Florblu:
You only engaged her,you didn't cage her.

Deal with your insecurity

MariaLavina:
So? she should start calling herself since she's engaged to you right?.

Hain! Insecurity at it's peak!

DanDeeBoss:
Lol

CyberWolf:
As in eeh A lady I’ve proposed to will tell a random guy on phone in my presence that I’m a minor distraction? I will slap that phone out of her ear, what nonesene

Lordbellish:


I Now understand it more better now...

thanks brother.
but why are some women like this....

when we visited her parents during Xmas eve, her Dad asked her if him and their elder should collect drink from us and issue us marriage list, they gave her 15mins to go inside and think about it.. she said her mind is made up that she wants to be my wife...

why will she accept and be behaving this way...

I would have preferred she turned me down than acting like this now...

if she still Want to jump around, she should simply reject me and continue with her flirting life...

well I'm just seeking advise from different angles before I make my final decision... if heavens will fall let it fall

Lordbellish:



I understand you have to use such word just to express how u feel for the shyte I'm passing through..
so no offences taking..

Buh honestly I'm not a weakling Bro, I'm just deeply in love and my woman is taking advantage of the love I have for her... Buh ain't no weakling

homirefacuny:


I swear to God. If she acts funny that moment after I slap sense into her, I will make sure she go to her papa house that night. Nonsense and Buhari!!!

rame18:












Why did you slap me

Which kind advice be dat?? As Op dey confused now, e fit go try am...

homirefacuny:


I swear to God. If she acts funny that moment after I slap sense into her, I will make sure she go to her papa house that night. Nonsense and Buhari!!!

delugajackson:
You need to establish some rules in your relationship. I see she's the type that direspects you and I wonder how you both will cope during marriage. But it's up to you, if you keep acting like a sissy, you will get treated like one. Respect is earned.

You need to make her understand that she's no longer available to other men by virtue of the engagement ring. If she finds that too difficult to understand then she's free to walk away. Life is too short to make mistakes. And stop with the "I love her" crap line. You can't sacrifice your sanity and peace of mind on the alter of love.

Lordbellish:
Hello Nairalanders, please I'm in serious Situation right now... There's this girl (my girl friend) that I proposed to, she accepted that we will spend the rest of our lives together..

But there's this thing I noticed about her, strange numbers (men) do call her and they call in odd times (late nights and early morning)...

I have asked her, why will she give out her number to any random man that demands for her number and she will boldly answer the call... I'm just so tired of this calling of a thing.

what should I do

I love her and I want to marry her. we have even fixed date for wine carrying

I have sat her down countless time telling her that I'm not comfortable with that call stuff but she just won't stop.

DanDeeBoss:
Which kind advice be dat?? As Op dey confused now, e fit go try am...

MariaLavina:
So? she should start calling herself since she's engaged to you right?.

Hain! Insecurity at it's peak!

MariaLavina:
So? she should start calling herself since she's engaged to you right?.

Hain! Insecurity at it's peak!

Lordbellish:



I understand you have to use such word just to express how u feel for the shyte I'm passing through..
so no offences taking..

Buh honestly I'm not a weakling Bro, I'm just deeply in love and my woman is taking advantage of the love I have for her... Buh ain't no weakling

CyberWolf:
Some guys dey try I swear, taking nonsense in the name of love, what love? Any lady that tries that rubbish in my presence will regret the day she was born.

Lordbellish:



the one that got me mad was that she came over for the weekend and her phone rang when we wanted to eat, she was answering call and the food was getting cold, I called her baby this food with get cold Oooo... let's eat na. she said I should be eating that she will join Later....

Now she reply the person on phone that it was nothing, just a minor distraction

Lordbellish:
Hello Nairalanders, please I'm in serious Situation right now... There's this girl (my girl friend) that I proposed to, she accepted that we will spend the rest of our lives together..

But there's this thing I noticed about her, strange numbers (men) do call her and they call in odd times (late nights and early morning)...

I have asked her, why will she give out her number to any random man that demands for her number and she will boldly answer the call... I'm just so tired of this calling of a thing.

what should I do

I love her and I want to marry her. [b]we have even fixed date for wine carrying[/b]

I have sat her down countless time telling her that I'm not comfortable with that call stuff but she just won't stop.

Lordbellish:



the one that got me mad was that she came over for the weekend and her phone rang when we wanted to eat, she was answering call and the food was getting cold, I called her baby this food with get cold Oooo... let's eat na. she said I should be eating that she will join Later....

Now she reply the person on phone that it was nothing, just a minor distraction

GGirll:


I got engaged to my hubby in August n last week we did our traditional wedding thank God for that. I will use myself n my man as an example to you...immediately I got engaged I stopped giving random guys my number except it's on career or academic basis. In his part he kept telling all girls in his life that's he's gotten married n some stopped calling while some spoke on phone with me to confirm or whateverin their heads. So for me I don't see d reason why she fancy giving out her number n all. Even when I'm called I would put it on speaker for my man to hear if I'm with him n I will explain to him that I'm not interested in any one except him but as a beautiful lady with brains...men must come after me n that he should be rest assured that I wilk never cheat o him n we have done traditional wedding last week n next week we shall do our court wedding n in February this year our white wedding shall be held. Good wife n husband is really hard to get I thank God I got mine....I can't advise you quit on her I can only tell you that its not proper for her to disrespect you to d extent of telling d caller that its just a distraction to me that spells doom. God help you to do the right thing dear.

TonyeBarcanista:


@emboldened

Put EVERY marriage plan on hold and observe her for 6 months. Withdraw if possible

Lordbellish:



the one that got me mad was that she came over for the weekend and her phone rang when we wanted to eat, she was answering call and the food was getting cold, I called her baby this food with get cold Oooo... let's eat na. she said I should be eating that she will join Later....

Now she reply the person on phone that it was nothing, just a minor distraction