millionboi2:
d last law though

MissSweet:
All I know is that as a guy go for the lady that is within your means...All that matters is happiness and loving each other.

frankie2K:

Nice post.But is for people that reason with their head and not with their DICK.come to think of it self,what are the benefits of been in a relationship apart from sex and advice(if she has anyone anyway),when u can go to OLOSHO house and enjoy good hammer with little money and good advice if you need any from them and save yourself from all these emotional trauma women of nowadays subject guys to because whether you like it or not you are her mugu once she is with you and another person mugu once she leaves your house.GUYS GET THESE INTO YOUR THIN SKULL.

PrimadonnaO:
Awesome advice!

But do you know it's a lot easier for a man to be very deliberate about the kind of woman he gets into a relationship with? Different women have got different backgrounds, and also differing needs. It is already an established fact that women like money... even the men know this. They'd always expect some form of gifting or assistance from whoever they are in a relationship with. Preach from now till tomorrow, it won't change.

The best thing therefore is to be careful about who you date. If you date a girl that attends weddings every now and then, you'll buy lots of aso-ebis If you date the type that has some type of skin and likes to dress up, etc. She'll surely expect bills from you.

Date a slay queen... Lol. Sorry for you.

Just know the lifestyle and needs of a girl you thinking about dating before you commit. It would save you headaches. Some guys just date girls that are too flashy and needy for their level and they come online to cry.


Truthfully, it's the easiest way to manage this situation. Don't date a person who has lots of wants and needs that are beyond your capacity. She doesn't become your responsibility but she'd have expectations of you. Most women are like that...

There's the class of girls with serious entitlement mentality, too. They ask for everything and anything without shame. If you find someone like that, better stay away o.

But most importantly, know when to put a brake on it. I'm a girl, but I found it highly enervating that a guy finished his savings on a girl. Like, why?

PrimadonnaO:
Awesome advice!

It is already an established fact that women like money... even the men know this. They'd always expect some form of gifting or assistance from whoever they are in a relationship with. Preach from now till tomorrow, it won't change.

PrimadonnaO:
Awesome advice!

But do you know it's a lot easier for a man to be very deliberate about the kind of woman he gets into a relationship with? Different women have got different backgrounds, and also differing needs. It is already an established fact that women like money... even the men know this. They'd always expect some form of gifting or assistance from whoever they are in a relationship with. Preach from now till tomorrow, it won't change.

The best thing therefore is to be careful about who you date. If you date a girl that attends weddings every now and then, you'll buy lots of aso-ebis If you date the type that has some type of skin and likes to dress up, etc. She'll surely expect bills from you.

Date a slay queen... Lol. Sorry for you.

Just know the lifestyle and needs of a girl you thinking about dating before you commit. It would save you headaches. Some guys just date girls that are too flashy and needy for their level and they come online to cry.


Truthfully, it's the easiest way to manage this situation. Don't date a person who has lots of wants and needs that are beyond your capacity. She doesn't become your responsibility but she'd have expectations of you. Most women are like that...

There's the class of girls with serious entitlement mentality, too. They ask for everything and anything without shame. If you find someone like that, better stay away o.

But most importantly, know when to put a brake on it. I'm a girl, but I found it highly enervating that a guy finished his savings on a girl. Like, why?

ImaIma1:
Because a lot of guys have ojukokoro. They are very greedy and tend to go for the flashy girls that are high maintenance instead of cutting their coat according to their cloth. Then they come and wail when the girl exhibits what is in her.

ngwababe:


Your second to last paragraph, sis, there are girls that can beg. They beg with all boldness, like they can begggggggg.

skywalker240:

In respect to your post, it is safe to say every woman has a price?

PrimadonnaO:
Awesome advice!

But do you know it's a lot easier for a man to be very deliberate about the kind of woman he gets into a relationship with? Different women have got different backgrounds, and also differing needs. It is already an established fact that women like money... even the men know this. They'd always expect some form of gifting or assistance from whoever they are in a relationship with. Preach from now till tomorrow, it won't change.
Well said

The best thing therefore is to be careful about who you date. If you date a girl that attends weddings every now and then, you'll buy lots of aso-ebis If you date the type that has some type of skin and likes to dress up, etc. She'll surely expect bills from you.

