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Re: Serious Observation by ImaIma1(f): 10:15am On Apr 24, 2019
Shugavee:
lol I travel a lot ,, so every thing I say to you are true,, and a career woman is different from a feminist!! White women hv 40/ 60 when we talk about equal right , so the agitation for it hv reduced,, most white women are feminist but not all fight for the remaining 10 percent!! But when serious issues regarding women come up , they all stand up n fight against it,,, every woman wants a beautiful home n family,, but no white woman will remain with a cheater or an abuser unlike Africa, yes there are more career women in Nigeria cause they feel hv a lot to prove cause the Nigerian system still suppresses women, try and comprehend it.. career women r not just the women u see on tv,, there are a lot of women working their ass off to be great n recongniced in the society, you don’t know them all neither do I!! So don’t expect me to give you names! You camparing hving a small job without a certificate, with Nigeria where you don’t get a job at all with your certificate, down there u can get two or more jobs n u would live good!! So u mean men r not home sitting with out jobs in Nigeria?

Let’s stick to the topic, and be guided with your words,, I really wonder why u all up on ur feelings


From research and findings, even in the foreign countries, Africans and Indians are the most educated. Imagine a friend of mine who did her master's in the UK. She works in the US under a white boss that doesn't have a university degree. She told me...

"Nigerians dey go school o". We are too educated"

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Re: Serious Observation by Shugavee(f): 10:16am On Apr 24, 2019
lilwetdick:


exactly..that is human nature for you.. we can't like everybody but when we see the good Nigerian women we don't let them go away..we treat them like the princess they are..that is if they are not scheming in the night to Bleep you up in the morning.
story!!
Re: Serious Observation by Shugavee(f): 10:17am On Apr 24, 2019
ImaIma1:


From research and findings, even in the foreign countries, Africans and Indians are the most educated. Imagine a friend of mine who did her master's in the UK. She works in the US under a white boss that doesn't have a university degree. She told me...

"Nigerians dey go school o". We are too educated"
yes naw!! No joke o,
Re: Serious Observation by ImaIma1(f): 10:18am On Apr 24, 2019
lilwetdick:


they sample other men..you mean other Nigerian men..the reality is this, very few western men go out with our Nigerian women even though many of them want these western men badly..the truth is that western men are not attracted to our women because they think our women are muscular and not submissive, they prefer Asian women..


Hmmm...yet we keep seeing more weddings of the young white men marrying Nigerian women than young white women marrying Nigerian men(it's usually one grannie they bring home).

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Re: Serious Observation by Nobody: 10:18am On Apr 24, 2019
Shugavee:
no white men don’t like black women in general,, and i and all the friends I hv don’t like white men at all, they dick small, bad sex game , and they stingy too!! I pick my nigerian man 100% over a white man anyday anytime

Good stuff and i will pick Nigerian women over white women or foreign women.. i love nigerian women.. sexy, good figure 8, a nice ass to match too but love in Nigeria is a big game..you have to love with one eye open that is why most men are scared to get their heart to nigerian women..you know..you never know what they can do the next day

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Re: Serious Observation by Shugavee(f): 10:22am On Apr 24, 2019
ImaIma1:


Hmmm...yet we keep seeing more weddings of the young white men marrying Nigerian women than young white women marrying Nigerian men(it's usually one grannie they bring home).

lol grin
Re: Serious Observation by Nobody: 10:22am On Apr 24, 2019
ImaIma1:


Hmmm...yet we keep seeing more weddings of the young white men marrying Nigerian women than young white women marrying Nigerian men(it's usually one grannie they bring home).


pls show me..those are not young men..those are men divorced almost like 2 times...then you have aonther type of white men who have no game and men their women wont look twice at..when they have tried everything..with no success..their next hope is Nigerian women who jump at them even with just an hi then we have some Nigerian women that want the fantasies of prince harry and megan type of wedding and end up with anything white..even a one-legged white man
Re: Serious Observation by ImaIma1(f): 10:33am On Apr 24, 2019
lilwetdick:


pls show me..those are not young men..those are men divorced almost like 2 times...then you have aonther type of white men who have no game and men their women wont look twice at..when they have tried everything..with no success..their next hope is Nigerian women who jump at them even with just an hi.


