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Re: Help: I Think I Am Destroying My Life! by makydebbie(f): 1:39pm On Apr 22, 2019
Anonny1:
I suspect he is even cheating on me
The ten years or the two months?

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Re: Help: I Think I Am Destroying My Life! by makydebbie(f): 1:41pm On Apr 22, 2019
Anonny1:
i am not confused. I love the one I met two months back because he is a good sexer and he gives cheerfully

Oh charley. I leave your case for the gods then. grin

You're already cheating, enjoy biko.

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Re: Help: I Think I Am Destroying My Life! by united442(m): 1:42pm On Apr 22, 2019
Kearl:
If you already feel horrible about this, then know what you are about to do is horrible, but I promise you this, you will always find fault with that your man until you clear your eyes with this new guy,

nothing we say here will even matter to you until you cheat on him, he’ll notice the change in you and will later discover your treachery. Your new guy will be fed up of you and will go on to other catches or to his own steady babe. Then you’ll finally blame yourself for wasting ten years of your life in just a couple of months.

you talk like a Messiah..

what happened to me.

broke up with me,our 5years relationship,
went to date a sweet mouthed guy,
a month latter,only to discover the dude has 3 extra babe,one of which was pregnant for him,
babe was trying to come back,
i notice, then push her away,
babe texted me she just wasted 5years of her lifegrin

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Re: Help: I Think I Am Destroying My Life! by Nobody: 1:55pm On Apr 22, 2019
Don't break ur fiancé heart cos of a smooth talker. U might just regret it
Re: Help: I Think I Am Destroying My Life! by jackals(f): 2:01pm On Apr 22, 2019
This life sha, Even we as beautiful as we are, we cant hook a man for long. They expect you to have good behavior that their mother doesnt even have. Before you know it, he start complainning and misbehavingg even after promising marriage. I'm tiredof most of these weak men, they only know how to hit and run

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Re: Help: I Think I Am Destroying My Life! by jackals(f): 2:09pm On Apr 22, 2019
united442:


this was exactly how my girlfriend broke up with me...

o.p..dnt deceive your self..the loyal man has already lost you..you are already into that sweet mouthed guy and its just a matter of time before you break up ur with your first man..

o.p you are weak, a fool and a betrayal...

in no time,the loyal man will discover whats going on with you cause trust me when i say you will never and cant hide it from him cause he's going to notice it, things will start changing in your relationship soon, your feelings and emotions and everything you have for the loyal man will shift to the sweet mouthed guy..the loyal with will be heart broken but you wont be cause someone has already sweet mouthed your weak and ungrateful braingrin
your relationship with the loyal guy will be broken and you both will go apart while you into relationship with the sweet mouthed guy, a relationship that wont last up to 6months or even a year compare to the first guy...
then you come back begging and crying to have the first guy back.

o.p screenshot this comment,cause its all going to happen soon..just watch and see..

idiot,just ask yourself, he makes you laugh,fine! BUT what if that laughter is no longer there??...

may i never meet an ungrateful harlot like you in my life.."AGAIN!"


This is the best contribution i hhave read on this post. Thanks

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Re: Help: I Think I Am Destroying My Life! by onimama4real(m): 2:37pm On Apr 22, 2019
their is a lot of guys out there that his funny more than than Ur expectations n can still satisfied you with sex, so why not loyal to he who is already loyal to you so that you can save you relationship.
Re: Help: I Think I Am Destroying My Life! by Nobody: 2:39pm On Apr 22, 2019
makydebbie:
The ten years or the two months?
ten years
Re: Help: I Think I Am Destroying My Life! by MiaB(f): 2:48pm On Apr 22, 2019
chapmanapr:
Discuss with your boyfriend about him being too serious. You would start seeing the unfunny side of this new guy, once he shines your congo grin
He has done it already. Read again.
Re: Help: I Think I Am Destroying My Life! by Nobody: 2:51pm On Apr 22, 2019
Anonny1:
I am 27, I have been with the man I've always wanted to marry for over 10 years, since I was in secondary school. We have a long term relationship and we have our ups and downs, in general he is a great, loyal, dedicated man who loves me so much, but he doesn't make me laugh at all and I do get bored with him sometimes, he's serious and not fun, but I've always told myself that it ws ok and I we were getting married soon, until recently something terrible happened when I met this coworker, who I never thought I'd like, but after talking to him, which I know is wrong by all means, I fell in love with how funny, charming and amazing he is, I've never laughed this much in my life and it feels weird, he is romantic and he talks about everything which is quite the opposite of my fiancé he even gives it to me hard, just the way I like it. . Now I don't know what to do, I'm completely lost and I don't know what to do. Should I end my 10 year old relationship for someone I've known for 2 months?
I feel like I cheated on the both of them and my first guy is not really satisfying me the way I want
I already feel like a horrible person and I don't know if I can fix my mistakes.
Please help me..

