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Deepfeel:

Godoverevery: Baba I hardly even bleep her..... just loved her naturally ...... not dat am very rich but I could still afford to help someone I intend to marry with some money to get something doing but see wat it turned out to be....dat why I get pissed Wen ladies say some guys are stingy......after D's Will i ever want to help any other dat come my way and not be stingy.

Hmm guy you try sha but next time when u are looking for a wife go for the ones with potentials the one that will help u build the one that will not only receive but give also above all a sincere and honest one, look within not just the physical beautiful innocent appearance o, am sad that it took u too long to realize this particular girl is not just the one she's fake

Godoverevery:
I be black maya abi Baba....... anyway you won't understand ...

Rosay15:
Op, forget about the money and move on. She has already show you that she’s not the type of girl you can settle down with and moreover the lady is is not serious.
I hope you’ve learned a lesson and in your next relationship you will try open your eye, mind and brain. Peace

PrimadonnaO:
Don't let the comments of these Nairalanders push you to do what you wouldn't do on a normal day. Kindly ignore all the bashing and all the ones saying you're a mumu. They are forming hard guys...most of them are highly broke, and the others most likely even do way more than you have done for their own girlfriends. I kid you not.

But let me give you my sincere advise. First of all, you alone know why you gave her an additional 50k after the first 100k went unaccounted for. But I'm not in the relationship with you. There might have been genuine reasons. Reasons I can't imagine. You weren't wrong for celebrating her birthday either. But somehow, what I deduce from this is that you seem to have been putting too much pressure on her with regards to her putting back the capital in your account. She felt boxed into a hole. Business isn't that simple. It was because you kept mounting pressure on her that the situation went awry!

But very importantly, I hope you've realised that she doesn't have the head for business... and she's not resourceful. Because trust me, in as much as most people don't hit the ground running on a new business, 150k put together should have been enough to show something at least. Is it not slippers you said she wanted to sell? Those aren't expensive.

150k is a lot... and small at the same time. So considering arresting a woman you call a fianceé over 150k is just very disappointing. How could you think that? And you've brought her low before your friends...to the extent that they are the ones agitating that you arrest a woman you call fianceé. That's crazy man. You're very wrong on that.

Summarise and make your deductions from this. Good luck.

Deepfeel:
Hmm guy you try sha but next time when u are looking for a wife go for the ones with potentials, the one that will help u build the one that will not only receive but give also above all a sincere and honest one, look within not just the physical beautiful innocent appearance o, am sad that it took u too long to realize this particular girl is not just the one she's fake

zed7:
Move on man. It's not worth the stress. It's getting to the stage now where everyone should start dating people within their social and economic bracket. We need to start staying away from leeches.

Oyindidi:
Get your silly self off my mention

Godoverevery:

blissgregory: :
Pls let go...in ur next relationship,use ur head n nt ur heart.

Do you no what you are saying is i should not help d lady in my next relationship...let now assume you d person I dated next ....but during the relationship you needed my help financially but I never helped ...how will you feel??
Because using my head like you meant is never helping !!!

Godoverevery:
Good afternoon everyone ........

I posted a thread in may about my fiancée I helped with 100k to start a business and she couldn't produce the capital saying she lend her dad... just want give an update of things

I took majority of the people advise here and celebrate her birthday ....got her cake,wrist watch and celebrated it with my friends and hers at a lounge(paid all the bills).

So the following week I gave in to her pleading and sent her another 50k(she hasn't produce the previous 100k capital but still promised to produce it with time) to get new set of slippers to sell .....and the agreement was she will be sending the money to one of my accounts as she is selling and the capital will be there to reinvest.

This new week I asked why I haven't seen any money in the account.....she said she have sold but she wants some people to balance her to complete 20k and by Friday she will make d deposit.

