GLYCOLYSISS:

Hiv/Aids outbreak so far have left many dead !

Me : Was your brother's or reletive killed by the dreaded disease to have known many were killed ?

Izzou :

None of my brothers or relative have been killed by the dreaded disease !

Me :
Therefore nobody have been killed by the dreaded disease !



That's exactly how you sound with your opinion on the write up.

GLYCOLYSISS:

Hiv/Aids outbreak so far have left many dead !

Me : Was your brother's or reletive killed by the dreaded disease to have known many were killed ?

Izzou :

None of my brothers or relative have been killed by the dreaded disease !

Me :
Therefore nobody have been killed by the dreaded disease !



That's exactly how you sound with your opinion on the write up.

ImaIma1:
No matter how smart you think you are...

In 10 years, you are going to look back and realize your ignorance.

And then it will happen again, and again, and again.

Stay humble.

- Charles Miller

GLYCOLYSISS:

Hiv/Aids outbreak so far have left many dead !

Me : Was your brother's or reletive killed by the dreaded disease to have known many were killed ?

Izzou :

None of my brothers or relative have been killed by the dreaded disease !

Me :
Therefore nobody have been killed by the dreaded disease !



That's exactly how you sound with your opinion on the write up.

doitforyou:
O Lord, that's a very terrible analogy lol who are these people?

Are you seriously comparing a subjective opinion with factual statistics? He doesn't need a brother that has AIDS to know that HIV/AIDS outbreak has caused many deaths. The statistics on tested affected individuals, which is a FACT already tells us this to be TRUE.

OP on the other hand has no facts in his post. Feelings and opinions are not facts. He had a good mother, he never experienced/studied any of the things he said, "I am smart and observant" are not facts. Yes he may be smart and observant but those skills are not enough, he made a general statement without facts about what he thinks is the role of mothers in parental alienation. If he has links that proves his post, he should post them, we are willing to learn.

He doesn't have links

He's smart, and observant. That's enough for you to agree

And besides, get ready for your IQ to be evaluated.



My guess : Very low

izzou:


He doesn't have links

He's smart, and observant. That's enough for you to agree

And besides, get ready for your IQ to be evaluated.



My guess : Very low

Martinez19:
I never asked you to agree with me. Whether or not you choose to agree is not my business. I know what I wrote because I am smart, observant and exposed. If you still insist that what is in my op does not happen in real life or I must have had a first hand experience, that's your problem.

I just wanted to warn her about the standing order of your thread

You're smart, observant and exposed. No need to prove anything. That should be enough for her

Did I say anything bad?

And besides, you said you wouldn't mention me again.
What changed?

doitforyou:
O Lord, that's a very terrible analogy lol who are these people?

Are you seriously comparing a subjective opinion with factual statistics? He doesn't need a brother that has AIDS to know that HIV/AIDS outbreak has caused many deaths. The statistics on tested affected individuals, which is a FACT already tells us this to be TRUE.

OP on the other hand has no facts in his post. Feelings and opinions are not facts. He had a good mother, he never experienced/studied any of the things he said, "I am smart and observant" are not facts. Yes he may be smart and observant but those skills are not enough, he made a general statement without facts about what he thinks is the role of mothers in parental alienation. If he has links that proves his post, he should post them, we are willing to learn.

izzou:


I just wanted to warn her about the standing order of your thread

You're smart, observant and exposed. No need to prove anything. That should be enough for her

Did I say anything bad?

He doesn't have links

He's smart, and observant. That's enough for you to agree

And besides, you said you wouldn't mention me again.
What changed?

izzou:
I just pray this will be your last mention to me

izzou:


He doesn't have links

He's smart, and observant. That's enough for you to agree

And besides, get ready for your IQ to be evaluated.



My guess : Very low

doitforyou:
lol, I have learned a lot time ago on NL that being called "dumb" by these people is actually a compliment.

doitforyou:
lol, I have learned a lot time ago on NL that being called "dumb" by these people is actually a compliment.

IamPlato:
You Don't Even Understand What I Am Saying...


Shebi your Mother Over Breastfed You Well, now Look At Where It Has Landed You

ImaIma1:



Hmmmm. Words on marble.

So are you saying that you are not "smart, observant and exposed"?

CAPSLOCKED:


JOKES APART YOU RAISED VALID POINTS IN THE TOPIC.
WHAT IF OUR TERRIBLE DADS ARE NOT AS TERRIBLE AS MOTHER PAINTED THEM TO BE?
WHAT IF RELIGION IS FAKE, AND THE GODS ARE NOT AS POWERFUL AS MOTHER TAUGHT US THEY ARE?

MOST PEOPLE TODAY PICKED UP MORE FROM THEIR MOTHERS THAN DADS WHILE GROWING UP. WHAT IF NOT ALL OF HER TEACHINGS WERE RIGHT?

Fountainofyouth:
Deranged psych on display here.


Modified
I cannot believe this thread made front page, nairaland is filled with machismo chauvinistic sexist

NLmember:
Why do these bitter woman hating mods keep putting posts like this on front page? Instead of asking parents to put their utmost best in raising children the bitter and frustrated fellow started a topic he concocted from his deranged mind to blame women for the actions of irresponsible fathers.

Father's are deadbeat so blame the mother's for poisoning the childs mind and keeping the said child from their dad. What is stopping the father from being actively present in the child's life and showing them enough love and support to dispel any form of brainwashing from the mom about him being deadbeat?

