single life is bae

Yuneehk:
Are the female folks this bad? 90% of the comments are centered on how they love cheating, and money. Where do y'all meet these ladies? Good ones still abound, same way bad men still abound. Life can be so unfair that a good lady, is given a bad man and vice versa. One just has to look properly, before leaping.

life doesn't give you a bad man, you choose a bad man, never forget that

we're responsible for our actions

News101:


Everything they said is 200% correct. Majority of Nigerian ladies & women are evil, mean, wicked, selfish, greedy, self centered, very very materialistic, money mongers & have bad character. Many of them are a disgrace to womanhood. Women from other parts of the world especially whites are far more better.

That's the fact.

My happiness is that all u said is also applicable to u guys. Even 1000% correct, so my dear Whites 're far more better

Perfectnumber6:
. Elaborate on this please would you, I mean how is a guy bad mannered, is it that he’s cheating, lieing , not good at all etc . �

Arrogant scum;clearly cheating and expecting one to accept his nature & endure;that they mean nothing; tight-fisted with money inspite of him being the better earner;someone in this century that believes that all women who are smart & have a career/successful business will make bad wives & dat all women belong to za oza room & kitchen;and d list goes on and on.......Smh

Learnt to love myself more

Never settle for less... never settle for nothing but happiness. If the other party is not as committed as you, talk to him or her about it and if the relationship ends, trust me, it's worth it.

Divay22:
I don't know how to cheat.. But would love to learn it.

for you to type this probably means you know more than you are asking to learn.

Dollypizzle13:
single life is bae

Hmm....you better start exploring wella because experience is the best teacher

sophiathefirst:

My happiness is that all u said is also applicable to u guys. Even 1000% correct, so my dear Whites 're far more better

No I never said it's applicable to guys. It's not applicable to guys. It's only you ladies it's applicable to. Nigerian guys/men are very good but the women are the problem because of their money monger attitude & their bad character. So stop trying to rope guys into this issue. The problem lies with you ladies. Period.

flyca:

Lol. You know why it's so?

Good men meet good women and have good relationships. So let's say that good people are busy with living and loving their lives, careers, businesses, families and so on. They ae busy intertwining into each other and navigating life together. They don't have excess time to come online to rant or whine. In fact, nothing to rant or whine about, because they solve their problems amicably. And forge ahead.

What you have here is basically slay queens and slay kings, underaged, who don't understand a thing. Here they are bashing the woman while forgetting that who they get into a relationship with is a reflection of who they are.

Odimma!

Be looking for their trouble Sometimes, you see people who date those who aren't deserving of their love. While the others, deserve every bit of what they're getting. They're on this thread sef. One has just gotta be careful about matters of the heart.
Good morning Nne

chubbyswit:
for you to type this probably means you know more than you are asking to learn.

If you say so.

islandmoon:


you are in Jos? the photo and your jacket say so

No. That's Pankshin, Plateau State.

chigoziri2403:
send me a catalogue

Right away

luminouz:

My bro,i have never given any gf any monthly allowance since I was born and unless she is my wife,no girl will collect that shiit from me...its a relationship,not a job opportunity.. The sooner men realise u overinflate women's egos when u do these 'allowance' thingies,the better...Don't u see Women are either wired for love or for materialistic gains....u deceive ursef when u think women equate the two...she either truly loves u or she is in it for the money.....
What dafuq is that rubbish statement...'taking care of me as my bf' when she couldn't visit u in Ibadan after Ur accident... What if you died She wouldn't ever give a damn.....Like a poster said above,learn to control ur woman.....be in charge, women are like lionesses...they respect strength,will and power....the moment u show weakness(being too nice,stop taking charge, being predictable,less mysterious,dull) they take over and take you for granted. If only men understood women like I do,the world would be way easier for us to live in.... No matter how pretty she is, a Lich Queen (leech mama) can never get my attention... U need to have something to offer as a woman(intellectually, hardworking, insightful, diligent and so on) before I even look at you... We are supposed to be MEN not he-goats controlled by sex and pheromones....

