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QueenSekxy:
-God forbid bad thing.

-Mr man, sit down!!

kevin25:
yes a boy and a girl

HBB1:
Dated a woman who was earning 5 times what I earned.

She was the kindest, smartest person I know.

Though her sanguine nature sometimes got on my nerves-- as she 'talks a lot,' she has the kindest heart!

Only girl I know who washed my underpants... Wakes me up with food, and constantly sends food to me at work ( even when outside the country).

We were not on the same level, at all, she was smarter than me and way more charismatic!

How did we gel?
I allowed her be herself, I was not intimidated about her successes, and constantly asked her to improve herself.
She had never done well with controlling people as she has an adventurous spirit, so I never sought to do so.

Every sane human being despises control, but wants to be lead. Our cultural evils have a lot centred on control-- Parent, Husband, Pastor, Boss, Politician... All thinking they are the all-in-all.

I say to such people, ' calm the Bleep down!, You are just a human being'

I however don't support abuse and arrogance from a woman and vice versa, if my wife changes to something else, I will leave her, no time for rubbish.

My father controlled my mum and she never realised her true potential-- her charisma, charm and talents all died because my dad was afraid.

I was trained to wash dishes, do house chores and I do so till date.

My woman won't end up looking like a hag due to overwork.

This is not me defending feminism though, a man is the head, he leads but doesn't rule!

Iwanttoto1:
Na Yaounde Abi calabar camerunian border u deys dey post all this nonsense?

kevin25:
U have to read my write up first before trying to blame me did i tell you that am married? I cant take poo if any woman cant abide by my rules den dats the end so get it

kevin25:
My neigbor got married to a woman that is financially and academically ahead of him yes they started with love at initial stage she did everything possible to make sure the man suceed i mean everything she sacrify evrytn kudos to her, but the problem now is how the woman talks to the husband with no atom of respect she goes around telling people what she has done for the man to the extent her friends no longer see the man as anything .. The one that pains me was the day she told the man to go and dish out food for himself even in my presence, wen the man try to force her my dear come see insult from how she feed him to how she made him who he is,just because the man ask her to go and bring his food even dou the man is working now but stil the woman stil look down on him.. The worst she stil call the man by his name . The man is talking about bringing another woman that wil respect him as The man of the house.. This is a big lesson without money i dnt think you can control a nigerian woman .

sassysure:
So he can't go and dish out food?
I have never dished out food for my husband and he is not a small or hungry man. As a matter of fact even when I stopped working for sometime unless when we are eating together.
Once he finish eating, from the day one of our relationship, he will take his plate and wash, with every other thing he sees on the sink.
It has not reduced him from being a man and the man in the house that has my respect always.

Enough of all these gender rules. It has destroyed more than it builds.

Simple things like that are what endears your spouse to you but it seems like your friend is always trying to bring "I'm the man card" in his union like most of our men do.
The woman refused to dish out food, and she was forcing her?
If she usually dish out food, what made her not to do it at that time. Was she too tired or very angry over something?
Did he try to know what was her annoyance, rather he want to exert his right as the head by ordering her to do that. Somebody that houses and feed you?
Common, u guys are really very dumb sometimes. It takes so little to make women lay down everything they have for guys especially working ladies but pride will never allow you guys to see whats before u.

JustSomeDude:
Academics or schooling doesn't equate to education. Education on its own is something personal. You get indoctrinated in school and not educated. So know the difference.
I value education and not degrees. Degrees na nothing to me.

kevin25:
My neigbor got married to a woman that is financially and academically ahead of him yes they started with love at initial stage she did everything possible to make sure the man suceed i mean everything she sacrify evrytn kudos to her, but the problem now is how the woman talks to the husband with no atom of respect she goes around telling people what she has done for the man to the extent her friends no longer see the man as anything .. The one that pains me was the day she told the man to go and dish out food for himself even in my presence, wen the man try to force her my dear come see insult from how she feed him to how she made him who he is,just because the man ask her to go and bring his food even dou the man is working now but stil the woman stil look down on him.. The worst she stil call the man by his name . The man is talking about bringing another woman that wil respect him as The man of the house.. This is a big lesson without money i dnt think you can control a nigerian woman .

sassysure:
So he can't go and dish out food?
I have never dished out food for my husband and he is not a small or hungry man. As a matter of fact even when I stopped working for sometime unless when we are eating together.
Once he finish eating, from the day one of our relationship, he will take his plate and wash, with every other thing he sees on the sink.
It has not reduced him from being a man and the man in the house that has my respect always.

Enough of all these gender rules. It has destroyed more than it builds.

