch me indeed

With your comment I can tell you are a rapist.

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Re: I Don't Want Him To Touch Me by kunleweb: 5:37pm On Dec 23, 2018

Arthurity1:

With your comment I can tell you are a rapist.

Ooode cant.yiu see.whom the.mooron is here. Odeee

Re: I Don't Want Him To Touch Me by eunisam: 5:38pm On Dec 23, 2018

gloria34:
Hello Romancelanders, merry xmas in advance. I have a serious issue disturbing my head. Before i start, note that i have not been intimate with anyone 4 d past 6 months. I met this guy about 5 months ago and things have been going well, we talk and spend some time together and he has always been Nice to me, he seem perfect in all areas but my only problem is that recently, he has taken to touching me at every given opportunity. Light touch like placing hands on my shoulder, hands on my legs while i'm sitting etc. The thing is, i'm not Comfortable with it, i feel irritated by his touch and i always stop him from doing so. Today he asked a question, if i Cant even allow such little body contact then what are we? Pls has anyone experienced this before?

Is this not stuupidity of you? if you don't like this guy pls free him

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Re: I Don't Want Him To Touch Me by Nobody: 5:41pm On Dec 23, 2018

highpriestess:

So, because she isn't a virgin she should spread legs for every dick, Tom and Harry abii.

It's her body my dear.

When you turn man? shocked

Re: I Don't Want Him To Touch Me by Homeboiy: 5:41pm On Dec 23, 2018

gloria34:
Hello Romancelanders, merry xmas in advance. I have a serious issue disturbing my head. Before i start, note that i have not been intimate with anyone 4 d past 6 months. I met this guy about 5 months ago and things have been going well, we talk and spend some time together and he has always been Nice to me, he seem perfect in all areas but my only problem is that recently, he has taken to touching me at every given opportunity. Light touch like placing hands on my shoulder, hands on my legs while i'm sitting etc. The thing is, i'm not Comfortable with it, i feel irritated by his touch and i always stop him from doing so. Today he asked a question, if i Cant even allow such little body contact then what are we? Pls has anyone experienced this before?

my new girlfriend was behaving like you, when we came back home yesterday night around 12:30am, she was avoiding me, I told her point blank that I can't continue with her ,she can't be answering my girlfriend and be avoiding body contacts with me.

I slept off, within 15 minutes, she jumped on me,

so am telling to break up with him if u don't like him touching you.

The guy Na idiot sef

5 months too much nah

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Re: I Don't Want Him To Touch Me by Nobody: 5:42pm On Dec 23, 2018

eunisam:

Is this not stuupidity of you? if you don't like this guy pls free him

yes! it is stuupidity of her. grin

Re: I Don't Want Him To Touch Me by Arthurity1(m): 5:42pm On Dec 23, 2018

kunleweb:

Ooode cant.yiu see.whom the.mooron is here. Odeee

When typing, use proper english. Thank you.

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Re: I Don't Want Him To Touch Me by kunleweb: 5:44pm On Dec 23, 2018

Arthurity1:

When typing, use proper english. Thank you.

Fvck off

Re: I Don't Want Him To Touch Me by highpriestess: 5:45pm On Dec 23, 2018

MariaLavina:
When you turn man?

Lmao.
E don tey naa.
Transgender thing. lipsrsealed

I will open new account next year.. grin

Re: I Don't Want Him To Touch Me by DanDeeBoss(m): 5:48pm On Dec 23, 2018

Homeboiy:

my new girlfriend was behaving like you, when we came back home yesterday night around 12:30am, she was avoiding me, I told her point blank that I can't continue with her ,she can't be answering my girlfriend and be avoiding body contacts with me.

I slept off, within 15 minutes, she jumped on me,

so am telling to break up with him if u don't like him touching you.

The guy Na idiot sef

5 months too much nah

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