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|Re: How Do You Manage The Urge For Sex? by smeag0l(m): 11:58pm On Jan 10|
What of for someone who isn't chasing money?
|Re: How Do You Manage The Urge For Sex? by nextstep(m): 12:03am On Jan 11|
First of all, biology predates religion by 4 billion years. Most religions we know of have been around for at most 6,000 years, and some are barely 800 years old. So keep in mind that sexuality is natural, healthy, and is one of the purposes of life. So don't go overboard in suppressing natural urges or finding ways to relieve yourself.
If you do insist, the best advice that worked for me (unintentionally, because I was focusing on some things at an earlier stage of life) is be busy: work, business, doing something that will take your time all day. Gym or run till you're exhausted. Avoid materials that will get you thinking about sex, and just exercise a little restraint when the feeling comes over you. I think I lasted 9 months or so and it was not really a big deal, time just passed and I was just busy. It gets easier after the first 2-3 weeks.
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|Re: How Do You Manage The Urge For Sex? by PROPHETmichael: 12:04am On Jan 11|
First of all, there are two things you need to understand and thats is:
1) YOUR FATHER IN HEAVEN KNOWS BEST! That's why you have to stop engaging in sex outside of marriage! God is not a party pooper. He created sex, and He fully intends for you to enjoy it. Give credence to the fact that God is far more intelligent than you are and that His intelligence is the impetus behind every restriction He imposed upon sexual relations outside of the bonds of matrimony. His restrictions are for your protection!
2) You have to accept and joyfuly embrace the fact that YOU NEED A SENSE OF ECSTASY!
That's the way God made you. Orgasm produces physical ecstasy. And that is precisely why so many people are in bondage to sexual sin. What they fail to realize is that worship produces ecstasy. As you spend a few minutes each morning worshipping God, you will experience spiritual ecstasy. This will quell your need for orgasm and as you keep doing it, stay on it, be consistent every morning worshipping God, it will transform sex from an addiction into an option!
Now, that's a shouting revelation.
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|Re: How Do You Manage The Urge For Sex? by ofiko123(m): 12:04am On Jan 11|
I came to read comments...
|Re: How Do You Manage The Urge For Sex? by kingskim(m): 12:05am On Jan 11|
If de urge cum..... I bring out my huge kondo and bang to my satisfaction I can't come and go and kee myself
|Re: How Do You Manage The Urge For Sex? by Dinho20: 12:07am On Jan 11|
WHEN YOU HAVE URGE FOR SEX,
THINK ABOUT HIV/AIDS, WHAT YOU WILL PASS THROUGH WHEN COTRACTED/INFECTED,
THE URGE FOR SEX WILL DISAPPEAR IMMEDIATELY.
AIDS IS REAL, IT DOES NOT SHOW ON THE FACE.
STAY AWAY FROM SEX.
|Re: How Do You Manage The Urge For Sex? by alramon: 12:10am On Jan 11|
U will not die if u stay away from it
It doesn't kill now
|Re: How Do You Manage The Urge For Sex? by mkoabiola: 12:12am On Jan 11|
U are missing if u are not enjoying that thing called sexxxxxxxx
|Re: How Do You Manage The Urge For Sex? by ChinagoChiBoy(m): 12:13am On Jan 11|
Do you know that the Bible said that to look at a woman lustfully you have committed it with her....
But how can son of man not lustfully look at all these scantly and indecently dressed bitches even in the Church.
Islam has the answer though, because the way their women are always fully dress covering their body will not put the disease of lust in your heart.
Islam don't allow mingling between opposite sex not in the mosque not any where,
And their men are advised not to look at a woman more than once.
I think following the Creed if Islam will go along way to solving the problem.
|Re: How Do You Manage The Urge For Sex? by PROPHETmichael: 12:14am On Jan 11|
Good boy...you will not make the mistake your father made.
|Re: How Do You Manage The Urge For Sex? by tintingz(m): 12:15am On Jan 11|
AkataNYC:Sex is natural. I think the Buddhist has a technique of suppressing their sexual urge, maybe meditating, masturbating who knows.
|Re: How Do You Manage The Urge For Sex? by kestul250: 12:17am On Jan 11|
|Re: How Do You Manage The Urge For Sex? by asfrankasf(m): 12:19am On Jan 11|
Go fxck your haters, getting money is the best deal.
