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Re: If A Girl Walks Up To A Man And Expresses Her Feelings; Is She Cheap Or Brave? by Nemi64(m): 4:21am On Feb 07, 2019
well, lets look at it this way, does it spelt a guy wooing a lady cheap? I know your answer will be NO, then why is a lady toasting/wooing (in quot) a guy does. To me, the true cheapness is when a lady do this not out of love, but out of greed for substance (money/other) at of the guys disposal. My dear, i nemi will respect her, for going for what she want. Who african setting help?

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Re: If A Girl Walks Up To A Man And Expresses Her Feelings; Is She Cheap Or Brave? by Akuruoulo(m): 4:57am On Feb 07, 2019
Fafesot:
She's not cheap
we guys are the cheap one..
no matter hw bad her toasting skills are..
we will always say yes

The first time it happened to me ,I declined without saying no.
Not everyone accepts. But just do it in the manner she wont get hurt

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Re: If A Girl Walks Up To A Man And Expresses Her Feelings; Is She Cheap Or Brave? by Akuruoulo(m): 5:03am On Feb 07, 2019
AmazonTopaz:
She is brave because she is genuine with her feelings cheesy.
She knows what she wants and would not hesitate.Unlike those ladies who only know how to give signals up and down and cannot approach a man because they feel it is unlady like. smiley

Any lady who does that deserves a credit.
She is brave, and that makes her get options on like the ones who waits for anything that comes their way.

Not all relationships that a guy initiated last, and same goes to the ladies

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Re: If A Girl Walks Up To A Man And Expresses Her Feelings; Is She Cheap Or Brave? by Akuruoulo(m): 5:08am On Feb 07, 2019
faithfull18:

Lol, you this dumb 26yrs old undergraduate.

You keep begging for my attention, did someone steal your toy?

Just tell me to dash you data because I don't know why you are so pained.

You are far beneath my level, let me stop there.

Learn to ignore some things
Re: If A Girl Walks Up To A Man And Expresses Her Feelings; Is She Cheap Or Brave? by Akuruoulo(m): 5:15am On Feb 07, 2019
faithfull18:

This is Africa. That it worked for you doesn't mean it's like that for everyone.

There is no where that asking someone out works for everyone.
Be it boy to girl
Or
Girl to boy.


I see say Una no wan feel the pain of rejection

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Re: If A Girl Walks Up To A Man And Expresses Her Feelings; Is She Cheap Or Brave? by Daeylar(f): 5:17am On Feb 07, 2019
Fafesot:
She's not cheap
we guys are the cheap one..
no matter hw bad her toasting skills are..
we will always say yes

LMAO grin
Re: If A Girl Walks Up To A Man And Expresses Her Feelings; Is She Cheap Or Brave? by holuwasheyiWGP(m): 5:20am On Feb 07, 2019
Hameex:
Fear them oh na there type go later dump once u re finally in love with them... Awon eleri buruku gbogbo
Dem don do baba strong thing cheesy

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Re: If A Girl Walks Up To A Man And Expresses Her Feelings; Is She Cheap Or Brave? by Daeylar(f): 5:21am On Feb 07, 2019
Another let's look for something to bash women with thread. Let's look for ways we can call them cheap and then use it to bash them..

Typical.

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Re: If A Girl Walks Up To A Man And Expresses Her Feelings; Is She Cheap Or Brave? by Akuruoulo(m): 5:22am On Feb 07, 2019
Creativebae:
Once told this guy i like him alot, nigga invited me on a date and came with his girlfriend introducing me as his crusher, i nearly lost my breath. i just respected myself and told him i was actually writing a script so i needed a reaction from him to help me build my story. ..
I won't try it again, not even advising anyone to try it

It's ur fault nah.
Why trying it with an ill somebody ?
Re: If A Girl Walks Up To A Man And Expresses Her Feelings; Is She Cheap Or Brave? by Akuruoulo(m): 5:24am On Feb 07, 2019
anjigirl:
Yes! It always ends badly when you approached him first


No true
Re: If A Girl Walks Up To A Man And Expresses Her Feelings; Is She Cheap Or Brave? by Akuruoulo(m): 5:31am On Feb 07, 2019
Judybash93:


Let's assume that you're talking about a guy now!

Why should a guy go through the stress as well?

That guy drugs isn't responding well

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Re: If A Girl Walks Up To A Man And Expresses Her Feelings; Is She Cheap Or Brave? by Akuruoulo(m): 5:32am On Feb 07, 2019
Judybash93:


Let's assume that you're talking about a guy now!

