Will you be able to cope with her psychologically, you can't compare ur maturity with hers, so expect some childish behavior

lavenjcrown:
you are a big idiot for writing up this crap. where were you when Ned and Reginal Daniel news is trending.

D0lt
Go and marry your sister or daughter to your ancestors nau
OSU

HitSong:

Answer the question dolt.
Will you allow your daughter to start having a sexual relationship at 18?
Will you allow her visit a 30 years old guy knowing fully well that he's having sex with her?
Ọdẹ

better to marry early than doing rubbish around, how many 18yrs old virgin lady will u see around. Love and understanding is d most important thing

18 and ur 30? Bro ur wicked! Go and look for ur generation and marry.

I don't even support a guy getting married to a lady that's not up to 26yrs. 18year old is an adult but can she handle challenges? not to talk of one that hasnt seen the four walls of university. Nna, think well oo, ife nile aburo love ooooo

Quite unfortunate, if ur baptismal name is Ned nwoko, I would have advice you to Carry on, but for the fact you are not, pls economics thought us about opportunity cost, think about opportunity coat.good luck.

menvocate:
Get a lawyer... Sign a contract to marry her and educate her. If she breaches, she will be compelled to pay no matter the years it takes her.

If you breach your side of sending her to school, you should also pay certain amounts....

Hmn more sense to you

HitSong:

Lol
Liar!
You're 30 or 31 already and that girl is just 18.
Will you be so much in LUST with her if the girl has had sex with at least 3 people before in the past!?
Age doesn't, that's why my cousin gave birth to triplet at the age of 3
If you've had sex with that girl or you did later and you eventually dump her, God will punish you.
Oniranu

You are jealous, simple. No man wants to marry old cargo.

If she is beautiful, please don't send her to school. If you decide to do otherwise, remember that is a bad or unprofitable business. She will Bleep you up while in school. I don't want to hear any songs of lamentations from you about her in future. But you can make her your wife. People must be selfish.

Rita30:
Is she not too young at 18?
Will you like marriage for your daughter at 18?

18 is not too young woman...

aanuoluwami14:


God bless you ooo

Another old cargo

Rita30:
Is she not too young at 18?
Will you like marriage for your daughter at 18?

thats for her parent and her to decide



This is what op gets for washing linen with strangers not families(primary stakeholders).. Negative criticism

HitSong:

30 years old chasing after 18 years old child...
You're a pervert! Just like NED
What about all those girls of your age group that you fuckéd back then, who are you leaving them for to marry now?
Now you've seen a young beautiful virgin that you want to devour abi?
Will you give out your daughter at 18?
Karma will play out on the females in your life too...
Ẹ̀gbọ́n leave that small girl alone and Goan hustle.

Well, personally I’ll like to senior my wife to be with a minimum of 10 years. 30 - 18 = 12 is perfect for me it all depends on the size and maturity of the girl �

GT07115:
Hi peeps, I am in love with an 18 years old lady who is from a very poor background as mine, I will be 30 this year and I intend settling down maritally this year or early next year, I would have loved her to gain admission before doing anything marriage with her.

I have discussed going back to school with her and getting a trade along, by her consent to it I have gave her money to enroll for jamb and NECO exam which will make her secure admission this year, the jamb result is out and OK pending NECO exam which will start next week.

My problem is the parent are financially handicapped to contribute a dime to her education and we are not married that means the whole stuff is on my head, I would have loved to marry this year if she was already in school or a graduate, I am the first son with responsibility of putting my younger ones through school. I feel I will be shouldering a lot of responsibility, the relationship is just one way sided and the parents don't give a breathing space whenever she spends some hours late in my house, like reminding me we are not married, the whole thing is that I love her, she is a lady I can talk to, and very young and beautiful.

and u claim u love her kwa?if u love her u will do anything for her ooo

Didn't Omotola marry at 18?

GT07115:
Hi peeps, I am in love with an 18 years old lady who is from a very poor background as mine, I will be 30 this year and I intend settling down maritally this year or early next year, I would have loved her to gain admission before doing anything marriage with her.

I have discussed going back to school with her and getting a trade along, by her consent to it I have gave her money to enroll for jamb and NECO exam which will make her secure admission this year, the jamb result is out and OK pending NECO exam which will start next week.

