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Re: Is It Childish To Collect The Gift You Gave Your Ex After Cheating? by Nobody: 11:36am On Aug 31, 2019 |
ominilongest:go and take your phone |
Re: Is It Childish To Collect The Gift You Gave Your Ex After Cheating? by aminusodiq(m): 11:46am On Aug 31, 2019 |
May thunder fire u if u no collect dah fone.... Hoes aint worth it 2 Likes |
Re: Is It Childish To Collect The Gift You Gave Your Ex After Cheating? by psalmuelwater(m): 1:09pm On Aug 31, 2019 |
finalboss:In this situation, no way can be normal to collect the phone |
Re: Is It Childish To Collect The Gift You Gave Your Ex After Cheating? by FDURU(m): 1:11pm On Aug 31, 2019 |
collect d phone abeg 1 Like |
Re: Is It Childish To Collect The Gift You Gave Your Ex After Cheating? by DSHADOWWALKER: 1:32pm On Aug 31, 2019 |
Fountainofyouth: come on,that is childish now,if God sud treat we human beings this way,where will you think we will be today??.Anyways,he sud maintain his worth by leaving d phone for her,it shows d phone is just a bit of what he had to offer that she will miss. |
Re: Is It Childish To Collect The Gift You Gave Your Ex After Cheating? by tunize(m): 2:09pm On Aug 31, 2019 |
I won't call it childish. Since u gifted her the phone wen the going was good, forget the phone and break up wit her in peace......."Ever heard of been patient and watch"? Jst let it be the case......if really u're good to her she'll come begging in the end. |
Re: Is It Childish To Collect The Gift You Gave Your Ex After Cheating? by Newguyhere: 2:13pm On Aug 31, 2019 |
ominilongest:. "you would be considered a big fooooooool!!! If don't collect that phone back!!! Collect your thing back jare!!!! Infact may thunder strike you!! if don't collect that phone !! |
Re: Is It Childish To Collect The Gift You Gave Your Ex After Cheating? by OKOATA(m): 2:18pm On Aug 31, 2019 |
Many people already said thunder will fire you if you don't collect that phone and me sef DE join the list, May Thunder fire you if you know collect that phone back. This same thing happened to me before, I collected my thing back, removed her memory card and left the girl there. 2 Likes |
Re: Is It Childish To Collect The Gift You Gave Your Ex After Cheating? by generationz(f): 3:22pm On Aug 31, 2019 |
ominilongest: Oga, collect the phone not because you are wicked but this will definitely help you find closure and let her know you are no fool. She and the guy obviously talk and laugh at you behind your back. You 4 Likes |
Re: Is It Childish To Collect The Gift You Gave Your Ex After Cheating? by Nobody: 3:38pm On Aug 31, 2019 |
Lols |
Re: Is It Childish To Collect The Gift You Gave Your Ex After Cheating? by Soulmender: 5:26pm On Aug 31, 2019 |
DSHADOWWALKER: sustain which worth? the girl does not value his worth so there's nothing to sustain....., not just the first time she's doing it so obviously she has no regard for him, at times one have to be childish to teach some people a tough lesson. 6 Likes |
Re: Is It Childish To Collect The Gift You Gave Your Ex After Cheating? by Soulmender: 5:41pm On Aug 31, 2019 |
I won't tell you to collect your phone or not, but what I'll tell you is this; Make peace with her, tell her whatever she did with the guy is already in the past, Make her feel very comfortable, be more romantic this time call her over to your place or any place you both decides to meet, give her a nice treat, don't go for her vj o but if she offers it then take it with an open hand and hit it like never before, when she's about going, give her enough tfare and see her off. After two days, call her over again, ask for her phone, at this point she won't have anything in mind, if it's unlocked, then lock in back and ask for her password, she'll gladly give you, go straight to her music and play a nice song, make sure you dance to the song ,you can invite her to join you, after rocking her, just call her outside while she's there just leave her and go back to your house and lock the door then give her the GOOD NEWS from your window. � 5 Likes 1 Share |
Re: Is It Childish To Collect The Gift You Gave Your Ex After Cheating? by 2rez: 5:46pm On Aug 31, 2019 |
ominilongest: Quick one for u @ op. For this your topic here; https://www.nairaland.com/5096416/pls-me Shey na thesame skrep wey leave u outside standing for about 30mins u wan collect ur iPhone from
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Re: Is It Childish To Collect The Gift You Gave Your Ex After Cheating? by DSHADOWWALKER: 4:53pm On Sep 01, 2019 |
