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Should I Still Give Him A Chance? by lilianofentse(f): 2:06pm On Mar 11, 2019 |
Me and my boyfriend have been together for a year and I love him more than anything in the world but I'm so fed up with giving chance after chance several times now I've caught him messaging other girls inappropriate stuff and I've forgiven him and then a couple of months later when I've built my trust up with him he will do it again, he also deletes all his messages so that i can't see them all which just makes me go even crazier not knowing what has been said. 2 weeks ago I found out he physically cheated on me which he said he was never planning on telling me. Since I've said we can work on our relationship, spicing up our sex life making more of an effort but it's only me that's making the effort. He isn't trying even tho he says he loves me and wants to be with me and not anyone else. Tonight he went out with his friends and I waited for 5 hours for him so he could meet with me, instead he wants to stay at his friends because he hadn't finished playing a game. I'm so done with getting my heart broken all the time and making all the effort it makes me feel like it's all my fault the problem I have is I still love him so much but I don't know if i can keep putting my self through this all the time. He knows how to s.ex me and I also knows he loves me but what I can't understand is why he keeps cheating on me. Modified: Ps I am trying my best to forget about him. Pls any advice on how to forget him would be appreciated. tnx 16 Likes 4 Shares |
Re: Should I Still Give Him A Chance? by Nobody: 2:11pm On Mar 11, 2019 |
If you are in your late 20s or ready for marriage tell him to make the introduction asap but if you just need him to solve your boredom then move on with your life without him � 71 Likes 3 Shares |
Re: Should I Still Give Him A Chance? by lilianofentse(f): 2:11pm On Mar 11, 2019 |
Re: Should I Still Give Him A Chance? by zexy2030(m): 2:12pm On Mar 11, 2019 |
lilianofentse:maybe he doesn't want to put his eggs in one basket..u such a beautiful woman....he is feeling, if he can catch you, it was cheap for him, so he is going for higher catch..variety they say is the spice of life. just have fun dear, I can see u r party freak. 7 Likes |
Re: Should I Still Give Him A Chance? by Nobody: 2:17pm On Mar 11, 2019 |
lilianofentse: This is your problem & you'll never leave him. My Sister, carry your cross oh! You have been Dickmatized. 207 Likes 15 Shares |
Re: Should I Still Give Him A Chance? by lilianofentse(f): 2:21pm On Mar 11, 2019 |
truthsayer009:Any advice? 1 Like |
Re: Should I Still Give Him A Chance? by drmikeadams(m): 2:23pm On Mar 11, 2019 |
lilianofentse:you re way too fine to be a side chick I will give u my phone password,I will giv u good knackings we wil play video games together we voteA atiku together in 2023 137 Likes 12 Shares |
Re: Should I Still Give Him A Chance? by drmikeadams(m): 2:23pm On Mar 11, 2019 |
lilianofentse:you re way too fine to be a side chick I will give u my phone password,I will giv u good knackings we wil play video games together we vote 14 Likes 2 Shares |
Re: Should I Still Give Him A Chance? by lilianofentse(f): 2:26pm On Mar 11, 2019 |
drmikeadams:Am not his side chick. |
Re: Should I Still Give Him A Chance? by lilianofentse(f): 2:28pm On Mar 11, 2019 |
I just Wish i never gave too much in the relationship 3 Likes |
Re: Should I Still Give Him A Chance? by lilianofentse(f): 2:28pm On Mar 11, 2019 |
Re: Should I Still Give Him A Chance? by Nobody: 2:32pm On Mar 11, 2019 |
lilianofentse:you don't really have any problem if you thinks relationship at this age is your priority. 92 Likes 3 Shares |
Re: Should I Still Give Him A Chance? by lilianofentse(f): 2:35pm On Mar 11, 2019 |
vingeophysicist:I wanted advice not judgement 11 Likes 2 Shares |
Re: Should I Still Give Him A Chance? by LuciferRedeemed: 2:38pm On Mar 11, 2019 |
A dwarf is wondering why she is unloved. *spits 72 Likes 4 Shares
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Re: Should I Still Give Him A Chance? by luckygeee: 2:38pm On Mar 11, 2019 |
i guess the good sex is driving u crazily in LOVE 16 Likes 1 Share |
Re: Should I Still Give Him A Chance? by Nobody: 2:43pm On Mar 11, 2019 |
lilianofentse:i'm not judging you my dear. I'm only saying if you see this as a problem then you should thank God because you have no problem. 29 Likes 2 Shares |
Re: Should I Still Give Him A Chance? by lilianofentse(f): 2:45pm On Mar 11, 2019 |
LuciferRedeemed: You not liking short women doesn't mean others wont! 91 Likes 1 Share
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Re: Should I Still Give Him A Chance? by DanDeeBoss(m): 2:49pm On Mar 11, 2019 |