Until Men start acting like they are men,women will continue to use reverse psychology, click-bait technique and emotional blackmail to make men sissies....I watched a lion documentary of what happened to an old lion who couldn't control his pride...I could literally see the disgust on the faces of d lionesses,they booed him off,shooed him off, chase him round like a little bitch and force him to eat last over a meal...it was the most pathetic thing I have ever seen...they literally killed him themselves (allowing a new male to enter the pride and chase the oldie away,he died the next day from his battle wounds). It taught me a monumental lesson ...no matter what they say,women respect an Alpha,a male in control,it drives them insane and keeps them in check...u lose ur will,u lose their respect...so learn to say No to her demands,keep her guessing,be mysterious,being too nice to women(even the ones who love u truly) translates to weakness.....u were made by evolution to lead,be in control, take charge... Not begging her to 'manage' 25k as if she be Angel Gabriel when she hasn't even given u a kobo since u knew her....or buying her IphoneX cuz she asked for it(of cuz she might have used the line ' a bf must cater for his gf') as if u be her fada. I see some stuffs men do and i wonder whether I'm alone around here with some senses left...u already made her feel like the MAN in the relationship,so she took charge!!

Conclusion:

So,never ever ever ever kowtow or sissify ursef cuz of a woman...be an Alpha.. Be in charge..and watch while they beat themselves up to gain ur attention(money or no money)

#Luminouznuggets#

Best comment so far.

Men have been programmed from birth to be emasculated and as Nigerians are typically not people that like to read, knowledge like this won't be known to them. Many men think that giving to all of a woman's demand is strength, they judge their value by how much they have, and can give a woman.

But knowing that being a man, the kind women respect is not something you "hammer" or land upon. It has to be cultivated, developed and perfected. Part of the reasons Nigerian Women are materialistic is because a true male figure is generally lacking around them, so they become materialistic since money is the only thing men can offer.

Women by their nature, generally lean towards social consensus, their behaviour is a pure reflection of the society the men have created. Nigerian men have created this mess for so long that it's shocking to most girls if you don't give them money.

Your comment is refreshing, a candle of hope to the tsunami of feminized men that has polluted the dating scene.

Paxie55:

Rubbish in that context was referring to your post not you.
I don't have strength this morning.
Take care, our amiable alpha male.

Same here...ur text not u!!!
Take care our little Cinderella

flyca:

Lol. You know why it's so?

Good men meet good women and have good relationships. So let's say that good people are busy with living and loving their lives, careers, businesses, families and so on. They ae busy intertwining into each other and navigating life together. They don't have excess time to come online to rant or whine. In fact, nothing to rant or whine about, because they solve their problems amicably. And forge ahead.

What you have here is basically slay queens and slay kings, underaged, who don't understand a thing. Here they are bashing the woman while forgetting that who they get into a relationship with is a reflection of who they are.

Odimma!

So on points.This table you're shaking has all this keyboard warriors and cry babies on top.

pansophist:


Best comment so far.

Men have been programmed from birth to be emasculated and as Nigerians are typically not people that like to read, knowledge like this won't be known to them. Many men think that giving to all of a woman's demand is strength, they judge their value by how much they have, and can give a woman.

But knowing that being a man, the spect is not something you "hammer" or land upon. It has to be cultivated, developed and perfected. Part of the reasons Nigerian Women are materialistic is because a true male figure is generally lacking around them, so they become materialistic since money is the only thing men can offer.

Women by their nature, generally lean towards social consensus, their behaviour is a pure reflection of the society the men have created. Nigerian men have created this mess for so long that it's shocking to most girls if you don't give them money.

Your comment is refreshing, a candle of hope to the tsunami of feminized men that has polluted the dating scene.

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flyca:

Lol. You know why it's so?

Good men meet good women and have good relationships. So let's say that good people are busy with living and loving their lives, careers, businesses, families and so on. They ae busy intertwining into each other and navigating life together. They don't have excess time to come online to rant or whine. In fact, nothing to rant or whine about, because they solve their problems amicably. And forge ahead.

What you have here is basically slay queens and slay kings, underaged, who don't understand a thing. Here they are bashing the woman while forgetting that who they get into a relationship with is a reflection of who they are.

Odimma!

Table shaker!! Shake it wella

Best comment so far.
People that are in serious and nice relationships don't have time to wail and wail on social media.
They are just too busy with their lives and careers

Okay now,you’re to cheat?

BecaciaBarbie:
Putting all my eggs into one basket... Very wrong...

Judybash93:
Chase a cheque, never chase a chick

mask off(if u know u know)

Hoodbilonia:
my ex left me because i fukd hee too much
at times 6times a day...
i miss her big ass .

lol hmm u self no try oo no so u jobless reach abi fucking don turn government work...

