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Re: I Quit People Easily, Pls Help. by Nobody: 4:34pm On Jan 14, 2019 |
krissconnect:I wouldn't really consider yourself having an issue.. I feel it's best and you've probably never met anybody of impact which is rare. I'm like this cos I'm not ready for people's drama cos in the past I confronted people about their wrongs and they still carried on with their acts anyways. Point is, once u meet someone unique to you, you'll be more inclined to keep that person in your life.. Your actions are best cos you aren't obsessive or clingy.. Don't stress yourself for people who won't stress for you. Get your iPhone xs Max at an affordable price. Whatsapp the number on my Profile |
Re: I Quit People Easily, Pls Help. by y3mi(m): 4:49pm On Jan 14, 2019 |
MissRaine69:True MissRaine69:Word |
Re: I Quit People Easily, Pls Help. by tahoe(m): 4:50pm On Jan 14, 2019 |
So many can relate 1 Like
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Re: I Quit People Easily, Pls Help. by Nobody: 4:56pm On Jan 14, 2019 |
shege45: That's my take too when I was younger, but one day I learnt that pushing harder pays. I'm married now but the story I am about to tell happened when I was still a fine handsome man. When I say handsome I mean "HANDSOME" May be that was one of my problems who knows. I used to believe in my looks and would feel like as a fine young man if I toast you and you say No.I move on cause I knew I wasn't bad looking. I dress well and look good so if you reject me I won't feel too bad. Because I won't be feeling like " may be because of my bad looks" "may be because I don't dress well" in me I would just say its your cup of Nescafe! and I move on. There was this fine girl working at the old Leventis Stores in Ibadan 98/99. I went to buy something there and I saw her. She was one of the sales girls. I greeted her and told her I liked her and she rejected my friendship offer politely with a smile. I now made it a duty to go there like twice or thrice every week. Telling her my intention. She kept saying No. The day I went for the last time, I didnt go to her but straight to one of her colleagues who already knew my intention. I told her that today is the last day I have come to let your friend Eno (Thats her real name ) know my intention, after today I won't step here again. It was like a treat and really I meant it. I like this girl but I was fed up with the hard to get attitude. The lady said I should sit at the the Snacks section and wait for her and off she went to meet her where she was. I bought some snacks and soft drink and waited. Not long after then Eno came to sit in front of me. We chatted for like 5minutes, she was on duty and her bosses must not see her chatting like that with a customer, and that was it we booked a date. And She was really a marriage material. We were good friends and if not for circumstances she would have been the one I married. Problems with Guys like us is that we don't realise that every girl you meet has got someone in her life already, she would need some time to decide to drop the guy for you or to have you as a friend till she looks for a way to discard the person she met before you. We just want a lady to say Yes straight away because you see yourself as handsome , rich or famous. Its not like that. You should just continue to keep up appearance and be nice till she is convinced on what to do with you. A lot of girls that said No yesterday ended up being Loving Wives of the same Guys they rejected. Patience is the key. 4 Likes |
Re: I Quit People Easily, Pls Help. by myself13: 5:06pm On Jan 14, 2019 |
Nawaooo |
Re: I Quit People Easily, Pls Help. by justmykel(m): 5:10pm On Jan 14, 2019 |
Toks2008: Wow That was enlightening I must say |
Re: I Quit People Easily, Pls Help. by Malaymoney(m): 5:13pm On Jan 14, 2019 |
@OP am having the same issue .......though i believe the problem na pride........but i roll smoothly with fellow niggaz |
Re: I Quit People Easily, Pls Help. by Galapagous(m): 5:13pm On Jan 14, 2019 |
MyGeneration:Same here. Its like my pleasure lies in the wooing, chatting and laughter aspect. |
Re: I Quit People Easily, Pls Help. by TheWalkingMind: 5:14pm On Jan 14, 2019 |
samysmoothfresh:I thought it was Schizoid Personality Disorder at first, but then I later found out it's some spiritual awakening process. |
Re: I Quit People Easily, Pls Help. by Shezkid: 5:18pm On Jan 14, 2019 |
Topze: I need to check my life.. I stopped picking mumcy calls I dey para with popcy like this But cool with all my siblings... My parents no longer live together sha . |
Re: I Quit People Easily, Pls Help. by Toks2008(m): 5:19pm On Jan 14, 2019 |
justmykel: I don mention lalasticlala tire to put am for front page. |
Re: I Quit People Easily, Pls Help. by Shezkid: 5:20pm On Jan 14, 2019 |
Toks2008: It's on FP na.. E don tey sef |
Re: I Quit People Easily, Pls Help. by Toks2008(m): 5:37pm On Jan 14, 2019 |
Shezkid: Not this one...tbe quoted one. |
Re: I Quit People Easily, Pls Help. by justmykel(m): 5:40pm On Jan 14, 2019 |
Toks2008: I guess it's because it's not a SNAKE thread, I learnt he loves SNAKES � |
Re: I Quit People Easily, Pls Help. by tabithababy(f): 5:44pm On Jan 14, 2019 |
Hmmm |
Re: I Quit People Easily, Pls Help. by vezycash(m): 5:51pm On Jan 14, 2019 |
FredAndrew: Prayer for every thing. This is why Nigeria is neck deep in shit. Instead of working hard people will fast and pray, visit imam, sacrifice rams, chickens, even human beings. Imagine prescribing Panadol for every illness, malaria, typhoid measles... Prayer works but not for this. 2 Likes |
Re: I Quit People Easily, Pls Help. by Nobody: 5:53pm On Jan 14, 2019 |
tamethem: God bless you sir |
Re: I Quit People Easily, Pls Help. by Shezkid: 5:57pm On Jan 14, 2019 |
Toks2008: Okay.. |
Re: I Quit People Easily, Pls Help. by Toks2008(m): 6:06pm On Jan 14, 2019 |
