That girl is a seductress. I repeat, that girl is a seductress! Resist the devil and 'she' will flee from you. Your marriage is too young to allow people to come live with you. I mean what exactly is your wifes cousin doing for you both? House chores? Baby sitting or what? Please, please and please. The best thing is for her to leave so you two can enjoy your young marriage. Your wife should know better than letting that girl come around. Before you sort things out, avoid her, if she offers to help you with anything, don't allow her. I perceive you to be a good person. Keep praying and stay strong. Good luck and happy married life.

"I tried to control myself". But you couldn't? Explain!

ibkayee:
Tell your wife to tell her to cover up whilst she’s in your house, if it’s that bad your wife should’ve noticed it too.

Sounds like given the opportunity, you would sleep with her sister though

His wife is not like my wife whose eyes are over sharp.She would have addressed the girl and even send her away.Bro.Don't touch her or you will regret it throut your life.Few minutes enjoyment has destroyed many lifes.There is nothing in her body that's not in yo wife. It will pain you when you latter discover but rather regrettably

ziegurf:

....na defuuuu noni

@OP; WHAT IS WRONG WITH YOU? WHY ARE YOU FINDING IT SO DIFFICULT TO TELL YOUR WIFE’S SISTER THAT YOU WOULD NOT TOLERATE HER DRESSING INDECENTLY IN THE HOUSE? ; AS I TYPE THIS; CALL YOUR SISTER IN LAW AND GIVE HER A WARNING NOT TO DRESS INDECENTLY IN YOUR HOUSE AND TELL HER THE NEXT TIME SHE DOES THAT SHE WOULD LEAVE YOUR HOUSE. DO IT AND LETS SEE IF SHE WOULDN’T CHANGE HER SILLY ANTICS. ABEG COME BACK COME UPDATE US HOW FAR; BELIEVE ME TELL AM AND SHE GO KNOW WHAT’S UP.

lawman88:
I really need help and strategies to handle this matter. My wife sister came three weeks ago to live with us. She is 22 yrs. My problems now is her dressing mode which my wife is not careful about.

This lady always wear see-through singlets and night gowns. She has big breasts and always displaying them. I don't know how I will tell my wife to talk her sister to cover herself. She may feel bad that I'm attracted to her sister.

During the sallah holiday, I was with her alone because my wife don't holiday in her place of work, I have to leave the house and stay in the accommodation given to me in my place of work.

This morning, I carried my undies to wash, she crossed me and told me to give it to her to wash, the towel she tied because she was going to bathroom before was removing and showing her full breasts and she never worry about that.

Our marriage is just one year and I never cheated on my wife and she trusted me but her sister is really giving me emotional trauma. Can you imagine, yester night, my wife went to a programme, I was with her. So I called her around 8 pm that we should pray and go to bed. This lady came with a see-through night gown with a push up bra that put all breasts outside. Even her pant color was visible. I tried to control myself....

Even this morning, she came for prayer with the same gown and my wife did not caution her.....
How can I handle this matter?

It's a trap please don't fall for it. it might be a set up from ur wife and her family to text ur faithfulness be careful

use your brain before you loose two things at a time.

Safitu:
See as you’ve described her breast, you have already analysed, drooled and daydreamed about your in-laws boobs, it’s better left for you to fulfil that fantasy since you do not have the leverage to control your stupid urge. I’m sure if anyone stays in your house, they’ll be able to see you’re clearly exaggerating, because I’m pretty sure your wife would’ve cautioned her. How can her sister be dressing like a stripper, and she’s staying mute? You are seeing things, your lust is making your brain hallucinate.

You are not staying with them, you didn't witness any of it. So, it is wrong for you to say that he is making things up, very wrong.

You can’t tell your wife what is going on because you are secretly loving the “show”, and you are waiting for the right chance to devour.

You might be right, still deciding what to do about the situation.

You are deceiving yourself, silly man.

No need for names calling

2dice01:
well done Mr sharp shooter

If she was your daughter will you say the same

How can his sister in-law be compared to his daughter ?

Bros,
You tempted already if not how can you have time to see the shape of her breast and even be graphical in your narration.

You marriage is few centimeters away from crash.

Be bold,you are the head of the family,send her away and keep the reasons to yourself and if your wife is not happy about your decision tell her the reason

oloriLFC:
I am a woman and I shake my head at some ladies' comments i've read so far. Anyway, the wife should continue turning a blind eye to d situation, no problem. Tomorrow we'll see another story "help! my husband is sleeping with my sister" maybe then, eyes go clear. I hate nonsense!

Thank God you've chosen to go the right path, some of the comments made especially by some ladies are so disheartening, it's better nothing was said in some of those comments.
PARTICIPANTS AND MEMBERS on NAIRALAND should please grow up once and for ALL beginning from now.

Davash222:
Hmmmm.

Obviously, your wife knows the game she's playing. Your wife wants you to fucck her sister . She prefers you fucck her sister than fuccking outside. It's up to you to decide if you want to be fuccking two sisters.

There are some temptations that are meant only for Jesus and Satan.

Oboy.....na new things I dey see for nairaland every day.... See the last sentence oooooo

liberalchick:
I find it very hard to believe that a married woman will be comfortable with another young woman parading in front of her husband in see through clothing. I suspect that’s why you don’t want to tell your wife, you’re seeing what’s not there because of your obvious attraction to her.

