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Re: Introverts Lounge (Extroverts Pls Keep Off !!) by Ultimategeneral: 8:25pm On May 11, 2019
Apus:
Guys is this true cos this describes my relationship with pple
read the line "people who brings me comfort and happiness" that to me clearly defines who an introvert is. except if you are a shy person.

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Re: Introverts Lounge (Extroverts Pls Keep Off !!) by SageMK: 9:51pm On May 12, 2019
R2bees:
Who else hides in their room when a visitor comes in the house.

This is so like me. My siblings the same.

Whenever we have a guest and neither of my parents are around, everybody hides. The guest is usually left alone.

Sometimes I feel really bad so I sit with the guest in the living room with the TV on, and then almost immediately I start regretting. Like why does it have to be me? Damn.

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Re: Introverts Lounge (Extroverts Pls Keep Off !!) by DonOms(m): 5:27am On May 17, 2019
ehix89:
embarassed

If only you don't mind

I'm sorry I'm just relying you. You can send me a PM please.
Re: Introverts Lounge (Extroverts Pls Keep Off !!) by AngryParrot1: 5:54am On May 17, 2019
Introverts. What is ur outlet? I am curious.
Re: Introverts Lounge (Extroverts Pls Keep Off !!) by babyfaceafrica: 7:33pm On May 17, 2019
AngryParrot1:
Introverts. What is ur outlet? I am curious.
meaning
Re: Introverts Lounge (Extroverts Pls Keep Off !!) by AngryParrot1: 1:27pm On May 18, 2019
babyfaceafrica:
meaning
I mean when u have to let out some built up emotions.
Re: Introverts Lounge (Extroverts Pls Keep Off !!) by babyfaceafrica: 1:38pm On May 18, 2019
AngryParrot1:

I mean when u have to let out some built up emotions.
depends,you can drink,play video games, take a swim.. or just sleep.. I do all

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Re: Introverts Lounge (Extroverts Pls Keep Off !!) by babyfaceafrica: 2:00pm On May 18, 2019
AngryParrot1:

I mean when u have to let out some built up emotions.
I also sometimes para over little things...even trival things

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Re: Introverts Lounge (Extroverts Pls Keep Off !!) by AngryParrot1: 2:10pm On May 18, 2019
babyfaceafrica:
I also sometimes para over little things...even trival things

Small things are the big things.
Re: Introverts Lounge (Extroverts Pls Keep Off !!) by Mizwisdom(f): 5:04pm On May 18, 2019
R2bees:
Who else hides in their room when a visitor comes in the house.

Haha I remember when I used to do this lol but don't worry it's just a faze

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Re: Introverts Lounge (Extroverts Pls Keep Off !!) by Mizwisdom(f): 5:18pm On May 18, 2019
Is there any introvert that likes outdoors and gets re-energized after going outdoors? l have a friend that's quiet but she hardly stays indoors always going from one place to another, I noticed she gets grumpy a bit if she's home all day but will rather prefer outdoors.

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Re: Introverts Lounge (Extroverts Pls Keep Off !!) by Apus: 11:12pm On May 18, 2019
cry

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Re: Introverts Lounge (Extroverts Pls Keep Off !!) by Nobody: 11:30pm On May 18, 2019
Mizwisdom:
Is there any introvert that likes outdoors and gets re-energized after going outdoors? l have a friend that's quiet but she hardly stays indoors always going from one place to another, I noticed she gets grumpy a bit if she's home all day but will rather prefer outdoors.
I like outdoors but i go out once in a while. Your friend could be Ambivert.

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Re: Introverts Lounge (Extroverts Pls Keep Off !!) by bukiii(f): 2:25am On May 19, 2019
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Re: Introverts Lounge (Extroverts Pls Keep Off !!) by bukiii(f): 2:27am On May 19, 2019
Optional12345:


grin grin grin grin grin grin

Chai, you are like my old self


Anyway, I have moved away a little from such.