Why should a guy go through the stress as well?
Leave the dude.
Re: If A Girl Walks Up To A Man And Expresses Her Feelings; Is She Cheap Or Brave? by femi4: 5:38am On Feb 07, 2019
igbodefender:
Is she cheap or brave?
brave
Dated several girls like that, they are quite confident and intelligent
Re: If A Girl Walks Up To A Man And Expresses Her Feelings; Is She Cheap Or Brave? by holuwasheyiWGP(m): 5:48am On Feb 07, 2019
This thing has happened to me twice,
The first time around 2014 was in secondary school back then.it was this girl that lived in my area,she was pretty, I use a shotgun,so I was inserting my shells,na so babe disappeared before I was able to reload to shoot my shot.I investigated got her number from someone. I asked her out got a No!! But it kinda hurt cus it was my first time shooting.As usual mo ka Sara it was her loss
As fate would have it boy became fresher in 2015
So I passed her axis on day while coming back from a friends place ,someone called my name I just waved and marched on like a man going his own way.It was the 2go era so I logged in I saw a new friend which turned out to be her,she introduced herself cus I have forgotten about her sha,eventually she shoot her shot and I also wanted to shoot again though.... But she shot first and I agreed....

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Re: If A Girl Walks Up To A Man And Expresses Her Feelings; Is She Cheap Or Brave? by meobizy(f): 6:02am On Feb 07, 2019
For the 20,000th time this has graced front page. Wait, it’s more than that? I believe. I honestly believe.
Re: If A Girl Walks Up To A Man And Expresses Her Feelings; Is She Cheap Or Brave? by Forreellinc: 6:03am On Feb 07, 2019
Cheap b*tch
Re: If A Girl Walks Up To A Man And Expresses Her Feelings; Is She Cheap Or Brave? by Omyyyk(m): 6:15am On Feb 07, 2019
no matter hw bad her toasting skills are..
we will always say yes[/quote]

Lool.... Not all of us
Re: If A Girl Walks Up To A Man And Expresses Her Feelings; Is She Cheap Or Brave? by Judybash93(m): 6:17am On Feb 07, 2019
Akuruoulo:


That guy drugs isn't responding well

Re: If A Girl Walks Up To A Man And Expresses Her Feelings; Is She Cheap Or Brave? by MiddleDimension: 6:22am On Feb 07, 2019
Deicide:
Why would a girl want to do that its not worth it abeg.....

First she has to monitor the guy for sometime know all his scheduled, then when it is right she would approach him and most times this doesn't go well cause the guy might just ignore here existence or tell her he doesn't want to talk or say shes not his type or make mockery about her with his friends and walk away.

Lets say the guy does manage to grant her audience, he hears what she has to say he tells her he is going to think about it knowing fully well he is going to be playing hard to get? Why should any girl go through this stress?

but that's exactly what men go through too
Re: If A Girl Walks Up To A Man And Expresses Her Feelings; Is She Cheap Or Brave? by BlueAir: 6:30am On Feb 07, 2019
[quote author=MissRaine69 post=75479901]What is the justification of putting her in the category of cheap? This is what’s wrong with this society in general. Severe lack of innovation. [/quote ew. Try not to reason too fast perhaps u will comprehend. Brave or cheap. Cheap is valid enough for any *lady who jumps at random guys she assume to have gold*



