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sacajawea:
@dierich Br we Help you what Exactly is your illness?
What's wrong with you?

dierich:
Nø 2 may not make sense to u, but this is my place. he can't just bring someone in anyhow.

dierich:
thanks.. I think you understand me more
this is the text I'm planning to send to him now


Sorry if dis offend u. I just want u 2 stop dis 4 nw. Even Queen wanna come, I've 2 stop her myself. I knw wat I'm facing & Hw much I've spent on my health. Who knows where it's coming frm, so 4 now I wanna keep tins around me holy.

How about the above message?

dierich:
Wtfork, frank317

Let me also tell u something.
There was a time around January ending / early February. I was in a 3 days prayer concerning my health.. I know d kind of guy he is and I told him "bro, I'll be having 3 days prayer/ vigil concerning my health from Wednesday till Saturday.. Please, no gf tins for now. Allow make I finish prayer". He said no problem.
I went to vigil for those days mention. He stay at my place.. On Friday I went to vigil but forgot something so I went back to for it, to my surprise he already brought d lady in. I talk to him dat very moment that didn't I told u about d prayers I was having, he said he's sorry that he don't know d girl will be coming, I didn't mention a word, I went to church, as I came back, to my surprise again, he uses my room, pour his seed d bed sheet.. I was so annoyed that day

dierich:
Thanks bro. you're d 1st person that asked about it.
my illness is dat my urine is always deep yellow and my urine output is very low. I may drink 3 litres of water in a day and pass 40CL in 24hrs.
also sometimes my urine will be more in d night.
I've done series of test which they are all normal.. like scan, kidney test, urinalysis, and lot more

frank317:
What are u doing with such a dude?

sacajawea:
Has it always been this way?
If no, When did This Start?
Finally but most Importantly Are you feeling any major pain Or discomforts?

kallmemrB:
Sometimes I think some nairalanders need psych Evaluation... What so difficult in "Bro stop bringing ladies to my place am not comfortable with that poo"

What do u think nairaland will do for you?

dierich:
can u also see d reason u it looks like I'm over reacting or I'm not been friendly enough coz u thought I was reacting coz he's bringing in his gfs and also coz I av 3 rooms, should be able to release one to my best friend.
I knew u don't understand me earlier and I dont really know to explain myself

dierich:
it started middle of Dec. no pains, and test are okay, just HBP and I'm on medication

JesssCA:
Do you have a girlfriend or fiancée?
Invite her over to stay with you at least for a day or two
Her presence there may discomfort your friend from bringing in different girls. He is such a dirty person.. look at his cum that's on the bed. Yuck!

Wtfork:
Ok well, I think I get your point.
Apparently your are treating an illment and your friend does not really show any concern about your current health status with his uncaring attitude.
I also think you are just been emotional here !!

If you don't want any more girls in your house please come out clear and tell your friend he needs to calm down on the way he brings different girls to the house and let him know you are no more comfortable with it because of Ur condition .

dierich:
it started middle of Dec. no pains, and test are okay, just HBP and I'm on medication

kallmemrB:
Sometimes I think some nairalanders need psych Evaluation... What do difficult in "Bro stop bringing ladies to my place am not comfortable with that poo"

What do u think nairaland will do for you?

dierich:
can u also see d reason u it looks like I'm over reacting or I'm not been friendly enough coz u thought I was reacting coz he's bringing in his gfs and also coz I av 3 rooms, should be able to release one to my best friend.
I knew u don't understand me earlier and I dont really know to explain myself

frank317:
Ya sorry, I didn't get it clear... U sound like a nice guy. U need to be a bit firmer. Be a bit out going too.