Your marriage is just a year old you are supposed to be in the honey moon phase. Face your front, learn some self control and get a grip on your hormones.

aunty, u re not a man o. We men we know what we really passing thru o. Sometimes it can be so frustrating I mean.

invite ur brother into ur house and she will start wearing suit

lawman88:


This lady always wear see-through singlets and night gowns. She has big breasts and always displaying them. I don't know how I will tell my wife to talk her sister to cover herself. She may feel bad that I'm attracted to her sister.

This morning, I carried my undies to wash, she crossed me and told me to give it to her to wash, the towel she tied because she was going to bathroom before was removing and showing her full breasts and she never worry about that.

... This lady came with a see-through night gown with a push up bra that put all breasts outside. Even her pant color was visible. I tried to control myself....

My guy, u no need help..u need encouragement! Cos from ur graphic descriptions, u obviously pay very close attention to details! Secondly, u don't appear to be d "Man" of d house, cos if u were, u'd take a firm stand resolve d distraction in a minute but u also enjoy d distraction & probably seeking an excuse to fall. Dat make u less of a man in ur own house. Don't try to make it any body's biz (cos u cudnt even make it ur wife's), just go ahead & do what is actually on ur mind...it's ur pain or gain...dat is, if u fall or be a man

ibkayee:
Tell your wife to tell her to cover up whilst she’s in your house, if it’s that bad your wife should’ve noticed it too.

Sounds like given the opportunity, you would sleep with her sister though

kai....if that man handle that girl eeeeeh... The wife should better act quick

You gan get wahala oh...

Someone is dressing half unclad in your own house and you're legally married.

Baba do like a gentle man first, talk to your wife who is showing little or no concern about this issue. If any change isn't effected biko seriously, audaciously and in gutsy warn that temptation in your house. If she keeps doing this things.

Man, I don't even trust you like that sef, send her out as soon as you see her the following week. If your wife na beg for her then come to a conclusion that it's a plot by the both of them

c'est clear?

GraGra247:

Abeg Buhari should give you family life award quick quick.

Lol

delishpot:


Abegi, tell your wife that you do not want to see her sis dressed like a hooker in your presence. What is there to fear? The home is yours too and you have a right to be comfortable.

Exactly.

Man this your story weak me. What about oga wife for here?? As the senior in the company I de close to boss while others follow me. So this lady say make I go buy groundnut and as I de come back. I don enter compound going to backyard to deliver the groundnut omoh see as oga wife open yansh like turkey as she de fetch water for tap and she's bending down. Guys you need see speed wey I de reverse like say I saw evil spirit. Since de if I come MD place I de check well before moving around to avoid seeing something bigger than me.

Fountainofyouth:
I think op is exaggerating, he is lusting over her and imagining things, the wife can't see such and not caution the sister right in your presence.

I have seen these kind of thing the op spoke about happen in many homes and I marvel.

Women are apt to always deliberately choose to dress very carelessly and quickly label a man that complains a pervert.

Oyindidi:
Take your cheating eyes off that girl

I have seen these kind of thing the op spoke about happen in many homes and I marvel.

Women are apt to always deliberately choose to dress very carelessly and quickly label a man that complains a pervert.

Safitu:
It’s not that he can’t tell his wife, it’s that he is secretly enjoying the show and he doesn’t want it to stop. Let’s not be silly here.

I have seen these kind of thing the op spoke about happen in many homes and I marvel.

Women are apt to always deliberately choose to dress very carelessly and quickly label a man that complains a pervert.

Please post that her big breast so I can Google the size

Thunder fire you! Instead of you to contribute positively to the post, you're saying trash. Fool!

obiekunie2:
see mumu!


them dey offer you paradise on a platter of gold you dey reject am!


some men sha!




bros abeg send me her number shaperly let me help you tell her to cover herself!

na beg i dey beg!

You spoke well bro unlike some idiots on here.

Valleys:
It's obvious, your wife is not attractive. Maybe shapeless, I should say. Tell your wife now.


Yes I am not married. Tell me what can make you lust after your sister-in-law. It's either you never liked your wife or she has lost that thing that made you like her. That's why it's good to use character and not beauty to marry a wife.

lawman88:


Thanks. I have sat her and my wife down this morning and talk to lady concerning the dressing. My wife also said she was highly uncomfortable with her dressing but decided to keep quiet till one day she will send her out. The lady said she don't have other home wears. So my wife will get her some clothes later after church. Thanks

Good one, at least the WAILERS can finally be laid to rest. YOUNG MAN; Enjoy your life, your wife and your marriage. LIFE IS GOOD

I won't advise you to chase her away without giving her warnings. You should come out open by telling her or your wife to speak to her about her mode of dressing. Of she doesn't adjust, then you can take a decision you like.

lawman88:


That is what I'm thinking too. Thanks

Davash222:
Hmmmm.

Obviously, your wife knows the game she's playing. Your wife wants you to fucck her sister . She prefers you fucck her sister than fuccking outside. It's up to you to decide if you want to be fuccking two sisters.

There are some temptations that are meant only for Jesus and Satan.

WHO IS YOU? CHAI