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Cutehector:
lol.. See this one, I even think you are the sister you are talking about sef.. Infact why are we even advising you to shun the guy, please get pregnant for him so he will dump your miserable ass the upteenth time!

you are entitled to your myopic opinion and thinking, and it is not needed here so pls move to the next topic

blackangel0403:
you are entitled to your myopic opinion and thinking, and it is not needed here so pls move to the next topic

why not lock the thread then? Whether you like or not, dumb people like you need to be schooled!

Bluehill1051:
The guy is playing her!
No single rich guy will carry another man's responsibility like that, even 2 kids sef and worse, she's a club girl, most probably an olosho.
I used this method once too. The girl actually thought I was her destined husband cuz I made her believe so. She even confessed to me that she has had two abortions for 2 guys. Bcuz of me, she changed her contact even up to her bank alert text number. Her aunt that she stays with and I even talk on phone weekends but most times I try to avoid meeting the family like an expected guest. Initially she'll say the usual let us wait till aft wedding b4 we sex, but then again I'll confuse her. I even promised her some cash the same day she finds out she's pregnant. But all na for play.
Who doesn't want a loyal pussy. It's like eating your cake and having it.
I fukked this girl like a wife!
Not once did we use CD. Las las I added my own to her collections of abortions!

Your reward is waiting for you, you are so wicked and heartless .
How can you do this to another person and you still have the guts to be gloating about it in public

Fountainofyouth:



Any guy that cannot define what he wants from the onset just to get sex in a relationship is immature to say the least.

You're right

Your sister is a hòe!

Bluehill1051:
The guy is playing her!
No single rich guy will carry another man's responsibility like that, even 2 kids sef and worse, she's a club girl, most probably an olosho.
I used this method once too. The girl actually thought I was her destined husband cuz I made her believe so. She even confessed to me that she has had two abortions for 2 guys. Bcuz of me, she changed her contact even up to her bank alert text number. Her aunt that she stays with and I even talk on phone weekends but most times I try to avoid meeting the family like an expected guest. Initially she'll say the usual let us wait till aft wedding b4 we sex, but then again I'll confuse her. I even promised her some cash the same day she finds out she's pregnant. But all na for play.
Who doesn't want a loyal pussy. It's like eating your cake and having it.
I fukked this girl like a wife!
Not once did we use CD. Las las I added my own to her collections of abortions!

Eyaaa!
Bad man

Breaststroke:


His narrative felt extreme and really cruel.

Is it always just about the cookie for you guys? I really want to know.

I think I need to read Steve Harvey's Think Like A Man.....book again.

I agree, the narrative sounds cruel and extreme. But the hard truth is, cookie remains the in thing for guys that are not ready for marriage.

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GraGra247:
I advice she discusses with the man heart to heart and beg him to be patient regarding the pregnancy till after payment and court wedding.

Better still she stylishly beg and delays him till when the pregnancy will be like one or two months before he comes to pay her dowry so that if the man fails to meet his end of the bargain she can safely abort and not suffer to cater for additional one kid alone.

She can travel to another location with the man with a claim that she got a job in that location in order to hide the pregnancy from parents and mockers till the day he comes to pay her dowry.

She certainly has to stop partying and meeting other men for now. She only has 3 months to make that easy sacrifice a lot of ladies make for 5 years and beyond.

Your gra gra is really too much. Just see the way you're advising someone to gamble with her life... take in and abort... run away to secret location. Lol. Na wa.

Bluehill1051:
The guy is playing her!
No single rich guy will carry another man's responsibility like that, even 2 kids sef and worse, she's a club girl, most probably an olosho.
I used this method once too. The girl actually thought I was her destined husband cuz I made her believe so. She even confessed to me that she has had two abortions for 2 guys. Bcuz of me, she changed her contact even up to her bank alert text number. Her aunt that she stays with and I even talk on phone weekends but most times I try to avoid meeting the family like an expected guest. Initially she'll say the usual let us wait till aft wedding b4 we sex, but then again I'll confuse her. I even promised her some cash the same day she finds out she's pregnant. But all na for play.
Who doesn't want a loyal pussy. It's like eating your cake and having it.
I fukked this girl like a wife!
Not once did we use CD. Las las I added my own to her collections of abortions!

