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Re: Should A Man Consult His Wife Before Giving Money To His Own Mother? by Banter1(m): 7:03am On May 16, 2019 |
Which kind yeye question be this? i go give my mama money and anybody i like, e no concern her. na my money afterall. |
Re: Should A Man Consult His Wife Before Giving Money To His Own Mother? by mr1759: 7:03am On May 16, 2019 |
MizMyColi: am married my dear, too much of everything is bad let your wife or husband know a little so it will not look like you've kept that part of your life away from them, some lazy , greedy and unreasonable partner find it disturbing that you send things to your family members back home 1 Like |
Re: Should A Man Consult His Wife Before Giving Money To His Own Mother? by Nobody: 7:04am On May 16, 2019 |
PETCOKE:you are talking crap actually. Did he beg the mother to have sex which resulted to the pregnancy? It's only a useless spineless wussy that will take permission from his wife before giving money to his family people but what you said was still rubbish 1 Like 1 Share |
Re: Should A Man Consult His Wife Before Giving Money To His Own Mother? by Ultimatezlant: 7:07am On May 16, 2019 |
NaijaTushboy:When sending money to anybody yes but when sending money you know would be used by your parents no. Unless its money that is for major project. Some wives would give you reasons not to |
Re: Should A Man Consult His Wife Before Giving Money To His Own Mother? by tfash96(m): 7:07am On May 16, 2019 |
Who does that? I'm a man we're always in charge Mama that brought me to this world and gave me everything till this moment..she prefers herself to lack something to me lacking it.. I should now take permission from my wife to do something for her.. Am I mad? Women of nowadays are crazy Kos she's my wife. Does it mean I should hand over her my life remote control? Hell NO!!!! |
Re: Should A Man Consult His Wife Before Giving Money To His Own Mother? by na2016: 7:08am On May 16, 2019 |
NaijaTushboy: It is not a bad idea but this normally comes with issues so never try that bro. Some of the problems are: 1)You will not be able to give your mom anything freely. 2)The day you try to increase the amount you give your mom even as inflation is increasing in the country, your wife will start quarrels. 3) You wife will start a comparison between her parents and your mom even when the situation may demand you give your mom more. 4) Your wife will definitely want to try so shits that you can't imagine. She will take you for granted. 5)Problems, problems and more problems. So be bold and give your mom what you deem fit per time and NO SUCH CONSULTATION with your wife before making such gifts. 1 Like |
Re: Should A Man Consult His Wife Before Giving Money To His Own Mother? by IamDavid(m): 7:08am On May 16, 2019 |
Zinny25:You get brain |
Re: Should A Man Consult His Wife Before Giving Money To His Own Mother? by Jabarzee(m): 7:09am On May 16, 2019 |
chiommy123: Very bad please |
Re: Should A Man Consult His Wife Before Giving Money To His Own Mother? by Ayoagbajesamuel(m): 7:10am On May 16, 2019 |
It is possible, depending on the relationship between the wife and the mother in law and the husband. Some good wife will even give money 2 mother in law without the knowledge of her husband or add to what husband intended 2 give his mother. So, its vice versa |
Re: Should A Man Consult His Wife Before Giving Money To His Own Mother? by Kobicove(m): 7:13am On May 16, 2019 |
Why should you consult your wife before giving money to your mother? Except she was the one who made the money then it's none of her business |
Re: Should A Man Consult His Wife Before Giving Money To His Own Mother? by Emmanuel226(m): 7:13am On May 16, 2019 |
i dont think so but, it doesn't matter if he decides to consult hiswife before giving out money to his mom, but i don't think dat is necessary cause she is his mother and raised him up to who he is today |
Re: Should A Man Consult His Wife Before Giving Money To His Own Mother? by deebrain(m): 7:14am On May 16, 2019 |
No. But settle your financial duties with your wife first |
Re: Should A Man Consult His Wife Before Giving Money To His Own Mother? by johnsundayjohn: 7:16am On May 16, 2019 |
Is not an insult oo but d fact is,its written dat man shall leave his parent to join his wife okk nd for dat reason ur wife will be ur forever leavin mother to care for u compare to ur real mother dat nurse u half way..........its not too bad if ur wife is aware bcus u will be doin it 50-50 by also givin her own mother too.tnkx |
