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Re: My Girl Thinks I Should Give Her Stipends From My Monthly Salary by Simplybami(f): 3:34pm On Dec 30, 2018 |
uyiekpenn: What about your younger sister? You should also give her a monthly stipend till she gets a job. |
Re: My Girl Thinks I Should Give Her Stipends From My Monthly Salary by Nobody: 3:34pm On Dec 30, 2018 |
I even thought she was your girl I stopped reading when i saw "yet to be boyfriend" Well, as u start to use money toast am na money u go take chop am.. Na these guys dey make girls impose tax on everything & na now u wan complain.. Money without style. Mtcheeewww
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Re: My Girl Thinks I Should Give Her Stipends From My Monthly Salary by uyiekpenn(m): 3:36pm On Dec 30, 2018 |
Simplybami:I don't have a younger sister. Only have an elder sister and she's an American doctor living in America as well with her husband. |
Re: My Girl Thinks I Should Give Her Stipends From My Monthly Salary by Simplybami(f): 3:38pm On Dec 30, 2018 |
uyiekpenn: Okay. Good. |
Re: My Girl Thinks I Should Give Her Stipends From My Monthly Salary by xelly: 3:42pm On Dec 30, 2018 |
At the end, WHAT IS YOUR PROFIT? I mean after spending 100k+, what is your profit? If there's no addition to what you spent, then you are investing in liability. If that's good for you, keep it up. Let me ask, how much has she spent on you? Don't give me the crack that she doesn't have anything, if she doesn't have anything, she isn't worth anything. 2 Likes 1 Share |
Re: My Girl Thinks I Should Give Her Stipends From My Monthly Salary by elonize(m): 3:43pm On Dec 30, 2018 |
A girl dat comes out to say something like dis tells u much abt her,dat she's well brought up n she discipline herself to hustle well,I have much respect for u,are u in delta? Kenfil: |
Re: My Girl Thinks I Should Give Her Stipends From My Monthly Salary by uyiekpenn(m): 3:43pm On Dec 30, 2018 |
merahki:Bleep your feelings and what you think. You don't need to like me cos your likeness towards is as irrelevant as the letter P in Pneumonia and Psychology and adds nothing to my life. Your laziness and self entitlement is why i lack respect for women like you cos you've refused to be productive to yourself bit rather has decided to be a parasite living off a host. Why should any woman depend on a man for survival? Are you handicapped? Don't you have 2 hands and 2 legs? What do you bring to the table other than your over-stretched pussyy and drama? No wonder men no longer have respect for women anymore cos of your pathetic kind. 6 Likes |
Re: My Girl Thinks I Should Give Her Stipends From My Monthly Salary by Vickteur: 3:44pm On Dec 30, 2018 |
limbolimbo:Mehn, same as I. Truth be told. My girlfriend ( pharmacist) told me I should be giving her up keep from my salary. The incoherency in my thoughts made me feel its good for our growth. She's a corp member, had issues with payments last two months. My cousin's goon said they've been paid, I conjecture she's been too but hasn't made mention at all. I love her but I don't know how to stop this misdemeanor (my feeling) that I started. She openly tells me she loves money in an intelligible, humor-laced way. She calls everyday like an hour plus tho sometimes I do send the airtime. Her preaching is don't hurt me but can I continue with the long calls and up keep. She serves in the north & I'm in the south 2 Likes |
Re: My Girl Thinks I Should Give Her Stipends From My Monthly Salary by uyiekpenn(m): 3:45pm On Dec 30, 2018 |
greyham:oga I have no regrets about what I did. No woman would use me as a means to climb any ladder when she has absolutely nothing to offer. 2 Likes |
Re: My Girl Thinks I Should Give Her Stipends From My Monthly Salary by Nobody: 3:46pm On Dec 30, 2018 |
Ozkar: Her love, care, devotion to making you happy, and other things the guy might want that are reasonable. |
Re: My Girl Thinks I Should Give Her Stipends From My Monthly Salary by Adeinfo: 3:46pm On Dec 30, 2018 |
Iyajelili: Wow! I admire your resilience. Keep it up, having a sense of independence makes you responsible and have a sense of pride. You can stand up to anybody. 3 Likes 1 Share |
Re: My Girl Thinks I Should Give Her Stipends From My Monthly Salary by uyiekpenn(m): 3:46pm On Dec 30, 2018 |
monaPhilz:you gallant my oga at the top. It's time to put these lazy and entitled females where they rightly belong. 3 Likes |
Re: My Girl Thinks I Should Give Her Stipends From My Monthly Salary by uyiekpenn(m): 3:48pm On Dec 30, 2018 |
bokmal:it doesn't matter the type of car that I have. What matters is that I was able to put an entitled broke ass female where she rightly belongs 1 Like |
Re: My Girl Thinks I Should Give Her Stipends From My Monthly Salary by Nobody: 3:48pm On Dec 30, 2018 |
Yes it does. Especially if you were born and raised here boiz2men: |