Date a slay queen... Lol. Sorry for you.

Just know the lifestyle and needs of a girl you thinking about dating before you commit. It would save you headaches. Some guys just date girls that are too flashy and needy for their level and they come online to cry.


Truthfully, it's the easiest way to manage this situation. Don't date a person who has lots of wants and needs that are beyond your capacity. She doesn't become your responsibility but she'd have expectations of you. Most women are like that...

There's the class of girls with serious entitlement mentality, too. They ask for everything and anything without shame. If you find someone like that, better stay away o.

But most importantly, know when to put a brake on it. I'm a girl, but I found it highly enervating that a guy finished his savings on a girl. Like, why?

ImaIma1:


What post?

CosmicPhoenix:

the main issue is how many of them will follow your advice,most of those guys find it difficult to help their fellow guys or family members but can even collect loan to spend on a lady all because of puna

Papertrail11:
I feel the ratio as to which we have commited boy friend and girl friend relationship is getting low and exsistent such that we may have a generation of men that didnt grow up to understand how a woman think and same for women too

among my circle of friends i can barely count 1 guy who is in a stable emotional relationship hookup culture has taken over and hey i will blame it on the modern day Woman who isnt settled for any long term growth but wants it now!

Society says " Go and hustle" and women will come to you but if you dont have that experience dating experince i mean you supposed to acuqire in your 20's trust me you would mess up!

sowilli:
so a lady now is a commodity. The way many of una Dey reason self. Don’t spend on any woman until you are ready to marry her. Something I learnt the hard way. That money is total waste. This is what it has been in the days before us. You see a woman you like, you go pay her bride price... dating and courting are the reasons issues like this are been discussed. Whilst it is important to date, it is important to date someone who has the same goal as you not someone who is within your means
. When you raising kids you will see that life is beyond being a “means lady”.

loswhite:
so when your means increase you also go for another lady since relationship definition is now about means...lol

BLUEJAYY:
Succinctly put.

I call such men weak men, because they've let their emotions override their rationality thereby leaving them vulnerable to manipulation.

ImaIma1:
Because a lot of guys have ojukokoro. They are very greedy and tend to go for the flashy girls that are high maintenance instead of cutting their coat according to their cloth. Then they come and wail when the girl exhibits what is in her.

ngwababe:


Your second to last paragraph, sis, there are girls that can beg. They beg with all boldness, like they can begggggggg.

ImaIma1:
Because a lot of guys have ojukokoro. They are very greedy and tend to go for the flashy girls that are high maintenance instead of cutting their coat according to their cloth.

PrimadonnaO:


It saves all of us headaches, actually. When certain kinds of guys ask me out, for instance, I help them make the decision that they couldn't make for themselves by declining...

When a man insists on pursuing a woman...the woman may eventually agree believing the man knows what he's getting himself into...

Not everyone is meant for us... else you become a thorn in their flesh rather than a comforting partner.

Bobbybube:

Babe, you get sense jare!
It's rare to see a lady with such train of thoughts. Relationships are not do or die affairs.
I can already guess the category you fall into. Make i hammer first!

loswhite:
and what determines this level? Money right? Ok so what happens if the money goes away...lol. you divorce and re marry right? Mad ppl every where.
I think it is better to just make them baby mama and take ur kids and move on

akiOYIBO:

If u like pretend from now till the end of next level, all of u are all the same. Shameless pussy hawkers.

Witlee:



Sorry to ask but do you take beer?
I need to give you one

ImaIma1:


Your circle of friends? I am tempted to say "birds of the same feather...".

My own circle of friends are in stable relationships with level headed people. It depends on what you want.

Ihateyoumod:



Its really annoying sha.....a girl want to buy an iPhone, she can't buy it alone, either a guy buys it or a guy brings part of the money.....my babe wan buy iphone, she say make I bring 40k say she go bring d rest. I tell am say, babe u get mind o. Me get Iphone, my friend go and buy a tecno or an infinix fone jhoor...she ended up getting a Nokia android herself