|Re: How Do You Manage The Urge For Sex? by revret: 12:20am On Jan 11|
We dey watch una
|Re: How Do You Manage The Urge For Sex? by asuustrike1: 12:23am On Jan 11|
|Re: How Do You Manage The Urge For Sex? by chiefojiji(m): 12:24am On Jan 11|
Sing praise and worship when the urge visit.... Or rather, check online and search 10 points agenda that Buhari had for Nigeria �� and ask urself how many he don do..... Nobody go tell that ur sex urge to gbé bodi ẹ!
|Re: How Do You Manage The Urge For Sex? by sonofoluku: 12:25am On Jan 11|
Stay far away from porn
|Re: How Do You Manage The Urge For Sex? by Nobody: 12:26am On Jan 11|
Go on Nairaland and go through the threads by the time you're done the urge will vanish. Especially when you are lucky to come across one or two Rubbish Comments of NwaAmaikpe.
The urge will leave you like Buhari is about to leave the seat of power.
|Re: How Do You Manage The Urge For Sex? by 963AvatarSpirit: 12:27am On Jan 11|
Look at how religion has damaged people's brain. How can a so-called Sky Daddy activate sex hormones on a human and then put a law to deny him of having sex ? So he can make it to heaven, where there is no sex and wine and Rock Music. Gonna be a boring place though, that is why I am not going to heaven. I wanna enjoy my after life.
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|Re: How Do You Manage The Urge For Sex? by najib632(m): 12:28am On Jan 11|
CALEB65:From the Islamic perspective(Jews do it too)
1. Avoid touching the opposite sex
2. Lower your gaze(Avoid looking at anything explicit, like romantic and erotic movies, scantily dressed ladies) or look down when you see a pretty lady while walking
3. Fasting a lot
4. the use of niqab and hijab by women to help prevent this issue
5. Working hard and smart in order to get married early.
|Re: How Do You Manage The Urge For Sex? by 963AvatarSpirit: 12:29am On Jan 11|
Buddhists fucck fantastically, and ladies love them for yoni massage. I love the life of Buddhists especially the massage and yoga aspects. All these lies about fornication/adultery are mind control.
Fucck who you love, for free...
Ask for money, if you are a prostitute.
Pay a prostitute if you are a fool.
|Re: How Do You Manage The Urge For Sex? by Antichristus: 12:29am On Jan 11|
Ever heard of s3x toys?
|Re: How Do You Manage The Urge For Sex? by Toluensdollars(m): 12:31am On Jan 11|
No one can deny d fact that they gets turned on some times, buh these is what i do and its been helping me in d last 4 years since have been single and no actual date yet when am gonna get anyone for myself again. Each time i get turned on, i sit down somewhere, avoid having any communication with any lady, kip calm and remain silent. and if it isn't working like maybe d heat if it is getting to me, i just go to bed and sleep
|Re: How Do You Manage The Urge For Sex? by bravesoul247(m): 12:32am On Jan 11|
AkataNYC:I don't think you're in Nigeria right?
|Re: How Do You Manage The Urge For Sex? by jintex(m): 12:37am On Jan 11|
B939SZRARTEEWC-5409375 rebet this game, pray and follow it!! u no go rember knack again
|Re: How Do You Manage The Urge For Sex? by adams123: 12:39am On Jan 11|
Get closer and more closer to your creator by obeying HIM as if you are going to die in the next second. Be thinking of death anytime you are having the urge of committing that grave sin. Finally, try to get married soon. All the best!
|Re: How Do You Manage The Urge For Sex? by Emmanuelempire(m): 12:42am On Jan 11|
Getting a wife is not the cure.
|Re: How Do You Manage The Urge For Sex? by Raalsalghul: 12:46am On Jan 11|
adams123:Time has proven marriage is not the cure to sexual urge.
|Re: How Do You Manage The Urge For Sex? by Dollabiz: 12:47am On Jan 11|
|Re: How Do You Manage The Urge For Sex? by adegeye38(m): 12:51am On Jan 11|
Pray in tongues
Invest yourself in your work
|Re: How Do You Manage The Urge For Sex? by OrangeOlamide: 12:51am On Jan 11|
Prayer and fasting lol
|Re: How Do You Manage The Urge For Sex? by Bamz(m): 1:01am On Jan 11|
Bobo yi sha
It's only an idle mind that gives space to all kinds of frivolous thoughts. This isn't about religion.
While the feeling is natural, I doubt if one would yield to sexual urges if they don't have ample time for such in their lives.
Get busy with your life mate.
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