| Re: I Caught My Fiancée Cheating by richard870(m): 12:29am On May 19, 2019 |
timmybabyface:
Dear friends
Greetings to you and please pardon my manners if my ways of writing isn’t that perfect!
I met my Gf about 3years ago after my youth service in Nigeria l! she was in law school at that time and things was going on well till I finally found out that she has cheated on me when she traveled back to continue her law school in Abuja, she told me that she thought I wasn’t too serious at that time and that she’s truly sorry.
I forgive her because I love her and because of the good behavior of her parents towards me.
To cut the long story short, I have to travel outside Nigeria about one year and 8month ago to further my studies and things was really going on well between us both before I left, I always try to creat time for her out of my busy academic schedule and I still send her money according to my pocket.
When I traveled down to Nigeria to celebrate Christmas with family&friends I ask her if she has ever cheated on me when I was away. She started lying till I have to force her to talk and give her the only bible to swear but she could not do that , she was scared so she told me that she has cheated on me twice, she said the first one was when she visited her friend in Ibadan for her sister wedding and a friend of her came in without her knowledge, that she was drunk and they have sex.
She said the second one happened when she went for a job interview in Edo. according to her she said when the the interview was over that she could not go back to Lagos so her male friend log her in an hotel which both of them sleep till morning but nothing happened between them! I don’t believe a man and woman would sleep in an hotel room till morning and nothing happened! I’m a street wise and well oriented so such story is not a welcome story to me .
I’m a Nigerian I study and live in the Netherlands.
Please my dear friends kindly advise me on what to do, she has been begging me with her mom who is asking me to forgive her and that such would never happen again
Matured advice please! That I will appreciate Bro, pls don't break your own heart |
| Re: I Caught My Fiancée Cheating by kadreeG7(m): 12:30am On May 19, 2019 |
GrabHisBalls:
LOL. I'm not doing it for "Bastards" 'cause I don't date bastards. love this response 2 Likes |
| Re: I Caught My Fiancée Cheating by dingbang(m): 12:30am On May 19, 2019 |
Lol, any one that cheats on me will be shown the door immediately. No time to come seek for advice 2 Likes 1 Share |
| Re: I Caught My Fiancée Cheating by Nobody: 12:32am On May 19, 2019 |
Candiesramah:
Stop talking like you don't know what I am talking about. This men don't worth your being faithful. You're faithful but he is fùcking other girls. Not one not two Certain things are beyond one's control. The things you can control are your actions and feelings. |
| Re: I Caught My Fiancée Cheating by ikemesit4477: 12:35am On May 19, 2019 |
annford:
My brother, from what you've written, I could easily deduce that you want to marry her. Can you marry someone who cheated on you in the past? Can you stay married and never have to worry about being cheated in again by your wife? Can you stay married to her without ever having to remind her of her dirty past? Would you go in with the relationship just because her mom is begging or because you still love her? The above questions are questions you should ask yourself and answer as well. Relationships are not for the weak and you need to be ready for whatever results you might get. Secondly, I've spent 5days with a woman In a Hotel in Uyo, Akwa Ibom State and nothing happened between us! About her spending the night in a hotel with another again and nothing happened, she might just be saying the truth. Don't be in a relationship with someone out of pity or reward for what ever reason but because you love the person and want to get your life improved and equally improve the other party. You seem to even be in the relationship because of her parents and not because you love her. Find out what you love about her and if that drives you, stay but if negative, then take your leave. Don't force it. 5 days in a hotel with a woman, nothing happens! Abi where you guy's doing Bible studies!  2 Likes |
| Re: I Caught My Fiancée Cheating by Nobody: 12:37am On May 19, 2019 |
Your written English is inexcusable for someone who studied law. 3 Likes 1 Share |
| Re: I Caught My Fiancée Cheating by drskyfly007(m): 12:39am On May 19, 2019 |
GrabHisBalls:
In my perspective, faithfulness should be a personal thing. I can swear with anything that I've never cheated while in a relationship. It's something I consciously and unconsciously do. One for myself, and another, that I respect whom I'm dating.
Anyone can cheat on me. I don't know their values, but don't let me see you cheating.
Ask yourself: what would you tolerate in a relationship? But don't forget that "He who comes to equity must come with clean hands". Seems I have finally found my missing rib!!  |
| Re: I Caught My Fiancée Cheating by Rollitout: 12:40am On May 19, 2019 |
timmybabyface:
Dear friends
Greetings to you and please pardon my manners if my ways of writing isn’t that perfect!
