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Re: I Love Her But She Is An Undergraduate And Poor by Mcslize: 7:09pm On Jun 07, 2019 |
Biglittlelois: We are not talking about Old men of 60 years old. We are talking about young men of 30 to 40. If I am 40 years old, my wife should be 30 years, will you say that a young man of 40 years old is too old to marry a lady of 30 years old? Do you realize how mature 30 years old ladies look? That's the point I was trying to drive at. Let's take an instance, if perhaps RMD is not yet married , will you say that RMD can't comfortably marry a lady of 30years old? He still look young even at his age. If perhaps he is still unmarried, do you know how many ladies between the range of 25 to 35 will be clamoring to marry him? Women age faster than men that's the point. The ones that usually look younger than their age are the ones that are taking good care of their body, doing exercises and working out to keep their body fit and young. Some ladies, once they get married, they usually start neglecting their bodies, putting on extra weights and the rest. All that contributes to quick aging. How many ladies workout to maintain their figures so as to look good for their men? 1 Like |
Re: I Love Her But She Is An Undergraduate And Poor by Mcslize: 7:15pm On Jun 07, 2019 |
Snakebytee: There are no virgin ladies in Nigeria any more. Don't be deceived. All their eyes don tear finish. 2 Likes |
Re: I Love Her But She Is An Undergraduate And Poor by dnawah(m): 7:23pm On Jun 07, 2019 |
menvocate:simple and short.make una come see o Solomon don reincarnate o 1 Like |
Re: I Love Her But She Is An Undergraduate And Poor by ITbomb(m): 7:25pm On Jun 07, 2019 |
JoannaSedley: In case you didn't notice, 30 years old man is still a guy while 30 years old woman is an Aunty I'm 35, my wife is 25. If I were to marry my age mate or even a girl of 30, they will be calling her my senior sister if were to walk together. Not to talk of when I'm 45 and still agile and some mama will be answering my wife. No! 4 Likes |
Re: I Love Her But She Is An Undergraduate And Poor by Profkenny1(m): 7:56pm On Jun 07, 2019 |
HitSong: Young women are naturally attracted to older men. Women want a provider and a protector. Men are attracted to beauty and youthfulness. Youthfulness indicates fertility. This is NATURE and you can't fight it. 18 is not a kid. Most of our grandmoms got married very early, some at 18 or below. 6 Likes 1 Share |
Re: I Love Her But She Is An Undergraduate And Poor by Profkenny1(m): 7:59pm On Jun 07, 2019 |
HitSong: The girls we f.ucked back then were mostly f.ucking older guys in their late 20s and 30s! 2 Likes |
Re: I Love Her But She Is An Undergraduate And Poor by Skmoda360(m): 8:11pm On Jun 07, 2019 |
Holluwhakemmy:I definitely know you are from a broken home since you are uncultured bastard and you lack respect for your people to the extent that your father left when you are baby while won't you call another person father stupid......from the way you sound I can decipher you have daddy's issue and I won't troll you after this cuz I knew your pregnancy was from open field sex between your stray pop and your mum...oloshi!! sholo ro pe o mo ro so ni...omolasa ekeji aja 1 Like |
Re: I Love Her But She Is An Undergraduate And Poor by cococandy(f): 8:13pm On Jun 07, 2019 |
The nerve of you! You’re an old cargo who doesn’t want a fellow old cargo. Dumbass. I hope she spends all your money and has a baby for someone else. Control freak GT07115: 7 Likes |
Re: I Love Her But She Is An Undergraduate And Poor by immaculate1234(m): 8:15pm On Jun 07, 2019 |
menvocate: nice one cos she will definitely wake up one day and say I no do again very nice one 1 Like |
Re: I Love Her But She Is An Undergraduate And Poor by frozen70(f): 8:15pm On Jun 07, 2019 |
GT07115: Your eyes were widely opened and your ears are also open before you continued this relationship uptil this cross road You cannot eat your cake and have it in this relationship ❗ The issue of complaining that she is from a poor home like you, you are trying to hang your bag where your hand will reach to bring it down without standing on a stool that's why you continued Her parents doesn't allow her to stay long with you any time she visits and they keep reminding you that she is not married to you yet, they are right and very right. There are graduates and other ladies everywhere but you chose to marry her because you don't want and can not withstand the wahala of slay queen's The truth is that you want her kind of lady to stay with you because she has to be under your authority, yes that's it But there are some things you have not considered Bear in mind that you will solely sponsor her marriage both your side and her family side. Bear in mind that her siblings will look up to you as in law and you have to live up to expectations If I should advice you, Let her get her waec and neco exams first Marry her if you realy want to and establish a trade for her but bear at the back of your mind that she must go for higher instructions If you sponsor her education while still with her parents, don't come here and complain that she has followed another man While she is leaving with you as husband and wife, she can start having kids if the both of you wishes You want a wife that will be totally submissive to you and you have forgotten that its only ladies form such background that can give you that |
Re: I Love Her But She Is An Undergraduate And Poor by luminouz(m): 8:23pm On Jun 07, 2019 |
cococandy:Emotions, emotions... Tick..tock... 1 Like |
Re: I Love Her But She Is An Undergraduate And Poor by JoannaSedley(f): 8:23pm On Jun 07, 2019 |
