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henriettttta:
Maybe she didn't really like you
That's why I don't like behaving too friendly with boys
They always mistake a girls friendliness for green light

But then you people still use the same friendliness as green light. How do you want us to know which one is casual friendliness and which one is green light friendliness. Later you'll say the guy is not responding to your advances.

As we speak, another one is giving me green light. She won't let me rest on WhatsApp, sotey I disable my 'last seen'. Once you open your mouth to ask them out, shakara don start be dat. [/quote]Her shakara go start no be small. But let me drop one formular shaa. When that shakara start, stay close to the friend or someone she knows, if possible make the person your best padi. That shakara go come dwn like naija economy!

Gaspardd:
This event happend 2011 in my undergrad days.
Was in thesame faculty with this girl, she was very cute and somehow our eyes used to meet whenever we were in class. This happened repeatedly that i was convinced that yea she was the one for me(virgins lol ).

Whenever i come back from lectures i used to jist my frieds about this girl that used to stare at me, they would cheer me up, and i would respond with pride.
I decided to step things up by trying to catch the time she would come in for lectures and sit beside her. It was tough but one time i was lucky, even lent her my pen and left it with her afterwards. All this while in my mind, i don see gf, but i never spoke a word to her but damn i thought we had this nonverbal friendship thing going on and i would always daydream about how i will write her love poems, surprise her with gifts(got this from laws of seduction).

At the last lecture of the semester i decided to be brave for once in my lifetime by introducin myself to her and stuff but on tapping her on the shoulder after class, her response was harsh, like i wanted to steal from her or sth. She walked off hurriedly and i ran towards her tryin to remind her we re classmates and that i even lent her my pen once. She said that was actually the first time she would be seeing me in her whole entire life. I was speechless. At the end she hailed down a bike and climbed.
That day i actually lost hope in myself and humanity and i wanted to leave this planet.

Lol, women know exactly what you are thinking even before you plan it. Lol, your toasting came very late.

Adasun:
nothing special.






maybe u have an ugly face,dats why u hid it.

lol Bros see finishing, abi the babe annoy u b4?

olaBC007:
Those daughters of eve's don do you strong thing...big time

Hahaa, not really but we 've all got one experience or the other. I rather go for what I want now instead of some one confusing my emotions in the name of green light.

henriettttta:
Maybe she didn't really like you
That's why I don't like behaving too friendly with boys
They always mistake a girls friendliness for green light

What you just said is true... I don't even notice the green light anymore I lost hope a long time ago, I just go first

TheManOfTheYear:
Lol. Bro this one na different case na. Had it been you gave her time, she for gree.
She was just doing initial shakara

Initial shakara kee her there. If person give you green light and you play your part and the person no corespond well baba she no serious.

remiproxy:
same here bro, I find it easy to fall in love too. pesin don encounter plenty heartbreak no be small

Oboy... I thought I was the only one ... So soft guys plenty like this

I love this part,no long thing

adanny01:
My story.

Just secondary after school waiting for admission, there was this sweet girl living with a family in the same quarters. We were good friends until i developed feelings for her. I had very little courage but mustered it to approach her. After jisting one night, she was walking me down the street, i began my pre-planned moves trying to be more than friends. The girl cut me short with a wave of hand to my face saying, "hold it there, are you toasting me. You are disrespecting me. We are age mates and i cant go out with you. I date only people who are older and matured not boys like you." She said a couple of things that stoned me. I said sorry, tried to do damage control and later bade her goodnight.

I never spoke to her about it again even though we remained very close friends. Infact our friendship grew stronger after i made that attempt. I was shocked one day she gave me water in her house with all the respectful gestures she would her own father. I was shocked or confused to see her change of behaviour. I swore i wasnt gonna attempt again so i wont be humiliated.

