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Re: How Do You Manage The Urge For Sex? by smeag0l(m): 11:58pm On Jan 10
What of for someone who isn't chasing money?cry
Valerie47:
I start thinking of 101 ways I can make money.
Re: How Do You Manage The Urge For Sex? by nextstep(m): 12:03am On Jan 11
First of all, biology predates religion by 4 billion years. Most religions we know of have been around for at most 6,000 years, and some are barely 800 years old. So keep in mind that sexuality is natural, healthy, and is one of the purposes of life. So don't go overboard in suppressing natural urges or finding ways to relieve yourself.

If you do insist, the best advice that worked for me (unintentionally, because I was focusing on some things at an earlier stage of life) is be busy: work, business, doing something that will take your time all day. Gym or run till you're exhausted. Avoid materials that will get you thinking about sex, and just exercise a little restraint when the feeling comes over you. I think I lasted 9 months or so and it was not really a big deal, time just passed and I was just busy. It gets easier after the first 2-3 weeks.

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Re: How Do You Manage The Urge For Sex? by PROPHETmichael: 12:04am On Jan 11
CALEB65:
Hey guys,

I know the title seems creepy, but let's just think about it.
Religion discourages premarital sex but have failed to tell us how to manage our selves when the hormones are activated.

Often times, you get the urge to engage the opposite sex especially those that are in a relationship and then you are confused about what to do in order for you to not engage in sex, you just want to make the feeling go away.

I think this is 1 of the reasons why we have adolescents indulging in the act and then leading to unwanted pregnancies, HIV and STI's and others engage in masturbation which somehow turns into addiction and becomes complicated at the end of the day.

So to those who have mastered the art of controlling the sexual urge, please share how you do it for people to learn


First of all, there are two things you need to understand and thats is:

1) YOUR FATHER IN HEAVEN KNOWS BEST! That's why you have to stop engaging in sex outside of marriage! God is not a party pooper. He created sex, and He fully intends for you to enjoy it. Give credence to the fact that God is far more intelligent than you are and that His intelligence is the impetus behind every restriction He imposed upon sexual relations outside of the bonds of matrimony. His restrictions are for your protection!


2) You have to accept and joyfuly embrace the fact that YOU NEED A SENSE OF ECSTASY!
That's the way God made you. Orgasm produces physical ecstasy. And that is precisely why so many people are in bondage to sexual sin. What they fail to realize is that worship produces ecstasy. As you spend a few minutes each morning worshipping God, you will experience spiritual ecstasy. This will quell your need for orgasm and as you keep doing it, stay on it, be consistent every morning worshipping God, it will transform sex from an addiction into an option!
Now, that's a shouting revelation.

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Re: How Do You Manage The Urge For Sex? by ofiko123(m): 12:04am On Jan 11
grin I came to read comments...
Re: How Do You Manage The Urge For Sex? by kingskim(m): 12:05am On Jan 11
If de urge cum..... I bring out my huge kondo and bang to my satisfaction wink wink winkI can't come and go and kee myself grin cheesy angry cheesy grin
Re: How Do You Manage The Urge For Sex? by Dinho20: 12:07am On Jan 11
WHEN YOU HAVE URGE FOR SEX,
THINK ABOUT HIV/AIDS, WHAT YOU WILL PASS THROUGH WHEN COTRACTED/INFECTED,
THE URGE FOR SEX WILL DISAPPEAR IMMEDIATELY.

AIDS IS REAL, IT DOES NOT SHOW ON THE FACE.

STAY AWAY FROM SEX.

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Re: How Do You Manage The Urge For Sex? by alramon: 12:10am On Jan 11
kingskim:
If de urge cum..... I bring out my huge kondo and bang to my satisfaction wink wink winkI can't come and go and kee myself grin cheesy angry cheesy grin



Lol
U will not die if u stay away from it
It doesn't kill now
Re: How Do You Manage The Urge For Sex? by mkoabiola: 12:12am On Jan 11
U are missing if u are not enjoying that thing called sexxxxxxxx
Re: How Do You Manage The Urge For Sex? by ChinagoChiBoy(m): 12:13am On Jan 11
Do you know that the Bible said that to look at a woman lustfully you have committed it with her....
But how can son of man not lustfully look at all these scantly and indecently dressed bitches even in the Church.
Islam has the answer though, because the way their women are always fully dress covering their body will not put the disease of lust in your heart.
Islam don't allow mingling between opposite sex not in the mosque not any where,
And their men are advised not to look at a woman more than once.
I think following the Creed if Islam will go along way to solving the problem.