Soulmender: who told.u dat will teach d girl a lesson??i tink he bought dphone for her cause he loved or valued her and it came from d bottom.of his heart.The real question here is his motive for buying d phone,collecting it back means d motive was her being with him,or what he is benefitting from her or d relationship 1 Like |
Re: Is It Childish To Collect The Gift You Gave Your Ex After Cheating? by drmikeadams(m): 7:46pm On Sep 01, 2019 |
it is so so childish collecting d phone back leave hoes alone huna no go hear,huna dey pay rent,huna dey pay salary ,huna still buy phone wan collect ham back...and for what??the money wey u go invest for d betterment of ur life,u use am buy phone for hoe thunder faya u dere 1 Like |
Re: Is It Childish To Collect The Gift You Gave Your Ex After Cheating? by Nobody: 8:19pm On Sep 01, 2019 |
ominilongest:You can collect your iPhone back without asking her.Invite her to a restaurant or a hotel or anywhere aside your house.Buy her food and make chat with her too.Ask for her iPhone and tell her to unlock the password that you want to check something.Try and remove the password permanently or you can ask her to show you that you want to know if she is loyal.Find a way to distract her and zoom off. |
Re: Is It Childish To Collect The Gift You Gave Your Ex After Cheating? by ImaIma1(f): 12:32am On Sep 02, 2019 |
So if you bought her a perfume for her and she has used it, will you collect the remaining back or the empty bottle? 1 Like |
Re: Is It Childish To Collect The Gift You Gave Your Ex After Cheating? by Nobody: 12:44am On Sep 02, 2019 |
collect d iphone ooo..in short dat yellow gstring and blue bra u bought for her last valentine make u also collect am too. |
Re: Is It Childish To Collect The Gift You Gave Your Ex After Cheating? by marvelous000: 1:36am On Sep 02, 2019 |
Fountainofyouth:you're a lot more than i give you credit for, in respect of this your comment. not because it speaks true to my sentiment, but because it proved objective when one would've expected the obverse from you, judging by the proclivity of your antecedent your perspective in life has improved, my dear. life is a lot more than gender crusade, renunciation and damnation. it's so much intertwined, involved and ingrained, that if you try to bifurcate it; you'll end up parochial in thought, acrimonious, and in an untenable position. |
Re: Is It Childish To Collect The Gift You Gave Your Ex After Cheating? by carter009(m): 7:03am On Sep 02, 2019 |
Lol, but perfume and iPhone are different..... ImaIma1: |
Re: Is It Childish To Collect The Gift You Gave Your Ex After Cheating? by Skmoda360(m): 7:05am On Sep 02, 2019 |
Newguyhere:You dey vex oooo |
Re: Is It Childish To Collect The Gift You Gave Your Ex After Cheating? by Skmoda360(m): 7:07am On Sep 02, 2019 |
marvelous000:This is grammar reloaded.....Shui!!! Are you related to Dr. oduaghan |
Re: Is It Childish To Collect The Gift You Gave Your Ex After Cheating? by Skmoda360(m): 7:13am On Sep 02, 2019 |
Soulmender:You get bad mind lol |
Re: Is It Childish To Collect The Gift You Gave Your Ex After Cheating? by pocohantas(f): 7:13am On Sep 02, 2019 |
Collecting a gift back is and will always be a "childish" move to me. However, it will help you find closure considering how the relationship ended. So you can as well go ahead and collect it. Collect all your strokes and cum too. 6 Likes |
Re: Is It Childish To Collect The Gift You Gave Your Ex After Cheating? by Martinez39(m): 7:21am On Sep 02, 2019 |
Watamidoinhere:You are a female. Stop masquerading as a guy. You didn't buy car for anyone. You are calling iPhone ordinary and trying to make it incumbent on the op to forget about the iPhone because you yourself are a cheat and slut and you wouldn't want your bf collecting all he has bought for you after finding out that you cheated. Calm your guilty conscience. The op should collect his iPhone. He must undo the investments in the relationship as much as possible as she is not worth it afterall. 1 Like
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Re: Is It Childish To Collect The Gift You Gave Your Ex After Cheating? by Martinez39(m): 7:26am On Sep 02, 2019 |
pocohantas:Lol. His gifts will do. He doesn't need the strokes and cum. Don't take it personal. I know your conscience influenced the words of your post because as a cheat and slut, you wouldn't like it when your boyfriend(s) collect the expensive gifts he had(they've) bought for you so it's natural to favour the narrative that collecting a gift back is "childish". Your fellow cheats and sluts on nairaland will drop their comments saying similar things to your post. 6 Likes
