Rozaytee:
are u sure u have sense like dis

Afonjas:
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I don't know what to tell you but

You're a religious mumu

donbrowser:

Why are you getting urge if you're not being tempted. As you are singing hymn sef, you will be imagining many things.
The best thing is to get a job or get busy.

Imperare:

nice post but heaven is not a race

WinningSun:



The urge for sex can not be satisfied by anything on earth than sex

ademola721gmai:

I am a married man who had always erroneously thought getting married solves your sexual urge, believe me man I feel sexually frustrated in marriage

LeonOgu:
I'm 32 and still a virgin. But by God's grace, I will marry this year. I don't masturbate. I'm only a spirit filled young man who is only moved by the things of God. I fast and study my Bible and sing spiritual songs at all time. To overcome sexual urge as a young man is just simple, only if your spirit is high in the things of God, then the flesh doesn't have any option than to surrender.

Read Proverbs 23:26. It says; My son give me your heart and let your eyes observe my ways
Ephesians 5:18. says, Be filled with the Holy Spirit.

Finally brethren, look unto God and you will overcome the flesh and the urge. You'd only have the urge for Holiness and Righteousness. Remain blessed for now!

Valerie47:
Why you no go chase money?

Randy100:
There are class of drugs ( antidepressant SSRIs) that lowers libido. They are setraline(zoloft), fluoxetine(prozac). It will help you.

LeonOgu:
I'm 32 and still a virgin. But by God's grace, I will marry this year. I don't masturbate. I'm only a spirit filled young man who is only moved by the things of God. I fast and study my Bible and sing spiritual songs at all time. To overcome sexual urge as a young man is just simple, only if your spirit is high in the things of God, then the flesh doesn't have any option than to surrender.

Read Proverbs 23:26. It says; My son give me your heart and let your eyes observe my ways
Ephesians 5:18. says, Be filled with the Holy Spirit.

Finally brethren, look unto God and you will overcome the flesh and the urge. You'd only have the urge for Holiness and Righteousness. Remain blessed for now!

Sirmuel1:
Just forget about Women and chase money.


That method has been helping me.

Okoroawusa:
I don't control anything. For what?



I must have that sex that day(any which way) or I masturbate.


For Your Information, am not trying to be funny here( this is Nairaland. People tend to give naughty or funny answers, sometimes)


I am dead serious.

BiGVEEN58:
Why are the ladies not saying anything?
They don’t have sexual urge?

Toks2008:

sky101:
Haba mana, the kind off stress in Nigeria is busy shutting down people's libido and you're still recommending drugs?

Maybe It can help some people sha.



As for those married women whose husbands have become serial donors, here's your solution. Just be ready to live with it.

Valerie47:
I start thinking of 101 ways I can make money.

franchasng:
making a habit of fasting twice in every week helps.

Yes money or financial success increases sexual libido in men.

Being committed in Church don't even help much these days with lots of voluptuous looking ladies dressing provocatively to Church knowingly and unknowingly

What I discovered that works best is weekly fasting, it also helps one to keep fit because you won't be eating three or four times daily as usual.

And when you are fasting, your inner spirit will be at peace and you will also be in sober mood to even think about sex. And if sex urge ever comes, because you don't want to spoil your fasting, you will definitely find a way to brush it aside and focus on other issues of life.

And while on this, the person must avoid watching movies and x-rated TV programmes or even hip hop music videos.

Watch only news, wild animal/science documentary and sports stations, which happens to be the only channels I ever watch since my life, I can't remember watching any movie unless I saw at a glance when someone else is watching which I will definitely change if I must stay.

Guys if you can be able to learn how to control your sexual urge as a man, believe me, if you are single, you will never marry the wrong lady and you will not fall victim of women manipulation.

You will be so confident and bold to handle any lady and reject any without fear cos you aren't desperate of anything.

It is men's desperateness to have sex that always lead them into dating and marrying the wrong ladies and also lead them into making unfounded promises and pledges they can't keep

kingsmaila:



Fast every Monday and Thursday weekly. It reduces sexual urge.

donvoice:


A true religion didn't only condemned it but also gives a way out.

When ever the urge comes as a Christian, change your immediate environment because definitely it's something around there that brings out the stimulation. Pick up your Bible or hymn book or better still play a deep rooted gospel songs on your phone and set my mind on the heavenly race.

Trust me, it works better than any other remedy

AkataNYC:
Buddhist methods are the only time tested proven way. It involves segregating Male/Female, and high amounts of discipline instilled by a ritualized lifestyle in nature. Most importantly lack of stimulus and exposure except for the most Senior monks who eventually graduate and can interact with society without temptation. It takes decades of training to achieve this ability. There is no way for the average untrained Man to do this.

It is impossible to expect humans in regular city environments where Sex is everywhere on TV, Ads, Social media, etc. to conform to rules made 2000+ years ago.

So if you want to control the urge, join a buddhist monastery. Otherwise you are out of luck.

QuietHammer:
You can't cheat nature. You either fvck somebody, use your hand and 'choke the monkey' or your body fvcks itself by having wet dreams. Whichever way, man must cum.

Interesting15:


Like, anytime I see posts like yours, I'm like 'seriously'? Is self control that difficult? I mean, I'm 24 this year, I never had sex before in my life.. And I don't see myself having sex till I get married by God's Grace.

Well, I believe if you decide honouring God with your body, He will give you strength

enemyofprogress:
Na this for this kind thread wego find funkeshugar, lalasticlala, funjosh, ajepako, eleko1 and Pa Seun olori oko nairaland