Cc: lilianofentse rocktation
Thanks to your village people,pls do give him(ur fiancee) that respect of confessing to him if you ever think of going back to him after your sexcapades with ur smooth talker,reality will hit you soon when the smooth talker is done hitting every nook and cranny of your cheating pussy.infact don't ever think of going back to ur fiancee ooo,u av cheated already,so live him for the good lady who deserves him to locate him.You are on your journey to being an evening newspaper. enjoy

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Re: Help: I Think I Am Destroying My Life! by Majlaw(m): 2:54pm On Apr 22, 2019
Op you are not loyal. I am sorry to say this.. I hate your type. How come nobody is even talking about how a guy u met in just 2 months started giving it to u hard? You are not loyal. Your bf of 10years shld brk up with u Asap. You are very cheap.


My gf of 5years just dumped me for a guy she met 3 months ago. Simply because the guy is ready to settle down.

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Re: Help: I Think I Am Destroying My Life! by Samshumy: 2:56pm On Apr 22, 2019
united442:


this was exactly how my girlfriend broke up with me...

o.p..dnt deceive your self..the loyal man has already lost you..you are already into that sweet mouthed guy and its just a matter of time before you break up ur with your first man..

o.p you are weak, a fool and a betrayal...

in no time,the loyal man will discover whats going on with you cause trust me when i say you will never and cant hide it from him cause he's going to notice it, things will start changing in your relationship soon, your feelings and emotions and everything you have for the loyal man will shift to the sweet mouthed guy..the loyal with will be heart broken but you wont be cause someone has already sweet mouthed your weak and ungrateful braingrin
your relationship with the loyal guy will be broken and you both will go apart while you into relationship with the sweet mouthed guy, a relationship that wont last up to 6months or even a year compare to the first guy...
then you come back begging and crying to have the first guy back.

o.p screenshot this comment,cause its all going to happen soon..just watch and see..

idiot,just ask yourself, he makes you laugh,fine! BUT what if that laughter is no longer there??...

may i never meet an ungrateful harlot like you in my life.."AGAIN!"
You’ve said it all. I believe the op should be matured enough to make her boyfriend laugh if he doesn’t make her laugh. That new guy with sweet mouth is also sweet mouthing tola somewhere else, sweet mouthing nkechi also. If the new guy dumps the idiot now, we no go hear word for nairaland again
Re: Help: I Think I Am Destroying My Life! by babyfaceafrica: 3:14pm On Apr 22, 2019
Anonny1:
i am not confused. I love the one I met two months back because he is a good sexer and he gives cheerfully
cheat and ungrateful Lady.....and people like you will open your mouth and say all men are scumm abi?

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Re: Help: I Think I Am Destroying My Life! by Carlmax(m): 3:17pm On Apr 22, 2019
chapmanapr:
Discuss with your boyfriend about him being too serious. You would start seeing the unfunny side of this new guy, once he shines your congo grin

You nor Sabi read? E don shine d condo already nah... He dey give her hard, just as she likes it... Wetin make me vex pass now be say Na her bf colleague... Women are witches walahi.
Re: Help: I Think I Am Destroying My Life! by Nobody: 3:28pm On Apr 22, 2019
Anonny1:
I suspect he is even cheating on me
.