Re: Should A Man Consult His Wife Before Giving Money To His Own Mother? by Vhffhh777777: 7:20am On May 16, 2019 |
Prove below
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Re: Should A Man Consult His Wife Before Giving Money To His Own Mother? by Nobody: 7:20am On May 16, 2019 |
PETCOKE: Too much sense |
Re: Should A Man Consult His Wife Before Giving Money To His Own Mother? by Kheemjoel(m): 7:23am On May 16, 2019 |
Dis question is stupid actually. ...y i go ask wen na my own money??.. No 1 can replace a mother o |
Re: Should A Man Consult His Wife Before Giving Money To His Own Mother? by Solexgzy(m): 7:23am On May 16, 2019 |
NaijaTushboy:not in all cases |
Re: Should A Man Consult His Wife Before Giving Money To His Own Mother? by Snow02: 7:23am On May 16, 2019 |
CreepyBlackpool:lmao |
Re: Should A Man Consult His Wife Before Giving Money To His Own Mother? by Mynd44: 7:26am On May 16, 2019 |
Redhot111:I was not saying the husband and wife are one couple. Husband from one marriage Wife from another narriage Both with different formulas 1 Like |
Re: Should A Man Consult His Wife Before Giving Money To His Own Mother? by Reference(m): 7:36am On May 16, 2019 |
Yes. The left hand cannot do what the right hand is not aware of. Your wife is you if truly two has become one. What you have is hers and what she has is yours. As a matter of fact every man should strive to get his wife as close to his mother (parents and vise-versa) as possible. The caring, emotional side of women is best suited to care for parents especially when they begin to age and certain needs are better handled on a woman to woman basis. So not only should she know, it is better she handles those needs on your behalf. These produce some of the best family relationships I have seen. 5 Likes 1 Share |
Re: Should A Man Consult His Wife Before Giving Money To His Own Mother? by amp01(m): 7:36am On May 16, 2019 |
CreepyBlackpool: Mother is supremely. |
Re: Should A Man Consult His Wife Before Giving Money To His Own Mother? by Ndipe(m): 7:37am On May 16, 2019 |
You dont necessarily have to consult her, but I think it is respectful to tell your wife you gave your mother money and no good wife will oppose it. |
Re: Should A Man Consult His Wife Before Giving Money To His Own Mother? by MizMyColi(f): 7:42am On May 16, 2019 |
mr1759: I am not married to that kind of partner. 4 Likes |
Re: Should A Man Consult His Wife Before Giving Money To His Own Mother? by gazza07(m): 7:42am On May 16, 2019 |
Not wrong. But very wrong over here, women over are more particular about their own immediate family. Give ur mum like say 100k and tell ur wife, tomorrow u are giving her mum as well. She won't mind making up a story as long as her mum hot hers. Real men do that here |
Re: Should A Man Consult His Wife Before Giving Money To His Own Mother? by LordIsaac(m): 7:45am On May 16, 2019 |
If marriage is what they say it is, that the two have become 1, then, my answer is yes. 2 Likes |
Re: Should A Man Consult His Wife Before Giving Money To His Own Mother? by Kokoebapluse(m): 7:45am On May 16, 2019 |
For what nah? Where is my wife when my mother will not eat just for me to eat did my wife know about that? Only fool will always use his mother joke in front of his wife. After Allah the creator of all. I see my mother as my god on Earth I can't worship her but I value than the word. If any wife do anyhow I will send her out of my house, if my mother offend me where will I sent her to and who can replace my mother? No body. So fool will take his mother value as joke, so his wife will decide whether to send money or not. Nigba timioyawere. |
Re: Should A Man Consult His Wife Before Giving Money To His Own Mother? by tunary(m): 7:48am On May 16, 2019 |
So the person asking this question wish to seek the opinion of his wife first before giving his own mother money eh. this is what I cal first class MUGU NONSENSE |
Re: Should A Man Consult His Wife Before Giving Money To His Own Mother? by Frey5(m): 7:51am On May 16, 2019 |
No !!!!!!!!!!!!!!!! |
Re: Should A Man Consult His Wife Before Giving Money To His Own Mother? by efikoefiko(m): 7:54am On May 16, 2019 |
Hell no! I won't consult my wife before I give to my siblings and friend as long the money is mind. My opinion |
Re: Should A Man Consult His Wife Before Giving Money To His Own Mother? by awetaiye2015: 7:54am On May 16, 2019 |
udemzyudex: Mommy's boy spotted. 2 Likes
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