NwanyiAwkaetiti:
men have been programmed to be emasculated? Pray tell in what society pls? The fathers of this days have failed in their duty. They should go watch lion King and learn what it means to show their male kids how to be a real man... Their isn't just to provide... Don't leave d male children to d women to bring up.

In Nigerian and western society. I lived in both and men are emasculated. Most men have no goal higher than themselves to pursue. Their goal is sleeping with varieties of women and seeking female validation. They do not understand what constitute a male in deeds, and lack father figures to walk them through the path of masculinity. Their role models are celebrities and are deeply buried in hedonism.

Your other iteration is an extension to the aforementioned foundational problem. Garbage in, garbage out. A man without any shred of masculinity is not fit for leadership and will lead a dysfunctional home. Feminine energy is triggered by the presence of a true masculine man with traditional male qualities. Until then, Nigerian men will always complain about the women. Women will never change and be feminine if men won't be masculine.

.love ONLY who loves you first....nd when the person stops loving,dont fight it simply PULL OUT!!!!

Divay22:

If you say so.

yup I just did nne.

samkevie:
Okay now,you’re to cheat?

This is not about me cheating, this is about me making my options open. For instance, I have a relative who was in a relationship with her man for more than a decade, she turned down other men for this guy but when she realized how much time she had wasted in the relationship, she walked away. I'm very weary of destiny and time wasters, I try to avoid them like plaque but how will you know if the man you are with is going to keep you or not...so my advise is, don't cheat but don't turn other men down and don't also give them the impression that you are in a very serious relationship as that could lead no where.


This doesn't makes sense right? Until you become a victim.

NarnieSnyper:
With all these news about the females being heartless or only after money; I wonder where you guys meet these girls. Most of you just see a pretty girl in a club or places I don't understand and most times use money or expensive gifts to woo her. Even the "make money and women will chase you" crew are lamenting.

I am not an expert in relationship but one thing I have learnt is to be the Alpha male in a relationship even if she truly loves you and yes, money also makes the relationship sweeter. Don't place her on a monthly salary or something similar to that. Just help her when you can and sometimes tell her you don't have enough to give and she should learn to manage things and save as well.
Don't reveal everything about you to her, scold her when she misbehaves or gets out of line (there's no woman on earth who doesn't like this but won't admit it).

Seriously, most of these girls I am sure you met them online. One thing you don't know is, they'll surely meet another guy online.

Depending on your level of consciousness, you'll see reality in a different dimension. Usually, I never attract or go for women most men complain about. If you do not attract women like this, you're doing the right thing.

Women are smart in social dynamics far more than men. They hold all the power in our society directly or indirectly (to this effect, read the book "the myth of male power" by Warren Farell) , they know when a man is emasculated from first interaction and will never respect or concede to his leadership. Men need to know that changes comes from within, not expecting all women to change. It has never happened and it will never happen.

For those thinking foreign women are the best, first of all, look at their societies. Their men created a perfect society and restricted the dark nature of women. The universe is encoded in laws and if you break them, well, you'll suffer the consequences.

And when you've truly unleashed the graceful femininity in a woman, you've unlocked one of the greatest feeling in the world.

chiefqueen:

I turn them down.

Are u afraid of something ?

i miss her
but i knw she will come bac
i dnt cum datz d ish. its hard to find real girl they get tired of fuckin me be ause i dnt cum and i like am.
1hr hard fuc

Richy419:

lol hmm u self no try oo no so u jobless reach abi fucking don turn government work...

I understand though
But then again every relationship is a risk

BecaciaBarbie:

This is not about me cheating, this is about me making my options open. For instance, I have a relative who was in a relationship with her man for more than a decade, she turned down other men for this guy but when she realized how much time she had wasted in the relationship, she walked away. I'm very weary of destiny and time wasters, I try to avoid them like plaque but how will you know if the man you are with is going to keep you or not...so my advise is, don't cheat but don't turn other men down and don't also give them the impression that you are in a very serious relationship as that could lead no where.


This doesn't makes sense right? Until you become a victim.

Yuneehk:
No. That's Pankshin, Plateau State.

I know plateau state is the only state with such beautiful landscape.

elonize:
instead of u to knw her status, u dey lash wetin u nor knw

I was deceived back then with trust but now it ain't gonna happen again. NEVER

hansomb:
Are u afraid of something ?

Nah. Wasn't into any of them.