justmykel: Lol! It's not easy honestly considering the number of times his moniker is mentioned in one hour on nairaland threads... |
Re: I Quit People Easily, Pls Help. by justmykel(m): 6:11pm On Jan 14, 2019 |
Toks2008: Ya true Na him own hustle be that |
Re: I Quit People Easily, Pls Help. by Lamas2012(m): 6:17pm On Jan 14, 2019 |
you are normal ma bro or you want me to tell you is your village people that are eating agidi with your destiny |
Re: I Quit People Easily, Pls Help. by Nobody: 6:19pm On Jan 14, 2019 |
i assure you nothing is wrong with you for I just like you the real reason may be due to the fact that you've had too many exposures and experiences in the past which makes you to realise that you're allergic to some people's Bullshits of which if you let it bother you it only affects only you emotionally for if you get angry at other people's bullshit you're only hurting yourself and the person won't even know. so bro you are normal there's nothing wrong with you |
Re: I Quit People Easily, Pls Help. by Radiant1020(f): 7:11pm On Jan 14, 2019 |
I can see a lot of people claiming to be like the OP Hhmmmmmmm |
Re: I Quit People Easily, Pls Help. by Nobody: 7:26pm On Jan 14, 2019 |
krissconnect:If you really quit easily, you wouldn't have dated your girlfriend for five years. |
Re: I Quit People Easily, Pls Help. by Nobody: 7:43pm On Jan 14, 2019 |
Mac2016:, I never knew it's abnormal. That's exactly like me, immediately I leave an environment, I don't miss anything about it. I've spent up to four years in Lautech and I don't have a single friend, I'm currently alone in my room and I'm super comfortable with it. I'm suppose to go to my area brother's hostel but I'm just comfortable with being alone . Hope it does not have a negative psychological effect? |
Re: I Quit People Easily, Pls Help. by frozen70(f): 8:00pm On Jan 14, 2019 |
krissconnect: The truth is that you don't place value on the people that have been coming across you But the good thing is that you are now becoming aware of your self and your attitude As far you are living, people will upset you likewise you too will upset people Learn to be tolerant and see the goodness in people and you won't want to lose them It's still early for you to get your balance |
Re: I Quit People Easily, Pls Help. by Sarang(f): 8:44pm On Jan 14, 2019 |
FavouriteMe: Yours ain't good either.. if you can't keep a two year relationship.. can you really live with someone for lifetime? No way! |
Re: I Quit People Easily, Pls Help. by sirthisthickkal: 8:52pm On Jan 14, 2019 |
[b]hmmmm erm its like God just knows how to provide solutions to your problems when you least expects . thank you op for opening up for many of us that are still hiding behind the curtain... please I am sort of similar to what the op is complaining about or even worst.. I regularly shut out ladies who show their interest in me some even I honestly i am seriously regretting my actions but my hearts keeps building higher walls holding my emotions captive.. I fight it hard to love and once I begin to like someone slightly my emotions begin to harden.. this is weird and frustrating ..and i noticed once I fall in love it can be very difficult to let go and that's what am afraid of..also I think one of the things that contributed to this strange lifestyle is a result of jealousy among people especially some who call themselves friends..sometimes when I makes friends they become jealous of me because of my abilities , my taciturn nature and because of my physique and women easily gets attracted to me within a nano speed of light( I don't brag and I dislike getting attention and I am not the flirtatious type)...some married men go to the length of tarnishing my reputation so as to keep their wife's from having anything to do with me cos they are scared their wives may fall for me (which sometime happens).. as a result I refuse to make friends and I do hide some of my abilities. you can imagine a situation when a lot of guys are dying to get a ladies attention but unfortunately the girl is only interested on the guy who is not after her.. lemme just stop here there's still a lot but lemme pause here ..I would welcome advises, suggestions please. [/b] 1 Like |
Re: I Quit People Easily, Pls Help. by generationz(f): 9:15pm On Jan 14, 2019 |
krissconnect: have you ever done a personality type test ? Knowing your personality type is the first step to identifying why you are the way you are ? |
Re: I Quit People Easily, Pls Help. by generationz(f): 9:26pm On Jan 14, 2019 |
MyGeneration: its not demonic Its pshycological I'm suspecting two things Number 1 Its either you are someone who easily gets bored and as such only enjoy the feeling of the "chase " and conquering the prey or you discover the lady doesn't satisfy your intellectual and emotional mental need . Maybe a feeling of superiority complex or perfectionism You have created a idea of a your perfect woman in your head and when you finally get to know this girl you are dating she just becomes like other girls. Number 2 You are yet to recover from the hurt and pain a past lover or close person caused you and as such you prefer to let go of these ladies instead of creating something with them because the future is uncertain. |
Re: I Quit People Easily, Pls Help. by generationz(f): 9:30pm On Jan 14, 2019 |
Pastev1: oh puhhlease brother I'm a strong christian but this is nothing spiritual at all some of us have high self esteem and low tolerance for bullsh.I.t. we are self sufficient and can very independent minded He didn't tell you he was lonely . 1 Like 1 Share |
Re: I Quit People Easily, Pls Help. by MyGeneration(m): 9:38pm On Jan 14, 2019 |
generationz:my problem is number 1 though number 2 is a little bit part of it. I am yet to meet my dream woman. |
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