Every woman craves for a faithful husband but one of the funniest twists to the desires of ladies wanting a faithful husband is that they rarely go for men that are ready to be with only them but will prefer to be with a man other ladies want.

I have heard countless times when a lady says "I don't like him cos he is too short, his face looks ugly, he is not financially ok, he is not good in bed, his something is not big enough...."

Most ladies in Naija primarily wants a well to do but avoids broke men and they will prefer tall cute men to short unattractive ones..but the fact is that there are several other ladies dieing to be with a rich guy or very attractive guy and once a guy is big and good in bed then he is a delight to many ladies even if all they do is become his side dish and the few men that have these qualities know they are the dream of most ladies which makes it unrealistic for any lady to have a guy with all or some of these qualities all to herself except the guy just wishes to be with only her.

The bottom line is that as long as your husband has qualities other ladies want which ofcourse is inevitable, then it will be extremely difficult (Not impossible) for such a man to be faithful to you and expecting faithfulness from such man is tantamount to living in delusion.

If he decides to stick with only you, fine...but don't expect it cos a rich or very cute guy is the desire of most ladies.

If you want a husband that will most likely remain faithful to You, get a broke or struggling guy to marry and build a life with him....such a guy will forever respect you...And go for men who are not cute to reduce the chance of competing with several other women for his attention.

Crazy but true.

Women are illogical why asking them to see logic? As long as it feels right they do it. That's why you should never trust anything with vagina!

Funny you mentioned "fine" , Money is their attraction the only time a woman will check if you are fine is if she had already assess your worth(money wise).

How will you be attracted to who you do not want to be with? As humans, there will always be preferences in everything we do, if I like a tall guy, it is a preference and I will condition my mind to be have an attraction for anyone tall and there is nothing wrong with that, I cannot love what I hate, people that settle for less is cos they are not patient enough to wait for their kind of man, I am a petite lady and I cannot go for a short man and so far so good, it has been working for me cos I'm walking down the Isle soon,

Pls don't make people think their ideal kind of man will not be available for them, some got him or her and their marriage is working well.

Hoes everywhere.

PUSSYHOE:
Women are illogical why asking them to see logic? As long as it feels right they do it. That's why you should never trust anything with vagina!

Funny you mentioned "fine" , Money is their attraction the only time a woman will check if you are fine is if she had already assess your worth.

Abeg go and nap, same old stale bruhaha, same old money talk, seems you missed a front page thread of enticing a lady with money and he got burned after marriage.

Uncle toks, i enjoy your writings but i disagree with this article, any body hv the tendency to cheat irrespective of looks,finances, or age.Its just lack of opportunities that make certain people faithful, about the poor guys what if he becomes wealthy tmr or is he gonna be poor forever ?About the non attractive guy,most women favor them like that in sense that they are better lovers in bed.I can't be in a relationship or marriage with someone am not attracted to sef,that might breed cheating on my own part.
Being in a relationship with someone that nobody wants doesn't make sense at all, why do people don't want them in the first place, why just me?In the long run it seems like am doing the person a favor by dating them sef.abeg uncle toks this advice no follow at all

MJBOLT:

i wonder where you got the idea that dating an unattractive or broke guy will stop him from cheating it takes discipline and self control for a person to remain faithful not attractiveness and 'fat pocket'.

I swear the advice just weak me sef

Uncle Toks at 45 still never marry. Going by your logic women also have people who want to have sex with them majorly even if dem no fine.. So be ready to share too

Fountainofyouth:



Abeg go and nap, same old stale bruhaha, same old money talk, seems you missed a front page thread of enticing a lady with money and he got burned after marriage.

This is the dumbest thing i have read in all my life.


I posted money is their attraction(which you quoted)

you referenced A guy enticing a lady with money and got burned after marriage.

Didn't your peanut brain see the clear difference?

Is it every rich guy (if any) that approach you entice you with money?

PUSSYHOE:
This is the dumbest thing i have read in all my life.


I posted money is their attraction(which you quoted)

you referenced A guy enticing a lady with money and got burned after marriage.

Didn't your peanut brain see the clear difference?

Is it every rich guy (if any) that approach you entice you with money?

Yes schmuck, cos the first thing they try to show off is their cash not their brain or intellect, that's why most are getting burned these days,

That lady, despite the riches, said what she didn't like, but he still pressured and coerced her for marriage, not all ladies are attracted to money but most of y'all are to stupid to see that.

Fountainofyouth:



Yes schmuck, cos the first thing they try to show off is their cash not their brain or intellect, that's why most are getting burned these days,

That lady, despite the riches, said what she didn't like, but he still pressured and coerced her for marriage, not all ladies are attracted to money but most of y'all are to stupid to see that.

How is that my business?

Op be talking rubbish...its like ur ugly ehn?

