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Re: My Fiancee Left Me After I Used Our Marriage Money For My Mother's Burial by Resener27(m): 4:53pm On Jan 18, 2019
prince3009:


I don't know!

Don't ask me!

Maybe you should ask people like Resener27 who plans to do what people who don't want to do burial because of money did to their deceased loved ones here: https://www.nairaland.com/4427806/unclaimed-corpses-state-hospital-otta

Those people are wise! The OP and people like us are foolish!
Olofo. Oloribu omo. Next time when your father die like chicken this time, sell your papa house. Omo abi noabe
Re: My Fiancee Left Me After I Used Our Marriage Money For My Mother's Burial by Resener27(m): 4:54pm On Jan 18, 2019
prince3009:


I don't know!

Don't ask me!

Maybe you should ask people like Resener27 who plans to do what people who don't want to do burial because of money did to their deceased loved ones here: https://www.nairaland.com/4427806/unclaimed-corpses-state-hospital-otta

Those people are wise! The OP and people like us are foolish!
Olofo. Oloribu omo. Next time when your father die like chicken this time, sell your papa house. Omo abi npabe
Re: My Fiancee Left Me After I Used Our Marriage Money For My Mother's Burial by jakandeola(m): 4:54pm On Jan 18, 2019
afribabe:
Just asking o before you start cursing. What happens to those who can't afford it (even if they save for 2 years), how/when do they bury their dead?
dear pls follow back I wish to be a friend
Re: My Fiancee Left Me After I Used Our Marriage Money For My Mother's Burial by veeluv2015(f): 4:54pm On Jan 18, 2019
lomprico:


Mumu talk. Hope u have saved for ur relative's death. undecided

Don't worry, I can borrow you for your relative's death grin
Re: My Fiancee Left Me After I Used Our Marriage Money For My Mother's Burial by veeluv2015(f): 4:54pm On Jan 18, 2019
prince3009:


Financial tatafo

You that is talking now...do you have emergency funds?

I excel at financial planning. So yes, I do!
Re: My Fiancee Left Me After I Used Our Marriage Money For My Mother's Burial by shineeye1: 4:55pm On Jan 18, 2019
Victni:
From Gistvic.com

A Nigerian Man, has shared a touching story of how his wife left him after he used their marriage money for his mothers burial.

See post:

Gist From Gistvic.com>> https://www.gistvic.com/2019/01/my-wife-left-me-after-i-used-our.html



My friend, the girl is under no obligation to wait for you AGAIN! You cannot always eat you cake and still have your penny! No so una go de form excuses de delay aging gals! Park well jare, You no serious!!

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Re: My Fiancee Left Me After I Used Our Marriage Money For My Mother's Burial by jakandeola(m): 4:56pm On Jan 18, 2019
prince3009:


Oh really?

Now i get it!

Na your type go allow your mama suffer this same fate when she is no more...

Want to know the fate i am talking about...see it here: https://www.nairaland.com/4427806/unclaimed-corpses-state-hospital-otta

When you are done, just know that it isn't everyone who is as senseless and irresponsible as you!

Have a nice day!

ignore DAT guy. he's. just a big fool DAT Neva respect his mum
Re: My Fiancee Left Me After I Used Our Marriage Money For My Mother's Burial by veeluv2015(f): 4:57pm On Jan 18, 2019
ProduceNiG:



Beyond financial planning. This is disloyalty madam

Yep. It's disloyalty. But that's not the lesson I choose to learn. I picked the more important lesson in the story which is "always save for the rainy days".
Re: My Fiancee Left Me After I Used Our Marriage Money For My Mother's Burial by Resener27(m): 4:57pm On Jan 18, 2019
jakandeola:
he want to suffer his mum in life and death cos of woman
Direct listen. You can bury the dead with little money. Don’t listen to people or do people’s bid all in the name of big burial. Spending 1m and above on burial for someone who doesn’t have money left for his wedding is dumb decision. If i die at old age and my son spend more than 500k for my burial, i go curse am from grave
Re: My Fiancee Left Me After I Used Our Marriage Money For My Mother's Burial by jakandeola(m): 4:58pm On Jan 18, 2019
Resener27:

Olofo. Oloribu omo. Next time when your father die like chicken this time, sell your papa house. Omo abi npabe
coword put ur office address I travel a lot wit friends.see if I wont spoil ur business
Re: My Fiancee Left Me After I Used Our Marriage Money For My Mother's Burial by MikkySexy23(m): 4:58pm On Jan 18, 2019
saltyatarodo:
She probably was dating the other guy (side bf) while she dated you cos 5months is too quick enough to meet someone, plan and execute a marriage in NIGERIA.

