Why do you people think orphans are lazy and hopeless people?

Atiku is an orphan o

uyiekpenn:
I've said it before and I'll say it again. It's not your duty as a man to be financially responsible for any girl's upkeep. Nigerian men created this stupid feeling of entitlement and virus that's quite common amongst 90% of Nigerian females. The only woman I give monthly stipends and money in general is my mom and none other. I don't work under the biting winters or hot summers each day to be feeding one broke ass, lazy, hopeless, useless, greedy, senseless and unproductive female when she's not handicapped or an orphan.

0monnak0da:


You see I analyse communicaation for a living.
As long as you keep talking and or writing I can tell who you are , your background and status.

Even if you are in the UK I can tell the post code area you grew up in

You see even when people make writing or spelling errors they are not random, there is a pattern

Let me share a few with you

What will I gain from lying?

A basic grammatical error

The correct tense should be the CONDITIONAL TENSE

What WOULD I gain but that is not random it is a TYPICALLY Nigerian error
very few Nigerians would NOT make this error even unversity proffessors

Next the construction using the word GAIN is typically Nigerian

Most UK educated kids would simply say

"Why would I lie?"

That your construction is in the COME AND BE GOING category

These solecisms are not random at all they are PREDICTABLE

Again the phrase
"small boys" is something I would expect from an Olosho not a London Girl as you claim to be

Stop the fake life ,keep it real

Well said Mate! She is not Brit! I’m not even considering the entitlement mentality, but her demeanor and communication.

Hat off!

limbolimbo:
I recently showed interest in a neighbour of mine, I know she likes me, but she is a very traditional person, she wants us to go through the full cycle before anything further. But something started giving me a reason to worry about here mindset towards relationships.

She celebrated her birthday last month, and I got her a very expensive wrist watch, it cost me 94k, she doesn't know this. I also got her a really nice cake, cost me 10k, so in all I spent over a hundred thousand on her birthday. I know for some this may not seem like much or may seem like too much, I think what really matters is tat I was fine with it and could afford it. Within the same period, she would indirectly ask me for funds, she said she was broke, I could have helped her with this but I felt it was way above my position, as I am only a "To Be Boyfriend", to offer her all this after spending a 100k on gifts for her birthday.

A week ago we had a very interesting discussion, about the role of the man and the woman in a relationship, she said that "A man should be responsible for the upkeep of his Girlfriend, he should save a portion from his salary monthly which he should give to his girlfriend for upkeep". I thought that was nonsense and I quickly called her out on it, all I can say now is that I don't think we would be dating anymore, because she took it very personally, she said she thinks she would suffer if she goes into a relationship with me, because I am already showing signs of being stingy.

If I keep writing I would not end, so my question here is, is she right? Should I have instead given her the cash rather than the gift? Because to me it now seems she doesn't see the value of the gift and would rather have cash. I want adult opinions please.

(Please note that I am not trying to paint this lady as an evil person, she is really sweet, loving, caring, she loves getting attention and doesn't have any problem in showing me how she really feels about me, overall she is a great lady.)

you alone know if she is worth you giving her a portion of your salary. If she is someone you would like to wife and you know she isn't one of these girls with entitlement ish, then there is no harm in giving her a little out of your salary, it just shows you care. It doesn't have to be much 20k per month is still cool. Of she isn't worth it, Just leave her alone.

uyiekpenn:
I've said it before and I'll say it again. It's not your duty as a man to be financially responsible for any girl's upkeep. Nigerian men created this stupid feeling of entitlement and virus that's quite common amongst 90% of Nigerian females. The only woman I give monthly stipends and money in general is my mom and none other. I don't work under the biting winters or hot summers each day to be feeding one broke ass, lazy, hopeless, useless, greedy, senseless and unproductive female when she's not handicapped or an orphan.

The prevalent mentality in Nigeria as regards relationships are repugnant.

It's in Nigeria I know $hit like this happens ON A WIDE SCALE.