ITbomb:You married someone you will control not because of the lousy archaic African excuses you put up there. The fact remains that Africans are known for child marriages, we are used to seeing younger wives in africa, it has erroneously became a norm, that's why a supposedly educated man will give this as an excuse for marrying a girl ten years younger than you. You, and as well as most men needed maids that will submit to your whims and caprices, so marrying your agemates often scares you shirtless because of the fear of being outsmarted by a co-intellectual. What happened to Obama and Michelle. Mark Zuckerberg and his wife, Bill and Hilary even our very own NOI and her husband and a whole lots of Nigerian intellectuals. They left an indelible impacts. Let's ask Trump how he is faring with his model....... Nauseating excuses. 2 Likes |
Re: I Love Her But She Is An Undergraduate And Poor by JoannaSedley(f): 8:26pm On Jun 07, 2019 |
Profkenny1:This guy is living in ancient world. Get your daughter hooked up at 12 then, that's my own grandmother's age at marriage. |
Re: I Love Her But She Is An Undergraduate And Poor by HitSong: 8:39pm On Jun 07, 2019 |
Fyi0:Thunder fire you there Ewu |
Re: I Love Her But She Is An Undergraduate And Poor by HitSong: 8:41pm On Jun 07, 2019 |
chiboy1116:5 |
Re: I Love Her But She Is An Undergraduate And Poor by HitSong: 8:43pm On Jun 07, 2019 |
mapet:Ignoramus Did he tell you he just started dating her? |
Re: I Love Her But She Is An Undergraduate And Poor by abbiboy: 8:43pm On Jun 07, 2019 |
GT07115:Oga u re only in love because u ave not tasted btw both legs...get busy with sometin n beside Wht do u want to discuss with a 19yrs old? |
Re: I Love Her But She Is An Undergraduate And Poor by mapet: 8:48pm On Jun 07, 2019 |
Babamide: Date a girl? Hell no Date a woman 12yrs younger? Why not. Is an 18yr old a girl or a woman? |
Re: I Love Her But She Is An Undergraduate And Poor by Nobody: 8:48pm On Jun 07, 2019 |
JoannaSedley: Like seriously the guy surprise me. In this 21st century.. Marriage those days was actually a way of elevating poverty. The region that still supports this in Nigeria, to be honest many things are swept under the carpet and the media are not allowed to disclose. We staying in these regions truely knows some men are perverts, cause she is innocent and family tends to be poor, they do come in the name of marriage. It's so heart breaking. 18yrs is not ripe for marriage that I keep saying, they are many childish altitude she will exhibit and trust me if u not patient u likely to kick her out and this happens everyday with underage marriages here in the North . .. In this days and times such reasoning is out of book.. But sadly most people still have the mentality. |
Re: I Love Her But She Is An Undergraduate And Poor by mapet: 8:49pm On Jun 07, 2019 |
HitSong: Run ong squat... You're not mature enough, neither are you intelligent |
Re: I Love Her But She Is An Undergraduate And Poor by mapet: 8:52pm On Jun 07, 2019 |
Babamide: Simple answer, he preference. Any problem with that? |
Re: I Love Her But She Is An Undergraduate And Poor by Nobody: 8:55pm On Jun 07, 2019 |
Mcslize:i do believe we guys should also live by example.what i mean is when a husband also takes care of himself by doin exercise and eating right d wife will follow suit naturally |
Re: I Love Her But She Is An Undergraduate And Poor by mapet: 8:57pm On Jun 07, 2019 |
Did I see "decipher"? � lonelygem: |
Re: I Love Her But She Is An Undergraduate And Poor by HitSong: 9:02pm On Jun 07, 2019 |
mapet:Lol Please stop skipping your medications before you run mad completely. |
Re: I Love Her But She Is An Undergraduate And Poor by LilMissFavvy(f): 9:08pm On Jun 07, 2019 |
Child abuse. Whatever happened to his age mates. |
Re: I Love Her But She Is An Undergraduate And Poor by KevinDein: 9:08pm On Jun 07, 2019 |
Today I learned... What rile up and get on the nerves of women the most; what they dread the most is older men marrying much younger women. Never seen this much gnashing of teeth. We learn everyday 1 Like |
Re: I Love Her But She Is An Undergraduate And Poor by LilMissFavvy(f): 9:16pm On Jun 07, 2019 |
You think a young girl of 18 will be able to shoulder the responsibilities of marriage, school, and a business? absolutely impossible. It can only work if he is very rich, capable of shouldering all financial responsibilities, and would only marry her to keep as a trophy wife. Times have changed, an 18yr old is still very dependent and imature in many aspects. Kendumazy: 1 Like |
Re: I Love Her But She Is An Undergraduate And Poor by LilMissFavvy(f): 9:25pm On Jun 07, 2019 |
In 20yrs time, you will be an old cargo to her, so you ain't fair at all. In 20yrs time you may not be able to meet up her sexual needs. You are selfish. GT07115: 2 Likes |
Re: I Love Her But She Is An Undergraduate And Poor by yawehoverall: 9:28pm On Jun 07, 2019 |
Kendumazy: Secure her with marriage, this is manipulative, if she can't truly love and be loyal, is it in trading, where her customers might be both sexes she would? Hmmmm smh. Why do people think marriage is the end road, when adultry is a common place these days. One of the pillars of marriage is trust, and if it isn't there love can't replace it. 3 Likes |
Re: I Love Her But She Is An Undergraduate And Poor by Esdb3: 9:33pm On Jun 07, 2019 |
GT07115: Avoid hurting yourself guy. You will send her to school, she will see a new life and she will follow another man. She will discover her value. RN, she is poor and her environment is not allowing her see how valuable she is. She will get to school and the way boys will come at her will make her reconsider you. |
Re: I Love Her But She Is An Undergraduate And Poor by Holluwhakemmy(f): 9:39pm On Jun 07, 2019 |
Skmoda360:it is a always a adelight to see well behaved children and their parents always given the credit. however it is a tragedy to see baldly behaved children and no matter what their parents cannot escape blame |
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