You were the main 2nd while the other one was d side nigga.




That na normal naija girl move when looking to settle down...
Re: My Fiancee Left Me After I Used Our Marriage Money For My Mother's Burial by Nobody: 4:59pm On Jan 18, 2019
Resener27:

Olofo. Oloribu omo. Next time when your father die like chicken this time, sell your papa house. Omo abi npabe

Are you sure your father's corpse is not among them there? Ewu cheesy
Re: My Fiancee Left Me After I Used Our Marriage Money For My Mother's Burial by jakandeola(m): 4:59pm On Jan 18, 2019
Resener27:

Direct listen. You can bury the dead with little money. Don’t listen to people or do people’s bid all in the name of big burial. Spending 1m and above on burial for someone who doesn’t have money left for his wedding is dumb decision. If i die at old age and my son spend more than 500k for my burial, i go curse am from grave
u Neva respect ur fada and Neva expect respect from ur son. oponu. omo ale jati jati
Re: My Fiancee Left Me After I Used Our Marriage Money For My Mother's Burial by veeluv2015(f): 5:00pm On Jan 18, 2019
Adeinfo:

Have you start saving for your parent burial?
Nobody saves for burial, in as much as death is inevitable, we don't pray for it even for our aged grandparents.
It clearly shows the lady was not faithful during the relationship for her to have gotten married sharply. The guy really dodged a big and future problem.

People have life insurance. That's like saving for 'burials'. Whether we like it or not, death must happen to every living being so it's best to b financially prepared for whatever happens.

Emergency funds can also be used for burials. I didn't say save specifically for burials. Save for emergencies.
Re: My Fiancee Left Me After I Used Our Marriage Money For My Mother's Burial by Resener27(m): 5:01pm On Jan 18, 2019
jakandeola:
u Neva respect ur fada and Neva expect respect from ur son. oponu. omo ale jati jati
Oloribu, so respect is burying someone with 5 million. Don’t be unfortunate
Re: My Fiancee Left Me After I Used Our Marriage Money For My Mother's Burial by Resener27(m): 5:01pm On Jan 18, 2019
prince3009:


Are you sure your father's corpse is not among them there? Ewu cheesy
Bleep off
Re: My Fiancee Left Me After I Used Our Marriage Money For My Mother's Burial by Resener27(m): 5:03pm On Jan 18, 2019
jakandeola:
coword put ur office address I travel a lot wit friends.see if I wont spoil ur business
Come and patronize us
Make i do visa for you
Re: My Fiancee Left Me After I Used Our Marriage Money For My Mother's Burial by afribabe: 5:04pm On Jan 18, 2019
prince3009:


I don't know!

Don't ask me!

Maybe you should ask people like Resener27 who plans to do what people who don't want to do burial because of money did to their deceased loved ones here: https://www.nairaland.com/4427806/unclaimed-corpses-state-hospital-otta

Those people are wise! The OP and people like us are foolish!
You don't have to shout. Who told you that those deceased were all unclaimed because their relatives don't have money for burial. Some of them might be accident victims or some missing people that the relatives are looking for and have no idea that they are dead.

My question again, is there no way for those that do not have much money to bury their dead within their financial capability?

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Re: My Fiancee Left Me After I Used Our Marriage Money For My Mother's Burial by Yankiss(m): 5:07pm On Jan 18, 2019
chicoMX:


Which kind questions you dey ask
Haba. Islamic burial allows u no time for mortuary. The question is in order. If it isn't Islamic burial, he could wait till a conducive time after wedding. U catch d joke now?
Re: My Fiancee Left Me After I Used Our Marriage Money For My Mother's Burial by HELLASJ(m): 5:08pm On Jan 18, 2019
femidejulius:
When a woman is desperate for marriage, she can quickly follow a man she barely know and get married in months.

Sometimes however, she already had more than one guy and quickly move to the other one.

Which ever this case is, you are not meant to be together. So forget her and move on.

There's someone for everyone.
you've said it all
GOD bless you
Re: My Fiancee Left Me After I Used Our Marriage Money For My Mother's Burial by Glink2018(m): 5:08pm On Jan 18, 2019
koyyes:
The op is not telling the full story.

He has been wasting her time for years.


God bless you for telling the truth....
Some people would not here the full story from both sides before the jump into conclusions....

In Nigeria , it's even hard to see a lady saving-up for wedding... they will tell you it's the husband responsibility....

Op, let's here the whole truth ....or else free us with your one-sided story..