Simple things like that are what endears your spouse to you but it seems like your friend is always trying to bring "I'm the man card" in his union like most of our men do.
The woman refused to dish out food, and she was forcing her?
If she usually dish out food, what made her not to do it at that time. Was she too tired or very angry over something?
Did he try to know what was her annoyance, rather he want to exert his right as the head by ordering her to do that. Somebody that houses and feed you?
Common, u guys are really very dumb sometimes. It takes so little to make women lay down everything they have for guys especially working ladies but pride will never allow you guys to see whats before u.

sassysure:
So he can't go and dish out food?
I have never dished out food for my husband and he is not a small or hungry man. As a matter of fact even when I stopped working for sometime unless when we are eating together.
Once he finish eating, from the day one of our relationship, he will take his plate and wash, with every other thing he sees on the sink.
It has not reduced him from being a man and the man in the house that has my respect always.

Enough of all these gender rules. It has destroyed more than it builds.

Simple things like that are what endears your spouse to you but it seems like your friend is always trying to bring "I'm the man card" in his union like most of our men do.
The woman refused to dish out food, and she was forcing her?
If she usually dish out food, what made her not to do it at that time. Was she too tired or very angry over something?
Did he try to know what was her annoyance, rather he want to exert his right as the head by ordering her to do that. Somebody that houses and feed you?
Common, u guys are really very dumb sometimes. It takes so little to make women lay down everything they have for guys especially working ladies but pride will never allow you guys to see whats before u.

kevin25:
My neigbor got married to a woman that is financially and academically ahead of him yes they started with love at initial stage she did everything possible to make sure the man suceed i mean everything she sacrify evrytn kudos to her, but the problem now is how the woman talks to the husband with no atom of respect she goes around telling people what she has done for the man to the extent her friends no longer see the man as anything .. The one that pains me was the day she told the man to go and dish out food for himself even in my presence, wen the man try to force her my dear come see insult from how she feed him to how she made him who he is,just because the man ask her to go and bring his food even dou the man is working now but stil the woman stil look down on him.. The worst she stil call the man by his name . The man is talking about bringing another woman that wil respect him as The man of the house.. This is a big lesson without money i dnt think you can control a nigerian woman .

kevin25:
My neigbor got married to a woman that is financially and academically ahead of him yes they started with love at initial stage she did everything possible to make sure the man suceed i mean everything she sacrify evrytn kudos to her, but the problem now is how the woman talks to the husband with no atom of respect she goes around telling people what she has done for the man to the extent her friends no longer see the man as anything .. The one that pains me was the day she told the man to go and dish out food for himself even in my presence, wen the man try to force her my dear come see insult from how she feed him to how she made him who he is,just because the man ask her to go and bring his food even dou the man is working now but stil the woman stil look down on him.. The worst she stil call the man by his name . The man is talking about bringing another woman that wil respect him as The man of the house.. This is a big lesson without money i dnt think you can control a nigerian woman .

Theyoungmatron:
I didn't read where the man said dear dish my food Please where is it ? He must have exhibited the usual Nigerian men character and was shocked to the marrow by the reaction.
Action and reactions are always equal and opposite.
No woman will wander away at the sound of a pet name, she will snicker and behave anyhow but will still response somehow.

olaolaking:
God will bless you. My wife a graduate for UI with Master degree from lasu marries me. I only have OND.

Her parent were finally buoyant than mine because the dad was an ex staff of chevron.

5 years ago when we wanted to marry, the daddy collected only 60 naira as dowry. They are not Hungary at all. From jss 1 to ss3 she use to board planes to and fro - FEGOCAL TO LAGOS. Meanwhile me I did not even know how to enter airport sef until we marry and she booked a flight for us.

Apart from the normal quarrel, she had respected me all the time and never say any stupid things to me. She corrects my English at times but with love. She still cook my food with will even me use to complain sometimes to rest. She is gainfully employed and holding a managerial post at a company.


People just assume anything.

I have said it repeatedly, MARRY A GOOD GIRL. A good girl remains a good girl. A bad girl will only appear like a good girl if there are other things to benefit from you.

AHCB:
Bla bla bla. It's almost the same for men who marry women they're financially and educationally better than. They still brag and more often than not, talk to the woman anyhow. Some will even say 'all what I've done for you can your father do it for you?". While some will even use it as an excuse to cheat profusely. So don't make this a woman's thing alone.

Iwanttoto1:
That your husband na very stupit boy. Infacts, him be disgrace to human beans wey carry prick in btwn dier legs

Ugosample:
the one wey I see na im I talk.



Or you want me to lie on this forum?

I respect those women tho
they hustled like mad

tho it is now telling on their bodies

sassysure:
U can never be half of who he is. When u see his type out there, u will only wish but your retarded mindset will never allow u to grow.
slowpoke and dunce.
U write like a gateman.

franchasng:
Romantic love is not enough reason to marry anybody in 2019 and beyond, time have changed, things have changed, money is the petrol that fuel every aspect of human life now.

Guys, if u are not financially okay to a good extent, I will advice u, don't go into marriage. Anybody pushing you to get married should donate at least 5million free gift support to you.

