buhariski:
I'm a chronic masturbator I don't know how i get myself into dis shit. This year has been a worst year in my life and I can't control d way I mastubate. I don't know if it is due to depression and loneliness.

This year I made a promise not to visit the brothel though I have kept to the promise. My problem now I have done everything possible to make sure I stop masturbation but I can't just stop it. The highest I can go is a week then return to normal.

It's affecting me especially in my work place. cos during the working days the time I will get to rest I will used it to browse the net (night browsing you understand) using it watch porn movies online without getting a sleep and a enough wanking. This has made me less productive in my work. I wil look so weak and tired and I will b having some dizziness at worked. My co workers have took note of it and my boss too. Though he has not really take action or give me quarries maybe be cos I'm d hard working type and I expect that soonest.

The bigger problem now my dick is always embarrassing me publicly I can't just control it. any time I 'm with the opposite sex I always having a strong Boner. There is a day i was at home washing my clothes I was all alone in the compound cos everyone left for their various places, suddenly a small girl walked into the compound she should be 14 to 15 years old but she has a very matured physique. She was selling pap (akamu). She walked to me asking of someone living in the compound and as I was answering and I was not having any bad thought in my head oo but found out my dick got erected when I was talking to her. I didn't know oo cos I put on a lit boxer I saw her looking below, for my mind why dis girl dey look ground and I just checked myself I found out my penis was fully erect. Mehn I couldn't stand the shame and embarrassment I gave to myself that day.

Yesterday something similar happened but wit my neighbour daughter DAT she is in SS1. I was in kitchen cooking oo so she came in to fetch WATER, as she bowed down to get the water her bra got exposed I saw her breast cos she got big breast I couldn't resist myself, I had a strong boner again but this time she didn't notice anything but I had rushed to my room to cool down myself while my food is on fire burning. I just weak and getting a girlfriend has been very difficult for me. The rejections I have had from girls would make someone to commit suicide.

annford:
You need to always engage your mind. Think positive thoughts and carry out positive activities. Disadvantages of self-service are just too many. Some of them include but not limited to; Terrible weight loss, insufficient sleep, restlessness of the mind, constant headaches, disfiguring of the male organ, possibility of becoming infertile, mood swings, sexual aggression, looking older than one's age, premature ejaculation for a man or even unnecessary delayed ejaculation, constant need to ejaculate, anger issues and so much more. Masturbation isn't a thing anyone ( male or female) should engage in. Sex is a feeling'. feelings come and they go. you need to stop it now so you don't find yourself running to Doctors or Fertility Clinics when you're married cos that thing has rendered a lot of men incapable of fathering children.

RiyadhGoddess:






I am a Christian. Ex Muslim. I'm back to Nigeria...

Omudia11:
Chop knuckle.

buhariski:
I'm a chronic masturbator I don't know how i get myself into dis shit. This year has been a worst year in my life and I can't control d way I mastubate. I don't know if it is due to depression and loneliness.

This year I made a promise not to visit the brothel though I have kept to the promise. My problem now I have done everything possible to make sure I stop masturbation but I can't just stop it. The highest I can go is a week then return to normal.

It's affecting me especially in my work place. cos during the working days the time I will get to rest I will used it to browse the net (night browsing you understand) using it watch porn movies online without getting a sleep and a enough wanking. This has made me less productive in my work. I wil look so weak and tired and I will b having some dizziness at worked. My co workers have took note of it and my boss too. Though he has not really take action or give me quarries maybe be cos I'm d hard working type and I expect that soonest.

The bigger problem now my dick is always embarrassing me publicly I can't just control it. any time I 'm with the opposite sex I always having a strong Boner. There is a day i was at home washing my clothes I was all alone in the compound cos everyone left for their various places, suddenly a small girl walked into the compound she should be 14 to 15 years old but she has a very matured physique. She was selling pap (akamu). She walked to me asking of someone living in the compound and as I was answering and I was not having any bad thought in my head oo but found out my dick got erected when I was talking to her. I didn't know oo cos I put on a lit boxer I saw her looking below, for my mind why dis girl dey look ground and I just checked myself I found out my penis was fully erect. Mehn I couldn't stand the shame and embarrassment I gave to myself that day.