I met my Gf about 3years ago after my youth service in Nigeria l! she was in law school at that time and things was going on well till I finally found out that she has cheated on me when she traveled back to continue her law school in Abuja, she told me that she thought I wasn’t too serious at that time and that she’s truly sorry.
I forgive her because I love her and because of the good behavior of her parents towards me.
To cut the long story short, I have to travel outside Nigeria about one year and 8month ago to further my studies and things was really going on well between us both before I left, I always try to creat time for her out of my busy academic schedule and I still send her money according to my pocket.
When I traveled down to Nigeria to celebrate Christmas with family&friends I ask her if she has ever cheated on me when I was away. She started lying till I have to force her to talk and give her the only bible to swear but she could not do that , she was scared so she told me that she has cheated on me twice, she said the first one was when she visited her friend in Ibadan for her sister wedding and a friend of her came in without her knowledge, that she was drunk and they have sex.
She said the second one happened when she went for a job interview in Edo. according to her she said when the the interview was over that she could not go back to Lagos so her male friend log her in an hotel which both of them sleep till morning but nothing happened between them! I don’t believe a man and woman would sleep in an hotel room till morning and nothing happened! I’m a street wise and well oriented so such story is not a welcome story to me .
I’m a Nigerian I study and live in the Netherlands.
Please my dear friends kindly advise me on what to do, she has been begging me with her mom who is asking me to forgive her and that such would never happen again
Matured advice please! That I will appreciate You are street wise and well oriented yet you can't easily tell that when you finally get married to her, she will definitely cheat on you not to talk of when you are away from home on official duty, my brother close your eyes and leave her for good, she can't stop cheating, trust, you will soon find a nice girl
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| Re: I Caught My Fiancée Cheating by Macgreat(m): 12:40am On May 19, 2019 |
Continue the relationship at your own risk.
You'll know they are shameless for her mother to be begging you after knowing what her daughter did.
See, is not a must you marry a Nigerian woman.
There are Nigerian women out there in the Netherlands.
Or forget anything relationship for now. 3 Likes |
| Re: I Caught My Fiancée Cheating by BENEAMATA: 12:41am On May 19, 2019 |
SageMK:
SMH.
I don't know where this breed of men keep coming from.
To think your fiance, cheated on you twice with random modafúckers without a second thought but yet, here you are asking for directions on what to do?? Oh No.
Lol. I'll consider the fact that you are still in shock and just maybe that's why you can't decide on what to do.
Okay. Here's what you should do brother
1. Come back to Nigeria and call for a family meeting. Tell them you've forgive her and you'll like to marry her in the coming weeks.
2. Tell them their family house will be the venue of the grand reception you'll be holding for the wedding. And you need to fix their roof and a little renovation here and there.
3. Pay contractors to remove the roof and windows of their house. Then delete and block her contacts. Pack your bags and fly back to Netherlands.
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| Re: I Caught My Fiancée Cheating by TheOc: 12:41am On May 19, 2019 |
I have got one ? 4 u bro.
Was she a virgin when you first met her?.
It not , she's cheating on some1 wit �modafucker |
| Re: I Caught My Fiancée Cheating by TheOc: 12:42am On May 19, 2019 |
I have got one ? 4 u bro.
Was she a virgin when you first met her?.
It not , she's cheating on some1 wit you modafucker |
| Re: I Caught My Fiancée Cheating by BENEAMATA: 12:46am On May 19, 2019 |
SageMK:
SMH.
I don't know where this breed of men keep coming from.
To think your fiance, cheated on you twice with random modafúckers without a second thought but yet, here you are asking for directions on what to do?? Oh No.
Lol. I'll consider the fact that you are still in shock and just maybe that's why you can't decide on what to do.
Okay. Here's what you should do brother
1. Come back to Nigeria and call for a family meeting. Tell them you've forgive her and you'll like to marry her in the coming weeks.
2. Tell them their family house will be the venue of the grand reception you'll be holding for the wedding. And you need to fix their roof and a little renovation here and there.
3. Pay contractors to remove the roof and windows of their house. Then delete and block her contacts. Pack your bags and fly back to Netherlands.
shebi una dey hear advise from person ? when village pipu dey their own sidon jeje ! |
| Re: I Caught My Fiancée Cheating by spiritedtete: 12:46am On May 19, 2019 |
Forget all the "have you been faithful questions". You need a lady who is Discipline. Move on please... Otherwise you will regret.