On Friday I didn't see anything....asked her why didn't she send the money (dat was after bank closing hour)....she was like she wasn't feeling too well dat she told her friend to do the transfer but is not going and she has given her the cash ...... around past 9pm dat Friday she called me if I have seen the alert I said no......the next day she said the transfer wasn't going dat her friend tried it but it was failing so I felt pissed and told her straight she was lying (arguement broke out).

So I told her if she was telling the truth and have the cash with her I will come pick d cash myself today but to my surprise she has blocked me on whatapp and bar my number D's noon.

My friends here want us to go over to her place ..... cause a scene and get her arrested but I don't want to embarrass her parents or embarrass myself.
They are all on my neck rite now like dey ginger badly

...... honestly I don't no what to do.
Just want to know if the right thing is getting heor arrested or just let go and move on.

dirtycoin:
The correct spelling is 'fiancee'

alphaNomega:
From what I've read about the guy he does not take advice.

He will call police to lock her up and will still be the one to pay for her bail after spending money to open case, fuel for motor etc etc

Don't bother advising the guy. Maga no dey hear word.

Godoverevery:
lol......wish D's place is only meant for matured men and women....I mean people who aiin't still under there parent .....
people who haven't started life .....dat ow I see some fools who are still in there teens/people who aiin't married commenting about marriages..... advising them what to do...... you don't talk about things you av no experience of...only fools do that...when you get to that level of fiancée things you will understand...... enjoy ur bf/gf level.

Oyindidi:
Get your silly self off my mention

Godoverevery:
Baba I hardly even bleep her..... just loved her naturally ...... not dat am very rich but I could still afford to help someone I intend to marry with some money to get something doing but see wat it turned out to be....dat why I get pissed Wen ladies say some guys are stingy......after D's Will i ever want to help any other dat come my way and not be stingy.

mapet:
Godoverevery,

MOVE ON. Consider this God saving you from marrying an usurper.

Godoverevery:
Baba I hardly even bleep her..... just loved her naturally ...... not dat am very rich but I could still afford to help someone I intend to marry with some money to get something doing but see wat it turned out to be....dat why I get pissed Wen ladies say some guys are stingy......after D's Will i ever want to help any other dat come my way and not be stingy.

dirtycoin:
The correct spelling is 'fiancee'

Godoverevery:
Good afternoon everyone ........

I posted a thread in may about my fiancée I helped with 100k to start a business and she couldn't produce the capital saying she lend her dad... just want give an update of things

I took majority of the people advise here and celebrate her birthday ....got her cake,wrist watch and celebrated it with my friends and hers at a lounge(paid all the bills).

So the following week I gave in to her pleading and sent her another 50k(she hasn't produce the previous 100k capital but still promised to produce it with time) to get new set of slippers to sell .....and the agreement was she will be sending the money to one of my accounts as she is selling and the capital will be there to reinvest.

This new week I asked why I haven't seen any money in the account.....she said she have sold but she wants some people to balance her to complete 20k and by Friday she will make d deposit.

On Friday I didn't see anything....asked her why didn't she send the money (dat was after bank closing hour)....she was like she wasn't feeling too well dat she told her friend to do the transfer but is not going and she has given her the cash ...... around past 9pm dat Friday she called me if I have seen the alert I said no......the next day she said the transfer wasn't going dat her friend tried it but it was failing so I felt pissed and told her straight she was lying (arguement broke out).

So I told her if she was telling the truth and have the cash with her I will come pick d cash myself today but to my surprise she has blocked me on whatapp and bar my number D's noon.

My friends here want us to go over to her place ..... cause a scene and get her arrested but I don't want to embarrass her parents or embarrass myself.
They are all on my neck rite now like dey ginger badly

...... honestly I don't no what to do.
Just want to know if the right thing is getting her arrested or just let go and move on.

Godoverevery:
Good afternoon everyone ........

I posted a thread in may about my fiancée I helped with 100k to start a business and she couldn't produce the capital saying she lend her dad... just want give an update of things

I took majority of the people advise here and celebrate her birthday ....got her cake,wrist watch and celebrated it with my friends and hers at a lounge(paid all the bills).