To cut the long story short, i later asked another girl out and she agreed same day (my wife today). The other girl wasnt happy with me and our friendship suffered. About 10 years later, we met, she told me how she just played hard to get and i abandoned her. That she was so in love with me but i misread the signs. I just told her it was destiny.

franchasng:
man no de ugly, you 21st century kids must learn this. As you grow up as a lady, u will get to understand this same thing that no man is ugly. The only ugly man is the man struggling financially.

Any man with money is handsome, no jokes, it has been like that since ages.

Its social media and modern entertainment industry that's making it look like it is necessary for a man to be physically attractive like a woman.

The only ugly men are broke or poor men, sadly, you will grow old to realise this, so make your choice wisely when the time comes.

This isn't about the subject matter of being ugly or not, why will people just body shame, insult without any provocation at all?

queencalipso:
Men do mistake my smile for green light, so annoying..

I have a friend who mistook a Facebook comment for the green light

henriettttta:
Maybe she didn't really like you
That's why I don't like behaving too friendly with boys
They always mistake a girls friendliness for green light

I like you

ebohstepn:
Me I know I have a problem when it comes to female. I easily have girls that crushes on me, easily get them to my bed and to be my girlfriend. But I have never been in a relationship for up to 6months. In fact the longest I have ever been is 3months. Am the one that always kill the relationship, I always just lose interest, some of the ladies in particular always try their best to make the relationship work but am always never serious. Most of my friends have told me jokely that girls wa son swear for me go Dan many. Now there is this girl I wanted to date, she was into me but I became tired of breaking her hearts so I decided that I will friend zone her, that's want I did and now she is my best friend. People thinks we are dating , but little do de know. Some of my friends believe she changed me but I knw that the day that I will have sex with her she will become so little and like nothing in my eyes, now she even keeps track of the girls I have left since me and her became friends 3 years ago. Now my question is that I know I like her and she loves me but I d'nt want to break her heart by dating her, so what should I do for this feeling I usually have after I have slept with a girl? I want it to stop. I d'nt want to be a cheat and a heart breaker but I can't just help me. I tired. Since December last year I came back from school I have not asked any girl out because of the fear of what will happen later, and does girls d'nt even spend time they just always say yes some self I d'nt really ask them out, just getting a little close to them and bomb they are down. In my lodge in school I finished, I slept with all the girls in the lodge expect one. And I even slept with most of their Friends. I believe what attract them to me is my handsomeness and I look rich, am not yet rich. So my people what is the way out for me. am not getting any younger, if I can't keep a relationship for at list 6months then how can I get married? I do really have a problem, at first it was fun but now it no longer fun am afraid for girls for me. So have kept my self off for now and I do have many girls giving me green light even my mom knows about this and she even now banned me from staying in church after closing of service. I go straight home with her. Abeg end of long story, watin I go do abeg, am dieing slowly.

Try and cultivate friendship, like what you are in to now with that lady you friend zoned, immediately you cross that line, your problem will start. And also see a counselor. Good luck.

blingxx:
Oboy... I thought I was the only one ... So soft guys plenty like this

lol,we gather dey o bro

Gaspardd:
This event happend 2011 in my undergrad days.
Was in thesame faculty with this girl, she was very cute and somehow our eyes used to meet whenever we were in class. This happened repeatedly that i was convinced that yea she was the one for me(virgins lol ).

Whenever i come back from lectures i used to jist my frieds about this girl that used to stare at me, they would cheer me up, and i would respond with pride.
I decided to step things up by trying to catch the time she would come in for lectures and sit beside her. It was tough but one time i was lucky, even lent her my pen and left it with her afterwards. All this while in my mind, i don see gf, but i never spoke a word to her but damn i thought we had this nonverbal friendship thing going on and i would always daydream about how i will write her love poems, surprise her with gifts(got this from laws of seduction).

At the last lecture of the semester i decided to be brave for once in my lifetime by introducin myself to her and stuff but on tapping her on the shoulder after class, her response was harsh, like i wanted to steal from her or sth. She walked off hurriedly and i ran towards her tryin to remind her we re classmates and that i even lent her my pen once. She said that was actually the first time she would be seeing me in her whole entire life. I was speechless. At the end she hailed down a bike and climbed.
That day i actually lost hope in myself and humanity and i wanted to leave this planet.

