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Re: A Girl I Am Engaged To Still Gives Men Her Phone Number by shege45: 10:19am On Jan 11, 2019 |
Jennyhot:what are u saying? Didn’t u see that he wants to marry her 4th jan |
Re: A Girl I Am Engaged To Still Gives Men Her Phone Number by momove4real25(f): 10:20am On Jan 11, 2019 |
You are the one dating her. She might not like your type but because of what she is benefiting from u, she plays along. This is how many ladies put themselves in marriage they don't want and later complain. As I am now I easily give out my number to anyone that feels like on social media. Once I give it out many thinks they have catch new kitten. As for me I release number base on rules, if u are calling me let it be fr business purpose alone. For land sales,purchases,running of survey, c of o processes. U can meet me in the office between 7:30-3:30. U can't call me in d might night all in d name of business I will cut you off and block. Sir I will advice you to sit her down plead with her to move on with her life if she can't stop giving men her number. Wisdom to live with her may that bestow on you if u eventually marry her. I smell wahala 5 Likes |
Re: A Girl I Am Engaged To Still Gives Men Her Phone Number by Ricoluv(m): 10:21am On Jan 11, 2019 |
MariaLavina: your level of immaturity is shocking |
Re: A Girl I Am Engaged To Still Gives Men Her Phone Number by Decrypter: 10:21am On Jan 11, 2019 |
Dear Lordbellish, Haven read through your ordeal are you sure you want to continue with this wedding plans at the moment? She still picks calls at odd hours and calls you a minor distraction. She barely enjoys sex with you. You’re also getting ready to travel abroad and leave her here alone where she can do as she likes. You might be in love with this girl but you have to take a chill pill and decipher if she actually loves you too. If she’s really into you or she just wants to use you to get her family off her back(pressure to get married). Does she chat on WhatsApp late into the night? If so clone her WhatsApp and follow her chats. 2 Likes |
Re: A Girl I Am Engaged To Still Gives Men Her Phone Number by Hamid7(m): 10:21am On Jan 11, 2019 |
CyberWolf:A very likely occurrence. But Op is giving different excuses to marry her by force and I wonder why he wants our opinion in the first place |
Re: A Girl I Am Engaged To Still Gives Men Her Phone Number by Patoski7(m): 10:22am On Jan 11, 2019 |
She is having a back up plan incase 1 Like |
Re: A Girl I Am Engaged To Still Gives Men Her Phone Number by Arijude(m): 10:22am On Jan 11, 2019 |
Lordbellish:pure red flag here mehn. One thing I don't get serious with that fake thing called love. |
Re: A Girl I Am Engaged To Still Gives Men Her Phone Number by macho44(m): 10:22am On Jan 11, 2019 |
Lordbellish:Imma tell you something bro; Forever is too long to stay CAGED and Live a life of regrets. Even if u making plans to travel, brother Marriage isn't something you should rush, or delve into for convenience sake. The world has never been void of Beautiful Women, ready to give you the PEACE ya need. Free that girl now for ur own Good, nothing kills a man faster than a Bad Wife/Woman. 1 Like |
Re: A Girl I Am Engaged To Still Gives Men Her Phone Number by Sheggy13(m): 10:22am On Jan 11, 2019 |
Lordbellish:Let me get this clear. You're planning to go abroad later this year September and came back early next year January to marry this lady? Am I right? 1 Like 1 Share |
Re: A Girl I Am Engaged To Still Gives Men Her Phone Number by NarnieSnyper(m): 10:23am On Jan 11, 2019 |
Proudlyngwa: Funny enough, I watched that episode again two nights ago. It taught me something big when it comes to handling women..... asides the "hitting her" part though. The op has seriously lost his "manhood". Imagine such disrespect from the girl. I'd take that phone and smash it to the ground, give her money to get a new one (probably), after scolding her ears off. 1 Like |
Re: A Girl I Am Engaged To Still Gives Men Her Phone Number by shege45: 10:24am On Jan 11, 2019 |
emkz:wish I could like this more than once |
Re: A Girl I Am Engaged To Still Gives Men Her Phone Number by Lordbellish: 10:24am On Jan 11, 2019 |
Decrypter: bro how can I do at the bolded, her whatsapp chats with some numbers are always blank... |
Re: A Girl I Am Engaged To Still Gives Men Her Phone Number by Nobody: 10:24am On Jan 11, 2019 |
Lordbellish: So u engaged her to prevent her from giving other guys her phone number? . 2 Likes 2 Shares |
Re: A Girl I Am Engaged To Still Gives Men Her Phone Number by CyberWolf: 10:25am On Jan 11, 2019 |
Hamid7:he wants to marry her traditionally and then travel abroad for further studies, then when he comes back, they will continue from where they started.. smh. Why can’t he focus on his studies first and when he is done and back home, he can settle down and marry a homely girl in peace? 1 Like |
Re: A Girl I Am Engaged To Still Gives Men Her Phone Number by RhickardoJesus: 10:25am On Jan 11, 2019 |
Guy... If you can't cope with that part of her attitude don't marry her else, you will not be happy in your marriage. If a girl you plan to settle down with refuse to change after much talks waka o! Marriage is a life time affair. To waka no easy but you have to put on the heart of a lion and move on. I am talking from experience. 1 Like |
Re: A Girl I Am Engaged To Still Gives Men Her Phone Number by biosilicon: 10:26am On Jan 11, 2019 |
