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How Do You Manage The Urge For Sex? by CALEB65(op): 11:13pm On Jan 09, 2019

Hey guys,

I know the title seems creepy, but let's just think about it.
Religion discourages premarital sex but have failed to tell us how to manage our selves when the hormones are activated.

Often times, you get the urge to engage the opposite sex especially those that are in a relationship and then you are confused about what to do in order for you to not engage in sex, you just want to make the feeling go away.

I think this is 1 of the reasons why we have adolescents indulging in the act and then leading to unwanted pregnancies, HIV and STI's and others engage in masturbation which somehow turns into addiction and becomes complicated at the end of the day.

So to those who have mastered the art of controlling the sexual urge, please share how you do it for people to learn

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Re: How Do You Manage The Urge For Sex? by AkataNYC(m): 11:23pm On Jan 09, 2019

Buddhist methods are the only time tested proven way. It involves segregating Male/Female, and high amounts of discipline instilled by a ritualized lifestyle in nature. Most importantly lack of stimulus and exposure except for the most Senior monks who eventually graduate and can interact with society without temptation. It takes decades of training to achieve this ability. There is no way for the average untrained Man to do this.

It is impossible to expect humans in regular city environments where Sex is everywhere on TV, Ads, Social media, etc. to conform to rules made 2000+ years ago.

So if you want to control the urge, join a buddhist monastery. Otherwise you are out of luck.

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Re: How Do You Manage The Urge For Sex? by FreshBoss007: 11:41pm On Jan 09, 2019

just beat it

if you know what I mean

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Re: How Do You Manage The Urge For Sex? by zyzxx(m): 11:42pm On Jan 09, 2019

Be looking for money

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Re: How Do You Manage The Urge For Sex? by CALEB65(op): 11:43pm On Jan 09, 2019

AkataNYC:
It is impossible to expect humans in regular city environments where Sex is everywhere on TV, Ads, Social media, etc. to conform to rules made 2000+ years ago.

True Sha, the media ain't helping at all.

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Re: How Do You Manage The Urge For Sex? by Toks2008(m): 12:15am On Jan 10, 2019

CALEB65:
Hey guys,

I know the title seems creepy, but let's just think about it.
Religion discourages premarital sex but have failed to tell us how to manage our selves when the hormones are activated.

Often times, you get the urge to engage the opposite sex especially those that are in a relationship and then you are confused about what to do in order for you to not engage in sex, you just want to make the feeling go away.

I think this is 1 of the reasons why we have adolescents indulging in the act and then leading to unwanted pregnancies, HIV and STI's and others engage in masturbation which somehow turns into addiction and becomes complicated at the end of the day.

So to those who have mastered the art of controlling the sexual urge, please share how you do it for people to learn

Get a wife.

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Re: How Do You Manage The Urge For Sex? by doctore212(m): 12:29am On Jan 10, 2019

Sex doll all the way.[color=#000099][/color]

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Re: How Do You Manage The Urge For Sex? by maisauki: 2:30am On Jan 10, 2019

spreads mat to read ppl's lies

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Re: How Do You Manage The Urge For Sex? by Sirmuel1(m): 6:35am On Jan 10, 2019

Just forget about Women and chase money.

That method has been helping me.

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Re: How Do You Manage The Urge For Sex? by Nobody: 7:07am On Jan 10, 2019

I start thinking of 101 ways I can make money.

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Re: How Do You Manage The Urge For Sex? by pedrilo: 8:15am On Jan 10, 2019

read a very big book

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Re: How Do You Manage The Urge For Sex? by CALEB65(op): 8:37am On Jan 10, 2019

pedrilo:
read a very big book

What kind of book is that?

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Re: How Do You Manage The Urge For Sex? by CALEB65(op): 8:39am On Jan 10, 2019

maisauki:
spreads mat to read ppl's lies

You can contribute you know

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Re: How Do You Manage The Urge For Sex? by CALEB65(op): 8:40am On Jan 10, 2019

Toks2008:
Get a wife.

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Re: How Do You Manage The Urge For Sex? by pedrilo: 8:41am On Jan 10, 2019

CALEB65:
What kind of book is that?

if u dnt know any big book, then read ur bible, it is big enuf i guess

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Re: How Do You Manage The Urge For Sex? by femi4: 8:54am On Jan 10, 2019

Play games/sports

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Re: How Do You Manage The Urge For Sex? by donvoice(m): 9:02am On Jan 10, 2019

CALEB65:
Hey guys,

I know the title seems creepy, but let's just think about it.
Religion discourages premarital sex but have failed to tell us how to manage our selves when the hormones are activated

A true religion didn't only condemned it but also gives a way out.

When ever the urge comes as a Christian, change your immediate environment because definitely it's something around there that brings out the stimulation. Pick up your Bible or hymn book or better still play a deep rooted gospel songs on your phone and set my mind on the heavenly race.