Lmao , are you sure you are not me ?? This actually happened to me also back then , always used to look at the girl at 1500LT during my predegree days in Lautech , I didn’t know her name then so I used to call her ‘omo 1500’ , and my stupid friends then made fun of me for years lollll

Gaspardd:
I never spoke with her again, saw her couple of times but i ignored her although its mutual. But all this happened 8yrs ago and so many transformation has taken place

Eeyah... Life sha.

Gaspardd:
Thing is i fell in love so easily, even sn holding my hand is even enuf for me to fell in live with that person(strictly females). Even now thats still me and i dont ever see that changing. So you can imagine how many heart breaks ive had in my life. . But i do not blame myself, i blame girls that wont stop going beyond boundaries.

That's lust not love

I've had so many many mehnnn

od501:
As we speak, another one is giving me green light. She won't let me rest on WhatsApp, sotey I disable my 'last seen'. Once you open your mouth to ask them out, shakara don start be dat.


Her shakara go start no be small. But let me drop one formular shaa. When that shakara start, stay close to the friend or someone she knows, if possible make the person your best padi. That shakara go come dwn like naija economy!

Thanks bro. I'll do just that. Can I use her elder sister? Cos I roll with that one as well

ebohstepn:
Thanks man, will do as u say. But women self join course am, them too like d**k

HAHAHAHAHHAA, u dey enjoy am wella,by d time u decide to marry,n.a. Den u go get headache, beta stop
remember dis,not all girls get better spirit o,some girls if u mk dem vex or cry,tinx nogo dey apen for u o,i have seen dis apen to a guy bfor

STRENGTHesq:
cos you've got farm tool potential

I don't understand

Gaspardd:
Thing is i fell in love so easily, even sn holding my hand is even enuf for me to fell in live with that person(strictly females). Even now thats still me and i dont ever see that changing. So you can imagine how many heart breaks ive had in my life. . But i do not blame myself, i blame girls that wont stop going beyond boundaries.

girls go too use u play tennis be that...
jst to hold female hand u don fall in love weldone sir...!!!

adanny01:
My story.

Just secondary after school waiting for admission, there was this sweet girl living with a family in the same quarters. We were good friends until i developed feelings for her. I had very little courage but mustered it to approach her. After jisting one night, she was walking me down the street, i began my pre-planned moves trying to be more than friends. The girl cut me short with a wave of hand to my face saying, "hold it there, are you toasting me. You are disrespecting me. We are age mates and i cant go out with you. I date only people who are older and matured not boys like you." She said a couple of things that stoned me. I said sorry, tried to do damage control and later bade her goodnight.

I never spoke to her about it again even though we remained very close friends. Infact our friendship grew stronger after i made that attempt. I was shocked one day she gave me water in her house with all the respectful gestures she would her own father. I was shocked or confused to see her change of behaviour. I swore i wasnt gonna attempt again so i wont be humiliated.

To cut the long story short, i later asked another girl out and she agreed same day (my wife today). The other girl wasnt happy with me and our friendship suffered. About 10 years later, we met, she told me how she just played hard to get and i abandoned her. That she was so in love with me but i misread the signs. I just told her it was destiny.

the girl has no life,she be meatpie, n.a. now day break abi,she go dey with those mature guys b dat

a girl can do shakara, no problem. ..But if she do am too much
I go just ignore her like say she no dey exist,girls too full everywhere. ...I hate rubbish

queencalipso:
Men do mistake my smile for green light, so annoying..

With ur face like NOK art work.. Better stop lying

[quote author=ceeroh post=76307776]Thanks bro. I'll do just that. Can I use her elder sister? Cos I roll with that one as well.

