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Re: My Sister Is On The Verge Of Making The Worst Mistake Of Her Life by Nobody: 1:45pm On Sep 07, 2019 |
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Re: My Sister Is On The Verge Of Making The Worst Mistake Of Her Life by blackangel0403(m): 1:47pm On Sep 07, 2019 |
Cutehector:you are entitled to your myopic opinion and thinking, and it is not needed here so pls move to the next topic |
Re: My Sister Is On The Verge Of Making The Worst Mistake Of Her Life by Cutehector(m): 1:50pm On Sep 07, 2019 |
blackangel0403:why not lock the thread then? Whether you like or not, dumb people like you need to be schooled! 7 Likes |
Re: My Sister Is On The Verge Of Making The Worst Mistake Of Her Life by Nobody: 1:51pm On Sep 07, 2019 |
Bluehill1051: Your reward is waiting for you, you are so wicked and heartless . How can you do this to another person and you still have the guts to be gloating about it in public 19 Likes 1 Share |
Re: My Sister Is On The Verge Of Making The Worst Mistake Of Her Life by Acidosis(m): 1:59pm On Sep 07, 2019 |
Fountainofyouth:You're right |
Re: My Sister Is On The Verge Of Making The Worst Mistake Of Her Life by apotek: 2:02pm On Sep 07, 2019 |
Your sister is a hòe! 1 Like |
Re: My Sister Is On The Verge Of Making The Worst Mistake Of Her Life by apotek: 2:05pm On Sep 07, 2019 |
Bluehill1051: Eyaaa! Bad man 1 Like |
Re: My Sister Is On The Verge Of Making The Worst Mistake Of Her Life by Acidosis(m): 2:17pm On Sep 07, 2019 |
Breaststroke: I agree, the narrative sounds cruel and extreme. But the hard truth is, cookie remains the in thing for guys that are not ready for marriage. |
Re: My Sister Is On The Verge Of Making The Worst Mistake Of Her Life by Nobody: 2:48pm On Sep 07, 2019 |
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Re: My Sister Is On The Verge Of Making The Worst Mistake Of Her Life by PrimadonnaO(f): 4:38pm On Sep 07, 2019 |
GraGra247: Your gra gra is really too much. Just see the way you're advising someone to gamble with her life... take in and abort... run away to secret location. Lol. Na wa. 5 Likes |
Re: My Sister Is On The Verge Of Making The Worst Mistake Of Her Life by 1Sharon(f): 6:39pm On Sep 07, 2019 |
Bluehill1051: So what did you do that for? 2 Likes 1 Share |
Re: My Sister Is On The Verge Of Making The Worst Mistake Of Her Life by 1Sharon(f): 6:42pm On Sep 07, 2019 |
Breaststroke: Or sis, you could watch Kev Hicks on youtube |
Re: My Sister Is On The Verge Of Making The Worst Mistake Of Her Life by Nobody: 6:49pm On Sep 07, 2019 |
In case anyone sees this... Biko I need some clarification. I've seen a common sentence from page1 to 3.. "he only wants a Nigerian wife" So my question is Why would he or anyone like him want to go through the whole drama and stress just to have a wife in Nigeria?? .. What's the big deal about this...? Isn't it easier if he starts a family over there? 1 Like |
Re: My Sister Is On The Verge Of Making The Worst Mistake Of Her Life by Nobody: 7:24pm On Sep 07, 2019 |
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Re: My Sister Is On The Verge Of Making The Worst Mistake Of Her Life by Nobody: 7:31pm On Sep 07, 2019 |
Double post |
Re: My Sister Is On The Verge Of Making The Worst Mistake Of Her Life by prettyangel10(f): 7:58pm On Sep 07, 2019 |
yettymuse: Sincerely, it sounds weird, but it happens. Las las na maid them wan use her do to take care of the aged parents here in Naija. Lobatan. 5 Likes 1 Share |
Re: My Sister Is On The Verge Of Making The Worst Mistake Of Her Life by GraGra247(m): 8:10pm On Sep 07, 2019 |
PrimadonnaO: Madam over sabi since you know better why not offer your own most perfect advice. There are certain kind of strategies only suitable for very complicated and impossible situations and that is what I offered. To gain something worthwhile there are sacrifices to make and everyone on earth have witnessed that. So there is nothing strange in my suggestion. You're only finding fault because I confronted you in another thread. I offered my own advice and I didn't compel anyone to accept it. |
Re: My Sister Is On The Verge Of Making The Worst Mistake Of Her Life by blackangel0403(m): 8:43pm On Sep 07, 2019 |
yettymuse:he wants a family he will take over there because of culture and also he loves my sis, for all the people saying he wants a Nigerian wife, I kept quiet because I know the real truth. Guy means his words 100% and he is not insisting on getting pregnant, he suggested it to her because he wants to assure her he is here for stay, I am only buying into the idea because I don’t want her to miss this opportunity, she might never see such opportunity again in her life because of our Nigerian men mentality. Like one pointed out earlier, no sane man wants to take responsibility of another mans children. For dose saying am the one desperate here, maybe because I know better in the case than u and I can smell the future if she looses this guy. 1 Like 1 Share |
Re: My Sister Is On The Verge Of Making The Worst Mistake Of Her Life by piroux(f): 9:07pm On Sep 07, 2019 |