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Re: Help: I Think I Am Destroying My Life! by Centrallock: 3:53pm On Apr 22, 2019
Anonny1:
I am 27, I have been with the man I've always wanted to marry for over 10 years, since I was in secondary school. We have a long term relationship and we have our ups and downs, in general he is a great, loyal, dedicated man who loves me so much, but he doesn't make me laugh at all and I do get bored with him sometimes, he's serious and not fun, but I've always told myself that it ws ok and I we were getting married soon, until recently something terrible happened when I met this coworker, who I never thought I'd like, but after talking to him, which I know is wrong by all means, I fell in love with how funny, charming and amazing he is, I've never laughed this much in my life and it feels weird, he is romantic and he talks about everything which is quite the opposite of my fiancé he even gives it to me hard, just the way I like it. . Now I don't know what to do, I'm completely lost and I don't know what to do. Should I end my 10 year old relationship for someone I've known for 2 months?
I feel like I cheated on the both of them and my first guy is not really satisfying me the way I want
I already feel like a horrible person and I don't know if I can fix my mistakes.
Please help me..

Cc: lilianofentse rocktation
first of all you are 26
Secondly you meet this guy two weeks ago
Thirdly your guy is actually trying to make sure he dosent hurt you as you keep complaning of pains during sex, also the guy hitting it hard self is a low life compared to your guy am so ashamed of you
I go drag am come see this your post grin

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Re: Help: I Think I Am Destroying My Life! by excessmon(m): 4:07pm On Apr 22, 2019
Most of you don't see it openly as the op saw it,,,she is sleeping with 2dicks at the same time.....sounds like a taboo and the result is that u can't listen to good advice wen u serve 2 masters....she go come back her senses



My piece though

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Re: Help: I Think I Am Destroying My Life! by millionboi2: 4:11pm On Apr 22, 2019
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Re: Help: I Think I Am Destroying My Life! by Centrallock: 4:45pm On Apr 22, 2019
millionboi2:
how much?
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One is 9 years old, the second one is 7 years and the third one is 5 years all legit account not hacked
Re: Help: I Think I Am Destroying My Life! by millionboi2: 4:50pm On Apr 22, 2019
Centrallock:
i have 3 acct for sale
One is 9 years old, the second one is 7 years and the third one is 5 years all legit account not hacked
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Re: Help: I Think I Am Destroying My Life! by Unrated900(m): 5:01pm On Apr 22, 2019
chapmanapr:
Discuss with your boyfriend about him being too serious. You would start seeing the unfunny side of this new guy, once he shines your congo grin



Read it well bro he has already shines her congo
Re: Help: I Think I Am Destroying My Life! by Centrallock: 5:01pm On Apr 22, 2019
millionboi2:
oga how much
drop your digits lets WhatsApp or send me a pm
Re: Help: I Think I Am Destroying My Life! by Unrated900(m): 5:08pm On Apr 22, 2019
I don't know why ladies can't be satisfied.you already has a good guy, you want to end it with your personal mind for lust.


Later on if that guy starts cheating on you,you will come back to us here for counselling. Why not stay in with your so call formal man and enjoy your life...

You want someone that you won't be able to leave him at home for 4 months and he has bleeped your neighbours

If you like sex like rice and beans buy vibrator and use when your man is out


Be wise gal
Re: Help: I Think I Am Destroying My Life! by lilianofentse(f): 5:26pm On Apr 22, 2019
Yh.
Op. Better leave the both of them and look for someone new who has both potentials
Re: Help: I Think I Am Destroying My Life! by Nobody: 5:32pm On Apr 22, 2019
A big fvck u to anybody that insulted me. I asked for advise not insults. Once again. Fxxck u
Re: Help: I Think I Am Destroying My Life! by Diamond23(f): 5:33pm On Apr 22, 2019
Anonny1:
I am 27, I have been with the man I've always wanted to marry for over 10 years, since I was in secondary school. We have a long term relationship and we have our ups and downs, in general he is a great, loyal, dedicated man who loves me so much, but he doesn't make me laugh at all and I do get bored with him sometimes, he's serious and not fun, but I've always told myself that it ws ok and I we were getting married soon, until recently something terrible happened when I met this coworker, who I never thought I'd like, but after talking to him, which I know is wrong by all means, I fell in love with how funny, charming and amazing he is, I've never laughed this much in my life and it feels weird, he is romantic and he talks about everything which is quite the opposite of my fiancé [/b] he even gives it to me hard, just the way I like it.[b] . Now I don't know what to do, I'm completely lost and I don't know what to do. Should I end my 10 year old relationship for someone I've known for 2 months?
I feel like I cheated on the both of them and my first guy is not really satisfying me the way I want
I already feel like a horrible person and I don't know if I can fix my mistakes.
Please help me..