The sense of entitlements is just

hahahaaamuhahahhaaaa

Ziggylady:



There is nothing in my post to suggest any of the gibberish you maliciously implied...Its all in your head,strong and real like one suffering from some sort of schizophrenia..

You can be stingy and be proud of it.

You can dislike female and flaunt it on nairaland much to the delight of your male admirers,

You can call women all sorts and denigrate them like you were either hatched by a bird or dropped from a sky....its your funeral really

But it will be a crime againt humanity if you end up getting married albeit deceiving one unsuspecting female you are sane and human when you are not..thereby subjecting someone else's child to a life of agony and pain that would surely ensue from such a messed up male.

THAT IS MY POINT!.

I picked you on one point disliking women has little to do with homosexuality. It is called misogyny and you were conflating the two,You did suggest that the individual was gay. Is that true or false

Lots of women too hate men-as a class- This does not make them lesbian, They are called misanthropes
That is merely a lacuna in your knowledge and exposure



This is a subject that has exercised the minds of sociologists for decades.

So why the abuse?
It seems you were waiting to explode? or maybe you wan to practise your prose ?
Quite how that then extends into schizophrenia is just funny and childish,

It tells me you do not have the intellectual capacity to debate the issues and feel more comfortable dragging them to the gutter.

You are trying too hard to appear smart with limited success. On this occasion you are way out of your depth and gutter language is a very poor ersatz for the real thing

Muhahhaaaaaaaa

Boss13:


Well said Mate! She is not Brit! I’m not even considering the entitlement mentality, but her demeanor and communication.

Hat off!

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Jeferious:
Abeg where my brothers dey see this kind girls... because to me they don't exist. Abi na brothel op go find this im girlfriend?

The thing is that most men are so poor that the only thing they have is money. It's the only thing they can use to impress a lady. But the thing is, women value great sex more than money. I've been with mainstream prostitutes so I know what I'm talking about. They often have lots of money, mostly running into millions, that they don't know what to do with. But funny enough dem go still collect maximum payment from the next client. And intelligence is another trait that women admire a lot. Strength, eloquence, good looks are also capable of capturing a lady's heart.

From a personal point, I've a gf who I kept under my spell not with money(she has not even begged me money before in the first place), but with so many other qualities. And I can't remember her denying me anything before. The only bad thing is that I don't want to marry her, or anybody else. I just want her to give me children, preferably males.

Bro, you're the real gee
The thing is, most successful guys these days don't want to keep a woman in their abode again, they prefer them to have children and take care of them

Why??

But this type of girl OP is talking about issa gold digger.

Saffi:
If you can’t afford it, don’t kill your self. If you can, great. Nothing wrong with spending on your babe, if you have interest in her, just don’t make yourself unhappy or slave-like to please her. But if you’re looking for a long term commitment, you can’t run away from spending and that’s just the truth. Don’t let these niggaz deceive you

Saffi:
Okay now I live in the U.K, but I grew up poor? I can’t keep up with all this nonsense.

Grammatical king, where are you in life? What has it done for you?

Someone’s English automatically equates to a good life Lool. Only in Nigeria will you hear [/b]bullshit like this, I’m honestly amazed at how retardedd you are. [b]They can only use Queens English to validate themselves because money no dey. Wetin concern me with another mans language? Idiot. You have lost the argument. You are not making any sense, go back to reading your dictionary poor man.

I am in a place of contentment
I am comfortable in my own skin with who I am
I know who I am
I would not go online to lie or ridicule myself

No one forced you to say you were born in the UK ,you did not have to .
You only said so because you felt it would somehow exalt you above everyone else but you have only succeeded in doing the opposite you revealed your hollowness and inferiority complex

Hear yourself


"Someone's English"

This is not just about being born in the UK
it is about being what we used to call "RAZZ" in those days . I do not know if the word still exists but that is exactly what you are a razz lowlife wannabe from Okoko
Very few people in the UK speak the so called Queen's English

That is not the point here.

The point is that


YOU ARE A LIAR

irumole1975:
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Bro, you're the real gee
The thing is, most successful guys these days don't want to keep a woman in their abode again, they prefer them to have children and take care of them

Why??