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Re: My Fiancee Left Me After I Used Our Marriage Money For My Mother's Burial by Ganamustgo(m): 5:11pm On Jan 18, 2019
victorian:
Court marriage would have solved the issue .

Why wait for another one year !

Who knows she could be in her mid or late 30s. Possibly 38years sef and he expects her to wait for another one year.

The guy no serious .
Nobody said he shouldn't bury his mum properly but go for court wedding aftewrads .
Shebi that's what tinsel actress what's her name again with her Muslim husband did.
After he buried his mum, they didn't waste time . they went for court marriage , only the two of them with witness , exactly few months ago. Now she's heavily pregnant with both husband and wife looking happy and at peace with each other .

Guys make una dey use sense , biko. Its not a herculean task!

Nice comment.
Re: My Fiancee Left Me After I Used Our Marriage Money For My Mother's Burial by Vince77(m): 5:24pm On Jan 18, 2019
I read all comments page by page and I feel like crying at some comments. I kept shaking my head.

I have the perfect answer to this post and to why the lady acted the way she did but my major challenge is that i am too lazy to type.

Seun should consider putting a video or audio answer functionality on this site. Some of us just want to talk not type.
Re: My Fiancee Left Me After I Used Our Marriage Money For My Mother's Burial by DADAYO5: 5:29pm On Jan 18, 2019
And that's his own side of the story...
Re: My Fiancee Left Me After I Used Our Marriage Money For My Mother's Burial by Nobody: 5:36pm On Jan 18, 2019
Xisnin:

I brought up the issue of court wedding. No where in the article was it mentioned so don't blame
the woman.



No. There is every reason why a woman should care about when she get married in Nigeria or she will leave
a life of worry. It doesn't matter if she becomes a president or the
CEO of a powerful company, missing out on what most people including the lowliest can achieve
will always be a source of worry.


Not at all. Marriage is not a life or death situation and people marry and separate all the time.
It only works when compatible people stay together.

The lady is ready while the man thinks his mother's burial is more important.
That does not mean she is desperate, she only went for someone who is also ready
for marriage. The man can now wait as long as he wants with no pressure from any angle.
That is why I am surprised that he is complaining.

It reeks of insecurity when a person is called desperate for not playing by their partners rule. Healthy relationships are consensual and can be exited for whatever reason by the people involved.
You didn’t answer my questions.

I’m disappointed in you.
Re: My Fiancee Left Me After I Used Our Marriage Money For My Mother's Burial by babeosisi: 5:36pm On Jan 18, 2019
Sorry for your loss and heartbreak.
This is 2019 and you are still regrouping?
Re: My Fiancee Left Me After I Used Our Marriage Money For My Mother's Burial by Shaev7(m): 5:49pm On Jan 18, 2019
E good for you. You mistake your priority. Learn from the burial process of Jesus.
Re: My Fiancee Left Me After I Used Our Marriage Money For My Mother's Burial by Xisnin(m): 5:49pm On Jan 18, 2019
Elder0001:

You didn’t answer my questions.
I did answer your question.
I purposely ignored the one about money because I don't believe or follow
any rules about how couples should relate. There is no "must", or "should".
If you are not comfortable with an arrangement, you simply excuse yourself,
no need for whining or ranting about what a partner refused to do.

So, "Must the man be the one to spend money?", No.
But that doesn't mean everybody must agree with such.
If the man doesn't want to spend money, let him find someone who likes to spend
on him or share with him. He cannot, however, demand that his partner spends on him
and do his bidding because nobody owes him anything.

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Re: My Fiancee Left Me After I Used Our Marriage Money For My Mother's Burial by rame18(f): 5:55pm On Jan 18, 2019
DanDeeBoss:
Sons of Nebuchadnezzar?? Lol...gringringrin












Guy y Y are you always laughing undecided
Re: My Fiancee Left Me After I Used Our Marriage Money For My Mother's Burial by DanDeeBoss(m): 5:58pm On Jan 18, 2019
rame18:













Guy y Y are you always laughing undecided
Alright.... Why you go call them "sons of Nebuchadnezzar"??angryangry
Re: My Fiancee Left Me After I Used Our Marriage Money For My Mother's Burial by rame18(f): 6:01pm On Jan 18, 2019
DanDeeBoss:
Alright.... Why you go call them "sons of Nebuchadnezzar"??angryangry












They have his attributes na
Re: My Fiancee Left Me After I Used Our Marriage Money For My Mother's Burial by DanDeeBoss(m): 6:03pm On Jan 18, 2019
rame18:













They have his attributes na
I am not gonna laugh again forever undecidedundecided

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