Chisos! No cause fight oo.. Lol

HungerMustGo:
Bros just imagine nonsense. He's watching too much zee world.

i tire oo

[quote author=od501 post=76308277][/quote]Then she should stop the whole shakara and let me enter

henriettttta:
Maybe she didn't really like you
That's why I don't like behaving too friendly with boys
They always mistake a girls friendliness for green light

Nd you guys are spell bound to fall for guys that take you all for granted all the time.

My own case, I didn't mistake any thing, rather I toyed with her 'feelings' towards me, I always catch her staring at me, but maintained my cool like I don't notice it. She tried talking to me severally during lectures but I'll just give her monosyllabic replies. I am a very proud person when it comes to the opposite sex....especially those pretty ones that have guys flocking around them, worshipping the floor they walk upon. I am good looking, so every now and then I get a lot of 'fans', as I fondly call them, that's why pretty girls don't really freak me.

When I finally decided to 'talk' to her after about a year, actually I wanted to see if I could score some points.....na so babe begin dey shun me any how oo. I wasn't even angry, I just laughed it off 'cos I knew the feelings she had for me finally died when she realised I wasn't going to to make a move on her, so she turned it to hate. Typical.

ebohstepn:
Me I know I have a problem when it comes to female. I easily have girls that crushes on me, easily get them to my bed and to be my girlfriend. But I have never been in a relationship for up to 6months. In fact the longest I have ever been is 3months. Am the one that always kill the relationship, I always just lose interest, some of the ladies in particular always try their best to make the relationship work but am always never serious. Most of my friends have told me jokely that girls wa son swear for me go Dan many. Now there is this girl I wanted to date, she was into me but I became tired of breaking her hearts so I decided that I will friend zone her, that's want I did and now she is my best friend. People thinks we are dating , but little do de know. Some of my friends believe she changed me but I knw that the day that I will have sex with her she will become so little and like nothing in my eyes, now she even keeps track of the girls I have left since me and her became friends 3 years ago. Now my question is that I know I like her and she loves me but I d'nt want to break her heart by dating her, so what should I do for this feeling I usually have after I have slept with a girl? I want it to stop. I d'nt want to be a cheat and a heart breaker but I can't just help me. I tired. Since December last year I came back from school I have not asked any girl out because of the fear of what will happen later, and does girls d'nt even spend time they just always say yes some self I d'nt really ask them out, just getting a little close to them and bomb they are down. In my lodge in school I finished, I slept with all the girls in the lodge expect one. And I even slept with most of their Friends. I believe what attract them to me is my handsomeness and I look rich, am not yet rich. So my people what is the way out for me. am not getting any younger, if I can't keep a relationship for at list 6months then how can I get married? I do really have a problem, at first it was fun but now it no longer fun am afraid for girls for me. So have kept my self off for now and I do have many girls giving me green light even my mom knows about this and she even now banned me from staying in church after closing of service. I go straight home with her. Abeg end of long story, watin I go do abeg, am dieing slowly.

Your problem isn't really a problem.
What you have to do is identity your mistakes when it comes to choosing your spec of women.
I want you to look at all your female friends and analyze their characters. Both what you like and what you dislike.
This will enable you know what kind of woman you're looking for.
Write down your hobbies, write down what you find interesting. Are you the type that loves playful banters? Or you try to avoid anything arguments. Basically, what I'm saying is, try looking a woman with intellect. Not those slay queens, a woman not a girl. Someone who knows what she wants, someone who you probably have nothing to offer her but love. Someone who can think for her self. I hope you get my drift by now. Someone who's generally interesting. Try looking for someone who complements your personality.
The only problem is most if such women are already taken and the ones who aren't aren't looking to be in a relationship.
Also, keep in mind that some people are better of being friends than lovers.
Also, try to change that mindset that once you have sex with the person the person has nothing more to offer.
Work towards your next relationship and keep the goal to be happy in mind.
I wish you luck. Cheers.
Note: I'm well aware that this write up isn't complete and might be confusing but In just too lazy to re edit and finish it.
I'll try to do that later.

queencalipso:
I don't understand

he means you a hoe.