Because marriage is a bad deal when you take several things into account like:
*what she's bringing to the table
*hotness
*severe lack of feminist in today's women
*combativeness
*plain old stupidity
*the list is inexhaustible

Women marry because they like the life you can give them, not because of one stupid love. A man with money knows that shit ain't cool.

Earthbound:
Did you just say you spent over a hundred K on a chick that is not your girlfriend?? Someone who might be in the shower right now as I type this, getting ready for some other guy's dic.




I dunno your age, bruh but you deserve better brain resetting beating

What difference would it make if it's her girlfriend..
Oh! He would be fucking her.. I guess sex equals money

Boss13:


Initially I wanted to call you out of your silliness, then I had a second thought - maybe you are a teenager going through a lot and just trying to hide on a faceless forum to feel good about your Insecure self.

Your lingo and diction does not depict someone who was born and raised in a western society. You continue to use Nigerian phrases and contemporary words and that gives you out as someone who maybe in a fantasy world. Also, your mindset is still interwoven with that of African cultural values and thinking.

I know this because I know the United Kingdom extremely well and I also live in a Western Country. I can tell those who are not aware that London is a crappy city. The only fantastic place to live and visit is Central London, the other places are horrible. North London is not much different from Lagos - Dirty. You can literally see Poo on the streets (no jokes). Gang members, street beggars, homeless and prostitution. Crime levels so high you begin to wonder if the Met Police is incompetent. Broken families within the black community and kids roaming around with daddy issues.

so they poo on the streets on some parts of london?

Saffi:
hahahaaamuhahahhaaaa

You are laughing, after causing commotion here.

Sarang:


What difference would it make if it's her girlfriend..
Oh! He would be fucking her.. I guess sex equals money

OK since sex doesn't equal money, how would you feel if your boyfriend/partner bought an expensive gift for another woman

lefulefu:

so they poo on the streets on some parts of london?

Homeless crackheads mehn

Saffi:
Shaattaapp

oh shut up you Hoe.

Earthbound:

Homeless crackheads mehn

i cant believe this

Let me tell you something, I’m fuckingg razzz and I don’t pretend. I’ve always been proud of my culture. Even though I was born here, I’m still a razz babe at heart. The only reason why I brought my U.K. status is because some idiots including yourself tried to label me as the stereo typical broke Nigerian babe, and I had to let you fools know that not everybody dey your level. Some idiot even said 1k will have me for one night. Is 1k even up to 1 pound, money that I can trample on. I come from a stable background, never suffered, lived a good life, and even came to Nigeria and lived my best life. Just respect yourself, I don’t care if it’s the internet, do not fuxkk with me.

0monnak0da:


I am in a place of contentment
I am comfortable in my own skin with who I am
I know who I am
I would not go online to lie or ridicule myself

No one forced you to say you were born in the UK ,you did not have to .
You only said so because you felt it would somehow exalt you above everyone else but you have only succeeded in doing the opposite you revealed your hollowness and inferiority complex

Hear yourself


"Someone's English"

This is not just about being born in the UK
it is about being what we used to call "RAZZ" in those days . I do not know if the word still exists but that is exactly what you are a razz lowlife wannabe from Okoko
Very few people in the UK speak the so called Queen's English/

That is not the point here.

Oga it’s your mother that’s a hoe ohh. Let me just jejely give that information to you now lol.

uyiekpenn:
oh shut up you Hoe.

Some guys will commit suicide tonight hahaahaAa

irumole1975:
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Bro, you're the real gee
The thing is, most successful guys these days don't want to keep a woman in their abode again, they prefer them to have children and take care of them

Why??

Because women are kinda overhyped. Besides the stress is not worth it. Woman na work on its own, and if you add that to the everyday burden that a man must bear, then you've a man who is literarily overwhelmed. That explains why the life expectancy of men is generally lower than that of their counterparts.

limbolimbo:


She works, but it doesn't pay much.