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Re: Is It Childish To Collect The Gift You Gave Your Ex After Cheating? by Martinez39(m): 7:36am On Sep 02, 2019 |
DSHADOWWALKER:God and man are not the same. God is nonexistent. If God existed, your analogy would be flawed because God has infinite riches and doesn't have to work, also god can't be pained because he already knew she was cheating. Beside, god can never be used like the op because he is all knowing. The op must collect his phone as the gift and love for the b!tch were all for nothing. Beside, as a female, cheat and slut behind a male moniker, it natural that you favour the narrative that collecting back the gifts is childish. Afterall, when you are caught, you would be happy if the mugu that thinks he is your boyfriend doesn't collect back the expensive gifts he gave you. 3 Likes |
Re: Is It Childish To Collect The Gift You Gave Your Ex After Cheating? by Small080(m): 7:36am On Sep 02, 2019 |
Brother, you bought her iPhone and she cheated on you....... if a woman gives you everything she have I believe most guys will still cheat with unreasonable excuse. bro you don pass that iPhone now make you na leave am for am now.... leave that fucking LovePeddler, 90% of them are the same but little are different sha |
Re: Is It Childish To Collect The Gift You Gave Your Ex After Cheating? by Martinez39(m): 7:45am On Sep 02, 2019 |
ImaIma1:The empty bottle has no value. What will he do with an empty bottle? It's right and okay for him to collect his iPhone back. Beside, as a female, cheat and slut, it natural that you favour the narrative that collecting back the gifts is childish. Afterall, when you are caught, you would be happy if the mugu that thinks he is your boyfriend doesn't collect back the expensive gifts he gave you. Watch how your fellow farm tools and ladies will flood this thread telling the op that he is childish if he collects the phone. If a guy buys a Benz and iPhone for the lady that he loves and he discovers that she has been fvcking another guy, he should collect the Benz and iPhone. He didn't buy it for other ladies and wouldn't have but he bought it for his gf as a sacrifice of love and didn't mind. Now that he has discovered that the sacrifices were all for nothing and were mere wastage and he was being used, he must collect his gifts to recoup his wastage. 1 Like |
Re: Is It Childish To Collect The Gift You Gave Your Ex After Cheating? by Martinez39(m): 8:04am On Sep 02, 2019 |
tunize:The going was never good. He was being used all the while. The idea that the going was once good is all in the imagination. if really u're good to her she'll come begging in the end.False!! B!tches don't care if your are good to them. Your moral character is nothing to b!tches. All they care are the financial and materials thing they can get. You are very naive or stupid to think that the girl will come running back to him because he is good to her. SMH. All these women behind male monikers sef. |
Re: Is It Childish To Collect The Gift You Gave Your Ex After Cheating? by ImaIma1(f): 8:20am On Sep 02, 2019 |
Martinez39: I was just saying. Cheating is unacceptable and if a guy will feel better retrieving his gift especially if it's something that shook his bank account, it's his choice. Though I think a gift shouldn't be retrieved after a misunderstanding or whatever. For you to give someone something, it means it's something you can let go off. Taking is back after an issue seems to me like trying to lick your wounds and getting back at the person. What if he had given her like 2million to pay for something and the money was already exhausted, what would he have done? That's why relationships are risks. He wasn't under duress or forced to give her the gift. 1 Like |
Re: Is It Childish To Collect The Gift You Gave Your Ex After Cheating? by AfroKnight: 8:24am On Sep 02, 2019 |
Have you collected it yet? I hope you’ve not disappointed me sha.collect that phone if you don’t want me to swear for you. You bought a phone and the girl immediately decided to cheat and she even documented it knowing you would see the picture. Plus, She’s still defending her actions. Collect that phone plus the wig you bought on that her unfortunate head. Collect it before I get angry.
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