Whatever the reason, Nigerian women marry more of the young white men than Nigerian men do the young white women.

It is even the Nigerian men that go for white women with no game...one flabby tummy grandma who doesn't even get stares from their fellow men. Those are the ones Nigerian men bring back to marry
Re: Serious Observation by Shugavee(f): 10:35am On Apr 24, 2019
grin

Re: Serious Observation by Nobody: 10:42am On Apr 24, 2019
ImaIma1:


Whatever the reason, Nigerian women marry more of the young white men than Nigerian men do the young white women.

It is even the Nigerian men that go for white women with no game...one flabby tummy grandma who doesn't even get stares from their fellow men. Those are the ones Nigerian men bring back to marry

ooh..nigerian women that want the prince harry and megan type of wedding..we see them daily..they dont even get the hot white men but the type of they get, you will be surprised and disappointed..even Nigerian men are better than them..funny enough even after getting these grandfathers and sugar daddys called husbands they still cheat on them with Nigerian men.

the only men that bring flabby tummy grandma are visa and green card hungry men..
Re: Serious Observation by ImaIma1(f): 10:49am On Apr 24, 2019
lilwetdick:


ooh..nigerian women that want the prince harry and megan type of wedding..we see them daily..they dont even get the hot white men but the type of they get, you will be surprised and disappointed..even Nigerian men are better than them..funny enough even after getting these grandfathers and sugar daddys called husbands they still cheat on them with Nigerian men.

the only men that bring flabby tummy grandma are visa and green card hungry men..


Just like the ones that marry foreign women and become puppies.

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Re: Serious Observation by Nobody: 10:52am On Apr 24, 2019
Officialgarri:
You have to be on your best behavior and possibly see a foreign lady as equal because she's bringing something to the table. I mean...
She takes care of herself,
she pays her bills when you are out on a date,
she's not dependent,
she doesn't see relationship as a job opportunity


Now tell me how many Nigerian ladies who doesn't see relationship as a job opportunity

Omo.. 3 months supply of any cold beer of ur choice just direct the billing info to me

Re: Serious Observation by Nobody: 10:54am On Apr 24, 2019
Shugavee:
grin

You are enjoying the trouble u started abi?
Re: Serious Observation by Shugavee(f): 11:08am On Apr 24, 2019
dairykidd:


You are enjoying the trouble u started abi?
it’s an interesting discussion!! No trouble
Re: Serious Observation by Adeniyii2017: 11:11am On Apr 24, 2019
Shugavee:
i agree with you to an extent, but all Nigerian ladies are good! Just depends on what you want!! Ur ex you hated will eventually marry someone else that will love and cherish her, the uneducated girl you don’t want, might get married n her man encourages her to go to school, so we all good no discrimination, just what u want and prefer.

I think you are just here to defend your gender.. saying all Nigerian ladies are good is just the height.
Re: Serious Observation by Nobody: 11:15am On Apr 24, 2019
ImaIma1:


You are talking of the village minded men. The ones that are still looking for a woman that would be his subject or slave. Those ones with traditional thinking and mindset.