Trust me, it works better than any other remedy

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Re: How Do You Manage The Urge For Sex? by AryEmber(f): 9:12am On Jan 10, 2019

Simple, think of a mate of yours that has moved far in life.

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Re: How Do You Manage The Urge For Sex? by GreatAchiever1: 9:27am On Jan 10, 2019

Ever heard of self control??
Ask God to give u some...

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Re: How Do You Manage The Urge For Sex? by Uglymind: 9:34am On Jan 10, 2019

Masturbate and chase money!

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Re: How Do You Manage The Urge For Sex? by Splinz(m): 9:36am On Jan 10, 2019

There's no better way to do away with an unwanted thought/urge than to quickly replace it when it comes with the very opposite.

Everything is in the mind.

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Re: How Do You Manage The Urge For Sex? by kingsmaila(m): 9:37am On Jan 10, 2019

CALEB65:
Hey guys,

I know the title seems creepy, but let's just think about it.
Religion discourages premarital sex but have failed to tell us how to manage our selves when the hormones are activated.

Often times, you get the urge to engage the opposite sex especially those that are in a relationship and then you are confused about what to do in order for you to not engage in sex, you just want to make the feeling go away.

I think this is 1 of the reasons why we have adolescents indulging in the act and then leading to unwanted pregnancies, HIV and STI's and others engage in masturbation which somehow turns into addiction and becomes complicated at the end of the day.

So to those who have mastered the art of controlling the sexual urge, please share how you do it for people to learn

Fast every Monday and Thursday weekly. It reduces sexual urge.

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Re: How Do You Manage The Urge For Sex? by Randy100: 9:37am On Jan 10, 2019

There are class of drugs ( antidepressant SSRIs) that lowers libido. They are setraline(zoloft), fluoxetine(prozac). It will help you.

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Re: How Do You Manage The Urge For Sex? by Abcruz(m): 9:42am On Jan 10, 2019

CALEB65:
Hey guys,

I know the title seems creepy, but let's just think about it.
Religion discourages premarital sex but have failed to tell us how to manage our selves when the hormones are activated.

Often times, you get the urge to engage the opposite sex especially those that are in a relationship and then you are confused about what to do in order for you to not engage in sex, you just want to make the feeling go away.

I think this is 1 of the reasons why we have adolescents indulging in the act and then leading to unwanted pregnancies, HIV and STI's and others engage in masturbation which somehow turns into addiction and becomes complicated at the end of the day.

So to those who have mastered the art of controlling the sexual urge, please share how you do it for people to learn

Hear the word of the Sovereign LORD O simple one:

If only you had paid attention to my commands, your peace would have been like a river, and your well-being like the waves of the sea.--Isaiah--48:18

"each person is tempted when they are dragged away by their own evil desire and enticed.
Then, after desire has conceived, it gives birth to sin; and sin, when it is full-grown, gives birth to death.--James 1:14-15

How can a young man keep his behavior pure? By guarding it in accordance with your word.--psalm119:9

Now flee from youthful lusts and pursue righteousness, faith, love and peace, with those who call on the Lord from a pure heart.--2 Timothy 2:22

A word is enough for the wise.

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Re: How Do You Manage The Urge For Sex? by ashawopikin(m): 9:45am On Jan 10, 2019

AryEmber:
Simple, think of a mate of yours that has moved far in life.

that one sef dey work o, my mind will be like, " mumu see that your mate don buy car and don finish him house, u Na fuuuuck be your problem". Everytime I think about it, my priick go just weak

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Re: How Do You Manage The Urge For Sex? by ashawopikin(m): 9:46am On Jan 10, 2019

AryEmber:
Simple, think of a mate of yours that has moved far in life.

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Re: How Do You Manage The Urge For Sex? by blingxx(m): 10:18am On Jan 10, 2019

Sirmuel1:
Just forget about Women and chase money.

That method has been helping me.

Exactly bro... Life is not that hard

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Re: How Do You Manage The Urge For Sex? by CALEB65(op): 10:19am On Jan 10, 2019

donvoice:
A true religion didn't only condemned it but also gives a way out.

When ever the urge comes as a Christian, change your immediate environment because definitely it's something around there that brings out the stimulation. Pick up your Bible or hymn book or better still play a deep rooted gospel songs on your phone and set my mind on the heavenly race.

Trust me, it works better than any other remedy

Thanks man

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Re: How Do You Manage The Urge For Sex? by donvoice(m): 10:47am On Jan 10, 2019

CALEB65:
Thanks man

Always welcome

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Re: How Do You Manage The Urge For Sex? by abbatoir(m): 11:24am On Jan 10, 2019

Hmm

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Re: How Do You Manage The Urge For Sex? by theNOISEmaker: 11:59am On Jan 10, 2019

I look for my soap

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Re: How Do You Manage The Urge For Sex? by Kinmann: 1:16pm On Jan 10, 2019

theNOISEmaker:
I look for my soap

If you are a lady, I have a better option for you: Check my profile and look for "Ladies wash"

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