My Mum once said:
"Make sure the girl loves you more than you love her,with this; you'll be on the safer side."
Having inculcated such an advice-no worries.

lilmax:
see wetin love dey do my guy

lolxx...ahahahahahaah....chaaiii....ah don suffer..!

elvhinzey:
My Mum once said:
"Make sure the girl loves you more than you love her,with this; you'll be on the safer side."
Having inculcated such an advice-no worries.

okayy..thanks alot..i will put that in mind..

united442:


okay thankss..
we stated dating in our early 20s.

Uwc dear
Don't mind those saying you should delete her number and block her, that's not a healthy way to leave your girlfriend it would hurt you more.
Just forget about her in a cool way..it should be a gradual process

Irenemmeso:
Uwc dear
Don't mind those saying you should delete her number and block her, that's not a healthy way to leave your girlfriend it would hurt you more.
Just forget about her in a cool way..it should be a gradual process

okay..thanks alot...

please if i dnt delete her number and other stuff about her,i cant completely get her off my head na.
i will be tempted to call or text her.,so i think they are right..though it will hurt me d more,bt i think its also the first step i should take if am to recover on time..or what do think?

Go to YouTube and find videos of people really suffering, especially children with serious health issues. That might help put your life in perspective.
Good luck.

Another weak fool.

aswani:
Go to YouTube and find videos of people really suffering, especially children with serious health issues. That might help put your life in perspective.
Good luck.

thanks..

ednut1:
Another weak fool.

whatever...thanks..

Guy.....i know its painful..just try 2 get over her....with ur family and friends....it will really help u....and do wat u like doing best...if u deleter her number from ur phone..wb ur heart did u delete it from it..??leave d number save it as dont call.....clear ur convo with her for a while...avoid her..if she doesnt give 10 bleeps...u too dont give 2 Bleep.....free her......and concentrate on ur studies...and paro another babe in ur school...balance both of dem....das all i av to say shaa

Biglittlelois:
You are an overly emotional guy, ladies don't respect over emotional guys, we tend to take advantage of that, next time learn to balance rationality with emotions.

Radical Honesty, i like that. I respect you for this, sis.

irumole1975:
Where is @Harddon
Dating drill Harddon dating drill is your best companion.
READ IT DAILY

thanks for this...am into it now...

One rule of relationship : when your girl starts distancing herself from you, she is no longer interested in you.

Biglittlelois:
You are an overly emotional guy, ladies don't respect over emotional guys, we tend to take advantage of that, next time learn to balance rationality with emotions.

overly emotional,that true..
thanks alot for this..
i never knew..
will have that in mind.

Martinez39:
One rule of relationship : when your girl starts distancing herself from you, she is no longer interested in you.

okay...thanks...noted now.

Manpoly:
Guy.....i know its painful..just try 2 get over her....with ur family and friends....it will really help u....and do wat u like doing best...if u deleter her number from ur phone..wb ur heart did u delete it from it..??leave d number save it as dont call.....clear ur convo with her for a while...avoid her..if she doesnt give 10 bleeps...u too dont give 2 Bleep.....free her......and concentrate on ur studies...and paro another babe in ur school...balance both of dem....das all i av to say shaa

thanks for this..
though am not good at storing numbers ofhead,so frankly speaking,i dnt have her number in my heart or head...

however,am the type guy that hardly middle with either friends or family..i jst like being alone and studying..i know this is now going to worsting things and hurt me down..

never.d.less,thanks..

My nigga ,since she is your first love its normal for you to feel this way we ve all being there before even the strongest of us.But i want to tell you something there is absolutely nothing wrong with loving a girl or showing love but you should know where to draw the line what a woman really wants in a relationship is a strong,decisive and foward moving guy she can rely on.a real man is not supposed to to love more than the woman ,even if he does he should hide it.when women notice you love too much they begin to misbehave because they dont want to take the lead in a relationship but they will never tell you. never make a woman feel too good in a relationship i mean never make her believe she is all you got .go to dating drills or read my old posts ....peace.. .

united442:
Good-day landers in house.
sorry for the lengthy and a bit boring story. but....
Please i need your help, strong and sincere advise.
am emotionally heart broken, scared and seriously depress at what is happening in my relationship now.
have been dating my girlfriend for about 5years now, we both love each other so much.

cutting d story short.

we both attend the same institution,while am in my finale,she's in a par-time program,200l to be precise. while she's currently in school attending lectures for some time now,am preparing for resumption due to the ASUU strike.

Of recent, she has been changing her attitude and character towards me to something else i really do not understand. all this started when i couldn't pick her calls because i was seriously unhappy with her recent i dont care attitude. recently i noticed she hardly pick my calls,takes about 1hour before replying my whatsapp text, sometimes blaming me for any failed plans or agreement,hardly apologize when she's knows that she is 101% wrong, even when i try to caution or correct her on this,she takes it personal,pretend she don't care and i will end up apologizing for both what i did and did not do,recently always taking advantage on my feelings for her cause she knows i love her so much.

of recent, have been generating this mindset that things between us isn't normal,have been worried and scared cause i love her so much and i don't want to loose her. so i had to text her yesterday that i don't like what's happening between us, i don't feel good or comfortable and this her recent attitude is not normal, i had to apologize and apologize both for what i may have done in the past, present and had to even apologize for my wrongs in future if actually it has anything to do with me..i told her all my feeling about her and that i cant bare the pains of loosing her.