--Do not marry her because her parents loves you and you respect them.
--Do not marry her because you want to prove her nay Sayers wrong or your nay Sayers too
--Do not marry her because you feel inside... That (a cheat) is not who she really is.
-- Do not marry her because you believe she will change or you will change her.
Marry her because you can take all her flaws... That when anything happens tomorrow... You will only cry inside.. and not be stunned.
By the way.... Be ready for DNA test after every births. 1 Like 1 Share |
| Re: I Caught My Fiancée Cheating by BENEAMATA: 12:49am On May 19, 2019 |
daddytime:
You went to further your studies abroad and still believe in swearing with a bible? Wetin be the name of your school for Netherlands and which city make I come give you brain resetting konk for head..
Ben je gek of zo jongen?
Continue to mumu follow woman when dem yakpa everywhere according to the latest report wey dey front page. 7.8 to one oh . |
| Re: I Caught My Fiancée Cheating by Obatechit1: 12:51am On May 19, 2019 |
We Install Car Trackers @ Nationwide 
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| Re: I Caught My Fiancée Cheating by Philadelphia: 12:52am On May 19, 2019 |
timmybabyface:
Dear friends
Greetings to you and please pardon my manners if my ways of writing isn’t that perfect!
I met my Gf about 3years ago after my youth service in Nigeria l! she was in law school at that time and things was going on well till I finally found out that she has cheated on me when she traveled back to continue her law school in Abuja, she told me that she thought I wasn’t too serious at that time and that she’s truly sorry.
I forgive her because I love her and because of the good behavior of her parents towards me.
To cut the long story short, I have to travel outside Nigeria about one year and 8month ago to further my studies and things was really going on well between us both before I left, I always try to creat time for her out of my busy academic schedule and I still send her money according to my pocket.
When I traveled down to Nigeria to celebrate Christmas with family&friends I ask her if she has ever cheated on me when I was away. She started lying till I have to force her to talk and give her the only bible to swear but she could not do that , she was scared so she told me that she has cheated on me twice, she said the first one was when she visited her friend in Ibadan for her sister wedding and a friend of her came in without her knowledge, that she was drunk and they have sex.
She said the second one happened when she went for a job interview in Edo. according to her she said when the the interview was over that she could not go back to Lagos so her male friend log her in an hotel which both of them sleep till morning but nothing happened between them! I don’t believe a man and woman would sleep in an hotel room till morning and nothing happened! I’m a street wise and well oriented so such story is not a welcome story to me .
I’m a Nigerian I study and live in the Netherlands.
Please my dear friends kindly advise me on what to do, she has been begging me with her mom who is asking me to forgive her and that such would never happen again
Matured advice please! That I will appreciate Bro, forget her. She and her mom are only interested in the security your future offers them. |
| Re: I Caught My Fiancée Cheating by BENEAMATA: 12:53am On May 19, 2019 |
spiritedtete:
Forget all the "have you been faithful questions". You need a lady who is Discipline. Move on please... Otherwise you will regret.
--Do not marry her because her parents loves you and you respect them.
--Do not marry her because you want to prove her nay Sayers wrong or your nay Sayers too
--Do not marry her because you feel inside... That (a cheat) is not who she really is.
-- Do not marry her because you believe she will change or you will change her.
Marry her because you can take all her flaws... That when anything happens tomorrow... You will only cry inside.. and not be stunned.
By the way.... Be ready for DNA test after every births.
COLD . BITTER . TRUTH ! |
| Re: I Caught My Fiancée Cheating by abbey621(m): 12:58am On May 19, 2019 |
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| Re: I Caught My Fiancée Cheating by BENEAMATA: 1:00am On May 19, 2019 |
Macgreat:
Continue the relationship at your own risk.
YOU'LL KNOW THEY ARE SHAMELESS FOR HER MOTHER TO BE BEGGING YOU AFTER KNOWING WHAT HER DAUGHTER DID.
