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See ehn, na single I single ,I nor kill person o. Why do I have to be looked down on because I dont have a ring on my finger , ladies that are younger than me are more respected just because they are married, its even worse if they have kids,chai! I don suffer .


Guess what ,its all my fualt ,so society says . If a woman gets to a certain age and is not married,its all her fault, according to society, she probably doesn't know how to keep a man, she probably doesn't have good home training ,she probably was doing shakara when she was younger and the list goes on but guess what if a guy in his late thirties isnt married, he probably hasn't found the right woman yet . sighs!

Duggedised12:
See ehn, na single I single ,I nor kill person o. Why do I have to be looked done on.because I dont have a ring on my finger , ladies that are younger than me are more respected just because they are married, its even worse if they have kids . chai! I don suffer .


Guess what ,its all my fualt ,so society says . If a woman gets to a certain age and is not married,its all her fault, according to society, she probably doesn't know how to keep a man, she probably doesn't have good home training ,she probably was doing shakara when she was younger and the list goes on but guess what if a guy in his late thirties isnt married, he probably hasn't found the right woman yet . sighs!

Na so, e don dey happen, very soon now depression go set in, madness comes later...
When we tell una its a man's world, una no go gree hear, be forming feminist!!! U don see am noe abi


I laugh in Swahili!!! Be Loyal.

Vega100:
Na so, e don dey happen, very soon now depression go set in, madness comes later...
When we tell una its a man's world, una no go gree hear, be forming feminist!!! U don see am noe abi


I laugh in Swahili!!! Be Loyal.

hahahaha, see one of them . How many cases of depressed people have you seen roaming the streets, atleast if you wan yab me ,yab intelligently, I don hear this one before .

By the way,this "feminist" line is stale ,dont you think

Duggedised12:
hahahaha, see one of them . How many cases of depressed people have you seen roaming the streets, atleast if you wan yab Me ,yab intelligently, I don hear this one before .

By the way,this "feminist" line is stale ,dont you think

I just saw one last week.
Last week too, there was a lady captured on Camera crying and lamenting on the road for not having a husband... U can search for it.
Last 2 years an elderly spinster in my compound, ran mad out of a long time depression she was battling with... . , like frank mad, people were holdinv her and covering her with lappa ,
You will soon follow

Vega100:
I just saw one last week.
Last week too, there was a lady captured on Camera crying and lamenting on the road for not having a husband... U can search for it.
Last 2 years an elderly spinster in my compound, ran mad out of a long time depression she was battling with... . , like frank mad, people were holdinv her and covering her with lappa ,
You will soon follow

poor ladies, I feel for them ,it must have been people like you who make up the crop of people around them, mean, evil, calous with words and uncouth, but guess what , I am duggedised, I sure have seen worse monsters than you, so dont bet on it.If for anything, I wont give you that satisfaction so you can jerk off on bro. Peace! .

And yes ,I am allowed to rant ,its my rant ,I hope your life is perfect ,so crawl back to it ,and let me rant in peace

Duggedised12:
poor ladies, I feel for them ,it must have been people like you who make up the crop of people around them, mean, evil, calous with words and uncouth, but guess what , I am duggedised, I sure have seen worse monsters than you, so dont bet on it.If for anything, I wont give you that satisfaction so you can jerk off on bro. Peace! .

And yes ,I am allowed to rant ,its my rant ,I hope your life is perfect ,so crawl back to it ,and let me rant in peace

let's connect, send me a PM.

Vega100:
let's connect, send me a PM.

so you go finish the yabbing abi? ,go look for some else to mock I am not moved ,

By the way ,I am sure you found it entertaining when the lady in your compound started displaying, I am certain you contributed to her reproach and mockery, you sound excited talking about it. .

Call me, i am male, 08159044864

Op, at least you for upload profile pic, make people see as you be small.
I'm not saying you will find a relationship via this platform, but you never just know.

I empathise with you though.
I have one Fulani sweet chic in her early 30's.
Cash dey overflow her side, very slim and beautiful.

She spends most of her time abroad...Dubai in particular, but the problem, she's not married yet.

If not for the complications, I swear...I no for mind marry that chic.
It's a sad situation though!

Duggedised12:
See ehn, na single I single ,I nor kill person o. Why do I have to be looked down on because I dont have a ring on my finger , ladies that are younger than me are more respected just because they are married, its even worse if they have kids,chai! I don suffer .


Guess what ,its all my fualt ,so society says . If a woman gets to a certain age and is not married,its all her fault, according to society, she probably doesn't know how to keep a man, she probably doesn't have good home training ,she probably was doing shakara when she was younger and the list goes on but guess what if a guy in his late thirties isnt married, he probably hasn't found the right woman yet . sighs!

I have lost access to the email I used in registering my nairaland account.
Send me your whatsapp number on here instead:Juruguci@outlook.com

upload ur pic

Send your pics to ***** let's see what we can do.