"I want to forget him".....So why do you need an advice, Since the answer lies in your post?? 10 Likes |
Re: Should I Still Give Him A Chance? by Nobody: 2:52pm On Mar 11, 2019 |
When you are ready for something meaningful reply my PM |
Re: Should I Still Give Him A Chance? by Nobody: 2:57pm On Mar 11, 2019 |
lilianofentse: Lolzz u jam good pipe of a bad nigga Find another good boy but don't let go of the good piper. But if u are lucky u might just get a good replacement piper.. Except ur ready to sacrifice a good piper for sloppy sex then u can just delete the nigga from ur life but again this would be too hard for u at 19 Just enjoy the nigga while u can ur too young to be looking for a serious guy.. explore everything and stop giving urself headache 9 Likes 3 Shares |
Re: Should I Still Give Him A Chance? by dmgr(m): 3:02pm On Mar 11, 2019 |
You 're asking if u should give him chance,op chance for what if I may ask? I don't know what's even wrong with some people self,look at op now,from her write up she claims he loves her,if he is really into you he won't cheat on u period. And even if he does,he won't allow you find out.. Hope u know u can't stop him from chatting and socialising with his female folks.. Even if we advise you now, u wont adhere to what we will tell you because like u said he d!!cks u real good.. I know u will still go and tell him all what we said here 67 Likes |
Re: Should I Still Give Him A Chance? by lilianofentse(f): 3:03pm On Mar 11, 2019 |
dairykidd: As a lady it is very hard to let go of someone you really loved and never cheated on. btw I plan to marry at 23. 19 going to 20 on May so its not bad if I want a serious relationship 11 Likes 2 Shares |
Re: Should I Still Give Him A Chance? by lilianofentse(f): 3:06pm On Mar 11, 2019 |
dmgr:so you mean all men are cheats? . I don't like him because of sex only. 2 Likes |
Re: Should I Still Give Him A Chance? by Nobody: 3:17pm On Mar 11, 2019 |
lilianofentse:Nice plan... Then stop paying him too much attention. Focus on something else like making urself more beautiful on the inside and preparing urself for this cold world.. Stop checking his texts or call logs or bothering urself with who he's been with or what he's been up to. Make new friends, male and female, go out make it ur number one priority to be happy by all means then PM me Seriously, Focus ur energy on ur personal happiness. After sometime u go dey ask urself wetin be the thing when make u think say u been love the guy b4 sef The one that will love u will definitely find u and all this now will be ancient history 47 Likes 4 Shares |
Re: Should I Still Give Him A Chance? by lilianofentse(f): 3:24pm On Mar 11, 2019 |
dairykidd:thnx a bunch hun 1 Like |
Re: Should I Still Give Him A Chance? by sagebot(f): 3:28pm On Mar 11, 2019 |
Dear, u r still young with crazy, raging hormones..but you have to take a chill...his behaviours alone tells he doesn't respect you or care about your feelings... Not all love stories end with a beautiful ending.. So, the only thing you can do is to be brave and leave his ungrateful ass instead of going mental thinking of all his doings and doubting yourself because that will follow next... You are 19 with lots of prospect ahead, so don't jump into another relationship immediately hoping to forget him, having a boyfriend is not a must..Just be careful, selfish and next time allow the guy make more effort in the relationship, like you said you are tired of being heartbroken if he sees your worth, he will stick to you by Gods Grace Remember time heals all wounds!!! don't be drowning in sorrows for one man matter...Many dey still come 20 Likes |
Re: Should I Still Give Him A Chance? by Nobody: 3:48pm On Mar 11, 2019 |
lilianofentse: Anytime 1 Like |
Re: Should I Still Give Him A Chance? by grad2012(f): 4:21pm On Mar 11, 2019 |
Baby gal u ar 19 u are too young to get stock in a complicated life. You need to get busy with productive things focus on your studies get engrossed in building up your life. You need to use your youthful age wisely, pls get your priorities right gal. 26 Likes 1 Share |
Re: Should I Still Give Him A Chance? by Nobody: 4:30pm On Mar 11, 2019 |
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Re: Should I Still Give Him A Chance? by Newboss(m): 4:33pm On Mar 11, 2019 |
You're too needy. He should dump your needy ass. 3 Likes 1 Share |
Re: Should I Still Give Him A Chance? by lenghtinny(m): 5:17pm On Mar 11, 2019 |
Of all happenings going on in the world today, this is what's disturbing you..... You don't kill yaself for nothing:>( 6 Likes |
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