A determined and caring father will never allow anything keep him from his kids, what these useless men do is that they abandon their kids thinking the responsibility of rising kids is on women and then in old age when they start experiencing loneliness the fools start throwing be to the wives and mothers claiming that they brainwashed the children into hating them.

I m not surprised, majority of young men these days are just frustrated from poverty and filled with bitterness and since they cannot lash out t each other they turn to women to transfer agression. If only you fools can use the same energy in tracking your worthless leaders that keep you poor and frustrated.

I don't blame the mod that keeps putting topics like this on front page.

Martinez39:


Due to the fact that fathers instill harsh discipline and are usually away working to feed the family, children are usually close to their mothers. Mothers usually spoil and pamper their children hence another reason children are close to their mothers. One advantage of this is that the mothers have a huge influence on the minds of the children. During parental dispute and irrespective of whether the wife is at fault or not, women are usually fond of brainwashing and poisoning the minds of their children against their fathers. Even if there is no dispute, some women still control the minds of their kids in order to get the upper hand in the childish game of power they started and are playing in the home.

Most men usually settle matters amicably and are willing to own their mistakes but women, whether or not they are wrong, will always want to "win" the dispute and would go any length to achieve such. Brainwashing and poisoning the minds of the kids against the father is one of the ways of achieving such. In such brainwashing, the children see the father as the bad person while the mum is the angel. Some children later grow up to see that it was the other way around while some never grow out of the brainwashing for many years. As the woman is brainwashing the kids, she keeps the kids distant from the father so that she can successfully fuel the narrative that father is a bad and was never there. She wouldn't even let the father visit instead she always give one excuse or the other or even avoid the father. The woman would even make sure that the contacts of the children are not available to the father. The woman might even put the children in a situation whereby either they are for her or for the father. You can't blame the children for falling for the lies because the mother has appeared so nice and caring to them.

Some mothers would be communicating to the fathers behind the children's back looking for up keeps yet they won't tell the children. They will exploit the kind hearted nature of the father to get money from him by making up stories that children are sick blah blah blah. They will then make it out to be that they are the ones making the money while the father doesn't care. Sometimes when the father wants to see his children, they will charge the fathers money in one form or the other. If they fulfill their promise of let the kids see the children, which many don't, the visit would be short. Afterall, she still let the father see his children, right? She might even post the visit with the pics on her social media so that everyone can see that "she let the kids visit and spend quality time with their papa".

If you are the child of a deadbeat dad who thinks father is evil and mom is good, you have to start asking questions. Here are some of the questions you should ask :
1) Do I believe my father is horrible because I really know him or it's what my mother told me? Have I heard both sides of the story?
2) Does my mother allow free and open access for me to communicate and build a relationship with my father? Is she always monitoring my conversations with my father and asking what we discussed?
3) Has my father been providing money but my mum doesn't tell me?
4) Does my father have my contact number or did my mum make it that my father can only communicate with me through her phone so that she can monitor and regulate the conversation? She could do so to fuel the narrative that mum is good and dad is bad.
5) Nairalanders can make their suggestions.

By asking these questions and making analysis, you would figure out if mum has skeletons in her cupboard or not. It's also possible that your dad could be the one at fault. Check things for yourself. There are good and bad fathers and there are good and bad mothers. Women who do these things are wicked and can't be said to really care about the children. Why are such women reducing their children to properties/pawn to help them get the upper hand in a parental dispute or childish game of power dynamics for their own selfish reasons? Why make their children live a lie that could stay with them forever for their own selfish reasons? This is immoral. Why deprive their children of fatherly love for their own selfish reasons? Why can't they leave their children out of their dispute with their father? Why can't these women have the maturity to admit to their wrongs? Some women even publicly smear the father's reputation with lies to fuel the narrative that mum is good, dad is bad. The worse is when some of the crazies among them murder or maltreat their children to get back at the father.

Elliot2:
[s]The good thing about your nonsense writeup is that it made sense in an entirely different perspective. The topic is about some women manipulating their children into thinking that their fathers are deadbeats. But of course,they aren't. Look! These things happen even if it didn't occur to you. And the OP is referring to those instances[/s].

larryking540:
To all the single guys out there,to every married man, to every hustler base in 9ja and outside 9ja,
pls and pls, create time for ur kids, it's very important,

I always speak from experience, I was at the backyard of my house the other day, and I noticed that my next door neighbor just had a misunderstanding with the wife and after the man left the house, the wife sat outside the house doing some hand laundry, with 2 of the kids around her, u need to see the way d lady was saying some harsh words to the kids about their father, I wouldn't want to say it, cus it was just not worth hearing such from her, I just went back into my room and I sat on my couch and reason that if this man and woman continues to have such a misunderstanding and while the wife spends more of the time with d kids, trust me, the kids will channel so much hate for their father, even thinking that their mother is the bread winner of the house, not knowing is their father ,,


So pls my fellow men out there,
always create time for your kids, call them, if u are base outside the country, do a Skype call with them,
often, if u can call them every day by evening call them because na old age matters o,
for u men who are within the country, calls check up on them via calls or chat, a 1 minutes call will go a long way in their thinking about anyone has said or told them concerning u

Speaking from experience, that's is what saved my own father that we still use to respect him till date, even though my own mother backlash at hime at his back ,a day never passes by my father doesn't drop a call on my cell phone, infact he call me pass mtn,
and dat is what I have actually used to prove my mother wrong,

I hate people that pretend,

NLmember:


And the good thing about your idiotic writeup is that I didn't read it or take it serious.