My problem is the parent are financially handicapped to contribute a dime to her education and we are not married that means the whole stuff is on my head, I would have loved to marry this year if she was already in school or a graduate, I am the first son with responsibility of putting my younger ones through school. I feel I will be shouldering a lot of responsibility, the relationship is just one way sided and the parents don't give a breathing space whenever she spends some hours late in my house, like reminding me we are not married, the whole thing is that I love her, she is a lady I can talk to, and very young and beautiful.

Na we send you go there.....you don dey complain.....Shai you no get mind......I perceive fear inside you....?

spongeisback:
So your 18 years old girlfriend won't get older You think because she's "submissive and listens" she would always be like that Hahaha haha hahaha. If you like don't leave that little girl to grow and mature, marry her and smell your anus when she realizes what you took from her.

Another old cargo. They hate seeing younger girls get married out of the fear that if the pattern is followed by other men their own chance getting married becomes very slim.

GT07115:
Hi peeps, I am in love with an 18 years old lady who is from a very poor background as mine, I will be 30 this year and I intend settling down maritally this year or early next year, I would have loved her to gain admission before doing anything marriage with her.

I have discussed going back to school with her and getting a trade along, by her consent to it I have gave her money to enroll for jamb and NECO exam which will make her secure admission this year, the jamb result is out and OK pending NECO exam which will start next week.

My problem is the parent are financially handicapped to contribute a dime to her education and we are not married that means the whole stuff is on my head, I would have loved to marry this year if she was already in school or a graduate, I am the first son with responsibility of putting my younger ones through school. I feel I will be shouldering a lot of responsibility, the relationship is just one way sided and the parents don't give a breathing space whenever she spends some hours late in my house, like reminding me we are not married, the whole thing is that I love her, she is a lady I can talk to, and very young and beautiful.

Triple your hustle! Simple

Rita30:
Is she not too young at 18?
Will you like marriage for your daughter at 18?

According to the Law, at 18, she's a full-fledged adult and can be legally married.

Bellotelli:

18 is not too young woman...

You don't have to persuade anybody. It is the old single 'girls' that engage in endless wailing about age when they see young girls getting married. They are suffering from jealousy and lack of marital opportunities.

Deepfeel:
Op look for a matured lady in her late twenties that will contribute to your life progress and marry ' forget this love thing you are talking about that girl is still a blind teenager she will leave you for a richer guy once she gets the exposure she needs

Matured lady of late twenties will be very stubborn and set in her ways, op doesn't want that

What he 'loves' in that girl is her pliability due to her lack of exposure (she is yet to see life). He doesn't know that her true personality will blossom as she grows older and gets exposed to influences other than him, and he might not be able to handle her by then, depending on his financial circumstances.

HitSong:

30 years old chasing after 18 years old child...
You're a pervert! Just like NED
What about all those girls of your age group that you fuckéd back then, who are you leaving them for to marry now?
Now you've seen a young beautiful virgin that you want to devour abi?
Will you give out your daughter at 18?
Karma will play out on the females in your life too...
Ẹ̀gbọ́n leave that small girl alone and Goan hustle.

Pervert? Don't use harsh words to judge him, especially when you're the ignorant one here. 18yrs is the legal benchmark age to be an adult. 18yrs is permitted to get married. You can argue the age-margins, which in itself is relative

SageMK:


Tread carefully. A lot of guys have taken this path only to see it backfire. I am not against you sponsoring her bills but don't be surprise to see her leave for another guy.

So I suggest you marry her first, establish a trade for her and then put her through school. But if you can't do this then let her go. Don't tie yourself down to a burden.



You shouldn't even be complaining about this. You don't get to earn their trust simply because you are financially stable. Sex predators come in different from. Her parent shouldn't even allow her to visit you in the first place.

Very matured response

Polchiz:

Another old cargo. They hate seeing younger girls get married out of the fear that if the pattern is followed by other men their own chance getting married becomes very slim.

How did you read my mind? We need to hang out. My guy, the old cargoes are suffering from jealousy and lack of marital opportunities. So they will always wail about age when they see very young girls getting married.

GT07115:
Hi peeps, I am in love with an 18 years old lady who is from a very poor background as mine, I will be 30 this year and I intend settling down maritally this year or early next year, I would have loved her to gain admission before doing anything marriage with her.

I have discussed going back to school with her and getting a trade along, by her consent to it I have gave her money to enroll for jamb and NECO exam which will make her secure admission this year, the jamb result is out and OK pending NECO exam which will start next week.