Lordbellish: Bro you know what to do. All the evidence is there. But you love her so much you can not bring yourself to do it . So you keep deceiving yourself and keep blocking out the obvious from your mind. In your desperation to keep her You seek validation from nairaland. How do i know this? I have been in your shoes the girl was doing exactly same thing your girl was doing. I told my self she loves me more than those other guys and i was her main man and she was just flirting. And she cant break our sacred bond. Besides she can pray for africa and spends a good part of her time in one church program or another. Looking back now i marvel at how stupid and gullible i was. Damn! Now brace yourself for the hard truth. 1) She is cheating on you. She is a woman and i can bet my life that some other men are fucking her. They may be upto 3 or more sorry but that is the truth. It does not matter the facade she puts on for you. 2) she is just using you for security. Its hard to see a woman refuse engagement from her boyfriend. 3) Even if she stops giving her number out and you guys settle and get married. I have absolutely no doubt she will cheat in the future. Absolutely no doubt. This i know because of encounters with so many married women.(i did not say i slept with them ooo. But itvis glaring what they want.) My brother women are no more what they used to be. The world don spoil. Marriage means nothing. Now there are 2 types of men. A) those that can live with a cheating spouse B) those that cant. I think you fall into category A. So carry go. Las las na somebody go marry hoe. 16 Likes 1 Share |
Re: A Girl I Am Engaged To Still Gives Men Her Phone Number by Pat081: 10:26am On Jan 11, 2019 |
Brother u dnt tell us or u forget to tell us maybe she is a bad or good gal?? And wen she is on phone did she talk like dos people are asking her out And my last question is what type of work is she into? |
Re: A Girl I Am Engaged To Still Gives Men Her Phone Number by anonymous1759(m): 10:27am On Jan 11, 2019 |
And what are you asking from us? To help you fuvk her? Like other men are doing? If you're not ready to leave her I can drop my number so you can give her I'll tell you the story... ... Some questions are Rhetoric... You know what to do. 1 Like |
Re: A Girl I Am Engaged To Still Gives Men Her Phone Number by homirefacuny(m): 10:27am On Jan 11, 2019 |
rame18: |
Re: A Girl I Am Engaged To Still Gives Men Her Phone Number by Kennyguru(m): 10:28am On Jan 11, 2019 |
You have to end it now or never bros 1 Like |
Re: A Girl I Am Engaged To Still Gives Men Her Phone Number by 9gerian: 10:28am On Jan 11, 2019 |
Chat up random girls in her presence and collect their numbers in an innocent manner. Make it a habit. Make sure the girls are hot!!! Lordbellish: 2 Likes 1 Share |
Re: A Girl I Am Engaged To Still Gives Men Her Phone Number by richylee(m): 10:29am On Jan 11, 2019 |
Lordbellish:You don enter one chance bro. She's not yet ready to settle down with you 2 Likes 1 Share |
Re: A Girl I Am Engaged To Still Gives Men Her Phone Number by breeldesigns: 10:29am On Jan 11, 2019 |
Have to be careful bro |
Re: A Girl I Am Engaged To Still Gives Men Her Phone Number by PrinceBBlack(m): 10:30am On Jan 11, 2019 |
MariaLavina:Am sad that you would make such statement. Y do you support foolishness. At odd hours, if not that she has no regard for him, y would she be picking calls at times like that and also giving out numbers like that to stranger and men for that man. If you support this kind of behaviour, then i guess u would be fine if ur husband starts receiving random calls late at night |
Re: A Girl I Am Engaged To Still Gives Men Her Phone Number by homirefacuny(m): 10:30am On Jan 11, 2019 |
biosilicon: Words of wisdom!!! Absolutely amazing analysis. Say NO to HOES |
Re: A Girl I Am Engaged To Still Gives Men Her Phone Number by Slamnation: 10:32am On Jan 11, 2019 |
if you want to live oh biko leave... RhickardoJesus: |
Re: A Girl I Am Engaged To Still Gives Men Her Phone Number by callthefred: 10:33am On Jan 11, 2019 |
Mr OP you must be very stupid and no apologies for that. Your babe called you a distraction on phone in your presence and you are here ranting. Let me tell you a bitter truth, we can't change our women we can only manage them...this your babe is beyond redemption. Obviously she hasn't told any of her callers she's engaged. God is giving you signals you're ranting. I'm sure her character is coming out because of your mothers prayers but as a stupid son that you are you're looking for evidence. Walk away now and find another babe...this one will Bleep all your friends after marriage. Women, selfishness and greed. Always wanting to eat their cakes and have it. Lordbellish: 6 Likes 1 Share |
Re: A Girl I Am Engaged To Still Gives Men Her Phone Number by Nobody: 10:33am On Jan 11, 2019 |
Lordbellish: That your girlfriend is a smart one.....Ewwww!Do you have access to her phones ? 1 Like 1 Share |
Re: A Girl I Am Engaged To Still Gives Men Her Phone Number by homirefacuny(m): 10:34am On Jan 11, 2019 |
Lordbellish: Are you sure this girl have not jazzed you like this Any lady that deletes social media messages is a cheat!!! Hard truth bro. Bleep the bitch and let her be. Dont be unfortunate pls 3 Likes 1 Share |
Re: A Girl I Am Engaged To Still Gives Men Her Phone Number by Emaprince: 10:34am On Jan 11, 2019 |
GGirll:Are you a twin. Give me your twin sisters number 1 Like |
Re: A Girl I Am Engaged To Still Gives Men Her Phone Number by Dshocker(m): 10:34am On Jan 11, 2019 |
MariaLavina: You are an idiot |
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