Yesterday something similar happened but wit my neighbour daughter DAT she is in SS1. I was in kitchen cooking oo so she came in to fetch WATER, as she bowed down to get the water her bra got exposed I saw her breast cos she got big breast I couldn't resist myself, I had a strong boner again but this time she didn't notice anything but I had rushed to my room to cool down myself while my food is on fire burning. I just weak and getting a girlfriend has been very difficult for me. The rejections I have had from girls would make someone to commit suicide.

sharpwriter:


Wow! So how Dubai? Is it not sweet there.? Got a brother, family friend who just left for the place... The guy don dey shine... He was lucky though coz someone already got him a teaching job there.

buhariski:
currently I live in Ibadan from Delta state.

buhariski:
currently I live in Ibadan from Delta state.

chenzen:
sell ur android phone and buy Nokia torch. u ll be fine


continue using the torchlight phone until u marry.

RiyadhGoddess:






Woe teaching job? Na money be that o. I have a friend teaching in Dubai. He's in money Mehn. Apart from his salary, he goes from house to house to teach these wealthy Arab kids...
I was actually in Saudi not Dubai.

sharpwriter:


Okk ... Enjoy Sister!

dollyjoy:
Yeah....... what up with you?

PotatoSalad:

That thing is more addictive than crack. You'll get hooked without knowing

PotatoSalad:
Lol.
OP you're always less busy I guess. Get busy, engage your mind.
Go to the electronics store and buy a ps4. Buy long and engaging games too. Immerse yourself in the virtual worlds.
Start working out. Go for morning runs, go to the gym in the evening so that when you get home you're exhausted and fall asleep.
Reduce your masturbation count. If you do it 7 times a week, reduce it to 4 times, then 2 times then once in awhile. After some time you wouldn't see any need for it.
Go out more often, hang out, meet new people. You can't avoid pornographic content on the internet, so try not to spend your time looking for or at them.
Combine all of these and you'll be fine in no time.
I did that shii at 18 and it felt so good that i got hooked for years till i took it up as a challenge. I went 3 months straight without it, then 6 months, then years lmao

Omudia11:
100% true. That's why I'm suprised you could quit. Used to be addicted though until God saved me.

Excel70:

Hello annford how can one recover from effects of masturbation after stopping it

Nnaabros:
Trust me, the advent of smart phones caused a lot of damages. It took away the innocence of many of us. Now we are hooked and can't just let go.

Nudity is promoted and advertised. Sex and Sexcapades are narrated in very graphic language, images and videos, physical beauty is measured by butt and boob sizes and flaunted for fame and attention, inflaming people's passions and desires.

This is the era of big boobs, massive butts, twerking, Sexcapades, nudity. All at the tip of your fingers, your smartphone. People now take pride in exposing their naked bodies and after-sex pics and videos online like some kind of fashion statement. Nothing is left to the imagination, not even to kids.

Passions and desires are inflamed. Now demand is high for intimacy gadgets, boob's and butt enhancement creams are hot cakes. Joysticks enlargement creams and solutions are being searched for and marketed everywhere to meet the growing demand of a passion aroused and sex crazed world.

People are desperatly looking for outlets for the sexual frenzy: frequenting brothels, boyfriend/girlfriend sex partner, rapes, cheating/adulteries, masturbation etc in a quest to cool off the heat.

Bro, there's is no cure to your problem. It's an epidemic that is sweeping across the world.

But an extreme measure if you can, throw away your smartphone and avoid the internet, relocate to a very remote area away from the big cities. It will not kill your attractiion and desire, but it will curb it to a level you can control.

pcguru1:


Same here I used to masturbate before despite having babes around, but i realized it affects esp when it comes to sex, you will have more issues when you masturbate with porn than only. But I guessed I focused my energy to making money and side hobbies and gaming. The Gym I wan try am, but mehn motivation to gym is low.