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JacksonMS:
I don't know whether I m an extreme introvert or I have a disorder.
I find it hard to talk to people even my family members. In my 22 years on Earth I have not talk to a girl for more than 5mins. I m always sad and angry with everybody.

R2bees:
Who else can't lead a prayer in religious gatherings??

DonOms:
Hi. All these have nothing to do with introversion or shyness.
As for sleeping during lectures, while it is biological to feel fatigue when learning something new, I think you may need to check your lifestyle and health as it is not so normal in your case.

If you have the habit of sleeping late, check it! Sleep early and try to wake up early. Exercise regularly too to keep fit. Eat healthy foods. If there are health concerns, see a doctor.

JacksonMS:
I don't know whether I m an extreme introvert or I have a disorder.
I find it hard to talk to people even my family members. In my 22 years on Earth I have not talk to a girl for more than 5mins. I m always sad and angry with everybody.

Sard:
My introversion doesn't reach that level.
I do lead prayers often. I always keep it short though.
But I also teach in a religious class regularly, with the majority of the students being adolescents and young adults. It has helped me a lot to speak to people as most of them often see me as a respected figure and would like to speak with me after class/church service.

sleepking:
U have a disorder

sleepking:
U have a disorder

R2bees:
I Hate it when someone keeps looking at me.. Stop ffs!! Except you are a fine girl. hehehe

Apus:
Lols!! dem dey appr8 God work for ur body na.

Truely, those piercing looks can cause discomfort. On a good day I just stare back or pretend not to notice.

Kceefresh19:
Wow!.. Glad to see there are people like me
I don't know what's wrong with me though
I like keeping to myself, I hardly express my feelings except when I'm angry
Love to stay indoors .. When I'm in my hostel, you'll hardly know i'm around
I love my privacy as well.
I try as hard as much to avoid conflict... I don't talk to strangers in buses
In fact, if you start a conversation with me in a bus, you'll regret it

R2bees:
I can't even stare back..To maintain eye contact na war

SekSek:
Hello Twin! This is soooo me!!!

Ultimategeneral:
alright, guys here is what I have for us. I might not be the op of this thread, but I think we can help ourselves by learning our weaknesses and asking for ways to improve on them. for instance an introvert can hardly be employed as a sales representative

Lahmeda:
Happy to be here

I found that approaching a stranger is very difficult
and I love to stay indoors and the worst part is I can't work under a person ..... All people thought about me was that am arrogant,fumbled,and of all sought



Good thing is that after I knew you finish I can play, Gist and even cracking jokes for more than I expected.

What is happening to me

babyfaceafrica:
lies!!

DonOms:
Firstly, if you're an introvert, there can not be a "stop being introvert" phase. What may happen - and it does happen as you grow - is that you get to be more sociable and manage being in crowded places better. But you will always get drained when being overstimulated such as being in loud places or having to be around plenty people in a social gathering.

I'm an introvert. I'm not shy. And I am not doing bad career-wise. Does my introversion affect my career? NO. There is a high chance you are a shy person and you mistake characteristics of shyness for introversion. I think you first need to assess yourself and discover who you are. Then you will need to know where you thrive, what your interests are and what kind of skills drive you. When you know all these, you will understand yourself better and you can then choose your career wisely.

Crenzywilliams:
Am an introvert and it's affected every aspect of my life. ..am not scared of the outside world or anything, I just love being on my own...I tend to observe a lot, talk only to people I know, and tend to think a lot. ..Most ppl don't just get me...even my family think am always depressed, ppl don't just seems to understand me..I love being by myself, I won't deny, sometimes it's really lonely up in my head...I think, I breath and I smile...I haven't been able to keep a relationship for over a year, girls just get bored and move on..But most of the time I block them out myself...I have no patience for drama, fake-life and stuff...y3a, it's really lonely sometimes and I admit it'll be great and nice to have someone to understand me and learn to cope with my me...
Sometimes it's a mess up in my head...I don't believe am too intelligent, and I also know I don't have a problem; am just different; and am learning to cope with it.

R2bees:
Who else hides in their room when a visitor comes in the house.

infj:
lmao I don chop beating on top this before when I was small