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| Re: I Caught My Fiancée Cheating by jimcaddy(m): 1:01am On May 19, 2019 |
It's not even her cheating that is the issue, but it seems like she is fragile and vulnerable. Any moment she has with a male friend, she will let her guard down and cheat. You too send for her to come join you or marry her quickly. Cuz now her excuse is that she doesn't know if you are serious about her or not. Make a move. |
| Re: I Caught My Fiancée Cheating by YungMillionaire: 1:02am On May 19, 2019 |
women are hoes - if you understand that then you can live with peace of mind. |
| Re: I Caught My Fiancée Cheating by Omihanifa: 1:03am On May 19, 2019 |
Legolast:
Abeg no vex o, I have been seeing "Okafor's law" on NL but I don't know the meaning. What does it mean? Àbí can you state the law?
Thanks Okafor's law states that once a man has had a woman, he can have her again at any time, 1 Like |
| Re: I Caught My Fiancée Cheating by Absoj(m): 1:04am On May 19, 2019 |
Snoobor:
Bossman, swear with holy bible 1st that all thru ur stay in the Netherlands u didn't cheat on her too. Don't be greedy bro. She's a good girl. Pls grab her and don't go far away again without her!  good girl? Bros. In my own opinion, she is not. A good girl will not condescend to that level of breaking trust. |
| Re: I Caught My Fiancée Cheating by Omihanifa: 1:05am On May 19, 2019 |
AbooNasir:
abeeg,na beeg I dey beeg.....Abeeg state the okafors law for pple like me wey no know am!! Okafor's law states that once a man has had a woman, he can have her again at any time, |
| Re: I Caught My Fiancée Cheating by Omihanifa: 1:08am On May 19, 2019 |
Gisborne6:
 dis 1 swt me, could you state dis law 4 me pls i 4got it Okafor's law states that once a man has had a woman, he can have her again at any time |
| Re: I Caught My Fiancée Cheating by Admols(m): 1:16am On May 19, 2019 |
annford:
My brother, from what you've written, I could easily deduce that you want to marry her. Can you marry someone who cheated on you in the past? Can you stay married and never have to worry about being cheated in again by your wife? Can you stay married to her without ever having to remind her of her dirty past? Would you go in with the relationship just because her mom is begging or because you still love her? The above questions are questions you should ask yourself and answer as well. Relationships are not for the weak and you need to be ready for whatever results you might get. Secondly, I've spent 5days with a woman In a Hotel in Uyo, Akwa Ibom State and nothing happened between us! About her spending the night in a hotel with another again and nothing happened, she might just be saying the truth. Don't be in a relationship with someone out of pity or reward for what ever reason but because you love the person and want to get your life improved and equally improve the other party. You seem to even be in the relationship because of her parents and not because you love her. Find out what you love about her and if that drives you, stay but if negative, then take your leave. Don't force it. May God bless you and increase your knowledge and wisdom. 1 Like |
| Re: I Caught My Fiancée Cheating by Ftheophilous(m): 1:24am On May 19, 2019 |
Good friend. What advice do you want from us na.
You should be the one advising yourself. Can you
marry someone that cheated on you while in a relationship together? After you have asked yourself, then answer the question. You alone know what you want. Abi do you want us to be the one to tell you that once a woman cheats on her partner, she's 99.9℅ liable to do such again at any given instance, with of course a very solid, ground breaking backed up excuse? |
| Re: I Caught My Fiancée Cheating by Nobody: 1:28am On May 19, 2019 |
timmybabyface:
Dear friends
Greetings to you and please pardon my manners if my ways of writing isn’t that perfect!
I met my Gf about 3years ago after my youth service in Nigeria l! she was in law school at that time and things was going on well till I finally found out that she has cheated on me when she traveled back to continue her law school in Abuja, she told me that she thought I wasn’t too serious at that time and that she’s truly sorry.
I forgive her because I love her and because of the good behavior of her parents towards me.
To cut the long story short, I have to travel outside Nigeria about one year and 8month ago to further my studies and things was really going on well between us both before I left, I always try to creat time for her out of my busy academic schedule and I still send her money according to my pocket.
When I traveled down to Nigeria to celebrate Christmas with family&friends I ask her if she has ever cheated on me when I was away. She started lying till I have to force her to talk and give her the only bible to swear but she could not do that , she was scared so she told me that she has cheated on me twice, she said the first one was when she visited her friend in Ibadan for her sister wedding and a friend of her came in without her knowledge, that she was drunk and they have sex.
She said the second one happened when she went for a job interview in Edo. according to her she said when the the interview was over that she could not go back to Lagos so her male friend log her in an hotel which both of them sleep till morning but nothing happened between them! I don’t believe a man and woman would sleep in an hotel room till morning and nothing happened! I’m a street wise and well oriented so such story is not a welcome story to me .