If she is sensible, she is suppose to value any little you give since she also know money is not plucked or easy to come by......

WaffenSS:


You're welcome, but shhhh!

I mean thank you So much
Thanks

Saffi:
Let me tell you something, I’m fuckingg razzz and I don’t pretend. I’ve always been proud of my culture. Even though I was born here, I’m still a razz babe at heart. The only reason why I brought my U.K. status is because some idiots including yourself tried to label me as the stereo typical broke Nigerian babe, and I had to let you fools know that not everybody dey your level. Some idiot even said 1k will have me for one night. Is 1k even up to 1 pound, money that I can trample on. I come from a stable background, never suffered, lived a good life, and even came to Nigeria and lived my best life. Just respect yourself, I don’t care if it’s the internet, do not fuxkk with me.

Well it has backfired.
You are not credible in your claim
Being in the UK does not immunize you from poverty especially if you are badly educated and razz then very likely you will be on minimum wage jobs.like Care or cleaning
Also the men are on the same level and even less generous than brothers back home unless they are into one crime or the other
Your idea that UK STATUS as you call it is elevated is foolish, you need to give up that mentality.
Honestly this time I am sincere I feel sorry for you because your thinking is upside down
Being razz is not our culture it is just lack of class

tejiri4:


You actually d first sensible gurl hv seen on nairaland.so impress continue n may God bless ur hustle.

Amen. Thanks sir

Adeinfo:


Wow! I admire your resilience. Keep it up, having a sense of independence makes you responsible and have a sense of pride. You can stand up to anybody.

Thanks for your kind words. I actually feel so much joy when I receive alert for moneybox worked for

Saffi:
Hahahaamuhaahaaaaa

Your laps go well o. Sorry just had to comment.

nagalee:
u don't start a relationship on the basis of money. Just be yaself, who will love will love you

I thank God for my life and my babe

Saffi:
If you don’t want to spend fine. But I’m not entitled to cook, give you sex, give you absolutely nothing. Let everybody just be on their own and be selfish, since that’s the games we wanna play.

Why do you choose to sound like an idiot!!!!


just see the fücking thing you wrote up there!!

eh be like say this Burundi wey you dey nah im dey chark your head!!!

It didn’t backfire. Infact most of you look so stupid because your stupid claims are false. You can see you are the only one still quoting me, the others are hiding in shame. You want to push your poverty claims on me by force, it will not happen. I understand the frustration, trying to take any little thing to spin against me. Even using my tone of typing as an evaluation of my lifestyle. Lool how stupid is that? You have lost this argument. If you can prove to me that I’m broke, I will dash you money. At 23 I’m doing quite well for myself, don’t ever try to come for me in your life. Argument ended. Adi9/ idiot.

0monnak0da:
Well it has backfired.
You are not credible in your claim
Being in the UK does not immunize you from poverty especially if you are badly educated and razz then very likely you will be on minimum wage jobs.like Care or cleaning
Also the men are on the same level and even less generous than brothers back home unless they are into one crime or the other
Your idea that UK STATUS as you call it is elevated is foolish, you need to give up that mentality.
Honestly this time I am sincere I feel sorry for you because your thinking is upside down
Being razz is not our culture it is just lack of class

Saffi:
It didn’t backfire. Infact most of you look so stupid because your stupid claims are false. You can see you are the only one still quoting me, the others are hiding in shame. You want to push your poverty claims on me by force, it will not happen. I understand the frustration, trying to take any little thing to spin against me. Even using my tone of typing as an evaluation of my lifestyle. Lool how stupid is that? You have lost this argument. If you can prove to me that I’m broke, I will dash you money. At 23 I’m doing quite well for myself, don’t ever try to come for me in your life. Argument ended. Adi9/ idiot.

Lol, they have gone from you are not a foreign citizen, to you are a razz foreign citizen. I think Nairalanders, especially the male ones, need to realize that, not everyone is the broke Naija babe that begs them 5k upandan.

There are comfortable people in Nigeria/outside Nigeria and some of them are on this NL.