Duggedised12:
See ehn, na single I single ,I nor kill person o. Why do I have to be looked down on because I dont have a ring on my finger , ladies that are younger than me are more respected just because they are married, its even worse if they have kids,chai! I don suffer .


Guess what ,its all my fualt ,so society says . If a woman gets to a certain age and is not married,its all her fault, according to society, she probably doesn't know how to keep a man, she probably doesn't have good home training ,she probably was doing shakara when she was younger and the list goes on but guess what if a guy in his late thirties isnt married, he probably hasn't found the right woman yet . sighs!

since they've banned sniper buy 3 tiger batteries crush them and remove those black powder, mix it with water and drink your problem will be solved in 15 minutes so that we don't get to read your rubbish again

I think we can all agree that the scapegoated patriarchal system is the best form of societal structure. The op would have been married off a long time ago

lilbest4:
since they've banned sniper buy 3 tiger batteries crush them and remove those black powder, mix it with water and drink your problem will be solved in 15 minutes so that we don't get to read your rubbish again

hahahaha, why am I not surprised? I know there will be a vile creature that will attempt to transfer their demon. That you took out time out of your so called perfect life to read rubbish shows alot . Its a rant bro, it doesn't mean I am depressed so I don't have to bro.

And by the way ,you might just die before me, who knows ,the universe works in mysterious ways

Take heart stay strong and continue working on yourself. Am sure love will find you.

Trust you are in good spirits now, just wanted to check on you and it's weekend..... Take yourself out on a treat and cheer up, trust me it will do you no good wallowing in pity.

pansophist:
I think we can all agree that the scapegoated patriarchal system is the best form of societal structure. The op would have been married off a long time ago

Lol. Exactly. Patriarchy is supported by many women but they won’t confess. They are covertly enjoying the perks of being considered the fairer / weaker sex. However, every time I treat ladies the same as guys (especially when it comes to responsibilities) they think I’m just wicked or inconsiderate. But I’m only giving them a taste of the equality they say they want!

OP, sometimes, people don’t get married early because of unfaithful or unserious partners and it’s not their fault. I also wouldn’t call it bad luck. Just that one’s luck is yet to arrive. If you hit the 30 year mark, it becomes even more difficult to settle down because you are too careful. You don’t want to fall into the wrong hands. You want to get it right at once. The probability of which is quite low.

I would suggest a different approach. Time don pass, everybody know. Be more spontaneous now. Date more. Be visible. The more you meet people, the higher your chances of meeting your desired partner.

If you’re too careful, you will be confined and won’t have a large pool to choose from.

Altern8:
Lol. Exactly. Patriarchy is supported by many women but they won’t confess. They are covertly enjoying the perks of being considered the fairer / weaker sex. However, every time I treat ladies the same as guys (especially when it comes to responsibilities) they think I’m just wicked or inconsiderate. But I’m only giving them a taste of the equality they say they want!

Exactly, you nailed it. Equality comes with equal responsibilities, and that is something women do not want to take from my experience. A rich woman still wants a man that will spend lavishly on her, to be rescued and honored and like a little princess, to make her feel like a prize. she wont start dating and brushing up broke men, just as men have done since the beginning of time. Women have it better, just that an admission to this truism is something most will never do.

See op dis one na simple issue nau. First mingle with the young men around d area where u reside then pick a focused young man wey catch ur attention then build a relationship with him then marriage will come. Some of the reasons wey dey cause a babe to still remain single is wen she too dey date different men at once. Only u go dey run 10 men package at once dey cast urself here and dere. Tell me wich man go take such a girl seriously. All wetin men go dey take such a girl do na to dey chop and clean mouth. Another one wey dey cause singlehood na ladies wey no dey interact with ppl.24/7 u indoors and u no dey interact. D only interaction u do na only facebook and tell me wich serious man dey facebook. Most men wey dey search for partners on facebook are mostly married men looking for free level to chop...u hardly dey see a single guy searchinh for a partner on facebook. So sister just go out and dere and interact with guys and choose ur spec and also do away with ur deeper life type of dressin if u dey dress like deeper life and try loose a little weight if maybe u overweight if i bet u b4 dis year runs out u will get ur dream man. Thats all it takes to get ur partner..e no hard my sister.

pansophist:
Exactly, you nailed it. Equality come with equal responsibilities, and that is something women do not want to take from my experience. A rich woman still wants a man that will spend lavishly on her, she wont start dating and brushing up broke men, just as men have done since the beginning of time. Women have it better, just that an admission to this truism is something most will never do.

They’d rather kiss a frog than admit.

pansophist:
I think we can all agree that the scapegoated patriarchal system is the best form of societal structure. The op would have been married off a long time ago

My broda u sef see am. It's well

Altern8:
Lol. Exactly. Patriarchy is supported by many women but they won’t confess. They are covertly enjoying the perks of being considered the fairer / weaker sex. However, every time I treat ladies the same as guys (especially when it comes to responsibilities) they think I’m just wicked or inconsiderate. But I’m only giving them a taste of the equality they say they want!