I’m a Nigerian I study and live in the Netherlands.
Please my dear friends kindly advise me on what to do, she has been begging me with her mom who is asking me to forgive her and that such would never happen again
Matured advice please! That I will appreciate Women wrapper, I assure you that woman will definitely cheat again. it's up to you to keep forgiving her while other guys service her. if you still think am lying, forgive her & travel for just one month then come back. SHE WILL STILL CHEAT AGAIN 2 Likes |
| Re: I Caught My Fiancée Cheating by kaywhy09(m): 1:37am On May 19, 2019 |
I've seen many people condemning cheating ladies yet they've cheated with married, engaged, single and every other status you can think of. Yet, they'll never admit their partner is cheating on them. What a world!
Bro, if the reasons you want her isn't stronger than the atrocity she committed, swipe left and move on. Otherwise, do the needful. |
| Re: I Caught My Fiancée Cheating by MarianaTrench: 2:00am On May 19, 2019 |
timmybabyface:
Dear friends
Greetings to you and please pardon my manners if my ways of writing isn’t that perfect!
I met my Gf about 3years ago after my youth service in Nigeria l! she was in law school at that time and things was going on well till I finally found out that she has cheated on me when she traveled back to continue her law school in Abuja, she told me that she thought I wasn’t too serious at that time and that she’s truly sorry.
I forgive her because I love her and because of the good behavior of her parents towards me.
To cut the long story short, I have to travel outside Nigeria about one year and 8month ago to further my studies and things was really going on well between us both before I left, I always try to creat time for her out of my busy academic schedule and I still send her money according to my pocket.
When I traveled down to Nigeria to celebrate Christmas with family&friends I ask her if she has ever cheated on me when I was away. She started lying till I have to force her to talk and give her the only bible to swear but she could not do that , she was scared so she told me that she has cheated on me twice, she said the first one was when she visited her friend in Ibadan for her sister wedding and a friend of her came in without her knowledge, that she was drunk and they have sex.
She said the second one happened when she went for a job interview in Edo. according to her she said when the the interview was over that she could not go back to Lagos so her male friend log her in an hotel which both of them sleep till morning but nothing happened between them! I don’t believe a man and woman would sleep in an hotel room till morning and nothing happened! I’m a street wise and well oriented so such story is not a welcome story to me .
I’m a Nigerian I study and live in the Netherlands.
Please my dear friends kindly advise me on what to do, she has been begging me with her mom who is asking me to forgive her and that such would never happen again
Matured advice please! That I will appreciate Did you cheat on her while you were away? If you did then forgive her but if you did not then end your relationship with her |
| Re: I Caught My Fiancée Cheating by Ojady(m): 2:07am On May 19, 2019 |
The Yorubas would say " the eyes that functioned and served you well into your grey hairs, never failed you as a kid". You 're not even married yet, she cant keep her pants on. You say her folks were good to you, are you marrying her folks, or are they the ones who will be living with you? Look here, my friend, her folks are HER FOLKS, they will never be on your side, they conceal the fact their daughter is no good and use deception to hand her off to you - MY BROTHER DO NOT BE FOOLED. They do not care about you, they only care about your future that is bright - Her family are wicked and 're demons in human appearance aiming to dim your future and bring you down. My dear, forget her, avoid her with style and vamoose without looking back. I understand you may have been sleeping with her too, so please desist from doing so... if you decide to follow through, and marry her, you will be faced with calamities:
1. You will find out more and more of her sexcapades and feel like you married a leftover and will have your head bowed and will be miserable all your life.
2. She will compare you to all the dicks she has ever had
2. She will cheat on you again and again as reward for being too stupid to marry her in the first place, knowing fully well, that that, was her play from day one
3. Her folks will never take sides with you over her, especially when she cooks up all sorts of lies against you; and...
4. There begins a cycle of infidelity, polygamy and heartache
LASTLY BUT MOST IMPORTANTLY:
5. Your children will pay for something they did not buy - everyone we sleep with leave an imprint of their DNA with us, no matter how much we wash or abstain, this is why today, some kids just manifest a trait or behaviour never ever seen or heard of in the bloodline - a typical result of this is autism: when these strange dna mixes with one's own, the confusion will cause a dissonance manifest in what science calls Autism and no cure or scientific endeavour has been able to explain how...
My brother, pls, biko! a simple walk away can save destinies. 1 Like |
