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Re: My Girl Thinks I Should Give Her Stipends From My Monthly Salary by stubbornman(m): 3:01pm On Dec 30, 2018 |
limbolimbo: No dey cover up for her abeg Shebi she show you her salary alert abi no be wetin she tell you wey you go believe You're not her side hustle!!! she doesn't have the rights to your pocket!! was in a relationship like that early this year it really drained me bro... Babe was always waiting for month to end whether something go drop she even wanted to know the exact amount I was being paid , I thought we were gonna settle down but guess what this girl came sometime around October that she is liking someone else..... it was damn obvious , the changes were glaring.... I painfully ended the relationship ! Most painful part was that she wasn't even remorseful about the whole thing !!! But I'm fine now.... I learnt my lesson but unless a woman Worth's it she will never eat my 1naira again... I'd rather spend on old friends (male and female) or family member!! just be careful bro and end it peacefully while you can .... No allow love turn your thinking! 4 Likes |
Re: My Girl Thinks I Should Give Her Stipends From My Monthly Salary by Nobody: 3:02pm On Dec 30, 2018 |
rame18: |
Re: My Girl Thinks I Should Give Her Stipends From My Monthly Salary by Nobody: 3:02pm On Dec 30, 2018 |
Las las you boys on here will still beg for money. I spit on you jorion: |
Re: My Girl Thinks I Should Give Her Stipends From My Monthly Salary by mistacoco2: 3:03pm On Dec 30, 2018 |
Saffi:sorry to say but you talk like a frustrated and a cheap gold digger.. You better change this mentality before its late. 4 Likes |
Re: My Girl Thinks I Should Give Her Stipends From My Monthly Salary by Chukapage(m): 3:04pm On Dec 30, 2018 |
Saffi:is it your broke ?? see problem broke na your broke ?? lol NO MAGA WILL MARRY A WIDENED PUSSY WITH NO SENSATION OR A FAKE TIGHT PUSSY WITH POOR "WETTING" ABILITY DUE TO ALUM.....beware of ritualist ooo ..no be only pussy mileage ..boys fit still use you arrange better GLC coup ..na so e be ..no dey deceive your sef oo go and work and safe your destiny ..even your SENIOR ADVOCATES in Nollywood NEVER LAND MAGA TO MARRY THEM..na you marry ?? e go shock you ..las las na babymama you fit manage that is if you get luck ooo 4 Likes 1 Share |
Re: My Girl Thinks I Should Give Her Stipends From My Monthly Salary by elonize(m): 3:04pm On Dec 30, 2018 |
Finally, I c somebody thinking what am thinking, Jan bless Qtsnow: |
Re: My Girl Thinks I Should Give Her Stipends From My Monthly Salary by jorion(m): 3:05pm On Dec 30, 2018 |
Saffi:London my foot. I blame the stupid guy whose dik is giving you this stupid confidence 2 Likes 1 Share |
Re: My Girl Thinks I Should Give Her Stipends From My Monthly Salary by Nobody: 3:06pm On Dec 30, 2018 |
Ramos16: I am as confused as tarorfeek |
Re: My Girl Thinks I Should Give Her Stipends From My Monthly Salary by Diffdeef(m): 3:08pm On Dec 30, 2018 |
Life is a lot simple than we thought,if her request or entitlement mentality is unacceptable to you,you call it quit, eventually, believe me she'll still find someone that accepts those requests of hers,you on the other hand will still find someone who entirely doesn't put up such request or have such mentality,so at the end,everybody is happy. Not a do or die affair. 4 Likes |
Re: My Girl Thinks I Should Give Her Stipends From My Monthly Salary by Nobody: 3:08pm On Dec 30, 2018 |
uyiekpenn: Both of you are right. You didn't have to walk her out of your car though 2 Likes |
Re: My Girl Thinks I Should Give Her Stipends From My Monthly Salary by mechanics(m): 3:09pm On Dec 30, 2018 |
You shouldn't have given her the wrist watch, you should have given her the cash, explain to her on the amount you use in buying the wrist-watch so she will understand you are doing your best, you need to spend wisely on her so you won't have heart attack if the relationship ends abruptly, you made mention of full cycle, don't understand that statement. |
Re: My Girl Thinks I Should Give Her Stipends From My Monthly Salary by Nobody: 3:10pm On Dec 30, 2018 |
Shut uppp. Beggarrr oshi. Cow jorion: 1 Like |
Re: My Girl Thinks I Should Give Her Stipends From My Monthly Salary by elonize(m): 3:10pm On Dec 30, 2018 |
Hahahahhahahaha, guy don't be so open to tell her how much u earn,cos as u r telling her,rty in front of u,she don calculated her share,naso dm b,after going tru n seeing what most girls do,I just prefer to be single and it has been so sweet been single stubbornman: |
Re: My Girl Thinks I Should Give Her Stipends From My Monthly Salary by Ginalex(f): 3:14pm On Dec 30, 2018 |
Saffi:A guy spending on his babe is very different from a babe feeling entitled to a monthly stipend from the guy's salary Hanty. When she no be the guy mum or wife? Use ya head abeg 1 Like 1 Share |
Re: My Girl Thinks I Should Give Her Stipends From My Monthly Salary by Nobody: 3:15pm On Dec 30, 2018 |
Saffi:come on my lady enough ok. Those guys are saying nothing but the realest truth. 80% of naija girls have this stupid mentality that when you are in a relationship with them you have to take care of all their needs just because they give you their pussy. |
Re: My Girl Thinks I Should Give Her Stipends From My Monthly Salary by rame18(f): 3:16pm On Dec 30, 2018 |