I always have respect for your write ups but this one got me disappointed.

ednut1:
Uncle Toks at 45 still never marry. Going by your logic women also have people who want to have sex with them majorly even if dem no fine.. So be ready to share too

YOU DON'T MEAN IT!!!...45?...C'mon it's a lie

Fountainofyouth:



Cos you're obviously to stupid to see that, hence you first comment.

You said not all girls did i post all girls? You see the stupid one now?

PabloAndreas:

YOU DON'T MEAN IT!!!...45?...C'mon it's a lie

he served in 1998. Do the math https://www.nairaland.com/3478913/nysc-things-must-take-along#51263894.
Egbon go and marry and put all these talks into practice

MJBOLT:

i wonder where you got the idea that dating an unattractive or broke guy will stop him from cheating it takes discipline and self control for a person to remain faithful not unattractiveness and 'brokeness'.

I never mentioned stopped..but will drastically reduce the chance. See let's face it, how many broke guys really cheat? You think it is cheap to cheat i guess..

And how many less attractive ladies cheat easily? there is a huge difference between a lady getting several advances and those that seldom get pressured.

As i wrote, the message in this piece is not what people are commenting on. The bottom line is that ladies love the man every other lady wants hence should not crave for faithfulness but must be prepared for serious competition.

Toks2008:


I never mentioned stopped..but will drastically reduce the chance. See let's face it, how many broke guys really cheat? You think it is cheap to cheat i guess..

And how many less attractive ladies cheat easily? there is a huge difference between a lady getting several advances and those that seldom get pressured.

As i wrote, the message in this piece is not what people are commenting on. The bottom line is that ladies love the man every other lady wants hence should not crave for faithfulness but must be prepared for serious competition.

And who told you that less attractive women don't get hit on?Uncle toks leave that gist joor, sometimes in life decency is a lack of opportunities. Besides in this era of make up and plastic surgery, how many ladies are still unattractive

As if no be still this same country you go see agbero cheating on his wife and having multiple girlfriends sef....abeg find another excuse for cheating this one no follow at all

Your write up is nonsense.. you made no sense

ednut1:
he served in 1998. Do the math https://www.nairaland.com/3478913/nysc-things-must-take-along#51263894.
Egbon go and marry and put all these talks into practice

1998?...and judging from d way he looks in dat pic there's a slight chance this guy might as well be 50

virgoquin:
As if no be still this same country you go see agbero cheating on his wife and having multiple girlfriends sef....abeg find another excuse for cheating this one no follow at all

Your write up is nonsense.. you made no sense

Shut up and get out of here

'brokeness' and unattractiveness cannot even reduce cheating and yes cheating is easy and cheap.people cheat for different reasons,if a broke guy see the opportunity to cheat on his broke/ugly GF with a rich/beautiful girl you think he wont do it .


IT TAKES DISCIPLINE AND SELF CONTROL TO REMAIN FAITHFUL IN A RELATIONSHIP

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Toks2008:


I never mentioned stopped..but will drastically reduce the chance. See let's face it, how many broke guys really cheat? You think it is cheap to cheat i guess..

And how many less attractive ladies cheat easily? there is a huge difference between a lady getting several advances and those that seldom get pressured.

As i wrote, the message in this piece is not what people are commenting on. The bottom line is that ladies love the man every other lady wants hence should not crave for faithfulness but must be prepared for serious competition.

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ednut1:
he served in 1998. Do the math https://www.nairaland.com/3478913/nysc-things-must-take-along#51263894.
Egbon go and marry and put all these talks into practice

See as person turn FBI on top my matta

virgoquin:
As if no be still this same country you go see agbero cheating on his wife and having multiple girlfriends sef....abeg find another excuse for cheating this one no follow at all

Your write up is nonsense.. you made no sense

And who told you agbero is poor?

MJBOLT:

'brokeness' and unattractiveness cannot even reduce cheating and yes cheating is easy and cheap.people cheat for different reasons,if a broke guy see the opportunity to cheat on his broke/ugly GF with a rich/beautiful girl you think he wont do it .9


IT TAKES DISCIPLINE AND SELF CONTROL TO REMAIN FAITHFUL IN A RELATIONSHIP

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You blatantly refuse to seethe sense in the writeup so no point trying to make you see one.

Cheating as a single person and in marriage is not the same and that is where many are missing it.

More absurd is the fact that some people are making reference to vulcanizer cheating with alagbo .

cheating as a single person and in marriage are one and the same.CHEATING IS CHEATING

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Toks2008:


You blatantly refuse to seethe sense in the writeup so no point trying to make you see one.

Cheating as a single person and in marriage is not the same and that is where many are missing it.

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Lets Ask The Elders.. Husbandsnatcha, analqueenluci, adaibeku, rhekina, Jacqueline22 what Do You Say?

Uncle Toks, your assertion is flawed.

czarina:
Uncle Toks, your assertion is flawed.

Ask people who are married to less attractive ladies or guys that are not rich then come back to comment.

Nah English i take write no be swahili.

The key word in my piece is "REDUCTION IN CHEATING"