blackangel0403: You know what? You are right and we are wrong. You obviously know better than we do and we are advising you based on our own perceptions, personal and 3rd party experiences. Nonetheless, you might not be aware of it but your view is not only seemingly limited, you also make your sister come off as irresponsible. You make it seem like this man coming into her life and wanting her is a miracle that will never happen again. Is she that bad? If you think of anyone this way, you will never be able to look at them objectively. You will keep thinking they are heaven and earth. How does "Get pregnant before marriage" convince a woman that a man is here to stay, biko? Even if abroad things weren't involved, it reeks of lack of trust. I would immediately walk away from any man who suggested that to me, even if he says he was joking. That you don't have a problem with it speaks volumes about your morals and those of your sister. And what culture required a man bring a ready made family from outside? I didn't get that part. Just thread softly. You can push and advice and encourage, if it doesn't work out, chances are your sister will blame you. Especially if she is one who doesn't take responsibility for her self. 10 Likes |
Re: My Sister Is On The Verge Of Making The Worst Mistake Of Her Life by ednut1(m): 9:14pm On Sep 07, 2019 |
yettymuse:women abroad are aware of their rights , not dependent on men and wont take shits. So 9ja men there prefer to go home for one 'homely' Nkechi they can control. Some of the women too later open eyes when they reach uk or usa. So some men would keep them in nigeria. No sane woman will go abroad and tolerate the things woman tolerate in nigeria. They most time become nurses or care workers making mega buck. After a while they would see no need for the husband if he happens to be an asshole 12 Likes 1 Share |
Re: My Sister Is On The Verge Of Making The Worst Mistake Of Her Life by Ishilove: 10:08pm On Sep 07, 2019 |
bukatyne:Don't mind the fool. Tomorrow when their actions come back to haunt them they will blame one innocent mama in the village for their woes. 1 Like |
Re: My Sister Is On The Verge Of Making The Worst Mistake Of Her Life by Graxie(f): 10:11pm On Sep 07, 2019 |
That is how one of my friend came to my house, she was busy calculating ovulation, I asked her why and she said her man wanted her to be pregnant before marriage. I preached, talked madam claimed that she also wanted baby, I left her. She became pregnant, they got married and divorced before the baby became 9months old. She discovered many lies after marriage. To think you want your sister to be pregnant to a total stranger and wait till December before dowry shows that you need help. I will suggest you marry the man, from now till December how many months? And you are forcing your sister to take in and "settle" with UK man. Give your life to Jesus Christ, try. He secures future. 8 Likes |
Re: My Sister Is On The Verge Of Making The Worst Mistake Of Her Life by SendAbroad: 10:21pm On Sep 07, 2019 |
[quote author=blackangel0403 post=81994454]Hi guys, i need your sincere advice pls, my sister is a diq] I can bet my 2000 bet9ja coins that the guy will leave your sister trapped with pregnancy and not show up again to marry her since that was what was important for him.. |
Re: My Sister Is On The Verge Of Making The Worst Mistake Of Her Life by Nobody: 10:23pm On Sep 07, 2019 |
To be nasty and ice cold. The man is UK based ( or so he claims to be). In a country like Nigeria, he is spoilt for choice. There will be plenty of women with no baggage at all, not married, no children, much more beautiful available to him. The guy is running game. Your sister has two children so there is a limit to what she can do if the guy turns her into naija based baby mama. 2 Likes |
Re: My Sister Is On The Verge Of Making The Worst Mistake Of Her Life by larryking540: 10:24pm On Sep 07, 2019 |
greatnaija01:that lady isn't going any where the moment she take in, I don't understand some girls o,if u see a man that loves u, don't u kw, this one say u must get Belle first, and he isn't even based in nigeria, that says it all, but na wa for the op sister o,at 35 still clubbing, I bet u she has nothing upstairs |
Re: My Sister Is On The Verge Of Making The Worst Mistake Of Her Life by AdonaiAluminium: 11:18pm On Sep 07, 2019 |
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Re: My Sister Is On The Verge Of Making The Worst Mistake Of Her Life by enemyofprogress: 11:20pm On Sep 07, 2019 |
Forget it. The guy wants to use your sister and dump her. All those stories, visits etc all na wash. If she makes the mistake of taking in for him she will only end up as his baby mama. Tell your sister to run. UK my foot 1 Like |
Re: My Sister Is On The Verge Of Making The Worst Mistake Of Her Life by franchasng: 11:21pm On Sep 07, 2019 |
Why is Mugabe's memorial posters and fair well messages from we his fervent followers not flooding Nairaland front page, are u guys not aware that the legendary Mugabe is dead already What's going on, mods pls act fast!! 1 Like |
Re: My Sister Is On The Verge Of Making The Worst Mistake Of Her Life by Trutherme: 11:22pm On Sep 07, 2019 |
Re: My Sister Is On The Verge Of Making The Worst Mistake Of Her Life by Platony(m): 11:22pm On Sep 07, 2019 |
Las Las,....MEN NA HOT CAKE OO Thank God say I be MAN That's my advice |
Re: My Sister Is On The Verge Of Making The Worst Mistake Of Her Life by Hoodbilonia: 11:22pm On Sep 07, 2019 |
Met at the club Okpo tins 1 Like |
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