OP, sometimes, people don’t get married early because of unfaithful or unserious partners and it’s not their fault. I also wouldn’t call it bad luck. Just that one’s luck is yet to arrive. If you hit the 30 year mark, it becomes even more difficult to settle down because you are too careful. You don’t want to fall into the wrong hands. You want to get it right at once. The probability of which is quite low.

I would suggest a different approach. Time don pass, everybody know. Be more spontaneous now. Date more. Be visible. The more you meet people, the higher your chances of meeting your desired partner.

If you’re too careful, you will be confined and won’t have a large pool to choose from.

thanks for your input.

Duggedised12:
thanks for your input.

you are welcome.

It's not easy finding a partner, a lot of people are mentally, economically, emotionally damaged. Since I am a man, I will speak of the opposite sex. Most girls are not sure of what they want, I met a girl in her 30's who still wants a man that will give her butterflies in her tummy. Some want rich men when they have no job and are not even intelligent enough to get an average job. A lot have very rotten attitude, bad character, no manners, no foresight etc. Trust me it will take a lot for a right thinking man to marry such a woman.
Men too have issues, some are unambitious, unintelligent, irresponsible etc and yet they want a perfect woman. People should work on themselves first before thinking of bringing someone into their world. Don't bring anybody into your damaged life. The reason a lot of people are single (not by choice) is because they have issues which others see and they don't or they choose not to.

Duggedised12:
See ehn, na single I single ,I nor kill person o. Why do I have to be looked down on because I dont have a ring on my finger , ladies that are younger than me are more respected just because they are married, its even worse if they have kids,chai! I don suffer .


Guess what ,its all my fualt ,so society says . If a woman gets to a certain age and is not married,its all her fault, according to society, she probably doesn't know how to keep a man, she probably doesn't have good home training ,she probably was doing shakara when she was younger and the list goes on but guess what if a guy in his late thirties isnt married, he probably hasn't found the right woman yet . sighs!

Lol..not your fault. Nigerians are crazy about Marriage.

zed7:
It's not easy finding a partner, a lot of people are mentally, economically, emotionally damaged. Since I am a man, I will speak of the opposite sex. Most girls are not sure of what they want, I met a girl in her 30's who still wants a man that will give her butterflies in her tummy. Some want rich men when they have no job and are not even intelligent enough to get an average job. A lot have very rotten attitude, bad character, no manners, no foresight etc. Trust me it will take a lot for a right thinking man to marry such a woman.
Men too have issues, some are unambitious, unintelligent, irresponsible etc and yet they want a perfect woman. People should work on themselves first before thinking of bringing someone into their world. Don't bring anybody into your damaged life. The reason a lot of people are single (not by choice) is because they have issues which others see and they don't or they choose not to.

This!

Duggedised12:
See ehn, na single I single ,I nor kill person o. Why do I have to be looked down on because I dont have a ring on my finger , ladies that are younger than me are more respected just because they are married, its even worse if they have kids,chai! I don suffer .


Guess what ,its all my fualt ,so society says . If a woman gets to a certain age and is not married,its all her fault, according to society, she probably doesn't know how to keep a man, she probably doesn't have good home training ,she probably was doing shakara when she was younger and the list goes on but guess what if a guy in his late thirties isnt married, he probably hasn't found the woman yet . sighs!

Guys also experience pressure too. I was almost 36 b4 I got married and I endured enuf Go And Marry advice. I feel ur pain sis. Just hold on prayerfully. Also check ur list of exes. There could be one nice guy amongst them who wants to settle down. Try reconnecting. Also look out for that serious minded guy around where u work or live. Remember that there could be diamond in the dirt close to u. Keep ur eyes open. May God grant ur heart desire. Peace

zukky79:
Guys also experience pressure too. I was almost 36 b4 I got married and I endured enuf Go And Marry advice. I feel ur pain sis. Just hold on prayerfully. Also check ur list of exes. There could be one nice guy amongst them who wants to settle down. Try reconnecting. Also look out for that serious minded guy around where u work or live. Remember that there could be diamond in the dirt close to u. Keep ur eyes open. May God grant ur heart desire. Peace

Thanks alot.

I am tempted to share my cousin's story.

She's over 40 and will be wedding very soon to a man who has never been married before. She has met family members and they love her. She's a wonderful person that went through a lot.

Forget what society, people and Nairaland guys say about being an evening newspaper, old cargo...blah blah... Thankfully, what happens eventually is not in their hands

ImaIma1:
I am tempted to share my cousin's story.

She's over 40 and will be wedding very soon to a man who has never been married before. She has met family members and they love her. She's a wonderful person that went through a lot.

Forget what society, people and Nairaland guys say about being an evening newspaper, old cargo...blah blah... Thankfully, what happens eventually is not in their hands

thanks dear.