So what did you do that for?

Breaststroke:


His narrative felt extreme and really cruel.

Is it always just about the cookie for you guys? I really want to know.

I think I need to read Steve Harvey's Think Like A Man.....book again.

Or sis, you could watch Kev Hicks on youtube

In case anyone sees this... Biko I need some clarification.

I've seen a common sentence from page1 to 3..
"he only wants a Nigerian wife"

So my question is Why would he or anyone like him want to go through the whole drama and stress just to have a wife in Nigeria?? .. What's the big deal about this...?

Isn't it easier if he starts a family over there?

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Double post

yettymuse:
In case anyone sees this... Biko I need some clarification.

I've seen a common sentence from page1 to 3..
"he only wants a Nigerian wife"

So my question is Why would he or anyone like him want to go through the whole drama and stress just to have a wife in Nigeria?? .. What's the big deal about this...?

Isn't it easier if he starts a family over there?

Sincerely, it sounds weird, but it happens. Las las na maid them wan use her do to take care of the aged parents here in Naija. Lobatan.

PrimadonnaO:


Your gra gra is really too much. Just see the way you're advising someone to gamble with her life... take in and abort... run away to secret location. Lol. Na wa.

Madam over sabi since you know better why not offer your own most perfect advice.

There are certain kind of strategies only suitable for very complicated and impossible situations and that is what I offered.

To gain something worthwhile there are sacrifices to make and everyone on earth have witnessed that.

So there is nothing strange in my suggestion. You're only finding fault because I confronted you in another thread.

I offered my own advice and I didn't compel anyone to accept it.

yettymuse:
In case anyone sees this... Biko I need some clarification.

I've seen a common sentence from page1 to 3..
"he only wants a Nigerian wife"

So my question is Why would he or anyone like him want to go through the whole drama and stress just to have a wife in Nigeria?? .. What's the big deal about this...?

Isn't it easier if he starts a family over there?

he wants a family he will take over there because of culture and also he loves my sis, for all the people saying he wants a Nigerian wife, I kept quiet because I know the real truth. Guy means his words 100% and he is not insisting on getting pregnant, he suggested it to her because he wants to assure her he is here for stay, I am only buying into the idea because I don’t want her to miss this opportunity, she might never see such opportunity again in her life because of our Nigerian men mentality. Like one pointed out earlier, no sane man wants to take responsibility of another mans children. For dose saying am the one desperate here, maybe because I know better in the case than u and I can smell the future if she looses this guy.

blackangel0403:
he wants a family he will take over there because of culture and also he loves my sis, for all the people saying he wants a Nigerian wife, I kept quiet because I know the real truth. Guy means his words 100% and he is not insisting on getting pregnant, he suggested it to her because he wants to assure her he is here for stay, I am only buying into the idea because I don’t want her to miss this opportunity, she might never see such opportunity again in her life because of our Nigerian men mentality. Like one pointed out earlier, no sane man wants to take responsibility of another mans children. For dose saying am the one desperate here, maybe because I know better in the case than u and I can smell the future if she looses this guy.

You know what? You are right and we are wrong. You obviously know better than we do and we are advising you based on our own perceptions, personal and 3rd party experiences. Nonetheless, you might not be aware of it but your view is not only seemingly limited, you also make your sister come off as irresponsible. You make it seem like this man coming into her life and wanting her is a miracle that will never happen again. Is she that bad?
If you think of anyone this way, you will never be able to look at them objectively. You will keep thinking they are heaven and earth.
How does "Get pregnant before marriage" convince a woman that a man is here to stay, biko? Even if abroad things weren't involved, it reeks of lack of trust. I would immediately walk away from any man who suggested that to me, even if he says he was joking.
That you don't have a problem with it speaks volumes about your morals and those of your sister.
And what culture required a man bring a ready made family from outside? I didn't get that part.
Just thread softly. You can push and advice and encourage, if it doesn't work out, chances are your sister will blame you. Especially if she is one who doesn't take responsibility for her self.

yettymuse:
In case anyone sees this... Biko I need some clarification.