Re: My Girl Thinks I Should Give Her Stipends From My Monthly Salary by Daeylar(f): 3:48pm On Dec 30, 2018 |
PrimadonnaO:Even on their friends " their guys" they spend money, but it comes to the woman they claim to love, "I love you, I love you" They want to scream golddigger. Some men eh. But it doesn't mean that a woman doesn't assist, too. As a matter of fact, a woman usually goes the extra mile for a man she loves and who in return makes her feel loved. Trust me on this one.They know, they just like to act funny, All of these guys whining, they are either broke or badly bruised... not anybody's business, neither does it change the fact.And they know that too, they just hope that their whining and complaining can force women to lower their standards to want nothing so that they can get away with not spending any money nor doing any thing for the woman they claim to love. What I do have an issue with is a woman who won't do anything for herself... and would in fact, be in a pathetic state without a man giving her money.Very true. No woman should allow herself to get to the point that without a man she is nothing. I work and I earn, and can sort out my basic needs and a bit of indulgences for myself, but no, I won't be with a man who's tight-fisted, a man who doesn't understand that he should be supportive and occasionally do random stuff for his woman whether or not such was requestedNothing but the truth. I mean, that would stifle my natural inclinations of goodwill. I'd feel stupid if I cooked such a man a sumptuous dish as a treat with my money...I'd feel silly if I saw that nice shirt and got it for him because I felt it would look great on him. I'd feel overzealous if I arranged a surprise for his birthday. Nahh...can't be with a man like that.Same, for me, having any type of relationship with someone like the above mentioned would be terrible. You won't be able to as generous to them as you would want because then you would feel a bit foolish, You'll then start restricting yourself, just making yourself unhappy, 1 Like |
Re: My Girl Thinks I Should Give Her Stipends From My Monthly Salary by 0monnak0da: 3:50pm On Dec 30, 2018 |
How many times have we seen this same story on Nairaland in a different format This is maybe format 22 Same discussion "Should a man pay his girlfriend for her GIRLFRIENDSHIP? Then we have the Naysayers mostly Yoruba men She is a golddigger, what is her father doing , we both enjoy the sex etc The Aye Sayers Mostly Igbo Women You are stingy, You are broke. If you don't have money padlock your thin Then we have the End of discussion group mostly Igbo men > No argument Small boys should go and hustle till they have Money before chasing women. If you don't have money keep quiet Aboki men just keep quiet and observe they know they can get the girls from age 9-10 Its our religion 2 Likes |
Re: My Girl Thinks I Should Give Her Stipends From My Monthly Salary by Onyedika007(m): 3:51pm On Dec 30, 2018 |
Ask her if it'd be Okay if you paid for her to learn a trade like tailoring or something.. If she resists I think you should let her be .. I like she has this mentality because she has nothing doing.. something tangible that's why she thinks that way 2 Likes |
Re: My Girl Thinks I Should Give Her Stipends From My Monthly Salary by Nobody: 3:53pm On Dec 30, 2018 |
If you don’t want to spend fine. But I’m not entitled to cook, give you sex, give you absolutely nothing. Let everybody just be on their own and be selfish, since that’s the games we wanna play. 2 Likes |
Re: My Girl Thinks I Should Give Her Stipends From My Monthly Salary by Daeylar(f): 3:53pm On Dec 30, 2018 |
Darkseid: LMAO Selling a gift? |
Re: My Girl Thinks I Should Give Her Stipends From My Monthly Salary by uyiekpenn(m): 3:55pm On Dec 30, 2018 |
Princedapace:as in eh it boils me down to my bone marrows when I see the rubbish these so called men do in the name of being in a relationship. How can I be dating a girl and she's still expecting me to pay for being in a relationship with me? That's absolutely preposterous. I'm an Australian based Health, Safety and Environment Supervisor /Coordinator/Advisor and I know the hours and efforts I put in everyday just to earn a living to start sharing my hard earned sweat with one vagabond who has refused to be productive and useful to herself but wants to use sex as a leverage to expect payment while in a relationship. Who does that? 6 Likes |
Re: My Girl Thinks I Should Give Her Stipends From My Monthly Salary by juniorstar(m): 4:00pm On Dec 30, 2018 |
Start small and gradually increase your spending on her. Dont start with wat u feel is big cos with time she wud want dat ur big u started with to increase and u would be spending above ur limit its gonna start stressing u and u wud begin thinking is it really worth it so start small and increase with time. Many guys make dis mistake. |