[quote author=Hizzy post=74296552][/quote] You better show her love o, before she change her mind. |
Re: My Girl Thinks I Should Give Her Stipends From My Monthly Salary by Ozkar: 3:16pm On Dec 30, 2018 |
PrimadonnaO:wow... Several paragraphs of undiluted waffling. You don't get the point, do you? There are basically only two real issues here... 1) Is it okay to spend extravagantly on a lady one isn't even in a relationship with? According to the OP, he is a "To be boyfriend", and after he stated his stance, she said she doesn't think they can be in a relationship. 2) Is a lady entitled to a part of a man's salary as pocket money because they are dating? This is the part that gets the most backlash. You said you found her matter-of-fact entitlement annoying, yet went ahead to explain how it is a natural expectation that women have of their man. So what exactly makes her entitlement annoying to you? The fact that you wouldn't say it outright? I found it interesting that you noted you would not want to spend your money to do stuff for your partner. He has to give you money from time to time, for you to spend money on him. It is known that many ladies are tightfisted with their money. So what would encourage a man's natural inclination of good will? Why shouldn't guys who spend on these ladies (that only receive and never give) feel stupid too? Women from time immemorial were relegated to domestic duties in our part of the world. Many used to think (many still do) that women are incapable of any logical thought or of managing positions of leadership. Does the fact that many have thought so for long justify it? You are viewing the world with colored lens, and expect others using colored lens too to have the same color as yours. 8 Likes 2 Shares |
Re: My Girl Thinks I Should Give Her Stipends From My Monthly Salary by WaffenSS(m): 3:16pm On Dec 30, 2018 |
Hizzy: Send an email with the necessaries 2 Likes |
Re: My Girl Thinks I Should Give Her Stipends From My Monthly Salary by jorion(m): 3:17pm On Dec 30, 2018 |
Saffi: With due respect to your parents, accept my condolences on their behalf. If they only knew their daughter was dyking for money 1 Like |
Re: My Girl Thinks I Should Give Her Stipends From My Monthly Salary by warmachine(m): 3:17pm On Dec 30, 2018 |
.. 1 Like 1 Share |
Re: My Girl Thinks I Should Give Her Stipends From My Monthly Salary by nora2018(m): 3:20pm On Dec 30, 2018 |
boiz2men:you must be my twin brother |
Re: My Girl Thinks I Should Give Her Stipends From My Monthly Salary by Veetee(m): 3:21pm On Dec 30, 2018 |
limbolimbo: bro.. go and look for a full blown working class lady u will have peace of mind. leave these jobless girls for sugar daddies and yahoo boys. u can't impress them .if u try u will be doing it at your expense..your focus now should be on investing in yourself and expanding your source of income. sorry to say most Nigerian girls mentality about dating is messed up. she won't add value to u except her body. but if the sex is what u are after then good luck 5 Likes 1 Share |
Re: My Girl Thinks I Should Give Her Stipends From My Monthly Salary by ayesco202(m): 3:22pm On Dec 30, 2018 |
You even refer to her as "my girl"? Who told you she's your girl? 3 Likes |
Re: My Girl Thinks I Should Give Her Stipends From My Monthly Salary by Nobody: 3:23pm On Dec 30, 2018 |
WaffenSS:Okay sir 1 Like |
Re: My Girl Thinks I Should Give Her Stipends From My Monthly Salary by Nobody: 3:24pm On Dec 30, 2018 |
WaffenSS:I mailed you now sir 1 Like |
Re: My Girl Thinks I Should Give Her Stipends From My Monthly Salary by warmachine(m): 3:24pm On Dec 30, 2018 |
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Re: My Girl Thinks I Should Give Her Stipends From My Monthly Salary by Kenfil(f): 3:25pm On Dec 30, 2018 |
Lemme tell u this, no man is obligated to give money to a woman they are not married to. If u r dating someone they should at least have small change to care for their needs, then if u wanna help out then great if not don't let any lazy girl bully u into becoming their father Christmas. Please find women and men who are willing to contribute in ur lives and I bet u they are out there. Thank u 4 Likes 1 Share |
Re: My Girl Thinks I Should Give Her Stipends From My Monthly Salary by boiz2men(m): 3:25pm On Dec 30, 2018 |
Saffi: Hey, get off your high horses. I know a lot of friends who live in Europe and are not doing great. I have a better life than most. Only fellow docs in Europe live better. Being outside Nigeria doesn't mean you have a great life. 12 Likes 1 Share |
Re: My Girl Thinks I Should Give Her Stipends From My Monthly Salary by edicied: 3:25pm On Dec 30, 2018 |
The op mad! How would you buy a wristwatch of 90k+ for a girl? the emphasis here is on the watch. You should have gotten her something reasonable that also cost the same, what would she use the watch for, read heavens time? 1 Like |
Re: My Girl Thinks I Should Give Her Stipends From My Monthly Salary by boiz2men(m): 3:27pm On Dec 30, 2018 |
Re: My Girl Thinks I Should Give Her Stipends From My Monthly Salary by Nobody: 3:30pm On Dec 30, 2018 |
rame18: |
Re: My Girl Thinks I Should Give Her Stipends From My Monthly Salary by RedboneSmith(m): 3:33pm On Dec 30, 2018 |
Don't waste a minute with a girl who makes you (or wants you to) spend more than you're comfortable with. 2 Likes |
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