I am also an introvert. Happy reading all your comments here.


The guy above you just described me. How did you get out of that shell? Maybe I am now better at keeping eye contact but at keeping communication, I am worst. I can't get into any relationship now because I know I have to fix this. I hardly talk to people on WhatsApp because I know after 'how are you' it'll start getting awkward.

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Re: Introverts Lounge (Extroverts Pls Keep Off !!) by Nobody: 3:04pm On May 19, 2019
bukiii:

The guy above you just described me. How did you get out of that shell? Maybe I am now better at keeping eye contact but at keeping communication, I am worst. I can't get into any relationship now because I know I have to fix this. I hardly talk to people on WhatsApp because I know after 'how are you' it'll start getting awkward.
WhatsApp sef, sometimes i feel like uninstalling that App.

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Re: Introverts Lounge (Extroverts Pls Keep Off !!) by kazvid(m): 4:41pm On May 19, 2019
Nice thread I must say
Am an introvert, I hardly make friends, can't keep a convo with a lady,I LOVE BEEN INSIDE AS IN LOVE THE FOUR CORNERS OF MY ROOM,I can't keep eye contact with the opposite sex,can't speak in front of crowd.
Can any one help me out?

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Re: Introverts Lounge (Extroverts Pls Keep Off !!) by babyfaceafrica: 9:48pm On May 19, 2019
Mizwisdom:
Is there any introvert that likes outdoors and gets re-energized after going outdoors? l have a friend that's quiet but she hardly stays indoors always going from one place to another, I noticed she gets grumpy a bit if she's home all day but will rather prefer outdoors.
been quiet does not make her an introvert o?..don't confuse the two
Re: Introverts Lounge (Extroverts Pls Keep Off !!) by Mizwisdom(f): 8:15am On May 20, 2019
babyfaceafrica:
been quiet does not make her an introvert o?..don't confuse the two


Thanks, what's the difference?
Re: Introverts Lounge (Extroverts Pls Keep Off !!) by babyfaceafrica: 8:20am On May 20, 2019
Mizwisdom:



Thanks, what's the difference?
we have is some shy and quiet extroverts?...

to confirm if your friend is a. introvert;

1. does she stay alone in the room for long
2.is she afraid in looking at people directly in the eyea for a long period
3.does she have many few friends?
4..is she faithful and loyal?
5.is she vengeful?

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Re: Introverts Lounge (Extroverts Pls Keep Off !!) by infj: 10:41am On May 20, 2019
The internet
AngryParrot1:
Introverts. What is ur outlet? I am curious.

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Re: Introverts Lounge (Extroverts Pls Keep Off !!) by Mizwisdom(f): 11:12am On May 20, 2019
babyfaceafrica:
we have is some shy and quiet extroverts?...

to confirm if your friend is a. introvert;

1. does she stay alone in the room for long
2.is she afraid in looking at people directly in the eyea for a long period
3.does she have many few friends?
4..is she faithful and loyal?
5.is she vengeful?


No she's not afraid of looking at people in the eyes.

She can be in her room but there's always noise, either TV, Radio or something else 24hrs

I don't see her as loyal but she can be faithful. Out of sight is out of mind for her so to me that's not faithful


Vengeful? I'm not sure, she's hot tempered
Re: Introverts Lounge (Extroverts Pls Keep Off !!) by Ultimategeneral: 4:50pm On May 20, 2019
Mizwisdom:


Vengeful? I'm not sure, she's hot tempered
but can easily cool down right. do she keep malice? what about friends, are they guys or girls?
Re: Introverts Lounge (Extroverts Pls Keep Off !!) by Mizwisdom(f): 5:08pm On May 20, 2019
Ultimategeneral:

but can easily cool down right.
do she keep malice?
what about friends, are they guys or girls?