I am more worried about ur health? Why did u call it sickness when after test, everything is normal Why do u still think u are sick?

dierich:
I'm not married so that's y I'm living alone, also I accommodate him so I won't be alone throughout d nite.
I'm just angry with myself now for allowing him from d start.

dierich:
please ignore my grammatical errors.
I've a friend and he's very close to me. we know each other more than 10years and he has been the only friend close to me right now. I was living alone in a 3 bedroom flat and he always come to sleep at my place. I'm happy coz I won't be the only one sleeping in the house.
it started when he bring 1 of his girlfriends to my house, he uses on of the rooms and I didn't complain, but the issue is he kept bringing them in and I'm tired of it. the most annoying part is the way he's using the bed. stains or shit. it came to a time I've to wash the bed coz I'm tired of seeing stains on my bed, though I'm not really using the bed but it's still my property. I've been ill since December last year, I told him what I'm facing, and even lie to him to show how critical my illness is, but that doesn't stop him from bringing them in.
please can someone advise me on how to stop him totally. he found my place d best for him since he's still living with his parent.
I don't want to offend someone that's why I want the best way to table it to him.
right now he's with his gf at my place. this particular girl use to stay overnight.. same thing last week Wednesday. and he won't even tell me someone is coming. we went to bed together Around 10pm, and by the time I woke around 1 to pee, I found out he's not by my side again, I check around and went to the other room to found him and the girl.
I'm sick of this. please how can I stop him without malice.
thanks

dierich:
Wtfork, frank317

Let me also tell u something.
There was a time around January ending / early February. I was in a 3 days prayer concerning my health.. I know d kind of guy he is and I told him "bro, I'll be having 3 days prayer/ vigil concerning my health from Wednesday till Saturday.. Please, no gf tins for now. Allow make I finish prayer". He said no problem.
I went to vigil for those days mention. He stay at my place.. On Friday I went to vigil but forgot something so I went back to for it, to my surprise he already brought d lady in. I talk to him dat very moment that didn't I told u about d prayers I was having, he said he's sorry that he don't know d girl will be coming, I didn't mention a word, I went to church, as I came back, to my surprise again, he uses my room, pour his seed d bed sheet.. I was so annoyed that day

djoe21:
I think he is also trying to look at it from a spiritual angle. That is the sickness maybe as a result of sinful ways hence why he wants to stay holy now. But how can he be holy when his house is what is friend uses for his 'fornicating sexcapdes?'

Now you see why he wants his friend to either change his ways or leave his house. All he is asking now is the best possible way to ensure this without turning their friendship sour.

dierich:
please ignore my grammatical errors.
I've a friend and he's very close to me. we know each other more than 10years and he has been the only friend close to me right now. I was living alone in a 3 bedroom flat and he always come to sleep at my place. I'm happy coz I won't be the only one sleeping in the house.
it started when he bring 1 of his girlfriends to my house, he uses on of the rooms and I didn't complain, but the issue is he kept bringing them in and I'm tired of it. the most annoying part is the way he's using the bed. stains or shit. it came to a time I've to wash the bed coz I'm tired of seeing stains on my bed, though I'm not really using the bed but it's still my property. I've been ill since December last year, I told him what I'm facing, and even lie to him to show how critical my illness is, but that doesn't stop him from bringing them in.
please can someone advise me on how to stop him totally. he found my place d best for him since he's still living with his parent.
I don't want to offend someone that's why I want the best way to table it to him.
right now he's with his gf at my place. this particular girl use to stay overnight.. same thing last week Wednesday. and he won't even tell me someone is coming. we went to bed together Around 10pm, and by the time I woke around 1 to pee, I found out he's not by my side again, I check around and went to the other room to found him and the girl.
I'm sick of this. please how can I stop him without malice.
thanks

AskProf:
You give him the liberty of a room in your 3 bedroom apertment yet, he comes to mess in your own?

HarunaWest:
What kind of illness if I may ask...Is it terminal since u have been treating it since December.... Simply tell your friend that ur no longer comfortable with him bringing chicks around shikenah...he will vex bub friendship will remain...Ave don it before.

dierich:
I can't really say. it's just some symptoms and I've went for medical test, but couldn't discover d main cause.
Thanks for d advice Bro