I've seen a common sentence from page1 to 3..
"he only wants a Nigerian wife"

So my question is Why would he or anyone like him want to go through the whole drama and stress just to have a wife in Nigeria?? .. What's the big deal about this...?

Isn't it easier if he starts a family over there?

women abroad are aware of their rights , not dependent on men and wont take shits. So 9ja men there prefer to go home for one 'homely' Nkechi they can control. Some of the women too later open eyes when they reach uk or usa. So some men would keep them in nigeria. No sane woman will go abroad and tolerate the things woman tolerate in nigeria. They most time become nurses or care workers making mega buck. After a while they would see no need for the husband if he happens to be an asshole

bukatyne:


This is a joke right?

Don't mind the fool. Tomorrow when their actions come back to haunt them they will blame one innocent mama in the village for their woes.

That is how one of my friend came to my house, she was busy calculating ovulation, I asked her why and she said her man wanted her to be pregnant before marriage. I preached, talked madam claimed that she also wanted baby, I left her. She became pregnant, they got married and divorced before the baby became 9months old. She discovered many lies after marriage. To think you want your sister to be pregnant to a total stranger and wait till December before dowry shows that you need help. I will suggest you marry the man, from now till December how many months? And you are forcing your sister to take in and "settle" with UK man. Give your life to Jesus Christ, try. He secures future.

[quote author=blackangel0403 post=81994454]Hi guys, i need your sincere advice pls, my sister is a diq]

I can bet my 2000 bet9ja coins that the guy will leave your sister trapped with pregnancy and not show up again to marry her since that was what was important for him..

To be nasty and ice cold. The man is UK based ( or so he claims to be). In a country like Nigeria, he is spoilt for choice. There will be plenty of women with no baggage at all, not married, no children, much more beautiful available to him. The guy is running game. Your sister has two children so there is a limit to what she can do if the guy turns her into naija based baby mama.

greatnaija01:
you all look at the wrong thing... WHAT IF THIS SO CALLED CUTE MAN.... changes after your sister gets pregnant... ?

WHAT IF SOMETHING HAPPENS IN THOSE THREE MONTHS that cancels the wedding.


See, PREGNANCY DOES NOT TIE ANY MAN DOWN.... your sister who likes clubbing is right to be scared. But her clubbing must stop... Its not a responsible life o to be clubbing at 35? And YOU CAN NOT TRUST A MAN YOU MET AT THE CLUB,

Juliet Ibrahim met her EX HUBBY in a stripper club... look at how it turned out... IT ENDED IN A BAD WAY.

See, if the man has money, let him do court wedding first... which is so cheap and then he can get her pregnant.


PLS BE WISE O.

that lady isn't going any where the moment she take in, I don't understand some girls o,if u see a man that loves u, don't u kw, this one say u must get Belle first, and he isn't even based in nigeria, that says it all,

but na wa for the op sister o,at 35 still clubbing, I bet u she has nothing upstairs

Correct her then

Contact us for all your roofing jobs and roof maintenance services

Forget it. The guy wants to use your sister and dump her. All those stories, visits etc all na wash. If she makes the mistake of taking in for him she will only end up as his baby mama. Tell your sister to run. UK my foot

Why is Mugabe's memorial posters and fair well messages from we his fervent followers not flooding Nairaland front page, are u guys not aware that the legendary Mugabe is dead already

What's going on, mods pls act fast!!

Las Las,....MEN NA HOT CAKE OO

Thank God say I be MAN

That's my advice

Met at the club
Okpo tins