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Re: How Do You Manage The Urge For Sex? by PROPHETmichael: 12:14am On Jan 11
ofiko123:
grin I came to read comments...

Good boy...you will not make the mistake your father made.
Re: How Do You Manage The Urge For Sex? by tintingz(m): 12:15am On Jan 11
AkataNYC:
Buddhist methods are the only time tested proven way. It involves segregating Male/Female, and high amounts of discipline instilled by a ritualized lifestyle in nature. Most importantly lack of stimulus and exposure except for the most Senior monks who eventually graduate and can interact with society without temptation. It takes decades of training to achieve this ability. There is no way for the average untrained Man to do this.

It is impossible to expect humans in regular city environments where Sex is everywhere on TV, Ads, Social media, etc. to conform to rules made 2000+ years ago.

So if you want to control the urge, join a buddhist monastery. Otherwise you are out of luck.
Sex is natural. I think the Buddhist has a technique of suppressing their sexual urge, maybe meditating, masturbating who knows.

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Re: How Do You Manage The Urge For Sex? by kestul250: 12:17am On Jan 11
MzDeeb:
The key is to get busy with your life and stay away from stuffs that will trigger it.

I can categorically tell you that i don't feel any urge at all. because I don't put my mind to him.

It is what you feed your mind with, that will have an effect on you

Lie no go kii u, wicked gal
Re: How Do You Manage The Urge For Sex? by asfrankasf(m): 12:19am On Jan 11
Go fxck your haters, getting money is the best deal.
Re: How Do You Manage The Urge For Sex? by revret: 12:20am On Jan 11
We dey watch una

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Re: How Do You Manage The Urge For Sex? by asuustrike1: 12:23am On Jan 11
AkataNYC:
Buddhist methods are the only time tested proven way. It involves segregating Male/Female, and high amounts of discipline instilled by a ritualized lifestyle in nature. Most importantly lack of stimulus and exposure except for the most Senior monks who eventually graduate and can interact with society without temptation. It takes decades of training to achieve this ability. There is no way for the average untrained Man to do this.

It is impossible to expect humans in regular city environments where Sex is everywhere on TV, Ads, Social media, etc. to conform to rules made 2000+ years ago.

So if you want to control the urge, join a buddhist monastery. Otherwise you are out of luck.
Modified
Hmmmm
Re: How Do You Manage The Urge For Sex? by chiefojiji(m): 12:24am On Jan 11
Sing praise and worship when the urge visit.... Or rather, check online and search 10 points agenda that Buhari had for Nigeria �� and ask urself how many he don do..... Nobody go tell that ur sex urge to gbé bodi ẹ!

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Re: How Do You Manage The Urge For Sex? by sonofoluku: 12:25am On Jan 11
Stay far away from porn
Re: How Do You Manage The Urge For Sex? by Nobody: 12:26am On Jan 11
Go on Nairaland and go through the threads by the time you're done the urge will vanish. Especially when you are lucky to come across one or two Rubbish Comments of NwaAmaikpe. grin grin

The urge will leave you like Buhari is about to leave the seat of power.


grin

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Re: How Do You Manage The Urge For Sex? by 963AvatarSpirit: 12:27am On Jan 11
CALEB65:
Hey guys,

I know the title seems creepy, but let's just think about it.
Religion discourages premarital sex but have failed to tell us how to manage our selves when the hormones are activated.

Often times, you get the urge to engage the opposite sex especially those that are in a relationship and then you are confused about what to do in order for you to not engage in sex, you just want to make the feeling go away.

I think this is 1 of the reasons why we have adolescents indulging in the act and then leading to unwanted pregnancies, HIV and STI's and others engage in masturbation which somehow turns into addiction and becomes complicated at the end of the day.

So to those who have mastered the art of controlling the sexual urge, please share how you do it for people to learn

Look at how religion has damaged people's brain. How can a so-called Sky Daddy activate sex hormones on a human and then put a law to deny him of having sex ? So he can make it to heaven, where there is no sex and wine and Rock Music. Gonna be a boring place though, that is why I am not going to heaven. I wanna enjoy my after life.

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Re: How Do You Manage The Urge For Sex? by najib632(m): 12:28am On Jan 11
CALEB65:
Hey guys,

I know the title seems creepy, but let's just think about it.
Religion discourages premarital sex but have failed to tell us how to manage our selves when the hormones are activated.