Re: My Girl Thinks I Should Give Her Stipends From My Monthly Salary by Mcy56(f): 4:03pm On Dec 30, 2018 |
uyiekpenn:Bros, which girl offend you like this? Sorry to ask o but please forgive her and don't give up on female folk in general, there are still good ones out there. |
Re: My Girl Thinks I Should Give Her Stipends From My Monthly Salary by Omudia11: 4:04pm On Dec 30, 2018 |
I'm a lady but I feel like slapping you right now. |
Re: My Girl Thinks I Should Give Her Stipends From My Monthly Salary by PrinceBBlack(m): 4:06pm On Dec 30, 2018 |
limbolimbo:Bros your are not wrong... it is so sad that lots of girls feel entitled to a guy's money cos he is the boyfriend... if a guy chooses to spend on a lady is choice. Never settle for a lady who says its her right to ur money. She will only ruin you and leave u once the chips are down. You are not her father... that is why there is marriage. Its transfer of responsibility from her parents to you as a husband. Be wise 2 Likes 2 Shares |
Re: My Girl Thinks I Should Give Her Stipends From My Monthly Salary by AreaFada2: 4:12pm On Dec 30, 2018 |
@OP, I am not against your spending on her as you can afford. But her mindset and entitlement mentality is troubling. What happens if someday you do not have much (God forbid), will she still be sweet and loving? With all your current largess she's calling you stingy, what if you decide to give less? 2 Likes |
Re: My Girl Thinks I Should Give Her Stipends From My Monthly Salary by 0monnak0da: 4:14pm On Dec 30, 2018 |
Saffi:Your English needs improvement Do you know the meaning of the word entitled? perhaps you mean obliged? Sex is something you "give" ? Since the day you started to "give sex " have you ever got a reference,certificate or feedback form to tell you how good your sex is so that your next partner can know what they are buying? e.g Are you in the Premiership or Championship? Cooking ?? Is that how good your cooking is? See...... all those things can be paid for ? Sex and cooking ......... especially in Nigeria, very cheap Why pretend there is a relationship? Then the question of selfishness should not come into it if you are paying You simply negotiate Sex How many times a week Whether you use condom or not and then agree a rate including charge for abortion if needed If Housekeeping is part of the deal again you agree a rate If escorting to events like parties etc again you agree a rate , including wardrobe allowance etc It is business why pretend it is something else? Men do it for women and women do it for men it depends on who is more needy. I think problems arise when people pretend to each other 14 Likes 2 Shares |
Re: My Girl Thinks I Should Give Her Stipends From My Monthly Salary by AreaFada2: 4:14pm On Dec 30, 2018 |
@OP, I am not against your spending on her as you can afford. But her mindset and entitlement mentality is troubling. What happens if someday you do not have much (God forbid), will she still be sweet and loving? Or become very unreasonable and disrespectful. With all your current largess she's calling you stingy, what if you decide to give less? In my opinion, cut your loss and move on dude. 3 Likes |
Re: My Girl Thinks I Should Give Her Stipends From My Monthly Salary by tejiri4(m): 4:16pm On Dec 30, 2018 |
limbolimbo: dat gurl dont love you she will eventually take your money n spend it on a boy she loves, impress a gurl with ur dream not money, bcuz d day money goes u will see hell dat day. I hate broke gurls who can go get a life for herself 1 Like |
Re: My Girl Thinks I Should Give Her Stipends From My Monthly Salary by dkronicle(m): 4:17pm On Dec 30, 2018 |
babyfaceafrica:I did that to a girl recently. They feel like they are entitled to a niggas cash. 2 Likes |
Re: My Girl Thinks I Should Give Her Stipends From My Monthly Salary by PotatoSalad(m): 4:17pm On Dec 30, 2018 |
Oh man. I'd rather spend that on my mum and dad. Some of these dudes have parents they don't call or will disappear when their parents are in need but will gift ladies stuff like santa. O Lord, let me not be as foolish as OP 4 Likes |
Re: My Girl Thinks I Should Give Her Stipends From My Monthly Salary by Glink2018(m): 4:21pm On Dec 30, 2018 |
Some ladies would be like....why not me in this position? .... For me, ...I will say, use wisdom.... relationship is a time to observe things... Ladies refuse to learn that time is changing... Can you imagine, when you have a lot of working class ladies who want to even give you and one is here saying , "give me a monthly stipend" different strokes for different folks |
Re: My Girl Thinks I Should Give Her Stipends From My Monthly Salary by Adeinfo: 4:21pm On Dec 30, 2018 |
Iyajelili:I admire your resilience and courage, keep it up. A sense of independence makes you proud of yourself and you can stand up to anybody. 1 Like |
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