Ladies, marrying without a job of your own or a viable business or handwork is an abomination today!

I don't care your reason, I don't care if your parents are poor or not, if your parents are poor, remove pride and go learn a skill or handwork. You have no excuse to be unemployed as a lady desiring to get married in 2019 and beyond. Work! Work! Find something to do no matter how small! Your pussy is no longer enough quality to get you married to quality men, wake up!


Stop giving birth to children without financial plans for their well being.

It is not a crime to stay single for life!

kevin25:
My neigbor got married to a woman that is financially and academically ahead of him yes they started with love at initial stage she did everything possible to make sure the man suceed i mean everything she sacrify evrytn kudos to her, but the problem now is how the woman talks to the husband with no atom of respect she goes around telling people what she has done for the man to the extent her friends no longer see the man as anything .. The one that pains me was the day she told the man to go and dish out food for himself even in my presence, wen the man try to force her my dear come see insult from how she feed him to how she made him who he is,just because the man ask her to go and bring his food even dou the man is working now but stil the woman stil look down on him.. The worst she stil call the man by his name . The man is talking about bringing another woman that wil respect him as The man of the house.. This is a big lesson without money i dnt think you can control a nigerian woman .

kevin25:
My neigbor got married to a woman that is financially and academically ahead of him yes they started with love at initial stage she did everything possible to make sure the man suceed i mean everything she sacrify evrytn kudos to her, but the problem now is how the woman talks to the husband with no atom of respect she goes around telling people what she has done for the man to the extent her friends no longer see the man as anything .. The one that pains me was the day she told the man to go and dish out food for himself even in my presence, wen the man try to force her my dear come see insult from how she feed him to how she made him who he is,just because the man ask her to go and bring his food even dou the man is working now but stil the woman stil look down on him.. The worst she stil call the man by his name . The man is talking about bringing another woman that wil respect him as The man of the house.. This is a big lesson without money i dnt think you can control a nigerian woman .

HBB1:
Dated a woman who was earning 5 times what I earned.

She was the kindest, smartest person I know.

Though her sanguine nature sometimes got on my nerves-- as she 'talks a lot,' she has the kindest heart!

Only girl I know who washed my underpants... Wakes me up with food, and constantly sends food to me at work ( even when outside the country).

We were not on the same level, at all, she was smarter than me and way more charismatic!

How did we gel?
I allowed her be herself, I was not intimidated about her successes, and constantly asked her to improve herself.
She had never done well with controlling people as she has an adventurous spirit, so I never sought to do so.

Every sane human being despises control, but wants to be lead. Our cultural evils have a lot centred on control-- Parent, Husband, Pastor, Boss, Politician... All thinking they are the all-in-all.

I say to such people, ' calm the Bleep down!, You are just a human being'

I however don't support abuse and arrogance from a woman and vice versa, if my wife changes to something else, I will leave her, no time for rubbish.

My father controlled my mum and she never realised her true potential-- her charisma, charm and talents all died because my dad was afraid.

I was trained to wash dishes, do house chores and I do so till date.

My woman won't end up looking like a hag due to overwork.

This is not me defending feminism though, a man is the head, he leads but doesn't rule!

kevin25:
For those saying there is nothing is wrong in a woman calling his husband by his name, my dear everytn is wrong kpatakpata if u dnt love d man call him papa watever dnt call a man that paid ur bride price by his name dat is lack of respect are they mate? Tradition forbid that

franchasng:
Romantic love is not enough reason to marry anybody in 2019 and beyond, time have changed, things have changed, money is the petrol that fuel every aspect of human life now.

Guys, if u are not financially okay to a good extent, I will advice u, don't go into marriage. Anybody pushing you to get married should donate at least 5million free gift support to you.

Ladies, marrying without a job of your own or a viable business or handwork is an abomination today!

I don't care your reason, I don't care if your parents are poor or not, if your parents are poor, remove pride and go learn a skill or handwork. You have no excuse to be unemployed as a lady desiring to get married in 2019 and beyond. Work! Work! Find something to do no matter how small! Your pussy is no longer enough quality to get you married to quality men, wake up!


Stop giving birth to children without financial plans for their well being.

It is not a crime to stay single for life!

kevin25:
For those saying there is nothing is wrong in a woman calling his husband by his name, my dear everytn is wrong kpatakpata if u dnt love d man call him papa watever dnt call a man that paid ur bride price by his name dat is lack of respect are they mate? Tradition forbid that

trapQ:
You have so much sense but most times you'd rather say absolute trash.

This is a very brilliant piece. Whenever I see such lovely comments from you I wonder if it's your other personality typing.

GRACEGLORY:
It's only a problem of both inferiority and superiority complex. Nothing is wrong with a woman being well schooled and bouyant than her husband. It doesn't change the standard of the home, except in a case like this, where both parties don't know their roles, and are ego murdered. All a man and a woman has belongs to both parties. Ignorance breeds headache.