she told me nothing has change between us and that i am her first love and she still love me..she keeps on telling me this anytime i try to dig deep on what is bothering her.

i was very scared, worried, bothered, and heart broken when she ask me if i still remembered a guy she told me about that lived very close to her elder sister's house, a friend of her elder sister's husband, i told her yes, and she told me this guy has been having feelings for her that this said guy has to tell her elder sister's husband that he is liking her.

i was so worried and scared cause this is my first love and i love her so much, and i myself knows she still loves me, at that moment,i dnt even bothered to ask more about the guy,i started expressing my feeling 2 her, that i dnt want to loose her,i love her so much and wants 2 have a future with her, i just keep saying things i really cant remember and alots of promises i made, telling and pleading to her not to hurt me with all this.

i try to ask her about her feelings and her own side of the story, she wouldn't say cause she said i overreacted when she told me,i told her i was only scared of loosing her and she keeps on telling me that she still love me and that nothing has change between us. told me not to think much about it that she is still with me..

please landers in the house especially the females, please i need your advise, please, i really dnt know if i should be patient with her or my days with her are numbered...please no matter how short,lengthy and hurtful it is, please i need your MATURED advise!!..

Thanks!

Abeg who laughs off the post should gather here for a trophy...

kollinzgee:
My nigga ,since she is your first love its normal for you to feel this way we ve all being there before even the strongest of us.But i want to tell you something there is absolutely nothing wrong with loving a girl or showing love but you should know where to draw the line what a woman really wants in a relationship is a strong,decisive and forward moving guy she can rely on.a real man is not supposed to to love more than the woman ,even if he does he should hide it.when women notice you love too much they begin to misbehave because they dont want to take the lead in a relationship but they will never tell you. never make a woman feel too good in a relationship i mean never make her believe she is all you got .go to dating drills or read my old posts ....peace.. .

your words broke me down..
stupid i got carried away..

dating drills is currently restoring my stupidity..i really made lots lots of mistakes..

thanks alot bro..

i had to check the moniker if its not me months ago.
bro she is enjoying the attention she is getting from that gentle man on the other side,
my humble advice is get ur heart ready to be broken cos its coming like an avalanche.
i could be wrong tho but i'm 70% sure she will leave u.
you will leave sha


ps: never let ur new girlfriend know you are scared of losing her, the farm tool will take advantage

elvhinzey:
My Mum once said:
"Make sure the girl loves you more than you love her,with this; you'll be on the safer side."
Having inculcated such an advice-no worries.

ur mom is a super hero, i wanted to say bad ass sha

you expect me to read all this... for what?

clive2u:
i had to check the moniker if its not me months ago.
bro she is enjoying the attention she is getting from that gentle man on the other side,
my humble advice is get ur heart ready to be broken cos its coming like an avalanche.
i could be wrong tho but i'm 70% sure she will leave u.
you will leave sha


ps: never let ur new girlfriend know you are scared of losing her, the farm tool will take advantage

noted!

she hasn't left yet, but the red light is crystal clear..so am preparing for d worst..

never.d.less, thanks alot.

SkinnyDude:
you expect me to read all this... for what?

whatever!

united442:

whatever!

beta male

SkinnyDude:
you expect me to read all this... for what?

am sure you are not yet in a higher institution .if you are you are not up 3.1 gp.if you cant read such a short writeup.

united442:


noted!

she hasn't left yet, but the red light is crystal clear..so am preparing for d worst..

never.d.less, thanks alot.

Bro, nobody here knows the exact pain u going through right away but Landers can only advise u on what to do but u gonna take the decision urself. back to the matter I keep saying this he who invest more in a relationship become the "Slave" and he who invest less in a relationship becomes the "Master" of the said relationship...
My advise goes thus;
1: Back out stop the chasing that's limit the calling, chatting, caring and the attention uve being given her give her the chance of doing the chasing also.
2: Start giving her u don't care attitude and stop behaving as if ur happiness is centered around her.
3.Focus more on ur studies and give it more attention then try to be more successful (with ur studies, ur look, ur financial status and b more active in school)
4. Make her feel inferior to u by scouting for a promising winger "a beautiful smart lady" the one who have more possession than her (that senior her in all ramifications) this will make u superior over her and send her a silent message that u no longer tolerate a Bleep.
Lastly do it manly and do a lot of girls don't turn to pussy nigga and/or a womanizer... I rest my case

Akinbahm:
Bro, will modify my comment later my battery is almost down...

okay..thanks..i will keep abreast..

Biglittlelois:
You are an overly emotional guy, ladies don't respect over emotional guys, we tend to take advantage of that, next time learn to balance rationality with emotions.

WORD!!!
this is the painful truth
I could remember when i was serving, i used to love one corper babe like that and i showed it to her. She just dey use me dey play
As i dey like this, even if i like u too much, I would show u today, change am for you tomorrow just to let u know i can do without you. For some I don’t even show

shege45:
WORD!!!
this is the painful truth
I could remember when i was serving, i used to love one corper babe like that and i showed it to her. She just dey use me dey play
As i dey like this, even if i like u too much, I would show u today, change am for you tomorrow just to let u know i can do without you. For some I don’t even show

thanks...u boost my moral with this.

The story long abeg



After I gather courage read your story.


You love her more than she loves you.


And the girl is gone so sorry bro

idu1:
The story long abeg


After I gather courage read your story.

You love her more than she loves you.

And the girl is gone so sorry bro

thanks alot...it hurt, though, no option than 2 move on..