So the following week I gave in to her pleading and sent her another 50k(she hasn't produce the previous 100k capital but still promised to produce it with time) to get new set of slippers to sell .....and the agreement was she will be sending the money to one of my accounts as she is selling and the capital will be there to reinvest.

This new week I asked why I haven't seen any money in the account.....she said she have sold but she wants some people to balance her to complete 20k and by Friday she will make d deposit.

On Friday I didn't see anything....asked her why didn't she send the money (dat was after bank closing hour)....she was like she wasn't feeling too well dat she told her friend to do the transfer but is not going and she has given her the cash ...... around past 9pm dat Friday she called me if I have seen the alert I said no......the next day she said the transfer wasn't going dat her friend tried it but it was failing so I felt pissed and told her straight she was lying (arguement broke out).

So I told her if she was telling the truth and have the cash with her I will come pick d cash myself today but to my surprise she has blocked me on whatapp and bar my number D's noon.

My friends here want us to go over to her place ..... cause a scene and get her arrested but I don't want to embarrass her parents or embarrass myself.
They are all on my neck rite now like dey ginger badly

...... honestly I don't no what to do.
Just want to know if the right thing is getting her arrested or just let go and move on.

ChelseaDotCom:
OP! Pls, Read this Comment. This is the only SENSIBLE and TRUE comment I've seen here so far. My fiancee does not have head for business too. Help her, discuss with her, try to know where she's getting it wrongly... may be she gives on credit too much. Tell her about bookkeeping (writing down profit/loss). More so, ask her what she really wants...may be cooking smthing and sell or learning a trade or handwork, any of them might be her strength.

PS: I'm yet to get to get back N1 from more than N3M I put into a business last year, I believe my money will come back ds year sha. Ciao!

Godoverevery:
Good afternoon everyone ........

I posted a thread in may about my fiancée I helped with 100k to start a business and she couldn't produce the capital saying she lend her dad... just want give an update of things

I took majority of the people advise here and celebrate her birthday ....got her cake,wrist watch and celebrated it with my friends and hers at a lounge(paid all the bills).

So the following week I gave in to her pleading and sent her another 50k(she hasn't produce the previous 100k capital but still promised to produce it with time) to get new set of slippers to sell .....and the agreement was she will be sending the money to one of my accounts as she is selling and the capital will be there to reinvest.

This new week I asked why I haven't seen any money in the account.....she said she have sold but she wants some people to balance her to complete 20k and by Friday she will make d deposit.

On Friday I didn't see anything....asked her why didn't she send the money (dat was after bank closing hour)....she was like she wasn't feeling too well dat she told her friend to do the transfer but is not going and she has given her the cash ...... around past 9pm dat Friday she called me if I have seen the alert I said no......the next day she said the transfer wasn't going dat her friend tried it but it was failing so I felt pissed and told her straight she was lying (arguement broke out).

So I told her if she was telling the truth and have the cash with her I will come pick d cash myself today but to my surprise she has blocked me on whatapp and bar my number D's noon.

My friends here want us to go over to her place ..... cause a scene and get her arrested but I don't want to embarrass her parents or embarrass myself.
They are all on my neck rite now like dey ginger badly

...... honestly I don't no what to do.
Just want to know if the right thing is getting her arrested or just let go and move on.

kizyalex10:
this is a clear case of a full grown man turned to slowpoke by a pussy. Its clear that u re jst a maga nd yet d daftness caused by pussy cant open ur eyes.okponu.nd if person see hw u dey hustle for cash nd match people in d process both legal nd illegal means.dem go think say u get better project for hand.not knowing,hw u re risking ur life for pussy.abeg make una no advice am.make we curse am join cos he will still do d opposite.ewu

Deepfeel:
Guy who did this to you? How sweet is that pussy that makes us say yes all the time with out resistance