Often times, you get the urge to engage the opposite sex especially those that are in a relationship and then you are confused about what to do in order for you to not engage in sex, you just want to make the feeling go away.

I think this is 1 of the reasons why we have adolescents indulging in the act and then leading to unwanted pregnancies, HIV and STI's and others engage in masturbation which somehow turns into addiction and becomes complicated at the end of the day.

So to those who have mastered the art of controlling the sexual urge, please share how you do it for people to learn
From the Islamic perspective(Jews do it too)
1. Avoid touching the opposite sex
2. Lower your gaze(Avoid looking at anything explicit, like romantic and erotic movies, scantily dressed ladies) or look down when you see a pretty lady while walking
3. Fasting a lot
4. the use of niqab and hijab by women to help prevent this issue
5. Working hard and smart in order to get married early.

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Re: How Do You Manage The Urge For Sex? by 963AvatarSpirit: 12:29am On Jan 11
tintingz:
Sex is natural. I think the Buddhist has a technique of suppressing their sexual urge, maybe meditating, masturbating who knows.

Buddhists fucck fantastically, and ladies love them for yoni massage. I love the life of Buddhists especially the massage and yoga aspects. All these lies about fornication/adultery are mind control.

Fucck who you love, for free...

Ask for money, if you are a prostitute.

Pay a prostitute if you are a fool.
Re: How Do You Manage The Urge For Sex? by Antichristus: 12:29am On Jan 11
Ever heard of s3x toys?
Re: How Do You Manage The Urge For Sex? by Toluensdollars(m): 12:31am On Jan 11
No one can deny d fact that they gets turned on some times, buh these is what i do and its been helping me in d last 4 years since have been single and no actual date yet when am gonna get anyone for myself again. Each time i get turned on, i sit down somewhere, avoid having any communication with any lady, kip calm and remain silent. and if it isn't working like maybe d heat if it is getting to me, i just go to bed and sleep

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Re: How Do You Manage The Urge For Sex? by bravesoul247(m): 12:32am On Jan 11
AkataNYC:
Buddhist methods are the only time tested proven way. It involves segregating Male/Female, and high amounts of discipline instilled by a ritualized lifestyle in nature. Most importantly lack of stimulus and exposure except for the most Senior monks who eventually graduate and can interact with society without temptation. It takes decades of training to achieve this ability. There is no way for the average untrained Man to do this.

It is impossible to expect humans in regular city environments where Sex is everywhere on TV, Ads, Social media, etc. to conform to rules made 2000+ years ago.

So if you want to control the urge, join a buddhist monastery. Otherwise you are out of luck.
I don't think you're in Nigeria right?

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Re: How Do You Manage The Urge For Sex? by jintex(m): 12:37am On Jan 11
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Re: How Do You Manage The Urge For Sex? by adams123: 12:39am On Jan 11
Get closer and more closer to your creator by obeying HIM as if you are going to die in the next second. Be thinking of death anytime you are having the urge of committing that grave sin. Finally, try to get married soon. All the best!
Re: How Do You Manage The Urge For Sex? by Emmanuelempire(m): 12:42am On Jan 11
Toks2008:

Get a wife.

Getting a wife is not the cure.

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Re: How Do You Manage The Urge For Sex? by Raalsalghul: 12:46am On Jan 11
adams123:
Get closer and more closer to your creator by obeying HIM as if you are going to die in the next second. Be thinking of death anytime you are having the urge of committing that grave sin. Finally, try to get married soon. All the best!
Time has proven marriage is not the cure to sexual urge.

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Re: How Do You Manage The Urge For Sex? by Dollabiz: 12:47am On Jan 11
smiley
Re: How Do You Manage The Urge For Sex? by adegeye38(m): 12:51am On Jan 11
Pray in tongues

Distract yourself

Invest yourself in your work
Re: How Do You Manage The Urge For Sex? by OrangeOlamide: 12:51am On Jan 11
Prayer and fasting lol

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Re: How Do You Manage The Urge For Sex? by Bamz(m): 1:01am On Jan 11
Feranmicharless:
what if I'm the one that's gone far in life amongst my mates

Bobo yi sha cheesy

It's only an idle mind that gives space to all kinds of frivolous thoughts. This isn't about religion.

While the feeling is natural, I doubt if one would yield to sexual urges if they don't have ample time for such in their lives.

Get busy with your life mate.

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