Men and women on nairaland who have had a failed marriage or, as the case might be, failed marriages, tell us what went wrong. How did it end? Was it your fault or your spouse's fault? Do you have any regrets? What were the red flags you saw in your spouse? What would you have done differently? Get in here and tell us.

Finally, from your experience, drop your advice for those that are thinking of getting married.

NB: this is a serious thread, no derailing. We are here to learn as others here are about to marry or enter a relationship. We are not here to judge anyone and there is no need to feel ashamed. It's better to have many failed marriages than to remain with a bad spouse forever. Besides, failed marriages can happen to anyone as you are not a mind reader and you are not in charge of your spouse actions.

there will always be regrets ,

marriage is over rated

you know nothing of it until you are in


social media as pose lots of threats to so many marriage, even the so called celebrity are not helping situations

Just here to

What a sad thread already

A rubbish thread on frontpage without comments.

Is this a sign that APC will lose on Saturday?

Issa Sign.

I think one of the ways of getting over a failed marriage is to heap the blames on the head of your partner.

Morally, it isn't right; but that is the only way to get over the feeling of divorce.

I am gonna get married very soon, and NOTHING will ever lead me to divorce.

I rather play the fool in my marriage than watch it crash.

What happens to my kids?

Personal opinion tho.

Okay

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Mod way push this topic come front page! No worry your marriage go recover we understand!!

I am not yet married, but I envision a blissful home , a marriage filled with joy and God's peace....a marriage of wealth, abundance, children (I love children), a marriage of sound mind and all God envisions for his children to have........I believe this is my lot, I anticipate it!!!!!!!! Glory!!!!!!!!!!!! #YouAreWhatYouThink#

This is a rather negative psychology. It's like asking somebody, why did you commit suicide?

It always start with money!

Useless naija women.

Here to read and learn.

Trying hard to end my marriage with poverty and b.itch keeps coming back!

may I not eva have any thing to comment on this kind thread

Why the Bleep do you wanna know...i was single and still single

What a sad thread

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What a thread! Nigerians sha

People should just understand that marriage is serious work before entering it. It's even hard work between the couple. Marriage is different from Nollywood where you see things work magically. A couple must be ready to sit down from time to time to discuss, review and readjust where there is need. Sweet home doesn't happen by itself; it is purposeful decision and labour of those who who have a goal of putting their marriage to work. Never enter into marriage with Nollywood and social media credentials. Any marriage can work so also can any marriage crash, it all depends on the players.
Divorce is not the panacea or an option for peace; it always produces victims for the society.
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Wife's parent are d one controlling her. after several attempts to severe her relationship with them was unsuccessful. divorce was successful. shez back with her parents now, and she's d one doing d cooking and washing for them.

She was constantly chatting on the Internet. Kept her phone with her all the time, was going to the bathroom to answer her calls. It all ended the day I saw her send her snapping herself naked. I struggled with her and took her phone and saw that she's been fucking around.... I had to walk out of the marriage.....


















Just kidding


I'm never getting married.

Okay, there was no lovein the first place. M

ogmfjec:
Ok

why posting this nonesense every time....

Bizmagnet:
What a thread! Nigerians sha

I tire o

Hmmmmmm
*sighs*

uuzba:
This is a rather negative psychology. It's like asking somebody, why did you commit suicide?

How?