My problem is the parent are financially handicapped to contribute a dime to her education and we are not married that means the whole stuff is on my head, I would have loved to marry this year if she was already in school or a graduate, I am the first son with responsibility of putting my younger ones through school. I feel I will be shouldering a lot of responsibility, the relationship is just one way sided and the parents don't give a breathing space whenever she spends some hours late in my house, like reminding me we are not married, the whole thing is that I love her, she is a lady I can talk to, and very young and beautiful.

it's best to avoid what gives you doubts, fears and much contemplation.

The problem here is you. You aren't sure you can bear all the responsibilities BECAUSE YOU REALLY CAN'T. YOUR CONTEMPLATION IS THE EVIDENCE. so my brother no start watin you no fit finish.

Although If you really need the girl badly My advice is to get the girl to shoulder some of the responsibilities herself. Many undergraduates are hustling. Don't have to wait for their parents or fiance. If you foot all her bills, she's likely to become too comfortable and start cheating on you, but if she's busy doing things she's likely to have no time for such

Babamide:
Bros, marriage should be between two matured people. I'm pretty sure you are after the girl because she is still innocent and you feel you can control her. Educating someone does not give you the right to marry her. Let her be. Look for someone older with whom you can build together.

....and you came to the conclusion how?

GT07115:
Hi peeps, I am in love with an 18 years old lady who is from a very poor background as mine, I will be 30 this year and I intend settling down maritally this year or early next year, I would have loved her to gain admission before doing anything marriage with her.

I have discussed going back to school with her and getting a trade along, by her consent to it I have gave her money to enroll for jamb and NECO exam which will make her secure admission this year, the jamb result is out and OK pending NECO exam which will start next week.

My problem is the parent are financially handicapped to contribute a dime to her education and we are not married that means the whole stuff is on my head, I would have loved to marry this year if she was already in school or a graduate, I am the first son with responsibility of putting my younger ones through school. I feel I will be shouldering a lot of responsibility, the relationship is just one way sided and the parents don't give a breathing space whenever she spends some hours late in my house, like reminding me we are not married, the whole thing is that I love her, she is a lady I can talk to, and very young and beautiful.

I was in your shoes 2017, same thing, same story but i regretted it las las, after all my effort, the parent said they not doing again, from Completing her ND to starting HND from a private poly, to make school, las las na regret, but that God now am happily married n balling sef, so bro think well, no carry fine face o. My life was on hold for 6 months o. Think well,

LMAO

This thread has really riled a lot of the females. Even those that open threads and support prostitution feel a 30 year old man marrying a soon to be 19 year old is the greatest crime of century.

@op and other men, marry any lady you love as long as they are above 18. Most of the women whinging about the age difference are supporters of much more immoral lifestyles; visit the family section to see for yourselves. Don't take their words seriously.

Ahmed0336:
My Grand father once told me not to marry any lady out of pity.

TRUE TALK

ngwababe:
I don't even support a guy getting married to a lady that's not up to 26yrs. 18year old is an adult but can she handle challenges? not to talk of one that hasnt seen the four walls of university. Nna, think well oo, ife nile aburo love ooooo

STOP this your yeye lecture. The ability to handle challenges is not naturally conferred on you as you get older. It is all about experience.
A 25-year old girl may start crying and sucking just because her husband travelled and NEPA has come with their bill while an 18-year old girl with proper upbringing and training can handle the challenge.
Additionally, University does not teach you marriage. Therefore, a PhD will not guarantee successful marriage. You will only be blowing big grammar and arguing with your husband on everything.

HitSong:

30 years old chasing after 18 years old child...
You're a pervert! Just like NED
What about all those girls of your age group that you fuckéd back then, who are you leaving them for to marry now?
Now you've seen a young beautiful virgin that you want to devour abi?
Will you give out your daughter at 18?
Karma will play out on the females in your life too...
Ẹ̀gbọ́n leave that small girl alone and Goan hustle.

Why are u so pained?? Did Ned snatch Regina from u ni?
She is of legal age na...omotola jolade ekeinde married her husband at 18 years...so pipe down will u

GidiWoodsMan:


Matured lady of late twenties will be very stubborn and set in her ways, op doesn't want that

What he 'loves' in that girl is her pliability due to her lack of exposure (she is yet to see life). He doesn't know that her true personality will blossom as she grows older and gets exposed to influences other than him, and he might not be able to handle her by then, depending on his financial circumstances.

Very correct bro exactly my point