Sooo many men take their wives. All the ones i know have their wives with them or working on the wife to join them. They are much more than the ones that are afraid of the wives coming to outshine them especially because of the way they have treated their wives.
i recall wen i was in 100 level there was this local club near our hostel lodge. Though d club wasnt as bubbling as then cos of cult issues as at wen i rented a lodge opposite it. It was run by one guy who just came back from holland. The guy is married to a dutch lady over in holland and wen he came back to naija he married a local girl . The girl is very dedicated ehn but d man for once hasnt taken her once to holland.all she does is clean up d club and when he's around in naija she performes d wifely duties. D man likes to brag a lot about his exploits overseas. He will brag to us dat he even has another wife in germany plus d one in holland and dat he has sampled all women all over.he will be saying all this in his nigerian wife's presence ooo and she will just be silent and looking. Any yankee based or oversea base guy u see coming back to make arrangements to collect their wives are those ones who really really love their wives and they trust them. Those ones wey family friends arrange nigerian wife for dem u think say dem go gree carry their wife comecheesy. Many of them already have a family with their oyibo wives and u know oyibo women no dey tolerate nosense. U cheat na divorce straight. So they prefer the nigerian wife just remain in nigeria while they come only on xmas and easter to perform husband duties or if they are well off they can come some other time. Their some rude ones who come only once in every six or seven yrs to see their wife. Nigerian women that agree to do such arrangement dey try i swearcheesy.
Re: Serious Observation by Preshy561(f): 11:17am On Apr 24, 2019
lefulefu:
i recall wen i was in 100 level there was this local club near our hostel lodge. Though d club wasnt as bubbling as then cos of cult issues as at wen i rented a lodge opposite it. It was run by one guy who just came back from holland. The guy is married to a dutch lady over in holland and wen he came back to naija he married a local girl . The girl is very dedicated ehn but d man for once hasnt taken her once to holland.all she does is clean up d club and when he's around in naija she performes d wifely duties. D man likes to brag a lot about his exploits overseas. He will brag to us dat he even has another wife in germany plus d one in holland and dat he has sampled all women all over.he will be saying all this in his nigerian wife's presence ooo and she will just be silent and looking. Any yankee based or oversea base guy u see coming back to make arrangements to collect their wives are those ones who really really love their wives and they trust them. Those ones wey family friends arrange nigerian wife for dem u think say dem go gree carry their wife comecheesy. Many of them already have a family with their oyibo wives and u know oyibo women no dey tolerate nosense. U cheat na divorce straight. So they prefer the nigerian wife just remain in nigeria while they come only on xmas and easter to perform husband duties or if they are well off they can come some other time. Their some rude ones who come only once in every six or seven yrs to see their wife. Nigerian women that agree to do such arrangement dey try i swearcheesy.
Nawa ooo.
Such a Stupid man.
The Nigerian wife sef na mumu.

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Re: Serious Observation by Adeniyii2017: 11:21am On Apr 24, 2019
lilwetdick:


ooh..nigerian women that want the prince harry and megan type of wedding..we see them daily..they dont even get the hot white men but the type of they get, you will be surprised and disappointed..even Nigerian men are better than them..funny enough even after getting these grandfathers and sugar daddys called husbands they still cheat on them with Nigerian men.

the only men that bring flabby tummy grandma are visa and green card hungry men..

Loud it, fact man, FACT!

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Re: Serious Observation by Shugavee(f): 11:25am On Apr 24, 2019
ImaIma1:


Just like the ones that marry foreign women and become puppies.
atleast those women hv so much control over the men that they bring them to Africa to do traditional marriage n they bring come to Africa on a regular , with their children wearing traditional outfits,, most of the parents of the men married to white women hvnt seen their grand kids ever or even the wife.
Re: Serious Observation by Nobody: 11:26am On Apr 24, 2019
Shugavee:
all in all, cost a lot both ways in my opinion, cause you hv to sum them all and save up b4 making ur trip, on the marriage part based on what u wrote, I think you r right .
flight ticket to south africa and south east asian countries is 80k as i heard..to the US na 400k...to italy na 150 or 200k.its like na US own cost pass. I have heard scarey stories of nigerian ladies in nigeria brought into europe and US as wives. There was one my friend's aunt based in germany told us wen she came back to nigeria about one guy who came to marry one igbo chick he saw on facebook. Dude married her then carried her with him to germany and some few yrs later the guy died mysteriously and dis lady was fighting with the lawyers to inherit all d man's property. Weda na poison or weda na illness kill d man nobody knows. But one tin my friend's aunt told us was dat during the preparation for man's burial the lady was jus busy making phonecalls for arrangement to secure the man's properties. Dat story fear me. Someone will carry a woman that will eventually kill him and inherit his properties and share with her lover all cos the man wanted to marry a traditional home based african wife.odikwa riskycheesy.
Re: Serious Observation by Shugavee(f): 11:28am On Apr 24, 2019
lefulefu:
i recall wen i was in 100 level there was this local club near our hostel lodge. Though d club wasnt as bubbling as then cos of cult issues as at wen i rented a lodge opposite it. It was run by one guy who just came back from holland. The guy is married to a dutch lady over in holland and wen he came back to naija he married a local girl . The girl is very dedicated ehn but d man for once hasnt taken her once to holland.all she does is clean up d club and when he's around in naija she performes d wifely duties. D man likes to brag a lot about his exploits overseas. He will brag to us dat he even has another wife in germany plus d one in holland and dat he has sampled all women all over.he will be saying all this in his nigerian wife's presence ooo and she will just be silent and looking. Any yankee based or oversea base guy u see coming back to make arrangements to collect their wives are those ones who really really love their wives and they trust them. Those ones wey family friends arrange nigerian wife for dem u think say dem go gree carry their wife comecheesy. Many of them already have a family with their oyibo wives and u know oyibo women no dey tolerate nosense. U cheat na divorce straight. So they prefer the nigerian wife just remain in nigeria while they come only on xmas and easter to perform husband duties or if they are well off they can come some other time. Their some rude ones who come only once in every six or seven yrs to see their wife. Nigerian women that agree to do such arrangement dey try i swearcheesy.
why do parents arrange women for their sons, n why do the stupid women agree to such rubbish
Re: Serious Observation by Shugavee(f): 11:31am On Apr 24, 2019
lefulefu:
flight ticket to south africa and south east asian countries is 80k as i heard..to the US na 400k...to italy na 150 or 200k.its like na US own cost pass. I have heard scarey stories of nigerian ladies in nigeria brought into europe and US as wives. There was one my friend's aunt based in germany told us wen she came back to nigeria about one guy who came to marry one igbo chick he saw on facebook. Dude married her then carried her with him to germany and some few yrs later the guy died mysteriously and dis lady was fighting with the lawyers to inherit all d man's property. Weda na poison or weda na illness kill d man nobody knows. But one tin my friend's aunt told us was dat during the preparation for man's burial the lady was jus busy making phonecalls for arrangement to secure the man's properties. Dat story fear me. Someone will carry a woman that will eventually kill him and inherit his properties and share with her lover all cos the man wanted to marry a traditional home based african wife.odikwa riskycheesy.
I don’t blame that woman cause she’s an African n she know how African families like to fight for her brothers property, Igbo families most especially, if she doesn’t secure her husbands properties, who will!! That does not mean she killed him abeg
Re: Serious Observation by Nobody: 11:32am On Apr 24, 2019
Shugavee:
why do parents arrange women for their sons, n why do the stupid women agree to such rubbish
hahahahaha see question wey u dey ask mecheesy. Shugavee are u saying if ur mom or one of ur friends told u she saw one fine nigerian heart surgeon based in dallas and the heart surgeon will love to contact u ...swear say u no go dump ur boyfriend sharp sharpcheesy.
Re: Serious Observation by Shugavee(f): 11:35am On Apr 24, 2019
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Re: Serious Observation by Shugavee(f): 11:37am On Apr 24, 2019
lefulefu:
hahahahaha see question wey u dey ask mecheesy. Shugavee are u saying if ur mom or one of ur friends told u she saw one fine nigerian heart surgeon based in dallas and the heart surgeon will love to contact u ...swear say u no go dump ur boyfriend sharp sharpcheesy.
never ever, I Dey mad? If the man no go carry me follow body immediately, not happening , I no go born for am till e carry me follow body!! Who be mugu!! What’s marriage without companionship
Re: Serious Observation by Nobody: 11:44am On Apr 24, 2019
Shugavee:
never ever, I Dey mad? If the man no go carry me follow body immediately, not happening , I no go born for am till e carry me follow body!! Who be mugu!! What’s marriage without companionship
chances of u living in a very big duplex...chances of u having ur own luxurious ride... Chances of u getting hefty monthly allowance without hussling or working to earn a daily breadcheesy. Or u need do na to streatch leg from morning till night watching cable while ur servants are doin ur biddingcheesy. See ehn many of dese wives with their husbands overseas are living well and especially if d man is well off over dere. Jus d sacrifice u will make is dat his precence wont always be dere for here many of dese wives are making up to dat by having lovers in naija dat warm up their bedscheesy. Its too big a temptation for d average naija lady to resistcheesy.
Re: Serious Observation by Nobody: 11:45am On Apr 24, 2019
ImaIma1:


Just like the ones that marry foreign women and become puppies.

even visa hungy men that marry foreign women are not loyal to the women..they get what they want and move on but our Nigerian women will marry white men even if they are unconsciously racist, example is Ami Dunn McClure, who had kids for a white man who abused her then move to another weak white man who was a low key racist...anyway..things they do to pay the bills

this is the reason white men want black women

-they want a Nubian princess(whatever it means i dont know)
-they believe Black women would offer some kind of freaky, wild sexual experience( white men looking to demean and defile black women, white men who wants to dominate or wants black women to be dominated by them)
-white men who just wants to check a Black woman off their sexual bucket list.
-then the ones who thinks that being with a black woman will somehow made them “edgy” or proved they weren’t racist.
Re: Serious Observation by Shugavee(f): 11:49am On Apr 24, 2019
lefulefu:
chances of u living in a very big duplex...chances of u having ur own luxurious ride... Chances of u getting hefty monthly allowance without hussling or working to earn a daily breadcheesy. Or u need do na to streatch leg from morning till night watching cable while ur servants are doin ur biddingcheesy. See ehn many of dese wives with their husbands overseas are living well and especially if d man is well off over dere. Jus d sacrifice u will make is dat his precence wont always be dere for here many of dese wives are making up to dat by having lovers in naija dat warm up their bedscheesy. Its too big a temptation for d average naija lady to resistcheesy.
grin true tho
Re: Serious Observation by Shugavee(f): 11:49am On Apr 24, 2019
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Re: Serious Observation by Nobody: 11:51am On Apr 24, 2019
Shugavee:
I don’t blame that woman cause she’s an African n she know how African families like to fight for her brothers property, Igbo families most especially, if she doesn’t secure her husbands properties, who will!! That does not mean she killed him abeg
for her not to show any remorse for d man's death is suspicious. Anyway i heard their poisons dat some diabolical ladies use and autopsy cant even trace itcheesy. Anyway any man wey wise dese knows dat the right lady to marry is a lady who is his best friend and d lady who will have his back any day. Not these ones wey go carry ur all ur money dey spend on clothes and iphones and dey slay in front of toilet mirrors and wen u no come gree giv dem money dem go dey plot on how to get rid of u and inherit all ur propertiescheesy. Ehn endtime wives everywiacheesy.

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Re: Serious Observation by Shugavee(f): 11:51am On Apr 24, 2019
lilwetdick:


even visa hungy men that marry foreign women are not loyal to the women..they get what they want and move on but our Nigerian women will marry white men even if they are unconsciously racist, example is Ami Dunn McClure, who had kids for a white man who abused her then move to another weak white man who was a low key racist...anyway..things they do to pay the bills

this is the reason white men want black women

-they want a Nubian princess(whatever it means i dont know)
-they believe Black women would offer some kind of freaky, wild sexual experience( white men looking to demean and defile black women, white men who wants to dominate or wants black women to be dominated by them)
-white men who just wants to check a Black woman off their sexual bucket list.
-then the ones who thinks that being with a black woman will somehow made them “edgy” or proved they weren’t racist.
bottom line, we too special
Re: Serious Observation by Nobody: 11:54am On Apr 24, 2019
Shugavee:
grin true tho
i sabi d coco nacheesy

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