I don't think she keeps malice and she doesn't seem to flinch when insulted she act like it doesn't bother her but she rather make joke out of it. She can be quite harsh or will i say strict but when you get to know her she's very funny and has a good sense of humor. I think she has multiple personality but the one that comes natural is when she's funny. Like she doesn't talk much but she's funny without effort( I don't think it's deliberate). For example if there are 30 people in a place, she will be one of the most popular and not that she talks much and if she doesn't show, everybody will know yet she's quiet.

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Re: Introverts Lounge (Extroverts Pls Keep Off !!) by babyfaceafrica: 5:45pm On May 20, 2019
Mizwisdom:



I don't think she keeps malice and she doesn't seem to flinch when insulted she act like it doesn't bother her but she rather make joke out of it. She can be quite harsh or will i say strict but when you get to know her she's very funny and has a good sense of humor. I think she has multiple personality but the one that comes natural is when she's funny. Like she doesn't talk much but she's funny without effort( I don't think it's deliberate). For example if there are 30 people in a place, she will be one of the most popular and not that she talks much and if she doesn't show, everybody will know yet she's quiet.
she is not an introvert

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Re: Introverts Lounge (Extroverts Pls Keep Off !!) by funkyjms: 7:24pm On May 20, 2019
babyfaceafrica:
she is not an introvert

True, she's not!
Re: Introverts Lounge (Extroverts Pls Keep Off !!) by Akposb(m): 9:02am On May 21, 2019
kazvid:
Nice thread I must say
Am an introvert, I hardly make friends, can't keep a convo with a lady,I LOVE BEEN INSIDE AS IN LOVE THE FOUR CORNERS OF MY ROOM,I can't keep eye contact with the opposite sex,can't speak in front of crowd.
Can any one help me out?
First of all, you must make a commitment to get better at challenging these problems you have mentioned.
Two things can possibly be responsible, being shy or you have low self esteem. If you have read through the thread, I guess you would have found a solution.
Re: Introverts Lounge (Extroverts Pls Keep Off !!) by kazvid(m): 10:25am On May 21, 2019
Akposb:

First of all, you must make a commitment to get better at challenging these problems you have mentioned.
Two things can possibly be responsible, being shy or you have low self esteem. If you have read through the thread, I guess you would have found a solution.
nothing like low self esteem,just that am too shy
reading through 180+ page no easy ooo
Re: Introverts Lounge (Extroverts Pls Keep Off !!) by nellyquash(f): 10:36am On May 21, 2019
Wooow.. Good to see this thread. Am kind of cool, but people mistake my quiteness for naivety. Still wondering why!

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Re: Introverts Lounge (Extroverts Pls Keep Off !!) by Akposb(m): 11:55am On May 21, 2019
kazvid:

nothing like low self esteem,just that am too shy
reading through 180+ page no easy ooo
Good appraisal on your self esteem can help combat shyness.
Why are you shy?
Either you are afraid of being judged by another as inadequate or you just feel like taking the back seat all the time. These categorization may seem awkward or off the point but if you reflect on them, you will find out they are not off the point.

One way to fight shyness is accepting that regardless of whether you are correct or not, you are a work in progress and do not put yourself under any illusion that you can't stand before anybody. Confidence in yourself and your ability to do the right thing matters.

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Re: Introverts Lounge (Extroverts Pls Keep Off !!) by ibkayee(f): 1:05pm On May 21, 2019
R2bees:
Who else hides in their room when a visitor comes in the house.
Depends who it is and if I’ve bathed grin

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Re: Introverts Lounge (Extroverts Pls Keep Off !!) by kazvid(m): 6:38pm On May 21, 2019
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Akposb:

Good appraisal on your self esteem can help combat shyness.
Why are you shy?
[b]Either you are afraid of being judged by another as inadequate
or you just feel like taking the back seat all the time. These categorization may seem awkward or off the point but if you reflect on them, you will find out they are not off the point.

One way to fight shyness is accepting that regardless of whether you are correct or not, you are a work in progress and do not put yourself under any illusion that you can't stand before anybody. Confidence in yourself and your ability to do the right thing matters.
U nailed it

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