And don't get me wrong again. The asterisked is just an example
Re: If A Girl Walks Up To A Man And Expresses Her Feelings; Is She Cheap Or Brave? by dingbang(m): 6:32am On Feb 07, 2019
She is open minded
Re: If A Girl Walks Up To A Man And Expresses Her Feelings; Is She Cheap Or Brave? by ebenope(m): 6:35am On Feb 07, 2019
There is nothing like being cheap or not. Feelings are meant to be expressed but the society where we find ourselves made this hard for the ladies. We are being overshadowed by religion or cultural values which are not the best moral standard for us. To me women got conscience too, let them experience their heart
Re: If A Girl Walks Up To A Man And Expresses Her Feelings; Is She Cheap Or Brave? by Caseless: 6:50am On Feb 07, 2019
Fafesot:
She's not cheap
we guys are the cheap one..
no matter hw bad her toasting skills are..
we will always say yes
grin grin
Re: If A Girl Walks Up To A Man And Expresses Her Feelings; Is She Cheap Or Brave? by BlueAir: 6:54am On Feb 07, 2019
AmazonTopaz:
She is brave because she is genuine with her feelings cheesy.
She knows what she wants and would not hesitate.Unlike those ladies who only know how to give signals up and down and cannot approach a man because they feel it is unlady like. smiley
genuine with feelings Lol the way u nairaland ladies like to credit urself too much. Allow me to burst ur bubbles grin I went shopping and I decided to take go take a bite. I was on my own oo when a lady sitting at the next table told her friend audibly that she liked me and I'm looking cool blah blah blah but I knew it was just the posh look and hint of stable account balance. I said nothing and focused on my phone l. I raised my head up only to see her 32 or 34 teeth all smiling at me. For politeness sake I smiled back. The expectancy stare was too small and I went to her table from mine. Got acquainted. Collected her phone number and her friend's. Caught her staring at her friend maliciously as she gave me her digits. SIC. I'm getting to where ur point of genuine feelings is wrong o. Later at night I called her. She was smooth and cool all through the phone call and I tripped. After the call. I be like blue o boy this girl's alright. It's ur last bus stop mehn. She's bold and pretty too. What else are u looking for? grin. The next night we agreed to meet at chicken republic. We spoke less, the love in the air was too much. Chai. When it was time for her to leave I asked her what she would like to take home as we both didn't eat the food we ordered due to flying hormones. She said chicken chips and whatever I wish. The 12k i brought along was yet to reach anywhere. I swore by fire by force she must spend all. And I made sure I spent all at the counter for her tale away. grin. Here comes the so genuine feelings part. THE NEXT DAY WE MET AT A SPOT. While we were discussing. She picked calls of 3 guys and got 70% romantic right in front of me and they definitely aren't her church members. I don't even like to remember what happened but believe it. Her feelings weren't genuine because she showed on the spot she was after the guy with the biggest pocket. 4 boyfriends?! Excluding the ones I don't know about. I guess the 70% romance was due to my presence. I excused myself, walked off never to look back again.

Lesson learnt if a lady ever approach me again. I would look myself well

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Re: If A Girl Walks Up To A Man And Expresses Her Feelings; Is She Cheap Or Brave? by Nobody: 6:54am On Feb 07, 2019
igbodefender:
Is she cheap or brave?

She's brave. there is nothing wrong with that, personally I respect women like that, even if I could not return thier feelings, I would always explain why in a way I would not crush her spirit. Women are very delicate when it comes to matters of the heart, If in this country, she would approach you & tell you that, then just know, if things click, these kind of woman will always be by your side in any situation either good or bad.

So thier is nothing cheap about her or her feelings


BUT BE VERY CAREFUL, YOU SHOULD BE ABLE TO JUDGE FAKE ONES WHO JUST ONE TO PRETEND IN ORDER TO JUST CHOP UR MONEY
Re: If A Girl Walks Up To A Man And Expresses Her Feelings; Is She Cheap Or Brave? by Creativebae(f): 7:01am On Feb 07, 2019
Akuruoulo:


It's ur fault nah.
Why trying it with an ill somebody ?
Didn't know he was mentally deranged till that day oh.
Re: If A Girl Walks Up To A Man And Expresses Her Feelings; Is She Cheap Or Brave? by Creativebae(f): 7:02am On Feb 07, 2019
igbodefender:

Chai. He wanted to use you to shine.
Seriously. .
Re: If A Girl Walks Up To A Man And Expresses Her Feelings; Is She Cheap Or Brave? by michoim(m): 7:09am On Feb 07, 2019
Brave
Re: If A Girl Walks Up To A Man And Expresses Her Feelings; Is She Cheap Or Brave? by reservd(m): 7:13am On Feb 07, 2019
I would say she's brave bt she just have to be sure of the kind of guy she wanna express her heart to be sure he's not the type dt might disrespect or take advantage of her
Re: If A Girl Walks Up To A Man And Expresses Her Feelings; Is She Cheap Or Brave? by linearity: 7:14am On Feb 07, 2019
Jayslicky:
There is nothing cheap about that except you paid cash for it, why do guys always think girls did them a favour when they have sex, if u say the girl is cheap then the guy is the same.

Nook dis wan!

Collecting cash is not cheap, it all depends on the amount of cash collected.

Anything below N100k is cheap, but above is okay. USD preferrable and 1000 USD is by no means cheap, your opinion does not count!

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