Cc: lilianofentse rocktation
Nne! U r in luv with him because of d aboved @ d bolded. Since dem u now c ur fiancé unromantic. Fellow ur hrt buh remember all dat glitter isn’t gold.
Re: Help: I Think I Am Destroying My Life! by zealblinks(m): 5:42pm On Apr 22, 2019
Anonny1:
I am 27, I have been with the man I've always wanted to marry for over 10 years, since I was in secondary school. We have a long term relationship and we have our ups and downs, in general he is a great, loyal, dedicated man who loves me so much, but he doesn't make me laugh at all and I do get bored with him sometimes, he's serious and not fun, but I've always told myself that it ws ok and I we were getting married soon, until recently something terrible happened when I met this coworker, who I never thought I'd like, but after talking to him, which I know is wrong by all means, I fell in love with how funny, charming and amazing he is, I've never laughed this much in my life and it feels weird, he is romantic and he talks about everything which is quite the opposite of my fiancé he even gives it to me hard, just the way I like it. . Now I don't know what to do, I'm completely lost and I don't know what to do. Should I end my 10 year old relationship for someone I've known for 2 months?
I feel like I cheated on the both of them and my first guy is not really satisfying me the way I want
I already feel like a horrible person and I don't know if I can fix my mistakes.
Please help me..

Cc: lilianofentse rocktation
You've been with a guy for almost ten years. You didnt know that he wasn't funny then? It's now that you met his friend you know that he is not funny. Bleep you asshole. Bleep your new bf. Ungrateful idiot

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Re: Help: I Think I Am Destroying My Life! by united442(m): 5:56pm On Apr 22, 2019
Anonny1:

A big fvck u to anybody that insulted me. I asked for advise not insults.
Once again.
Fxxck u

you dnt need advise, you need beating sad the one that will format your brain to 10years ago..

better dump your guy let someone who is mentally stable and responsible locate him..dnt use your ungrateful hole to block his destiny.

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Re: Help: I Think I Am Destroying My Life! by Evercurious(f): 5:58pm On Apr 22, 2019
Anonny1:

A big fvck u to anybody that insulted me. I asked for advise not insults.
Once again.
Fxxck u

You should have known that 'advice' in scenario such as this will come with insults just to straighten your brain.. Your response confirms that the message has been delivered.

YOU DESERVED IT BABE

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Re: Help: I Think I Am Destroying My Life! by united442(m): 6:09pm On Apr 22, 2019
Evercurious:


You should have known that 'advice' in scenario such as this will come with insults just to straighten your brain.. Your response confirms that the message has been delivered.

YOU DESERVED IT BABE

lolxxx...really deliveredgrin

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Re: Help: I Think I Am Destroying My Life! by Jamersirwin1971: 6:25pm On Apr 22, 2019
I would advice you stick to your man. Just because of laughs you want to leave and he isn’t making you laugh again . The new man is . So what happens when you meet someone who make you laugh harder ? You will leave again . Just two months you thinking leaving someone of 10 years . You make me laugh . Then what happens after 1 year he decides to leave ? You then go restart again ??

Sometimes the way ladies think is very different from we guys .

Your story looks just the same way of my friend sister who left her ex of 7 years , met some one after just 2years of courtship she settled down . As soon as the new man married her , her troubles started . The real him came out . As I write this next month they starting their divorce . . Just after 1 year of marriage .

When ever I speak to her she says she really made a very big mistake . And currently regretting . So you did better stick to your guy . I am a guy taking to you . Some guys just want to play with your heart for months even one year and leave . It’s something guys do . At the end we would leave after making a lady feel she’s meet someone good .

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Re: Help: I Think I Am Destroying My Life! by millionboi2: 6:29pm On Apr 22, 2019
Centrallock:
drop your digits lets WhatsApp or send me a pm
drop party t hsre

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